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On a first message what would you like it to be
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So when you receive a first message from anyone on here what actually gets you thinking that's a nice person, or that's a horny person or that's just someone who hasn't even thought about the message..
I notice when I send one of my usual messages out about keep smiling don't change for anyone and always remember to stay happy sometimes I get a message back don't be patronising I don't know how that can be but I suppose we all have our own opinions on a certain message  |
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5 cock pictures from different angles, 1 needed to be over or by the loo, the profile needs to have no pictures, no veris, a 1 liner and the message MUST only be fancy a fuck..
A wink and friends request comes as standard  
Sorry,
humour, a little bit about themselves, what I'm looking for and respectful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it comes over as patronising. People got a lot to deal with right now, getting told to keep smiling by a complete stranger is patronising. Also if it’s your usual message that comes over too. People can tell when it’s a spray and pray message and most will just delete it.
Everyone is different of course but messages thet just say hi or whatever also get binned. Zero effort and a convo will just be painful.
Mention something on their profile.
Banter. But you gotta have good bants.
A shared interest.
Something they said in a forum.
Ask a genuine and interesting question.
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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I'd cringe if I received a message like that from someone who does know me. Don't change for anyone means nothing, when you don't actually know who I am or what I'm like. It's also meaningless when you send it to numerous people.
You've already had some great suggestions of what to include. My tip would be only send messages to people after reading their profile , if you fit what they are looking for. Introduce yourself and maybe say why you think you're suitable.. eg similar interests or what interested you in their profile. The key is to make it a personal message to them, showing you are interested in that person, not any woman will do  |
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