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Single male finding it tough on here
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Single male looking for bi couples, not had much success but consider myself straight up and reasonably in shape. Any advice to improve my success rate? |
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By *uysx2Couple (MM)
over a year ago
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"Single male looking for bi couples, not had much success but consider myself straight up and reasonably in shape. Any advice to improve my success rate?"
Try a swingers club. Honestly trying to get a meet online and going to a club is like the difference between night and day. Most of our meets come from mingling in clubs and making connections. |
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"Single male looking for bi couples, not had much success but consider myself straight up and reasonably in shape. Any advice to improve my success rate?"
You know in the pandemic there were stories of a job vacancy for a cafe that received 1000s of applications. That's what it's like on here. How is anyone meant to sift through that kind of volume... |
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Just grabbed this from another thread, where I wrote to someone about the benefits of using Browse/Search properly....
When you Search, make sure the people you have put aside to look at can see it is you who has looked at them (it's best to use a PC for this if you can I think) - remember though that woman here get a huge amount of looks! You might leave it at that for some people..
Others you might wink at (again women get a lot of winks) and some you might just say hi to (ditto).
At some point though you will feel the urge to write someone a proper message - spend some time on that, including it's heading (the thing they see in their email).
Also, women aren't so macho about not reading profiles, so spend some time on that too (it doesn't have to be huge like mine). Give a little of yourself, but always sound quietly confident.
A site supporter membership (if you can do it) can show you are serious too.
Of course if you don't want to show your face pic you can have a private one appear for a limited time in a message - that is much better than a cock pic to lots of women.
If you are single, say so.
Try and refrain from saying you are bored and such like, as it can make you sound a bit superficial and less serious about the site (and consequently any woman you might talk to) than is best to get someone's attention. There is a lot of competition on here!
Get the age range right - 18 to 99 sounds a but lazy like you are hedging your bets (unless you say why you've done it that is).
I don't know if any of this is suitable for you.-- |
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It’s hard however go on the forum chats regularly and update your status so that you get into the updates section. This will help show that your genuine and will help people get a better understanding of you, although your shy get into the clubs and get talking to people at the end of the day very few if any go to a club purely for social |
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maybe try other sites as well? Eggs in one basket n all that. 
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