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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else absolutely love larger guys? I feel like it can't only be me?
I've always gone for big guys but the trouble is there always hard to find. "
At your service madam x  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Does anyone else absolutely love larger guys? I feel like it can't only be me?
I've always gone for big guys but the trouble is there always hard to find. "
Not really, we're Stood behind the skinny guys.   |
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"Does anyone else absolutely love larger guys? I feel like it can't only be me?
I've always gone for big guys but the trouble is there always hard to find. "
--You have 18-99, surely they are not that hard to find? You are gorgeous too. In general, the older men get the larger they become lol, so maybe make sure your Searches are for older? You certainly need to be on Fabguys as well for sure.
For me it's about larger doms into younger cds (ie younger than them).-- |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a larger guy as much as I love a smaller guy. It's who they are inside and how they are with me that matters more. "
All in the eye and mind of the beholder as it were. No matter what size, if no spark or connection then will never matter either way |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South |
"I have done, in the past (John Candy/John Goodman when in Roseanne size ish).
That is some decent size gentlemen right there"
Yep. If I fancy a bloke I fancy him, regardless of his size. It’s all about the sexual chemistry! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a larger guy - and always good to see some appreciation.
I think some of us big guys do just fine on Fab, but it’s hard to get verified because we’re a guilty pleasure in many cases  "
Sorry but I’ll respectfully disagree on the guilty pleasure bit.
It boils down to simple attraction. Either a woman will fancy you or she won’t.
I don’t think that focusing on size as a reason for lack of success is valid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See I have to disagree abit there.
I've had some good experiences on fab, but god I've also had some terrible terrible insults.
Some I wouldn't even repeat.
I think big blokes like us are an acquired taste.
But bloody hell I don't now who's taste I am, because I never seem to get many messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a larger/stocky guy, they make you feel safe & give amazing hugs... "
We certainly do give great bear hugs... Haha don't be shy, give it a try lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a larger guy as much as I love a smaller guy. It's who they are inside and how they are with me that matters more.
All in the eye and mind of the beholder as it were. No matter what size, if no spark or connection then will never matter either way"
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See I have to disagree abit there.
I've had some good experiences on fab, but god I've also had some terrible terrible insults.
Some I wouldn't even repeat.
I think big blokes like us are an acquired taste.
But bloody hell I don't now who's taste I am, because I never seem to get many messages. "
I believe it is the same for all of us single male. Don't matter on your size we don't get many messages at all. And this world is full of rude people. I have come across so many some just like to put you down for the fun of it and will message you such horrible things and block you straight away so you can't reply. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Does anyone else absolutely love larger guys? I feel like it can't only be me?
I've always gone for big guys but the trouble is there always hard to find. "
Are they? Aren’t like 50% of adults overweight or obese |
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I've never felt my build and weight to be a barrier on the scene either when I was active as a single male or as part of a couple. Granted physical attraction is subject and is a factor. However I think its a factor often over obsessed about by many. In my/our experience who we've been attracted to and/or slept with has tended to have an element regards physical attraction but been far more about personal and character elements. We've had great times with people who maybe we didn't necessarily see our selves with based on build and looks and I think for some of them it would have been the same in return. But when you like someone and that spark is their physical proportions become less relevant. I think that's why we prefer to do our swinging in the real world (clubs/parties/socials) rather than the online world. Online seems far more superficial.
Anyway back on the to the fetishism of larger men. For some (I'd say far more than society openly accepts) us gents of a bigger build are very much in demand. I know Mrs Misfit likes me all big, she loves it.
However for me it's back to the gym and training. I've been a bit too decadent for too long with my love of the good stuff in life. And even Mrs Misfit has identified that my mental health and happiness is better when I'm training. Luckily for Mrs Misfit I have never been skinny (even at my most active) and never will be. I will still be big and soft in the right places. Just maybe a little less and a bit more muscle again hopefully. I happy being large build, I don't mind a belly and Im comfortable in my own skin. But my health is important and I enjoy being active so there needs to be some compromise. |
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Quite an interesting read.
People are attracted to all sorts of things, so of course some women will prefer larger guys.
I (as an overweight guy) think that the main thing is you have to be happy in your own skin first. For a long time I haven't been, but I'm getting there and I think that's the most important thing.
I'm never going to be slim or "in shape", and I'm happy with that, but I need to feel comfortable in my body in order to feel confident. |
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By *phroditeWoman 38 weeks ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I've never felt my build and weight to be a barrier on the scene either when I was active as a single male or as part of a couple. Granted physical attraction is subject and is a factor. However I think its a factor often over obsessed about by many. In my/our experience who we've been attracted to and/or slept with has tended to have an element regards physical attraction but been far more about personal and character elements. We've had great times with people who maybe we didn't necessarily see our selves with based on build and looks and I think for some of them it would have been the same in return. But when you like someone and that spark is their physical proportions become less relevant. I think that's why we prefer to do our swinging in the real world (clubs/parties/socials) rather than the online world. Online seems far more superficial.
Anyway back on the to the fetishism of larger men. For some (I'd say far more than society openly accepts) us gents of a bigger build are very much in demand. I know Mrs Misfit likes me all big, she loves it.
However for me it's back to the gym and training. I've been a bit too decadent for too long with my love of the good stuff in life. And even Mrs Misfit has identified that my mental health and happiness is better when I'm training. Luckily for Mrs Misfit I have never been skinny (even at my most active) and never will be. I will still be big and soft in the right places. Just maybe a little less and a bit more muscle again hopefully. I happy being large build, I don't mind a belly and Im comfortable in my own skin. But my health is important and I enjoy being active so there needs to be some compromise."
You sound a lovely and attractive man!  |
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By *phroditeWoman 38 weeks ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Quite an interesting read.
People are attracted to all sorts of things, so of course some women will prefer larger guys.
I (as an overweight guy) think that the main thing is you have to be happy in your own skin first. For a long time I haven't been, but I'm getting there and I think that's the most important thing.
I'm never going to be slim or "in shape", and I'm happy with that, but I need to feel comfortable in my body in order to feel confident."
And you do sound like a great attractive guy as well |
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By *oxy jWoman 9 weeks ago
somerset |
tall yes but really big big bellies no im only 5foot tall and size 6/8 my body would be crushed plus i like my hand to have free acess to my vag n clit  cant do that if the bellie is too big ... but i do like some big guys variety is the spice of life as long as sexual attraction is there |
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I’m absolutely enormous but understand that some do find this attractive. I don’t feel attractive but know that a lot of attraction is in how you gel with someone. Having that banter is essential and also the respect. This can happen with a variety of people of all shapes and sizes. I know I need to visit a club but I just need to have a word with myself and just do it. I am realistic about expectations-happy just to chat and say hello! |
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Big guy here and understand that some like it and some don't. As for me my size is something that bothers me and will change but I'm glad there are those out there that find us chunky monkeys attractive  |
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By *oxy jWoman 7 weeks ago
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i like guys of all sizes as long as im sexually attracted but being a woman of 5ft size 6/8 petite ish build it gets to a point of guys and ladys being to big for me that its no longer a pleasure .. i know some will say oh but theres different positions but i like a session to be all no restriction full access for both so some people will simply be too big body wise for me ... |
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"i like guys of all sizes as long as im sexually attracted but being a woman of 5ft size 6/8 petite ish build it gets to a point of guys and ladys being to big for me that its no longer a pleasure .. i know some will say oh but theres different positions but i like a session to be all no restriction full access for both so some people will simply be too big body wise for me ..."
How big is too big… asking for a friend |
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