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By *ire_thorn OP Man over a year ago

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It's surprising how many straight men send messages that makes them seem to be about as straight as a bowl full of cooked noodles lol.. anybody else have this type of experience with people of the same sex?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everybody.

All the time.

Constantly.

1000’s of threads.

The only solution is to suck them all off.

Or block single males.

Either or.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"It's surprising how many straight men send messages that makes them seem to be about as straight as a bowl full of cooked noodles lol.. anybody else have this type of experience with people of the same sex?"

Fab straight isn't always the same as straight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I don’t get straight men messaging me. Damn I’m UGLY ugly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If it bothers you just block single men in your message filters.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

This is why we have filters, it's a really simple solution

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm the opposite, I'm straight as a die ,it says so on my profile and yet I get unindated messages from gay ,bi and basically lots of guys every single day ,mind you I don't get any from the ladies, maybe my pic says something I'm missing, confused dot com .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also this idea of fab straight is really interesting because DL guys are not exclusively on fab. Lmao or am I missing the joke?

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By *illingToHelpMan over a year ago

Oldham or South Shore

You get inundated with messages from gays because of the way you hold your hand over that box of chocolates. It’s the same hand positioning that we use when we reach for our iced lattes. Sorry for the confusion.

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By *rgoodnbadMan over a year ago

greenock

It's because they aren't straight. Straight men will have nothing to do sexually whatsoever with another man despite what the ifs/ buts and maybes scenarios that'll be cooked up later on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe I need a beard and I can decoy the hot gay ones away from you OP. Thank me another time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't want lots of men messaging me, but I'm starting to wonder why I'm missing out?

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

"I'm the opposite, I'm straight as a die ,it says so on my profile and yet I get unindated messages from gay ,bi and basically lots of guys every single day ,mind you I don't get any from the ladies, maybe my pic says something I'm missing, confused dot com ."
. Similar to you I get lots of messages from gay , bi , tv/ ts apparently with me I look like a alpha male and the hairy chest as well. I do get some strange one from supposedly straight guys. I did think of blocking all males but I have received invites from males who have organised a gang bang for a lady so for the time been no one is blocked as I am ok with a quick chat as I know it’s going no where

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also this idea of fab straight is really interesting because DL guys are not exclusively on fab. Lmao or am I missing the joke?"

What is DL?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also this idea of fab straight is really interesting because DL guys are not exclusively on fab. Lmao or am I missing the joke?

What is DL?"

Down low. Means guys who aren’t out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only women or couples who message me are fake profiles with men behind them.

Bisexual men say straight on their profile because some people won't meet bi men. They lie to try and get a shag.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also this idea of fab straight is really interesting because DL guys are not exclusively on fab. Lmao or am I missing the joke?

What is DL?

Down low. Means guys who aren’t out. "

Aha thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also this idea of fab straight is really interesting because DL guys are not exclusively on fab. Lmao or am I missing the joke?

What is DL?

Down low. Means guys who aren’t out. "

Yeah beat me to it!

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By *tephanjMan over a year ago

Kettering

I also get a lot of messages from men. I don't mind having a general conversation but when they start going on about sucking my cock I just stop chatting with them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I also get a lot of messages from men. I don't mind having a general conversation but when they start going on about sucking my cock I just stop chatting with them "

Gives you more of an appreciation for what the women go through!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only women or couples who message me are fake profiles with men behind them.

Bisexual men say straight on their profile because some people won't meet bi men. They lie to try and get a shag."

Why do people not meet bi guys on here? In my head I can guess but wonder if there’s a more genuine reason?

Not asking you to be a spokesperson Outsider just throwing it out there based on what you said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I also get a lot of messages from men. I don't mind having a general conversation but when they start going on about sucking my cock I just stop chatting with them

Gives you more of an appreciation for what the women go through!"

It’s almost like men are.. no no. Nvm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe it has something to do with you being bicurious and having things in your arse?

I might be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The ironic thing is out n proud gay guys aren’t messaging straight guys on here. Frankly don’t need to. Gay social life leaves hetero in the dust frankly. It’s closet bi guys doing the messaging.

My opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only women or couples who message me are fake profiles with men behind them.

Bisexual men say straight on their profile because some people won't meet bi men. They lie to try and get a shag.

Why do people not meet bi guys on here? In my head I can guess but wonder if there’s a more genuine reason?

Not asking you to be a spokesperson Outsider just throwing it out there based on what you said. "

Many many reasons. Some find 2 men fucking a turn off. Some assume a higher STI risk. Some assume bi men are effeminate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The ironic thing is out n proud gay guys aren’t messaging straight guys on here. Frankly don’t need to. Gay social life leaves hetero in the dust frankly. It’s closet bi guys doing the messaging.

My opinion. "

I think you’re probably right. Although I’ve had gay guys message me but I think based on those messages they were hoping I was DL and had a thing for DL guys.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman over a year ago

Thurrock

I think the longer you're on fab the more open you become to new experiences you naturally push your boundaries in pursuit of new ways to find sexual pleasure

I think it's great people think fabs a safe space to experiment

I know I'm a little more open sexually than when I first started on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve blocked single men from messaging me as before I used that filter I was getting messages from men offering all sorts even though I state quite clearly I’m straight and not interested in men in the slightest. What I find odd are the men that claim they’re straight but are looking for tv/ts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I won’t block men because there are some gems on the forums that I’ve spoken to

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

No I don't get messages from other men because I have them all blocked.

I've no interest in exploring a side of me that doesn't exist and I've no interest anymore in explaining to anyone why that doesn't make me closeminded or in any way phobic.

I've no interest in cricket so if it's on the telly I'll change channels and I don't have to explain my reasons for doing that either.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"Maybe it has something to do with you being bicurious and having things in your arse?

I might be wrong."

You are making my evening.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I won’t block men because there are some gems on the forums that I’ve spoken to

There are a few peeps on here who seem genuinely decent and entertaining.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Everybody.

All the time.

Constantly.

1000’s of threads.

The only solution is to suck them all off.

Or block single males.

Either or."

This

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I think the longer you're on fab the more open you become to new experiences you naturally push your boundaries in pursuit of new ways to find sexual pleasure"

Or ninja level at using one's filters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the longer you're on fab the more open you become to new experiences you naturally push your boundaries in pursuit of new ways to find sexual pleasure

Or ninja level at using one's filters

Wish there was a filter for sheer bloody arrogance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve noticed this a lot too, my profile clearly states straight yet I still have guys asking for a quicky… makes zero sense

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve noticed this a lot too, my profile clearly states straight yet I still have guys asking for a quicky… makes zero sense "

I’m clearly NOT yet still get guys who say they straight. What am I gonna do block all guys?

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

"I think the longer you're on fab the more open you become to new experiences you naturally push your boundaries in pursuit of new ways to find sexual pleasure

I think it's great people think fabs a safe space to experiment

I know I'm a little more open sexually than when I first started on here

"
. Whilst Fabs gives you a great opportunity to experiment and push your boundaries it can also make you confused about who or what you are as I found out that I had to take a break before clearing my head and coming back and doing things my way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve noticed this a lot too, my profile clearly states straight yet I still have guys asking for a quicky… makes zero sense

I’m clearly NOT yet still get guys who say they straight. What am I gonna do block all guys? "

I think a lot of guys on here don’t want to openly say that their interested in anyone but women, there is still the stigma of it’s fine for women to hook up with women but guys have to be straight or it’s weird

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