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Is friends with benefits the new fuck buddy's

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is it old to say "looking for a fuck buddy" or do we now have to say "looking for friends with benefits" from now on ?

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By *etillanteWoman over a year ago

"Is it old to say "looking for a fuck buddy" or do we now have to say "looking for friends with benefits" from now on ?"

Depends if they drawing them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

or just sex with a regular partner

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By *arnayguyMan over a year ago

Durham Tees

Friend with benefits has been around as long as fuck buddy.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

In my mind they're 2 different things.

a Fuck Buddy is someone who I call when I want a fuck, pure and simple.

a Friend With Benefits is a friend, who I can chat to, have a drink / night out / party with and also have naughty fun when we both want to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't overcomplicate it by going all PC use whatever terminology you want mate.

Should start a poll hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would just say "looking for a sexual-exploration relationship" lol friends is such a harsh word to use

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't like the term fuck buddy, I prefer special friends

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By *etillanteWoman over a year ago

"I would just say "looking for a sexual-exploration relationship" lol friends is such a harsh word to use

Oh I like that term

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

i could have the possibility of 5. Though, im ill right now so 2 is good enough

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By *etillanteWoman over a year ago

"I don't like the term fuck buddy, I prefer special friends

Yes, but the nurse says I can stay out late tonight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't like the term fuck buddy, I prefer special friends

Yes, but the nurse says I can stay out late tonight

Then your still special until the morning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would just say "looking for a sexual-exploration relationship" lol friends is such a harsh word to use

Oh I like that term"

Why thanks. Friends with benefits is more like having a friend who is a builder and can help erect (excuse the pun) an extension on your house lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I prefer to say gentleman friends

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By *etillanteWoman over a year ago

"I don't like the term fuck buddy, I prefer special friends

Yes, but the nurse says I can stay out late tonight

Then your still special until the morning

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I think the term people use often reflects where they place the importance of the 'arrangement'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would just say "looking for a sexual-exploration relationship" lol friends is such a harsh word to use

Oh I like that term"

That's is a good one

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In my mind they're 2 different things.

a Fuck Buddy is someone who I call when I want a fuck, pure and simple.

a Friend With Benefits is a friend, who I can chat to, have a drink / night out / party with and also have naughty fun when we both want to. "

That's what I would say as well

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

Depends how you want to define the relationship you have with them, some possible options:

Relationship-lite

Fun Buddy

Lover

Maybe even Mistress in the older sense

I really don't like fuck buddy, but none of the others seem quite right either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends how you want to define the relationship you have with them, some possible options:

Relationship-lite

Fun Buddy

Lover

Maybe even Mistress in the older sense

I really don't like fuck buddy, but none of the others seem quite right either. "

That is right am not to keen on fuck buddy it sound so U.S. of A. lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah both exist. Fuck buddies i've had have literally got straight down to it. Sure i've stayed overnight or at least had conversation in bed but it's revolved around the sex.

Got a really good friends with benefits at the moment though. As opposed to the above we'll actually arrange nights more based on what we're doing. Cinema, film night, coffee in the day time. etc). Sure if i'm staying over we'll have fun but the friendship itself is valued as much as the sex.

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