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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So asking advice. We have played with some lovely couples, and so far we've just been soft play. But we've begun to wonder as we will strike a conversation with a couple, swap face pics, we both like, we chat, suggest a meet they say ok, then go silent! So I wonder, do they realise we are only soft, and most swingers prefer full. Or do they wait to see if they will get a better offer? |
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Well you don't make it clear in your profile. I think it would be a useful piece of information to put in there. I don't know how soon you bring it up in a conversation, but it's certainly not obvious until you do, so yes I think people may not realise. |
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"Well you don't make it clear in your profile. I think it would be a useful piece of information to put in there. I don't know how soon you bring it up in a conversation, but it's certainly not obvious until you do, so yes I think people may not realise. "
 
Ideally put it as text over a pic of tits. Many people don't read profile text. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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We did have it on our profile, but I've just taken it off, ad thought maybe that was the problem. so I'll put it back. It did say we have been soft so far, but happy to go with the flow and full swap with right couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's best to be honest and upfront about things from the off. We aren't here for soft swap ourselves as we are here for the partner swapping and small group sex activities.  |
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