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over a year ago
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So after conversing with a particular member last night about the legitimacy of real swingers one this site I’ve come to the conclusion that couples swinging is quite a minority and the majority seems to be 1.2.1 sex hook ups with other single men, most have straight on there profile and secretly harbour homosexual desire, it also seems a very exclusive to a group that believe they own this space and it’s their lifestyle and not anybody else’s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So after conversing with a particular member last night about the legitimacy of real swingers one this site I’ve come to the conclusion that couples swinging is quite a minority and the majority seems to be 1.2.1 sex hook ups with other single men, most have straight on there profile and secretly harbour homosexual desire, it also seems a very exclusive to a group that believe they own this space and it’s their lifestyle and not anybody else’s "
Tell me more! Surely these folk would do way better on grindr or her. It looks to me that a lot of people are looking for FWB or fuck buddies. Some of the profiles read like they're looking for poly type connections, try OKC or taimi perhaps. Quite a few kink types on here as well, try fet perhaps. |
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Swingers to me are non monogamous people. I don’t understand why they’re so judgemental on this site about other non monogamous people. And so what if people aren’t swingers or non monogamous and they just want sex or monogamous relationships. What does gatekeeping achieve? I don’t know.
Anyway rant over. Happy Thursday  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swingers to me are non monogamous people. I don’t understand why they’re so judgemental on this site about other non monogamous people. And so what if people aren’t swingers or non monogamous and they just want sex or monogamous relationships. What does gatekeeping achieve? I don’t know.
Anyway rant over. Happy Thursday "
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So after conversing with a particular member last night about the legitimacy of real swingers one this site I’ve come to the conclusion that couples swinging is quite a minority and the majority seems to be 1.2.1 sex hook ups with other single men, most have straight on there profile and secretly harbour homosexual desire, it also seems a very exclusive to a group that believe they own this space and it’s their lifestyle and not anybody else’s
Tell me more! Surely these folk would do way better on grindr or her. It looks to me that a lot of people are looking for FWB or fuck buddies. Some of the profiles read like they're looking for poly type connections, try OKC or taimi perhaps. Quite a few kink types on here as well, try fet perhaps. "
So people/swingers can't have FWB or FB from here? We're poly and Kinky (and on fet) but we like being here too. Why limit the possibilities? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swingers to me are non monogamous people. I don’t understand why they’re so judgemental on this site about other non monogamous people. And so what if people aren’t swingers or non monogamous and they just want sex or monogamous relationships. What does gatekeeping achieve? I don’t know.
Anyway rant over. Happy Thursday "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Swingers to me are non monogamous people. I don’t understand why they’re so judgemental on this site about other non monogamous people. And so what if people aren’t swingers or non monogamous and they just want sex or monogamous relationships. What does gatekeeping achieve? I don’t know.
Anyway rant over. Happy Thursday "
agree I was attacked last night because I made a video on my social medias explaining why I need prep medication the rant basically was saying I shouldn’t be advertising the site to people that are not “real swingers” lol was rather pathetic TBH |
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"So after conversing with a particular member last night about the legitimacy of real swingers one this site I’ve come to the conclusion that couples swinging is quite a minority and the majority seems to be 1.2.1 sex hook ups with other single men, most have straight on there profile and secretly harbour homosexual desire, it also seems a very exclusive to a group that believe they own this space and it’s their lifestyle and not anybody else’s
Tell me more! Surely these folk would do way better on grindr or her. It looks to me that a lot of people are looking for FWB or fuck buddies. Some of the profiles read like they're looking for poly type connections, try OKC or taimi perhaps. Quite a few kink types on here as well, try fet perhaps. "
What is this site for then? |
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"Swingers to me are non monogamous people. I don’t understand why they’re so judgemental on this site about other non monogamous people. And so what if people aren’t swingers or non monogamous and they just want sex or monogamous relationships. What does gatekeeping achieve? I don’t know.
Anyway rant over. Happy Thursday agree I was attacked last night because I made a video on my social medias explaining why I need prep medication the rant basically was saying I shouldn’t be advertising the site to people that are not “real swingers” lol was rather pathetic TBH "
Better tell Google then to only list this site on searchers done by real swingers. That person can just shut up. People are here for a myriad of reasons. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I couldn't really give a damn if I'm not considered to be a real swinger.I use this site the way I want if that pisses others off well that's their issue not mine I don't really give a rat's ass what they think.
I do think swinging has evolved from just being couples and I do have a little laugh at the couples who claim it should be just couples but then want single men and women to jump to their tune when they want to use them for their fantasies of threesomes.
Everyone has a right to use the site how they want. There is no rule on here that you have to be a couple or even that you have to meet anyone to be on here. I don't think too many actually care about the label swinger.
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"So after conversing with a particular member last night about the legitimacy of real swingers one this site I’ve come to the conclusion that couples swinging is quite a minority and the majority seems to be 1.2.1 sex hook ups with other single men, most have straight on there profile and secretly harbour homosexual desire, it also seems a very exclusive to a group that believe they own this space and it’s their lifestyle and not anybody else’s
Tell me more! Surely these folk would do way better on grindr or her. It looks to me that a lot of people are looking for FWB or fuck buddies. Some of the profiles read like they're looking for poly type connections, try OKC or taimi perhaps. Quite a few kink types on here as well, try fet perhaps.
What is this site for then?"
fucking ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I couldn't really give a damn if I'm not considered to be a real swinger.I use this site the way I want if that pisses others off well that's their issue not mine I don't really give a rat's ass what they think.
I do think swinging has evolved from just being couples and I do have a little laugh at the couples who claim it should be just couples but then want single men and women to jump to their tune when they want to use them for their fantasies of threesomes.
Everyone has a right to use the site how they want. There is no rule on here that you have to be a couple or even that you have to meet anyone to be on here. I don't think too many actually care about the label swinger.
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here here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I couldn't really give a damn if I'm not considered to be a real swinger.I use this site the way I want if that pisses others off well that's their issue not mine I don't really give a rat's ass what they think.
I do think swinging has evolved from just being couples and I do have a little laugh at the couples who claim it should be just couples but then want single men and women to jump to their tune when they want to use them for their fantasies of threesomes.
Everyone has a right to use the site how they want. There is no rule on here that you have to be a couple or even that you have to meet anyone to be on here. I don't think too many actually care about the label swinger.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So after conversing with a particular member last night about the legitimacy of real swingers one this site I’ve come to the conclusion that couples swinging is quite a minority and the majority seems to be 1.2.1 sex hook ups with other single men, most have straight on there profile and secretly harbour homosexual desire, it also seems a very exclusive to a group that believe they own this space and it’s their lifestyle and not anybody else’s
Tell me more! Surely these folk would do way better on grindr or her. It looks to me that a lot of people are looking for FWB or fuck buddies. Some of the profiles read like they're looking for poly type connections, try OKC or taimi perhaps. Quite a few kink types on here as well, try fet perhaps.
What is this site for then? fucking ? "
Not just that.  |
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"When I meet a couple - I’m swinging
When I meet a single woman - I’m dancing.
This rule has stood me in good stead
Supplementary rule 1a
When I meet a single man - I’m drinking "
when you meet trans woman you’re fucking ? |
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"When I meet a couple - I’m swinging
When I meet a single woman - I’m dancing.
This rule has stood me in good stead
Supplementary rule 1a
When I meet a single man - I’m drinking when you meet trans woman you’re fucking ? "
I don’t tend to meet trans women (to be honest I don’t tend to meet single men as well). Why? I think I still have a hang-up about it, I appreciate you may consider that phobic and maybe it is on a subconscious level, I’m not sure is the honest answer there. |
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We're probably not real swingers. The scene for us is far more about socialising, having a few laughs, voyeurism, exhibitions and generally having a great time with less clothes on than it is having endless sex with other couples and swapping for the sake of it. Of course we do swing, have threesomes and we do enjoy enjoy a good orgy too. It's just only do when we're in the mood and find those exceptional people and chemistry. Sex with others is not necessarily the only or main reason we go out and enjoy the physical scene, its more a lovely extra if we find the right people. Fucking people just for the sake of it or swapping keys for strangers old school is not for us. We're probably shit swingers in some purists books, but we don't care we have a bloody good time and hot times with the right people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am here purely as a service for non monogamous couples. Like a swingers resource if you will.
Like a Mother Theresa, but in leopard print!"
me too I offer a public service and help with ugly men that woman wouldn’t fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So after conversing with a particular member last night about the legitimacy of real swingers one this site I’ve come to the conclusion that couples swinging is quite a minority and the majority seems to be 1.2.1 sex hook ups with other single men, most have straight on there profile and secretly harbour homosexual desire, it also seems a very exclusive to a group that believe they own this space and it’s their lifestyle and not anybody else’s
Tell me more! Surely these folk would do way better on grindr or her. It looks to me that a lot of people are looking for FWB or fuck buddies. Some of the profiles read like they're looking for poly type connections, try OKC or taimi perhaps. Quite a few kink types on here as well, try fet perhaps.
So people/swingers can't have FWB or FB from here? We're poly and Kinky (and on fet) but we like being here too. Why limit the possibilities? "
Of course they can, I'm on all of those sites except her, that's my point. Nice to make your aqaintance. However, this site can be a touch judgy |
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"I am here purely as a service for non monogamous couples. Like a swingers resource if you will.
Like a Mother Theresa, but in leopard print! me too I offer a public service and help with ugly men that woman wouldn’t fuck "
Surely not, you're beautiful! |
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"So after conversing with a particular member last night about the legitimacy of real swingers one this site I’ve come to the conclusion that couples swinging is quite a minority and the majority seems to be 1.2.1 sex hook ups with other single men, most have straight on there profile and secretly harbour homosexual desire, it also seems a very exclusive to a group that believe they own this space and it’s their lifestyle and not anybody else’s "
You’re right! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Inaccurate description in order to drum up support for the purpose of triangulation.
Seeing a difference of opinion as an attack is laughable.
The thread was closed by a moderator, this is carrying on what you see as an argument, in itself is attacking.
The desperation for attention, triangulation, feeling attacked whilst actually launching an attack.
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We've been "swinging" far to long, not to be called swingers. Although we do work under sub catogrories too. Perverts, dirty barstwards, well that's Mr. Along with Stag, vixen, hot husband and probably a few more, that won't come to mind currently.
We have, 1on1's, couples, groups and moresomes. We play with every catogory, f, fm, m, tv, trans and gay fem.
Swinging is an fluid term in todays modern world. We've come miles away from keys in the bowl wife swapping. Swinging is whatever you make it. Yes, this is a sex site. However a lot of single men, need to get a 'swingers mindset'. It's not a free dail a shag site. Yes, we have sex for free. But you still have to put the effort in, both ways. |
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