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Who's been struck by the curse of fab? Just trying to plan a social becomes a nightmare as thing's that never happen on a month of Sundays just crop up with you or the people/person you were meeting. What's the weirdest thing that's stopped a meet for you or the people/person you were meeting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I planned a sex meet
About half an hour later my friend rang to tell me his cancer was terminal
Funnily enough, I didn't feel much like shagging then
I messaged the guy and told him
He went up the wall  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Excuses excuse 
The curse of fab has always been distance. Talking online will never beer face to face, so where the hell does sex fair?
I’ve heard someone once fell asleep when arranged to meet for a coffee. I’d hate to be that guy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who's been struck by the curse of fab? Just trying to plan a social becomes a nightmare as thing's that never happen on a month of Sundays just crop up with you or the people/person you were meeting. What's the weirdest thing that's stopped a meet for you or the people/person you were meeting?"
It's not a curse tbh , like the song says " it's just the way it is "  |
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"Who's been struck by the curse of fab? Just trying to plan a social becomes a nightmare as thing's that never happen on a month of Sundays just crop up with you or the people/person you were meeting. What's the weirdest thing that's stopped a meet for you or the people/person you were meeting?"
Life happens, stuff gets in the way. You’re probably trying to coordinate 4 schedules in an mf-mf meet, plus people are probably trying to do it in secret from friends and family so that adds a layer of complexity.
But it can happen! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Excuses excuse
The curse of fab has always been distance. Talking online will never beer face to face, so where the hell does sex fair?
I’ve heard someone once fell asleep when arranged to meet for a coffee. I’d hate to be that guy "
Fell asleep during the coffee date? Or before. During would be  |
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"Life happens and gets in the way, but if you both really want to meet it will happen, it's just a waiting period "
We have been pretty lucky to be honest, though we have had a few last minute cancellations that makes us think wtf lol. |
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"Back around November we had two men cancel meets in the same week as both had leaking showers. Not the strangest reason ever, but was odd to hear it twice so close together "
That's weird must have been something in the water |
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By *osie xoWoman
over a year ago
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I had to cancel a meet a few weeks back because I got severe head pains. Spent an hour in my house screaming before being carted off in an ambulance. Turns out I had a mini bleed on the brain. |
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"That I was plan C and she didn't need me anymore as both A and B has worked out that day. She actually said she couldn't make it due to work but the two new veries said otherwise. "
You had a lucky escape by the sound's of it.  |
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"I had to cancel a meet a few weeks back because I got severe head pains. Spent an hour in my house screaming before being carted off in an ambulance. Turns out I had a mini bleed on the brain. "
That's terrible.
Hope you are ok now.  |
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I've had a few our almost 19yr old dog went from one night to the next morning his legs collapsing, we had a meet planned that evening but sadly had to cancel as our dog was out to sleep in the afternoon
Twice I've been caught out by unexpected periods, they have always been irregular so it has always been a possibility once it was a few hours before, the other was literally 40 minutes and I felt so guilty luckily I caught the guy before he had left home, he said he was actually running around an hour late (he hadn't text to tell me that was just going to turn up late) so I'd have time to shower and he'd just come over for a BJ, I explained that I really wasn't feeling great he didn't take it well and got aggy so I sent him disgusting pictures of my blood soaked clothes clots and all, the meet never got rearranged |
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"Back around November we had two men cancel meets in the same week as both had leaking showers. Not the strangest reason ever, but was odd to hear it twice so close together "
I think people just get cold feet |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Let's see...
Train hit a bull. Ended up stranded in the middle of nowhere for a good couple of hours.
Broke my ankle and had to go to hospital, after tripping over a twig on a jog.
Generally I'm pretty good but with periods and my accident prone ways, not perfect.
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When I first started on here years ago, I arranged a social with someone. Just coffee etc and was really looking forward to it.
My car let me down and I had to cancel it. I'm sure he didn't believe me and thought it was some wild excuse yet there I was in the garage with a non starter
I honestly felt like one of those kids at school who's puppy had actually eaten their homework but no one believes them
Her x |
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"Back around November we had two men cancel meets in the same week as both had leaking showers. Not the strangest reason ever, but was odd to hear it twice so close together
I think people just get cold feet "
We'd met both before. And we've met one since. One sent a picture of his leaky shower and water everywhere. I had no reason to doubt them, it was just a strange coincidence |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"When I first started on here years ago, I arranged a social with someone. Just coffee etc and was really looking forward to it.
My car let me down and I had to cancel it. I'm sure he didn't believe me and thought it was some wild excuse yet there I was in the garage with a non starter
I honestly felt like one of those kids at school who's puppy had actually eaten their homework but no one believes them
Her x "
Send photos. No one can deny it then. And if they don't believe you, meh! |
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By *ab365XMan
over a year ago
Paisley |
"Who's been struck by the curse of fab? Just trying to plan a social becomes a nightmare as thing's that never happen on a month of Sundays just crop up with you or the people/person you were meeting. What's the weirdest thing that's stopped a meet for you or the people/person you were meeting?"
I had a really nasty stomach upset before I was due to go out for an MMF sesh lol! Turned out to be food poisoning! |
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"When I first started on here years ago, I arranged a social with someone. Just coffee etc and was really looking forward to it.
My car let me down and I had to cancel it. I'm sure he didn't believe me and thought it was some wild excuse yet there I was in the garage with a non starter
I honestly felt like one of those kids at school who's puppy had actually eaten their homework but no one believes them
Her x
Send photos. No one can deny it then. And if they don't believe you, meh! "
We only communicated on here and I didn't know you could send pictures from your phone then - maybe you couldn't do that back in 2017. Not sure if direct photos were a thing back then x |
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"Back around November we had two men cancel meets in the same week as both had leaking showers. Not the strangest reason ever, but was odd to hear it twice so close together
I think people just get cold feet
We'd met both before. And we've met one since. One sent a picture of his leaky shower and water everywhere. I had no reason to doubt them, it was just a strange coincidence "
Ohh yes that is a mad coincidence but at least they were genuine cancellation and not excuse because they had cold feet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That I was plan C and she didn't need me anymore as both A and B has worked out that day. She actually said she couldn't make it due to work but the two new veries said otherwise. "
I've had this. She texted me about 11:30 pm when I was drifting off to sleep in my bed. Replied to her and she'd been stood up TWICE!!, And expected me to get up and drive to her place. Told her to forget it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Excuses excuse
The curse of fab has always been distance. Talking online will never beer face to face, so where the hell does sex fair?
I’ve heard someone once fell asleep when arranged to meet for a coffee. I’d hate to be that guy
Fell asleep during the coffee date? Or before. During would be "
Haha during is a big hint that there won’t be a 2nd date. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"Excuses excuse
I’ve heard someone once fell asleep when arranged to meet for a coffee. I’d hate to be that guy "
I've been on the receiving end of that one, once ...could have been true, could have not been true |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Waaaaay back (probably around 2010) I'd arranged to meet a forumite I'd been chatting to for months who lived 100 odd miles north, as I was in her city with work.
The venue? Costa.
Now where I was living there was one Costa in town.
So after my morning work meeting ended early, I made my way to Costa, ordered a coffee and waited. I messaged to say I was already there and she said she'd be half an hour.
I waited. And waited.
Then she called and asked where I was.
I said "at the table in the corner, by the window opposite Poundland."
To which she replied "There's no Poundland opposite Costa"
In hindsight I guess it's easy for someone not from the West Midlands to get Walsall and Wolverhampton mixed up...........
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I was due to meet a couple to help out with some celebrations but threw my back out to the point where I could barely walk, a week before the day. Messaged them to apologise and that I hope they have fun with someone else, and got point blank blocked. Oh well 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Genuinely lost interest in meeting. Sent them a message saying I’m not interested in meeting, they went ballistic saying ‘you should be honoured I even gave you a chance’ and all that… blocked!
Funny when the shoe is on the other foot. |
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I had a brunch planned but the fucker got wasted last night and couldn't make it. Hope he enjoys being blocked.
Annoying but doesn't happen very often time luckily. I also don't start getting ready before I hear from them. So no time wasted. |
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"I had a brunch planned but the fucker got wasted last night and couldn't make it. Hope he enjoys being blocked.
Annoying but doesn't happen very often time luckily. I also don't start getting ready before I hear from them. So no time wasted."
His life is just about to become worse when he reads your three word self-description.
What an idiot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This was a genuine excuse apparently. The dog shit on the floor and the robotic hoover ran it over spreading dog shit everywhere so he couldn’t make it as he had to deep clean the living room and buy a new hoover. It sounded so elaborate that it had to be true. |
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"This was a genuine excuse apparently. The dog shit on the floor and the robotic hoover ran it over spreading dog shit everywhere so he couldn’t make it as he had to deep clean the living room and buy a new hoover. It sounded so elaborate that it had to be true. "
He's married. |
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"This was a genuine excuse apparently. The dog shit on the floor and the robotic hoover ran it over spreading dog shit everywhere so he couldn’t make it as he had to deep clean the living room and buy a new hoover. It sounded so elaborate that it had to be true.
He's married."
Not married I’ve known him years we just haven’t got round to meeting yet lol. He was house sitting on this poonami situation lol. |
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Arranged to meet a fabulous woman who id spoken to for months… Covid struck me and had to cancel the meeting… I guess she got fed up waiting and met someone else …. Ce la vie but seeing the pics of their meet and reading the veri was probably something I shouldnt have done … you live and learn |
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"This was a genuine excuse apparently. The dog shit on the floor and the robotic hoover ran it over spreading dog shit everywhere so he couldn’t make it as he had to deep clean the living room and buy a new hoover. It sounded so elaborate that it had to be true.
He's married.
Not married I’ve known him years we just haven’t got round to meeting yet lol. He was house sitting on this poonami situation lol. "
Oh, that is really rough for both of you, commiserations |
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