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By *7345 OP Man
over a year ago
wakefield |
It’s never happened to me before!
Arranged to meet. Swapped photo’s. Discussed how the evening would go. Lots of chat. Took time to be totally ready for the evening. Make up on, dressed & looking lovely  .
Then blocked 30 minutes before they were due to arrive.
Why!!??   |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"It’s never happened to me before!
Arranged to meet. Swapped photo’s. Discussed how the evening would go. Lots of chat. Took time to be totally ready for the evening. Make up on, dressed & looking lovely .
Then blocked 30 minutes before they were due to arrive.
Why!!?? "
Loads of chat?
Online or over the phone?
A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I don't even get to meet half the people who agree. Always just left sat waiting alone. That or the chat just fades out without explanation.
Never used to happen a couple of years ago on a previous profile. More people tended to reply back then too even if it were just a no thank you.
Ahh to be back in the good old days |
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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
"It’s never happened to me before!
Arranged to meet. Swapped photo’s. Discussed how the evening would go. Lots of chat. Took time to be totally ready for the evening. Make up on, dressed & looking lovely .
Then blocked 30 minutes before they were due to arrive.
Why!!?? "
I'm so sorry this happened to you op it's never nice.
I had someone cancel on me while I was on my way to the meet once saying he was too tired and could we reschedule but turns out he went to a club instead and got multiple verifications so blocked him, keep your chin up and move on its the best thing to do |
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Because they lost their nerve
Because they never had any intention of meeting, it was only ever wank fodder for them
Who knows?
It happens daily, it's annoying I know but it's a downside of FAB try and forget about it and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s never happened to me before!
Arranged to meet. Swapped photo’s. Discussed how the evening would go. Lots of chat. Took time to be totally ready for the evening. Make up on, dressed & looking lovely .
Then blocked 30 minutes before they were due to arrive.
Why!!?? "
So many reasons but a message to cancel would be polite.  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
Sadly the fantasy of what they wanted to do was enough for them.
You learn to not share photos or sexually explicit messages with people too soon (if at all) otherwise they have a wank and fuck off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s never happened to me before!
Arranged to meet. Swapped photo’s. Discussed how the evening would go. Lots of chat. Took time to be totally ready for the evening. Make up on, dressed & looking lovely .
Then blocked 30 minutes before they were due to arrive.
Why!!?? "
Because they can and do ..not at all nice but that's life ..they can and do .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here’s the rub honey
Do you decide what the food will taste like before you go to a restaurant? The plot of a movie before you see it?
The moment that chat moved into a walkthrough of what you’d be wearing, how it would go, you found uourself in his inadequate wankerland. Next time a guy starts a detailed chat about how it’s gonna go cut to the chase and tell him to go finish that wank and block him.
Keep the chat on here don’t move it to WhatsApp kik etc that’s another red flag cause time wasters don’t want evidence on here.
Or stick to clubs. Which are better. |
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"Sadly the fantasy of what they wanted to do was enough for them.
You learn to not share photos or sexually explicit messages with people too soon (if at all) otherwise they have a wank and fuck off."
It's surprising the number of people who never seem to learn this at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel like if somebody wants to meet you, they will meet you. And not find excuses
Probably he was horny, stroked one out and the fantasy was more than enough for him.
At the end of the day, maybe you dodged a bullet x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always advice having a plan B that way not all is lost
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if plan A works out for you and you also have a plan B ..by having a plan B you also become a timewaster. |
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It's one of lifes great mysteries !! and with some it's the over promising and they bottle it or they are d*unk/horny when they arrange it and you can't win most times it seems !! we just try to be as honest as possible and have a proud record of only cancelling twice but seems in our area unless we undertake she'll be either semi naked/naked and 100% up for sex ....and we always arrange to meet in a pub/bar as then when they don't show up ( 90% of them don't with us ) we still go on and have a good night and have even picked up a male on 2 occasions and had some great fun xx |
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"I always advice having a plan B that way not all is lost
if plan A works out for you and you also have a plan B ..by having a plan B you also become a timewaster."
No if you let know to Plan B the all situation and if they agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sadly the fantasy of what they wanted to do was enough for them.
You learn to not share photos or sexually explicit messages with people too soon (if at all) otherwise they have a wank and fuck off.
It's surprising the number of people who never seem to learn this at all"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always advice having a plan B that way not all is lost
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I always have a plan B. Not another person, just something else to do.
Never had my time wasted. Never been stood up.  |
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"I always advice having a plan B that way not all is lost
I always have a plan B. Not another person, just something else to do.
Never had my time wasted. Never been stood up. "
I completely agree on that even if is something else . I have been on both sides and i think is not correct call or shame people as time wasters, just better trust your instincts and have that plan B |
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