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Attractive traits - negative outcomes.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay, I've been using this site now on and off for the last four years and a few times I have published my profile without pictures and had some really good conversations sharing interests and things I like doing or we like doing. (good connection very compatible) with a strong possibility of meeting up, telephone numbers exchanged, etc.
soon as they see my mug, my face pic. everything seems to go pear-shaped and they lose interest, Ghosting, etc.
I'm not searching for sympathy or the attempt to be more popular by meeting up. This is just a real example of what I have experienced and asking if anybody else has the same type of experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s an ‘occupational hazard’ of being on here. The first thing we generally here are bodies, often with genitals included free of charge.
What’s normally a mystery isn’t, immediately; so I think many will create a fantasy face to top off what they have seen and given the overall variation in faces is bigger than naughty bits (they’re all pretty much the same), the chance for your face to not fit the ‘fantasy’ is higher….and that is probably where it goes wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going to be blunt just one off my blunt days
And hate say it this way or brake in to you this way
But most of not anyone who is genuine
Isn’t really going to talk to a blank profile with no pics
What’s happened here
Is you more than likely been talking to someone who was just after a keyboard wank
Over interest they like or fantasy about
and probably had 0 intentions off meeting you at all
as I know my self I wouldn’t talk to a blank profile even if they pm me pics
As it wouldn’t even get that far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men are desperate to fill my wet hole yet they disappear when I send a pic.
They have some weird wank over the fact my friends pics are porn star hot then get sad when they realise they are not.  |
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This happened to us very early on our swinging career. We got chatting to a guy on another site over the weekend, for some reason that escapes me he couldn't send a face picture until Monday. We chatted a lot and swapped fantasies etc. Unfortunately when he sent photos the attraction wasn't there for me. He was disappointed obviously and we felt awful. Since then we always make it clear from the start that there will be no sex chat and no guarantee of anything more than friends even after we've met in person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This happened to us very early on our swinging career. We got chatting to a guy on another site over the weekend, for some reason that escapes me he couldn't send a face picture until Monday. We chatted a lot and swapped fantasies etc. Unfortunately when he sent photos the attraction wasn't there for me. He was disappointed obviously and we felt awful. Since then we always make it clear from the start that there will be no sex chat and no guarantee of anything more than friends even after we've met in person."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okay, I've been using this site now on and off for the last four years and a few times I have published my profile without pictures and had some really good conversations sharing interests and things I like doing or we like doing. (good connection very compatible) with a strong possibility of meeting up, telephone numbers exchanged, etc.
soon as they see my mug, my face pic. everything seems to go pear-shaped and they lose interest, Ghosting, etc.
I'm not searching for sympathy or the attempt to be more popular by meeting up. This is just a real example of what I have experienced and asking if anybody else has the same type of experience."
Some people here are into attractive people only , it's not you , it's just that's what they themselves want ,there is no hard and fast rule , you're damned if you do and damned if you don't , the main thing is not to take anything..and l mean anything here seriously..it's not good for you if you do , most on here are faceless strangers who you may never meet so enjoy yourself and have fun but the most important person here is yourself , don't ever forget that , whoever logs on here are the most important person in their lives . |
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"Okay, I've been using this site now on and off for the last four years and a few times I have published my profile without pictures and had some really good conversations sharing interests and things I like doing or we like doing. (good connection very compatible) with a strong possibility of meeting up, telephone numbers exchanged, etc.
soon as they see my mug, my face pic. everything seems to go pear-shaped and they lose interest, Ghosting, etc.
I'm not searching for sympathy or the attempt to be more popular by meeting up. This is just a real example of what I have experienced and asking if anybody else has the same type of experience.
Some people here are into attractive people only , it's not you , it's just that's what they themselves want ,there is no hard and fast rule , you're damned if you do and damned if you don't , the main thing is not to take anything..and l mean anything here seriously..it's not good for you if you do , most on here are faceless strangers who you may never meet so enjoy yourself and have fun but the most important person here is yourself , don't ever forget that , whoever logs on here are the most important person in their lives ."
I'm not easily offended, but I just curious if anybody else has experienced this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okay, I've been using this site now on and off for the last four years and a few times I have published my profile without pictures and had some really good conversations sharing interests and things I like doing or we like doing. (good connection very compatible) with a strong possibility of meeting up, telephone numbers exchanged, etc.
soon as they see my mug, my face pic. everything seems to go pear-shaped and they lose interest, Ghosting, etc.
I'm not searching for sympathy or the attempt to be more popular by meeting up. This is just a real example of what I have experienced and asking if anybody else has the same type of experience.
Some people here are into attractive people only , it's not you , it's just that's what they themselves want ,there is no hard and fast rule , you're damned if you do and damned if you don't , the main thing is not to take anything..and l mean anything here seriously..it's not good for you if you do , most on here are faceless strangers who you may never meet so enjoy yourself and have fun but the most important person here is yourself , don't ever forget that , whoever logs on here are the most important person in their lives . I'm not easily offended, but I just curious if anybody else has experienced this."
being rejected by strangers is like being hit in the face with a feather as long as it dont make you blind all is good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"o/p unfortunately women can afford to me more choosy. Just join in with forum/cam room chat and hope you get noticed. Good luck!"
"Unfortunately" !!
Men just fuck whoever offers. Might be dry dick for another 20 years. |
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