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Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance  |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance "
Yes, definitely! I know that alot of genuine Fab users don't believe in being out of someone's league, but I think I'd be punching more often than not!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I do. I always check the verifications and see if I/we match those they’ve already met with. Body type etc. if we don’t then I don’t bother messaging or winking (mrs). |
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance "
Natalie you look gorgeous why wouldn’t you have a chance? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Possibly in the past, yes. Now, I (Mrs) show my cards. If I'm declined, then at least I know. Sometimes you can still be friends  "
I still am like this, I don't post very many people to be honest, but I am always open to have a chat with anyone  |
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance "
If you've got no chance then I may as well leave now lol |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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Oh god…alllllllll the time!
Like, I know my charms. It’s all good. But definitely don’t have the confidence to approach someone if I don’t get an indication that they’d be open to my type.
(My type being a big, bouncy geek, natch). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I only look at men who have veris off hot women. I like to know they've got high standards.
And yet you still haven't verified me  "
I need to carry out an inspection of your bumhole and widgeywoo. |
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Yep, have definitely looked at some profiles and thought that I would stand no chance of anything ever happening. Sometimes I'll say fuck it and message anyway, but most of the time I bottle it.
MJ x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely message to be honest, unless he’s really hot.  (tho it’s different for forumites so Im talking more generally on fab)
Tho I do have a love/hate relationships with verifications |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No not really. Because one, fuck leagues. That's not how it works. People like other people for more than their skin suit (well apart from when they're just wanting a quick fuck). And what they display might not be necessarily an accurate insight into who they've fucked.
Also, think better of yourself. There's enough people who will try and put you down so why not combat that with self love? Being proud of you and confident in who you are.
Note, I'm not saying be silly. If someone said they want a gym fit, size 8 toned blonde, I'd not message them. Realistic. But not hard on yourself. |
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"No not really. Because one, fuck leagues. That's not how it works. People like other people for more than their skin suit (well apart from when they're just wanting a quick fuck). And what they display might not be necessarily an accurate insight into who they've fucked.
Also, think better of yourself. There's enough people who will try and put you down so why not combat that with self love? Being proud of you and confident in who you are.
Note, I'm not saying be silly. If someone said they want a gym fit, size 8 toned blonde, I'd not message them. Realistic. But not hard on yourself."
Meli, where does one learn this dark art of "not being hard on oneself"?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not really. Because one, fuck leagues. That's not how it works. People like other people for more than their skin suit (well apart from when they're just wanting a quick fuck). And what they display might not be necessarily an accurate insight into who they've fucked.
Also, think better of yourself. There's enough people who will try and put you down so why not combat that with self love? Being proud of you and confident in who you are.
Note, I'm not saying be silly. If someone said they want a gym fit, size 8 toned blonde, I'd not message them. Realistic. But not hard on yourself.
Meli, where does one learn this dark art of "not being hard on oneself"?? "
If you find out can you let me know too? I definitely do feel out of my league with lots of people on here . Wish I was a bit more body confident |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say no, you have nothing to lose so just go for it, you never know.
However I am guilty of this, there are 2 things I look for in terms of veris and either 1 will prevent me from messaging them.
Maybe I should take my own advice but prior experience puts me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance "
You mean you think folk are out of your league?
Fuck it. Nothing ventured and all that. |
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance
You mean you think folk are out of your league?
Fuck it. Nothing ventured and all that."
I asked for milk. You even replied. Same as you....if you don't ask, you don't get  x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Also, think better of yourself. There's enough people who will try and put you down so why not combat that with self love? Being proud of you and confident in who you are.
Note, I'm not saying be silly. If someone said they want a gym fit, size 8 toned blonde, I'd not message them. Realistic. But not hard on yourself.
Meli, where does one learn this dark art of "not being hard on oneself"??
If you find out can you let me know too? I definitely do feel out of my league with lots of people on here . Wish I was a bit more body confident "
PD and Jaime, you're both attractive from what I can see of your photos. Plus Jaime, you have such a gorgeous voice! We don't quite see ourselves accurately do we? Not how others do.
I think honestly it just comes from a place of being a tad hungover and a tad tired of beating myself up for not being an "ideal". I'm fat, there's no denying that. But do you know what? Sod it. I quite like my wobbly self. I actually think I can look kind of sexy cute sometimes. So maybe tap in to things that give you that boost, talk to people who make you smile and help you realise your worth. You both have heaps of it, you just need to realise that. |
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance "
Yes. A lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I already worked out I’m on the wrong site lol but the forums are a laugh. I’m not too concerned about meets. Suggest just take the pressure off yourself |
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Definitely send the message. It's scary, but it can lead to lovely things. Plus the recipient will most likely get a boost out of being admired. It's nice to know people appreciate you even if you don't fancy them back x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance "
All the time…even you are a case in point |
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"I'm always surprised that forumites have sex lives
I mean I don't know how they find the time away from pontificating on here"
That's why forumites favourite position is doggy, so they can still use their phones and post in the kiss or fuck thread at the same time. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm always surprised that forumites have sex lives
I mean I don't know how they find the time away from pontificating on here
That's why forumites favourite position is doggy, so they can still use their phones and post in the kiss or fuck thread at the same time. "
Thought that could still be done in missionary too    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is this yelp for cock? Same energy is rare and the person running laps in your head could be an introvert in real life.
If you didn’t know this already confidence is sexy af |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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Yes
Yes
I'd message and start a lovely conversation regardless of distance I don't have a one track mind people can be interesting to get to know regardless of distance if you'll never be able to meet in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always surprised that forumites have sex lives
I mean I don't know how they find the time away from pontificating on here
That's why forumites favourite position is doggy, so they can still use their phones and post in the kiss or fuck thread at the same time.
Thought that could still be done in missionary too "
Balance the phone on his head?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance "
Nope ..l knew a girl once who always read the veri's and checked out the profile of the lady that left them , if she was hot , the lady would never message that guy , l couldn't understand that way of thinking cause everyone brings a different thing to the table . |
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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago
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I hardly ever message first… but I do like reading verifications.
There’s a few things that would put me off from them so I normally look for that and then just crawl back under my rock and not message anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance
Nope ..l knew a girl once who always read the veri's and checked out the profile of the lady that left them , if she was hot , the lady would never message that guy , l couldn't understand that way of thinking cause everyone brings a different thing to the table . "
If a guy has been with hot women, why would he want someone ordinary? Makes sense to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance "
With your pretty face you have every chance x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance
Nope ..l knew a girl once who always read the veri's and checked out the profile of the lady that left them , if she was hot , the lady would never message that guy , l couldn't understand that way of thinking cause everyone brings a different thing to the table .
If a guy has been with hot women, why would he want someone ordinary? Makes sense to me."
That’s where your wrong a lot of blokes like variety and not every bloke likes plastic and filters and 3 inch makeup I like a bit of a mom tum a few battle scars it’s character a real women’s body |
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By *ubandsubCouple
over a year ago
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I used to think that, look at people, and think wow and then not take it any further, but as many have said, a message only takes a few moments but can lead to so much pleasure, and i dont just mean sex, but meeting a kindred spirit etc. Personaly i have fab freinds who i havnt met but enjoy chatting away as if we have known each other for years.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always surprised that forumites have sex lives
I mean I don't know how they find the time away from pontificating on here"
i dont im retired i only have sex on a voluntary case by case basis   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance "
says you verified to the hilt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance says you verified to the hilt"
You do realise people can have veris from a large social event don't you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance
Nope ..l knew a girl once who always read the veri's and checked out the profile of the lady that left them , if she was hot , the lady would never message that guy , l couldn't understand that way of thinking cause everyone brings a different thing to the table .
If a guy has been with hot women, why would he want someone ordinary? Makes sense to me.
That’s where your wrong a lot of blokes like variety and not every bloke likes plastic and filters and 3 inch makeup I like a bit of a mom tum a few battle scars it’s character a real women’s body "
I think you meant this as a compliment but if women are more attractive than I am - they're still real women. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Shy kids don't get sweets"
Someone said that to me once.
Closely followed by 'get in the van, I have puppies'......
But back to the OP. Nope. You have to bear in mind that whilst some have specific, tight preferences for all manner of things (body style, age etc) others look at people as individuals.
There may be some who won't diverge from wanting the same thing over and over and who will go for identical looking people time and time again. Other will be different.
Assuming you don't meet someone's criteria (unless it's blatantly obvious you don't through what you've read) is just adding another hurdle that's unnecessary. It's hard enough trying to find suitable folk to contact without putting up barriers yourself.
So go for it. The worst that will happen is they say no, or you get no reply. Which is the same result as not bothering to message in the first place.
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No we go for it…although we are realistic in who we contact.
If it’s some 20 something year old hottie then we’ll pass a compliment on rather than go all in.
Veri’s are checked more so we can see how they interact - too graphic and we won’t message.
But we don’t see anyone out of our league, more out of what we consider our sweet spot.
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance "
All the time..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No …
I used to, but not now.
I’ve learnt to bite the bullet and mail - life is too short if you like their chat "
Likewise..had a meeting with a woman here some years ago and thought i had no chance. But my dad jokes won her over. Saw each other in london a few times a week for 7months..was amazing...so go for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No we go for it…although we are realistic in who we contact.
If it’s some 20 something year old hottie then we’ll pass a compliment on rather than go all in.
Veri’s are checked more so we can see how they interact - too graphic and we won’t message.
But we don’t see anyone out of our league, more out of what we consider our sweet spot.
K"
Isn't "sweet spot" and being realistic pretty much the same but with more positive language? |
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As a relative newcomer to the forum I’ve seen lots of posts that made me want to know more about people.
As a man I’m pretty reluctant to approach the females directly because well, I’m outside most ‘looking for’ age ranges, and I’m carrying some extra inches around my waist.
But I’d love to hear from anyone who wants to explore my humour and my imaginative writing skills. |
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"I'm always surprised that forumites have sex lives
I mean I don't know how they find the time away from pontificating on here
That's why forumites favourite position is doggy, so they can still use their phones and post in the kiss or fuck thread at the same time.
Thought that could still be done in missionary too "
yeah it's a bit rude doing it to their face though. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm always surprised that forumites have sex lives
I mean I don't know how they find the time away from pontificating on here
That's why forumites favourite position is doggy, so they can still use their phones and post in the kiss or fuck thread at the same time.
Thought that could still be done in missionary too
Balance the phone on his head? "
Hmmm ... might crack the screen on the head board then though?! |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm always surprised that forumites have sex lives
I mean I don't know how they find the time away from pontificating on here
That's why forumites favourite position is doggy, so they can still use their phones and post in the kiss or fuck thread at the same time.
Thought that could still be done in missionary too yeah it's a bit rude doing it to their face though. "
... maybe ok from couple profile though?!?  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance "
In the past yes to the first two. No to the last. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. If I like someone’s thinking then I will message them. If they don’t message back then they their call. There should never been any reason not to message |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. If I like someone’s thinking then I will message them. If they don’t message back then they their call. There should never been any reason not to message"
I imagine fear of rejection is a pretty good reason for many, BG |
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"Do you ever read someone's response to a forum thread and think..fuck yes I like their train of thought.
And then you feel brave enough to read their profile, and again right up your street.
Then you read the verifications, and you see the people's profiles that have left them..and you just think fuck it I've got no chance "
Yes, yes and no as I prefer to take the chance anyway. |
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