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Theoretical and could never be given.
However ..... I wonder if a child is destined to be a bad/ evil child..
It had to do how that child was conceived whether out of lustfull filthy sex or genuine loving sex ..
Hhhhmm? |
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Lustful sex can be genuine and loving.
I don't believe a child is influenced by the parents feelings at conception any more than they're born with a birth mark because their mother ate strawberries |
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How they were conceived???
Really!!
A good point to be made about nature or nurture. The ID, ego and superego. This fascinated me in counselling training
Are we born with inherently bad genes or a victim of our surroundings?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Theoretical and could never be given.
However ..... I wonder if a child is destined to be a bad/ evil child..
It had to do how that child was conceived whether out of lustfull filthy sex or genuine loving sex ..
Hhhhmm? "
Could be mix of internal/external factors that determine personality. Genetic, environmental or a mix of both
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"No. I don't think anything predetermines a child's outcomes before they're born. "
I think it is entirely possible that some people have a genetic predisposition to be susceptible to some mental ill health issues.
On the whole though, in my unqualified opinion, we are mainly a product of our upbringing |
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"No. I don't think anything predetermines a child's outcomes before they're born.
I think it is entirely possible that some people have a genetic predisposition to be susceptible to some mental ill health issues.
On the whole though, in my unqualified opinion, we are mainly a product of our upbringing "
Yes. I heard about a scientist who studied psychopathy and accidentally found out that he was a psychopath himself. He carried all the brain markers.
But he'd had a healthy upbringing and got into a fulfilling career. So he was a "good" psychopath - a productive member of society etc. |
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Mum wasn't bothered about any more after me. She was severely asthmatic and wasn't well giving birth. Couple of years later dad can home from pub one night and demanded sex. 9 months later, younger brother. He's grown up to be a thoroughly nasty character. Con man, thief, liar, fraudster. He's had to skip town on numerous occasions to avoid dubious characters he'd pissed off. He managed to persuade my grandma to leave the bulk of her estate to him and even managed to get my mum to leave everything to him, there was even a clause in the will specifically saying I was excluded! We had the same upbringing, the same chances and opportunities yet we've turned out so different
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