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Do you want to be loved or do you not care.
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I have a life jam-packed full of love.
While I like to be liked I wouldn't come onto this forum when I was feeling in need of love or in any way vulnerable - I think it would have the opposite effect to the one I'd be looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and no...I don't think the kind of love I want exists...
Whether we realise it or not, even in long-term relationships, most of us have to keep a certain level of guard up, as even the nicest person will eventually take advantage of you if you let them, and honestly, I find that exhausting.
I don't like confrontation and will usually do anything for an easy life, but many people take that as a green light to take advantage, even if they don't realise it.
To be loved and appreciated without having to fight my corner would be nice.
Then again, maybe my judgement of Men is just complete shite.  |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody."
Brrrr…oh, so cold.
I’m a love slut: I love my other half. I love my family. I love my friends. I love my work colleagues. I love the people who run my corner shop. I love anyone who brings me waffles.
Love me! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a life jam-packed full of love.
While I like to be liked I wouldn't come onto this forum when I was feeling in need of love or in any way vulnerable - I think it would have the opposite effect to the one I'd be looking for."
You’re loved so very much  |
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"I have a life jam-packed full of love.
While I like to be liked I wouldn't come onto this forum when I was feeling in need of love or in any way vulnerable - I think it would have the opposite effect to the one I'd be looking for.
You’re loved so very much "
I am, and it's a huge blessing in my life, one I don't take for granted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“ what people call ‘love’ is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it, your parents did it, break the cycle Morty, choose science” - Rick Sanchez… I can’t not agree with this |
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"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody.
Brrrr…oh, so cold.
I’m a love slut: I love my other half. I love my family. I love my friends. I love my work colleagues. I love the people who run my corner shop. I love anyone who brings me waffles.
Love me! "
Needy much  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah I miss having someone love me romantically and I miss having someone to love romantically but it’s unlikely it’ll ever happen again so I’ll just love myself a bit more. "
It’ll come. Rooting for you. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Yeah I miss having someone love me romantically and I miss having someone to love romantically but it’s unlikely it’ll ever happen again so I’ll just love myself a bit more.
It’ll come. Rooting for you. "
Ahh thanks Mr Sandwich  |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody.
Brrrr…oh, so cold.
I’m a love slut: I love my other half. I love my family. I love my friends. I love my work colleagues. I love the people who run my corner shop. I love anyone who brings me waffles.
Love me!
Needy much "
Always. I want to be the cool lone wolf, hair streaming behind her as she stares into the horizon from her motorbike on the side of a vacant highway but I know I’m happier in a pack. . More snuggles and treats. |
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"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody.
Brrrr…oh, so cold.
I’m a love slut: I love my other half. I love my family. I love my friends. I love my work colleagues. I love the people who run my corner shop. I love anyone who brings me waffles.
Love me!
Needy much
Always. I want to be the cool lone wolf, hair streaming behind her as she stares into the horizon from her motorbike on the side of a vacant highway but I know I’m happier in a pack. . More snuggles and treats."
Can't argue with that. I'm just too cynical and jaded. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody.
Brrrr…oh, so cold.
I’m a love slut: I love my other half. I love my family. I love my friends. I love my work colleagues. I love the people who run my corner shop. I love anyone who brings me waffles.
Love me!
Needy much
Always. I want to be the cool lone wolf, hair streaming behind her as she stares into the horizon from her motorbike on the side of a vacant highway but I know I’m happier in a pack. . More snuggles and treats.
Can't argue with that. I'm just too cynical and jaded."
Are there blinds on your windows, a bottle of whisky in your bottom drawer and a lingering pain behind your eyes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I care. I think I am now difficult to love or fall in love with etc.
Love is beautiful so why wouldn’t I want it, but I would manage without it. Loving someone fills the void of now feeling loved myself.
And I have children, so that helps with things I suppose.
*Now can we have some of the more ridiculous questions in here again? |
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"Tell me  & Guess which one I want.
Promise this is my last thread of the weekend  "
We all want to be loved …so I’d be surprised if you didn’t.
I’ve always been a bit of a loner who needs company as well. So a mixture of being loved but also freedom to be loner self is a necessity in my life.
Love is lovely but freedom is everything for me.  |
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"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody.
Brrrr…oh, so cold.
I’m a love slut: I love my other half. I love my family. I love my friends. I love my work colleagues. I love the people who run my corner shop. I love anyone who brings me waffles.
Love me!
Needy much
Always. I want to be the cool lone wolf, hair streaming behind her as she stares into the horizon from her motorbike on the side of a vacant highway but I know I’m happier in a pack. . More snuggles and treats.
Can't argue with that. I'm just too cynical and jaded.
Are there blinds on your windows, a bottle of whisky in your bottom drawer and a lingering pain behind your eyes?"
No, no and yes. But only because I'm tired. Why? |
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Unconditional love from my family yes
But love from a intimate relationship no thankyou not yet
Was loved once and got seriously hurt in the process ...there's only so much my heart can can take
So for now it's light hearted NSA fun with FWB's..  |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
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Always. I want to be the cool lone wolf, hair streaming behind her as she stares into the horizon from her motorbike on the side of a vacant highway but I know I’m happier in a pack. . More snuggles and treats.
Can't argue with that. I'm just too cynical and jaded.
Are there blinds on your windows, a bottle of whisky in your bottom drawer and a lingering pain behind your eyes?
No, no and yes. But only because I'm tired. Why?"
Because I’d cast you in the film noir in my head as the world-weary PI who’s seen it all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With love inevitably comes heartache.
Also, actual true love is pretty rare. It's usually just lust and infatuation. "
God this makes me feel positive about my partner of 8 years. 
But we’re all loved by people- romantically, platonically, maternally, paternally etc. Whether we care I guess is different? I suppose we all care a bit but you know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not anymore, always fall for someone before I get to know their true intentions, not looking for love and don't want to be loved and before anyone else chips in I've got a face only my mother can love! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely, i would love to be loved. But not what im looking for right now. And definitely not here, lol. X"
Something tells me you’re loved A LOT. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell me & Guess which one I want.
Promise this is my last thread of the weekend
Love please
Also the weekend only just started so I don’t believe your promise "
I’m gonna try but who will do my daily ‘are you a X or a Y’ threads |
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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago
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"Tell me & Guess which one I want.
Promise this is my last thread of the weekend
Love please
Also the weekend only just started so I don’t believe your promise
I’m gonna try but who will do my daily ‘are you a X or a Y’ threads "
Don’t be a quitter! I like those threads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a difference between in Love with someone and to love someone ..tbh would l place my heart in a position to have someone just rip it to pieces , don't think so , when you have been in that position you never want to go there again, try having your heart ripped out ..not nice ..not easy ..never was ..never will be . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To be honest, like being real, I don’t want to die with more people not liking me than liking or loving me. And it may seem stupid but that’s where I’m currently at.
Also, I didn’t mean are you looking for Love on fab. I’m interested in you lovely people’s opinions on life beyond fab.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.
We all need to be loved though not necessarily in a romantic sense. I could live without a partner's love if push came to shove. But not without the love of my kids. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want to be loved always.
I can't believe there are people out there who don't want to be loved. I think you must have had to go through some very damaging shit to end up like that.
My life would feel so lonely and dark without love. I will always seek love. I wouldn't be alive without love. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I want to be loved always.
I can't believe there are people out there who don't want to be loved. I think you must have had to go through some very damaging shit to end up like that.
My life would feel so lonely and dark without love. I will always seek love. I wouldn't be alive without love."
It’s good to see you here today. And I’m glad you’re loved |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I want to be loved always.
I can't believe there are people out there who don't want to be loved. I think you must have had to go through some very damaging shit to end up like that.
My life would feel so lonely and dark without love. I will always seek love. I wouldn't be alive without love.
It’s good to see you here today. And I’m glad you’re loved "
I think you're the kind of person who would always pick love. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I want to be loved always.
I can't believe there are people out there who don't want to be loved. I think you must have had to go through some very damaging shit to end up like that.
My life would feel so lonely and dark without love. I will always seek love. I wouldn't be alive without love.
It’s good to see you here today. And I’m glad you’re loved
I think you're the kind of person who would always pick love. "
Of course. Everything you wrote was beautifully put and I agree with it all. I live for Love and to hopefully spread it around a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can’t remember what being loved feels like. I’ve been alone so long I don’t know if It’s possible to feel anything like that again. "
Bless you. You’ll find it again. I really want it for you |
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