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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No seriously, how are you?
People on here often say they hate when people message saying “how are you?” But what if the person asking genuinely cares and wants to know?
So, tell me, how are you? Sometimes people need to talk  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a lovely post OP. 
I am recovering well from a big operation that I had done 10 days ago. I still have a good month or so of recuperating and healing ahead of me and I am looking forward to being more mobile as each day comes.
Hope you're OK OP.
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meh been better but can't sit around feeling sorry for myself, health is screwed, got more operations lined up to become the bionic man but least am alive still. The black dog is scratching at the door but am not letting it in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is a lovely post OP.
I am recovering well from a big operation that I had done 10 days ago. I still have a good month or so of recuperating and healing ahead of me and I am looking forward to being more mobile as each day comes.
Hope you're OK OP.
NBVN x"
I hope you are recovering well. Glad to hear it’s all going good so far.
Yeah, I am well thank you. Was suffering yesterday but that was all self inflicted. I’m absolutely fine today and ready for the week ahead x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Meh been better but can't sit around feeling sorry for myself, health is screwed, got more operations lined up to become the bionic man but least am alive still. The black dog is scratching at the door but am not letting it in."
Keep fighting and staying strong. As much as only you can fight it, you are not alone in it all and people always there to listen and help as much as they can.
You got this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good post fella.
I’m good thanks but I appreciate not everybody is.
The thing is, it’s ok to ask how are you, if you mean it and you respond appropriately.
All the best everyone.  "
Thanks mate and glad to hear you are good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meh been better but can't sit around feeling sorry for myself, health is screwed, got more operations lined up to become the bionic man but least am alive still. The black dog is scratching at the door but am not letting it in.
Keep fighting and staying strong. As much as only you can fight it, you are not alone in it all and people always there to listen and help as much as they can.
You got this "
Cheers pal means alot |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm an odd combination of feelings today - an inevitable drop and buzzing. Can you be incredibly happy but also feel a bit off at the same time? Yeah, that."
Well all I know is that no one can tell you what you can and can’t feel. We are all different
I hope the off feeling leaves you quickly and that happy feelings wins! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You lovely human.
I’m not great at the minute. Having a wobble. But I had a wonderful weekend and I’m seeing a beautiful person today and I cannot wait 
How’re you OP? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You lovely human.
I’m not great at the minute. Having a wobble. But I had a wonderful weekend and I’m seeing a beautiful person today and I cannot wait
How’re you OP? "
Enjoy your beautiful person. Not that you own then but you know what I mean lol
I’m good thanks for asking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm splendid, OP. Coffee's good today.
And if I stare long enough into this coffee cup, the deadlines will just go away, ha ha ha holyshititsdueWHEN
Good post though, dude  "
Lol everyone loves a little Monday procrastination |
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"I'm splendid, OP. Coffee's good today.
And if I stare long enough into this coffee cup, the deadlines will just go away, ha ha ha holyshititsdueWHEN
Good post though, dude
Lol everyone loves a little Monday procrastination "
...it's fucking Monday? Holy SHIT  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a mixed bag of emotions today due to circumstances beyond my control.
Maybe tomorrow will be better x"
There is always tomorrow… but for today, lean on your friends for support. We are all here to help. I hope you are truly ok x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Aw, lovely post OP.
I'm doing ok. Had a wonderful weekend, so just tired now. But it's only 4 days & then a week off.
How are YOU, doing? Xx"
Thank you wooop, keep that holiday in mind. You doing anything nice for it?
I’m good today. Yesterday was a wasted day in bed due to a stinking hangover lol but much better today and well rested x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm ruffff
Lol was it worth it?
I'm hoping its just a big standard cold, but i sound like a 62yo trucker with a 20 a day smoking habit  "
And you are only 61 right? Lol
Sorry to hear you feel crap. Never good. Lots of rest, water and vitamin C I think. Sending cuddles x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm ruffff
Lol was it worth it?
I'm hoping its just a big standard cold, but i sound like a 62yo trucker with a 20 a day smoking habit
And you are only 61 right? Lol
Sorry to hear you feel crap. Never good. Lots of rest, water and vitamin C I think. Sending cuddles x"
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Got a cold i cant seem to shake off, but had a lovely weekend with a beautiful person and am seeing them again later today, really looking forward to it .
Lovely post, thanks OP. Sending love and hugs to all who need it today. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Got a cold i cant seem to shake off, but had a lovely weekend with a beautiful person and am seeing them again later today, really looking forward to it .
Lovely post, thanks OP. Sending love and hugs to all who need it today. X"
Aww never good! Get well soon and enjoy your beautiful person x |
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"Aw, lovely post OP.
I'm doing ok. Had a wonderful weekend, so just tired now. But it's only 4 days & then a week off.
How are YOU, doing? Xx
Thank you wooop, keep that holiday in mind. You doing anything nice for it?
I’m good today. Yesterday was a wasted day in bed due to a stinking hangover lol but much better today and well rested x"
Off to Scotland to visit my sis and I'm hoping to fit in a couple of forum folk coffee chats, too.
And you shouldn't be getting hangovers at your age, OP!  xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Aw, lovely post OP.
I'm doing ok. Had a wonderful weekend, so just tired now. But it's only 4 days & then a week off.
How are YOU, doing? Xx
Thank you wooop, keep that holiday in mind. You doing anything nice for it?
I’m good today. Yesterday was a wasted day in bed due to a stinking hangover lol but much better today and well rested x
Off to Scotland to visit my sis and I'm hoping to fit in a couple of forum folk coffee chats, too.
And you shouldn't be getting hangovers at your age, OP! xx"
Och aye the noo! I love it up in Scotland have a great time.
Lol maybe I’m too mature for my age and that’s why I get bad hangovers… either that I drank farrrrrr too much lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Such a lovely post!
I'm reflecting on the wonderful weekend I had, and looking forward to this week off, no work just relaxing, I've had some wobbles lately so it's been well needed x"
That’s great. Enjoy your time off. Sounds like it’s needed x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My mum died six weeks ago. I genuinely don't know how I feel.
Positive morning though I've had coffee with some friends "
I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m sure you will have many up and down days to come but just make sure you have your support network around your. I hope you are ok, given the circumstances x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last week I felt I was sinking in that big black hole but woke today feeling more positive, I need to stop letting things build up until I hit that all time low. I have two amazing kids, family and friends that care that’s all I need. Well, and a bit of naughty me time occasionally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meh been better but can't sit around feeling sorry for myself, health is screwed, got more operations lined up to become the bionic man but least am alive still. The black dog is scratching at the door but am not letting it in."
Ex military?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Last week I felt I was sinking in that big black hole but woke today feeling more positive, I need to stop letting things build up until I hit that all time low. I have two amazing kids, family and friends that care that’s all I need. Well, and a bit of naughty me time occasionally "
Exactly true! Focus on all the amazing and positive things in life but at times you still need to address the things not going well to stop them taking over down the line. Either way, hope you are well and keep up the positivity |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice Post OP x
Few flashbacks due to recent events but coping as best I can, "
Glad to hear it mate. Sorry to hear about the flash backs. I hope you are speaking to someone to get some help with that. Can’t be nice or easy. You will get there |
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"My mum died six weeks ago. I genuinely don't know how I feel.
Positive morning though I've had coffee with some friends
I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m sure you will have many up and down days to come but just make sure you have your support network around your. I hope you are ok, given the circumstances x"
Thank you.
It's complicated.
I do have a very good support network.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tired from working last night and the cat wanting to play till 3 this morning but all good here. Thanks for asking. How's your good self  "
Lol glad to hear it. I bet you love that car really! I’m very well thanks. Can’t complain at all x |
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"My mum died six weeks ago. I genuinely don't know how I feel.
Positive morning though I've had coffee with some friends "
Sorry to hear this, can't begin to imagine how that feels. Be kind to yourself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you for asking
I'm feeling good after a weekend with fab friends but outside of fab its all a bit shit if I'm honest.
How are you doing OP?"
Aww no, what’s up?
I’m very well thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm ok, the sun is shining and my baby is home for the holidays.
Trying not to get sucked in to the collective doom over all the current crises! "
Aww glad to hear that your baby is home. Enjoy.
Yeah it’s easy to watch the news and find yourself in doom and gloom town. Keep smiling x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m doing ok. Just tired after the weekend and some bellend shouting Stephen in the hotel at 3am Sunday morning. Trying to shift into work mode but it feels like a Saturday which isn’t helping |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m doing ok. Just tired after the weekend and some bellend shouting Stephen in the hotel at 3am Sunday morning. Trying to shift into work mode but it feels like a Saturday which isn’t helping "
I hope Stephen was giving him/her a great time… even if it was at your sleeps expense. Weekend goes too fast. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not doing to good. My grandad passed at the end of January and every day is a struggle. He was my hero  "
I’m so sorry to hear that. Time is a healer but I know it won’t seem that way just now. I’m sorry for your loss |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be totally honest, today didn't start well.
It's slowly getting better, but I was worried at one point.
Now my boiler is broken again and I'm trying to stay positive.
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Aww no, that’s not a good start to a Monday. Hope you manage to get it sorted soon and your week picks up fast. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"To be totally honest, today didn't start well.
It's slowly getting better, but I was worried at one point.
Now my boiler is broken again and I'm trying to stay positive.
Aww no, that’s not a good start to a Monday. Hope you manage to get it sorted soon and your week picks up fast."
Thank you, the new part is coming Wednesday. Thankfully, it's not too cold at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks op for the opportunity to say ‘i am okay’ (and always will be). I could however be awesome again, but that will come with time. Probably this afternoon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a lovely post OP.
I am recovering well from a big operation that I had done 10 days ago. I still have a good month or so of recuperating and healing ahead of me and I am looking forward to being more mobile as each day comes.
Hope you're OK OP.
NBVN x"
That's fine when it is someone who knows you.
But I do not think that is what the OP means.
It's a gentle intro and I mostly respond unless I do not like the profile or the guy is far too far away. |
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"This is a lovely post OP.
I am recovering well from a big operation that I had done 10 days ago. I still have a good month or so of recuperating and healing ahead of me and I am looking forward to being more mobile as each day comes.
Hope you're OK OP.
NBVN x"
I hope your recovery is swift and easy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm great, no I'm not ok. Yes I've got this, no I don't know what to do, yes I can handle anything, no I'm not sure I can keep doing this. Yes I'm on top of the world, this life is a rollercoaster.
Yep I'm a bit all over the place at the moment but I have some massive changes looming on the horizon and not sure we are doing the right thing. Thank god I have my husband who is my total rock and reassures me that everything will always be absolutely fine no matter what. |
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"I’m doing ok. Just tired after the weekend and some bellend shouting Stephen in the hotel at 3am Sunday morning. Trying to shift into work mode but it feels like a Saturday which isn’t helping "
I'm guessing you're not an Adam & Joe fan then |
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