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Sometimes I have days when I come into the forums and just get irritated with things so much, I'll post comments that I would usually hold back on.
I'm a generally placid person and avoid confrontation but there are rare days that I don't give a hoot and just say what I think - look at it later and my face is  with a bit of 
Anyone else tend to hold back but then have the odd day where you just say what's on your mind anyway?
I hope that my comments are still respectful but I do think I can be rash and impulsive at times and challenge opinions, where normally I'll either move on or put another side across without mentioning the ones that make me go 
Am I the only one to have these crazy days?
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"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done "
Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful
Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate confrontation. It makes me feel crap.  |
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"Nope. I have days when I don't return friends texts in my private life because I know I'll be less understanding than I usually would be.  "
That's how I am normally then BOOM! A day on here where I'm standing up for everything I believe in and probably irritating the crap out of someone
It does pass and then it's usually too late to delete my comment  |
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"Nope. I have days when I don't return friends texts in my private life because I know I'll be less understanding than I usually would be.
That's how I am normally then BOOM! A day on here where I'm standing up for everything I believe in and probably irritating the crap out of someone
It does pass and then it's usually too late to delete my comment "
I think everyone has off days. They're tired or upset and they just can't be doing with all the crap. |
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Younger me would probably have been removed from here many times, I’d have just said shit, and fuck the consequences.
Now, I can’t be arsed to get wound up by stuff here so I click the browser back button and forget about it. Kinda like real world me too, I can’t be doing with aggro, so I float through life on a cloud of indifference and relaxation. |
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"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done
Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful
Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate confrontation. It makes me feel crap. "
Ah don't feel bad, you're allowed an opinion and to challenge views which are aired. The key is respect and you were respectful. Don't worry x
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"Younger me would probably have been removed from here many times, I’d have just said shit, and fuck the consequences.
Now, I can’t be arsed to get wound up by stuff here so I click the browser back button and forget about it. Kinda like real world me too, I can’t be doing with aggro, so I float through life on a cloud of indifference and relaxation. "
That's me 99% of the time, then the little devil comes out to play 
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"Younger me would probably have been removed from here many times, I’d have just said shit, and fuck the consequences.
Now, I can’t be arsed to get wound up by stuff here so I click the browser back button and forget about it. Kinda like real world me too, I can’t be doing with aggro, so I float through life on a cloud of indifference and relaxation.
That's me 99% of the time, then the little devil comes out to play
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When my comes out to play, he acts idiotic instead. |
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"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done
Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful
Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate confrontation. It makes me feel crap.
Ah don't feel bad, you're allowed an opinion and to challenge views which are aired. The key is respect and you were respectful. Don't worry x
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Thank you, I'm already miffed with myself today about horses 
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"Younger me would probably have been removed from here many times, I’d have just said shit, and fuck the consequences.
Now, I can’t be arsed to get wound up by stuff here so I click the browser back button and forget about it. Kinda like real world me too, I can’t be doing with aggro, so I float through life on a cloud of indifference and relaxation.
That's me 99% of the time, then the little devil comes out to play
When my comes out to play, he acts idiotic instead. "
Yeah, that can happen too  |
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"Recent events on my life have made me less tolerant and more readily irritated. I do know it though so I try to avoid situations that might trigger me or try to keep it zipped."
I guess being forum mod makes it even harder
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"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done
Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful
Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate confrontation. It makes me feel crap.
Ah don't feel bad, you're allowed an opinion and to challenge views which are aired. The key is respect and you were respectful. Don't worry x
Thank you, I'm already miffed with myself today about horses
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Don't worry honestly, it's a loaded subject anyway x |
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"Recent events on my life have made me less tolerant and more readily irritated. I do know it though so I try to avoid situations that might trigger me or try to keep it zipped.
I guess being forum mod makes it even harder
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Luckily we have rules to adhere to  people breathing loudly next to me in shops don't or (you've set me off now) talking to me with gum in their mouth and chewing between sentences. |
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"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done
Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful
Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate
confrontation. It makes me feel
crap. "
I'm in forums to have laught due the lack of general conversation or people been more interested in fucking that actually become friends before getting to that
Unfortunately so people don't get my humour or miss judge me without even knowing due my fab name and profile .
I believed in freedom of speech and
All those these days that is slowly been eroded. But some time like the other day I thought fuck it I say what I'm thinking.but I also am able
To take any come back with good grace its their right to do so. |
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"Recent events on my life have made me less tolerant and more readily irritated. I do know it though so I try to avoid situations that might trigger me or try to keep it zipped.
I guess being forum mod makes it even harder
Luckily we have rules to adhere to people breathing loudly next to me in shops don't or (you've set me off now) talking to me with gum in their mouth and chewing between sentences. "
Oh the list is long here |
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"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done
Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful
Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate
confrontation. It makes me feel
crap.
I'm in forums to have laught due the lack of general conversation or people been more interested in fucking that actually become friends before getting to that
Unfortunately so people don't get my humour or miss judge me without even knowing due my fab name and profile .
I believed in freedom of speech and
All those these days that is slowly been eroded. But some time like the other day I thought fuck it I say what I'm thinking.but I also am able
To take any come back with good grace its their right to do so."
Very true. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. It's how you do it in response to others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done
Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful
Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate
confrontation. It makes me feel
crap.
I'm in forums to have laught due the lack of general conversation or people been more interested in fucking that actually become friends before getting to that
Unfortunately so people don't get my humour or miss judge me without even knowing due my fab name and profile .
I believed in freedom of speech and
All those these days that is slowly been eroded. But some time like the other day I thought fuck it I say what I'm thinking.but I also am able
To take any come back with good grace its their right to do so."
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I say whatever I'm thinking. Doesn't matter what I say or do, people think I'm a cunt anyway. I'm not going to fuck off and die just because they think I should. |
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"Younger me would probably have been removed from here many times, I’d have just said shit, and fuck the consequences.
Now, I can’t be arsed to get wound up by stuff here so I click the browser back button and forget about it. Kinda like real world me too, I can’t be doing with aggro, so I float through life on a cloud of indifference and relaxation. "
I think I'm slowly reaching that zen like state. Slowly. But I'm happier. Life is better. Easier.
Old me would have been so quick to respond with a withering, scathing putdown that's perfectly pitched. Now I just log off, take some time out and rethink my words. I don't have the desire to feed my inner bitch*, even if I'm having a bad day.
*Unless I'm really really irritated by something posted. Very unlikely. |
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"I say whatever I'm thinking. Doesn't matter what I say or do, people think I'm a cunt anyway. I'm not going to fuck off and die just because they think I should."
I wish I had your confidence and lack of giving 2 hoots |
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"Younger me would probably have been removed from here many times, I’d have just said shit, and fuck the consequences.
Now, I can’t be arsed to get wound up by stuff here so I click the browser back button and forget about it. Kinda like real world me too, I can’t be doing with aggro, so I float through life on a cloud of indifference and relaxation.
I think I'm slowly reaching that zen like state. Slowly. But I'm happier. Life is better. Easier.
Old me would have been so quick to respond with a withering, scathing putdown that's perfectly pitched. Now I just log off, take some time out and rethink my words. I don't have the desire to feed my inner bitch*, even if I'm having a bad day.
*Unless I'm really really irritated by something posted. Very unlikely."
I am generally like this but occasionally just can't hold back, maybe now I'm approaching menopause it's this |
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"I say whatever I'm thinking. Doesn't matter what I say or do, people think I'm a cunt anyway. I'm not going to fuck off and die just because they think I should."
I don't, I think you're great! You've always been good to me. I'm not liked either because of being outspoken but meh, like I care x |
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I tend to stick to light hearted threads unless it's something that particularly affects me or I've had a different experience to what others are posting.
I'm not prolific and if I post a handful of times across all forums each day that's about my max.
Every now and again though I'll see something that is blatantly untrue or someone making light of something that I believe should not be mocked and I'll give my opinion. I rarely regret it after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everyone is entitled to an opinion but some people can tend to go over the top and get offensive. I tend to ignore them because 9 out of 10 are just stirring things up for a reaction  |
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