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What's a question you hate being asked
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over a year ago
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I hate being asked if in interested in someone or not by the actual person.
If I answer yes they think they've got me and its all easy.
If I answer no then that's that a whole load of rejection and I feel rubbish for it.
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The problem with 1st-message single-line questions is they kind-of dump all the work in your lap:
u looking? or r u free? etc
..probably annoys me the most as it's kind-of presumptuous (ie it assumes It'd be for them) and I either have to outright lie ("sorry I'm not"), completely ignore (I find doing that a bit soul destroying after a while), or formulate something like "Well I am, but not really for you though I'm afraid x".
what u up 2?
..does annoy me a bit too, as it's kind of not their business (almost by default) - but someone pointed out that some people could be fishing for drug partners when they say this (be careful TV's and CD's, some druggies can lose their curiosity when they start come down!)
Regarding "what u into?" though
..I have a pretty big profile so I don't actually mind repeating this one! It's quite easy for me to send someone running in one quick line! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How's fab treating you?
What are you looking for?
Is my penis small?
Do you like big cocks?
Can I see your pics?
Car meet now? (Not sure if question or demand)
Can I ask you a question?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's your ultimate fantasy?
Apparently coming home to a hoovered carpet and dishes free sink is not the ultimate wank material. Every day a school day on here. |
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"Would you like to meet?" messages from straight guys when our profile clearly says you must be bi-curious at the very least if you want to play with us.
"Can you accommodate?" when our profile clearly says that we can't.
"Is Mistress there with you?" when our profile clearly says that we don't live in the same town.
Notice the common denominator here guys?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate it when I say your not my type and they reply what is your type? …… does it really matter!"
the good ol' ahh I'm actually that person you described
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate it when I say your not my type and they reply what is your type? …… does it really matter!the good ol' ahh I'm actually that person you described "
why bother asking….it’s not like you can change the way you look lol
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"I hate it when I say your not my type and they reply what is your type? …… does it really matter!"
--This is because if you feed them lines they can attempt to adapt to them!
I get it re my bdsm kinks when someone clearly knows almost nothing about it, but won't be deterred by my problems with that! They try to get me to detail certain things... so they can tell me well that's their big speciality! I've just learnt to see early when theyre chancing or not.
If you know what you want, follow your instinct and keep it simple like you say. |
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"I hate it when I say your not my type and they reply what is your type? …… does it really matter!the good ol' ahh I'm actually that person you described why bother asking….it’s not like you can change the way you look lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate messages with few words, like the 3 messages over the past couple of days from same person:
Hey x
U talk x
U not talk? X
I do talk and anyone who knows me knows what a total chatterbox I can be, but give me something to talk about first  |
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