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How to introduce a new partner in to this side of things?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve recently started seeing a younger woman who is great in bed and after a few tipsy conversations o think would really enjoy this side of things…how do I suggest it without sounding like I want to fuck other people or making her feel she’s not enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve recently started seeing a younger woman who is great in bed and after a few tipsy conversations o think would really enjoy this side of things…how do I suggest it without sounding like I want to fuck other people or making her feel she’s not enough?"
Who to say that she's not into it ? Maybe she hasn't said it to you ? If she's not you risk losing a gem , a difficult choice to make but it's up to yourself. |
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Concentrate on the relationship first then talk about it. Just because she's a goer in bed it doesn't mean she want to fuck others.
You need to decide whether the relationship with her or swinging is more important. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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If you’ve only recently started seeing her why the rush? See if the relationship has legs first and concentrate your attentions on that and on her.
And some of the best sex I’ve ever had has been with men I’ve met in “vanilla” life, but they would never have entertained a site like this. So tread carefully. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some m thing in my gut just tells me she’ll like it…I definitely need to treat carefully though
"If you’ve only recently started seeing her why the rush? See if the relationship has legs first and concentrate your attentions on that and on her.
And some of the best sex I’ve ever had has been with men I’ve met in “vanilla” life, but they would never have entertained a site like this. So tread carefully."
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"I’ve recently started seeing a younger woman who is great in bed and after a few tipsy conversations o think would really enjoy this side of things…how do I suggest it without sounding like I want to fuck other people or making her feel she’s not enough?"
She’s my fuck buddy and loves face sitting, she is cool with it |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Just be upfront and ask her if she's ever considered swinging or clubs.The problem will be if she says she wouldn't ever do it .
Will you be able to stay away from fab and concentrate on your relationship with her . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well of you really want to continue with this lifestyle the sooner you discuss it with her, the better.
You may lose her, and that's the price you may have to pay.
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By *htcMan
over a year ago
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Tell them
Your friend does swinging with there wife or girlfriend, kinda turns me on but not sure if I would ever try but what do you think?
If she or he says yes, then say I will look into it and then it can begin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be a bit put off if I was seeing someone and they immediately mentioned getting another person involved. And it does sound to me like you do want to fuck other people, unless she's directly mentioned she would like others involved in your sex life? And if she has, it shouldn't be too difficult to bring it up in conversation if that is what she's into.
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Only the strongest relationships survive in this lifestyle, jumping into it in a new one won't end well. "
This. My other half and I didn’t open up our relationship for the first six years or so. It was through a series of conversations over 18 months or so, that we decided we both wanted this and how we were going to approach it and I was still shitting myself the first time I came back and told him I’d slept with someone else - he still chuckles about that now.
Tl;dr - it takes time and a lot of communication to build up to this. Enjoy exploring what you have together first. |
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