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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a thought triggered by a real life experience. Do you walk with condoms? Do you take condoms with you on dates?
I do not. I am not presumptuous enough to bring it with me to a date and also I genuinely don’t know a scenario in which I would need the condom when out? If we go back to either person’s home, I have condoms there and hope they would too (otherwise it’s a no brainier to leave anyway). WHAT IS THE THOUGHT PROCESS? HELP?!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always pop one in my pocket when I leave the house.
You never know  "
HELP! When you say you never know, you mean you might end up doing it in public? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The only time I ever go with condoms is if a play meet has been pre arranged or I'm heading to a club."
A CLUB! That makes sense! A club is a scenario I too would go out with one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always pop one in my pocket when I leave the house.
You never know
HELP! When you say you never know, you mean you might end up doing it in public? "
I was joking, soz  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always pop one in my pocket when I leave the house.
You never know
HELP! When you say you never know, you mean you might end up doing it in public?
I was joking, soz "
Oh, You!!!! Ok you got me there  |
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"Always pop one in my pocket when I leave the house.
You never know
HELP! When you say you never know, you mean you might end up doing it in public?
I was joking, soz
Oh, You!!!! Ok you got me there "
She keeps them in her bra instead |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I was younger I used to always carry them in my bag,not even necessarily for me but for anyone. I still always carry sanitary products and paracetamol incase anyone needs them."
Ok well this makes sense. I think? For a quickie in the loos? Sanitary products for others I get that. By the way you seem like a lovely lovely selfless person we need more people like you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always pop one in my pocket when I leave the house.
You never know
HELP! When you say you never know, you mean you might end up doing it in public?
I was joking, soz
Oh, You!!!! Ok you got me there
She keeps them in her bra instead "
I use them as nipple covers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always pop one in my pocket when I leave the house.
You never know
HELP! When you say you never know, you mean you might end up doing it in public?
I was joking, soz
Oh, You!!!! Ok you got me there
She keeps them in her bra instead "
nice and warm |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't walk many places 
I apologise my language wasn’t inclusive. But do you have condoms on you somewhere?
Nah, it's reet. I only take them somewhere if I think I need 'em..."
BUT WHERE :’( I’m stressed rn |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only if meeting (ha!), or going to a club
Club makes sense. But if you’re meeting at theirs, should they not have them??
Some clubs don't have them. Safe than sorry "
Yeah clubs I hear that. This makes sense. |
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"Always pop one in my pocket when I leave the house.
You never know
HELP! When you say you never know, you mean you might end up doing it in public?
I was joking, soz
Oh, You!!!! Ok you got me there
She keeps them in her bra instead
I use them as nipple covers "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it the porn scenario you secretly want to happen. You meet a stranger and fuck in a field? Or in their car? Or behind the bins? Or in the back of the taxi? |
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I always have a couple in my wallet.
Why not? They take up hardly any room and it saves me having to remember if I do go on a meet.
It'd be awful to go on one, then realise I've forgotten to bring any. |
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"No harm in taking one or ten just in case
now I KNOW you’re having me on
Jeez, it's that unbelievable I have sex?  
Why do you need 10 condoms when out "
Because you can get a whole 5 minutes use out them |
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"I don't walk many places
I apologise my language wasn’t inclusive. But do you have condoms on you somewhere?
Nah, it's reet. I only take them somewhere if I think I need 'em...
BUT WHERE :’( I’m stressed rn"
To the hotel where Mr KC and I will be on Saturday night? In my pocket to basketball for afterwards (long story). In my bag if visiting FWB (see previous for "after basketball" also). Etc. I have been known to bring them to work, but purely for educational purposes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always have a couple in my wallet.
Why not? They take up hardly any room and it saves me having to remember if I do go on a meet.
It'd be awful to go on one, then realise I've forgotten to bring any."
This is a fair point but I think it would be more awful to go to someone else’s house (for a meet) and they didn’t have condoms. Would be pretty off putting for me. I always have condoms at home |
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I don’t carry them on me on a day to day basis.
But if I am going on a meet. I would and that’s not being presumptuous. It’s always to be better safe than sorry
Or I could always blow some balloons |
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"Only if meeting (ha!), or going to a club
Club makes sense. But if you’re meeting at theirs, should they not have them?? "
No. How would they know which ones fit you best?
Take care of your own sexual health. |
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"It doesn't hurt to keep a few in wallet just in case PD, just in case WHAT?! HELP?!"
I have them just in case I need them at some point, you really never know what might happen when out and I really don't want to have to turn down Japanese twins again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't walk many places
I apologise my language wasn’t inclusive. But do you have condoms on you somewhere?
Nah, it's reet. I only take them somewhere if I think I need 'em...
BUT WHERE :’( I’m stressed rn
To the hotel where Mr KC and I will be on Saturday night? In my pocket to basketball for afterwards (long story). In my bag if visiting FWB (see previous for "after basketball" also). Etc. I have been known to bring them to work, but purely for educational purposes."
Ok hotels again is fair. I would carry them to a hotel. To my fwb’s place I wouldn’t. And if you need them for work I get that too. Lots of specific things here. Not sure you’d just leave it in your bag or wallet just in case you get lucky? |
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"I always have a couple in my wallet.
Why not? They take up hardly any room and it saves me having to remember if I do go on a meet.
It'd be awful to go on one, then realise I've forgotten to bring any.
This is a fair point but I think it would be more awful to go to someone else’s house (for a meet) and they didn’t have condoms. Would be pretty off putting for me. I always have condoms at home"
I'd never use someone else's condoms.
No idea how long they have had them, might be an uncomfortable fit, and that's a cosy I should bear.
Women have enough extra products they need to buy. |
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"I always have a couple in my wallet.
Why not? They take up hardly any room and it saves me having to remember if I do go on a meet.
It'd be awful to go on one, then realise I've forgotten to bring any.
This is a fair point but I think it would be more awful to go to someone else’s house (for a meet) and they didn’t have condoms. Would be pretty off putting for me. I always have condoms at home
I'd never use someone else's condoms.
No idea how long they have had them, might be an uncomfortable fit, and that's a cosy I should bear.
Women have enough extra products they need to buy."
* a cost I should bear |
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"I don't walk many places
I apologise my language wasn’t inclusive. But do you have condoms on you somewhere?
Nah, it's reet. I only take them somewhere if I think I need 'em...
BUT WHERE :’( I’m stressed rn
To the hotel where Mr KC and I will be on Saturday night? In my pocket to basketball for afterwards (long story). In my bag if visiting FWB (see previous for "after basketball" also). Etc. I have been known to bring them to work, but purely for educational purposes.
Ok hotels again is fair. I would carry them to a hotel. To my fwb’s place I wouldn’t. And if you need them for work I get that too. Lots of specific things here. Not sure you’d just leave it in your bag or wallet just in case you get lucky?"
I don't do just randomly getting lucky, it's not in our "deal". I take 'em to my FWB because I don't do well with latex and prefer Skyns... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only if meeting (ha!), or going to a club
Club makes sense. But if you’re meeting at theirs, should they not have them??
No. How would they know which ones fit you best?
Take care of your own sexual health. "
The fit is a fair point. Can’t argue with you on that.
I would still expect them to have condoms though even if I brought some because not having them in your home for a meet feels very presumptuous. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always have a couple in my wallet.
Why not? They take up hardly any room and it saves me having to remember if I do go on a meet.
It'd be awful to go on one, then realise I've forgotten to bring any.
This is a fair point but I think it would be more awful to go to someone else’s house (for a meet) and they didn’t have condoms. Would be pretty off putting for me. I always have condoms at home
I'd never use someone else's condoms.
No idea how long they have had them, might be an uncomfortable fit, and that's a cosy I should bear.
Women have enough extra products they need to buy."
I hear you from this perspective. I guess in my experience women buying condoms isn’t that deep to them. Most of my friends that are women buy them and partners of mine do too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t carry them all the time though i do always have some at home and i carry them if going to a planned meet or club plus i use them on my toys while using them on myself or others and toys also get thoroughly cleaned after use |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always carry some in my jacket pocket "
Tbf if I looked like you same because I’d probably be confident I could get lucky on a walk to little Tesco |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It doesn't hurt to keep a few in wallet just in case PD, just in case WHAT?! HELP?!
I have them just in case I need them at some point, you really never know what might happen when out and I really don't want to have to turn down Japanese twins again "
By the way this made me genuinely laugh out loud |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Only if meeting (ha!), or going to a club
Club makes sense. But if you’re meeting at theirs, should they not have them??
No. How would they know which ones fit you best?
Take care of your own sexual health.
The fit is a fair point. Can’t argue with you on that.
I would still expect them to have condoms though even if I brought some because not having them in your home for a meet feels very presumptuous. "
Why chance ribbed for her pleasure , over a nice durex thin feel, it’s a no brainier |
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"Only if meeting (ha!), or going to a club
Club makes sense. But if you’re meeting at theirs, should they not have them??
No. How would they know which ones fit you best?
Take care of your own sexual health.
The fit is a fair point. Can’t argue with you on that.
I would still expect them to have condoms though even if I brought some because not having them in your home for a meet feels very presumptuous. "
Expecting the person you are meeting to have them for you, also feels presumptuous to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Context is on a first date I left out without condoms and got told off when invited back to hers. I said to her well I had not presumed to have sex. And even when we went back to hers - she came onto me, I was expecting to chill for a bit then dip home. (Maybe I was a bit innocent here). Anyway I said if I don’t take condoms out because I expect people (that are dating) to have condoms at home because I do.
By the way genuinely until doing this thread I would never have sex with someone that didn’t have condoms in their house but maybe that’s me being a bit harsh? Maybe a bit of the patriarchy at play too? But I’m learning so thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Only if meeting (ha!), or going to a club
Club makes sense. But if you’re meeting at theirs, should they not have them??
No. How would they know which ones fit you best?
Take care of your own sexual health.
The fit is a fair point. Can’t argue with you on that.
I would still expect them to have condoms though even if I brought some because not having them in your home for a meet feels very presumptuous.
Expecting the person you are meeting to have them for you, also feels presumptuous to me. "
Yes it is because in that context (arrange to meet at theirs for sex) I’m presuming sex. By presumptuous here I meant - that I would be ok with sex without a condom. Which some people are - I am not. Sorry if I wasn’t clear there |
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"It doesn't hurt to keep a few in wallet just in case PD, just in case WHAT?! HELP?!
I have them just in case I need them at some point, you really never know what might happen when out and I really don't want to have to turn down Japanese twins again
By the way this made me genuinely laugh out loud "
It's good to laugh |
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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago
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I don’t keep condoms in my house at all.
I also don’t bring blokes back to my house though unless I’m in a relationship with them and if I’m in a relationship with them then the chances are pretty low on using Condoms anyway.
I’d presume the bloke had condoms and knew what fitted him better then what I could buy. |
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No, I don't, unless a planned meet/meet. But in general, always feels a bit odd to me too (this will sound more offensive than I mean it to, so apologies on advance, but always feels a bit "Inbetweeners" to me - the youthful bravado that we all need them at a moment's notice).
I figure the chances of an unexpected hook-up are low and even if it did happen, we'll either be heading home (where they already are) or there will be shops en route to hers if need be! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t keep condoms in my house at all.
I also don’t bring blokes back to my house though unless I’m in a relationship with them and if I’m in a relationship with them then the chances are pretty low on using Condoms anyway.
I’d presume the bloke had condoms and knew what fitted him better then what I could buy. "
Yeah this is a perspective I hadn’t considered to be fair which a gent pointed out. About fit. In terms of the inviting back to yours I guess yeah if you ever did invite him back since reading other perspectives, it’s fair to assume he should have them. |
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"Just a thought triggered by a real life experience. Do you walk with condoms? Do you take condoms with you on dates?
I do not. I am not presumptuous enough to bring it with me to a date and also I genuinely don’t know a scenario in which I would need the condom when out? If we go back to either person’s home, I have condoms there and hope they would too (otherwise it’s a no brainier to leave anyway). WHAT IS THE THOUGHT PROCESS? HELP?! "
I've still got the first one purchased age 16.
I reckon one day I'll get an opportunity to use it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No, I don't, unless a planned meet/meet. But in general, always feels a bit odd to me too (this will sound more offensive than I mean it to, so apologies on advance, but always feels a bit "Inbetweeners" to me - the youthful bravado that we all need them at a moment's notice).
I figure the chances of an unexpected hook-up are low and even if it did happen, we'll either be heading home (where they already are) or there will be shops en route to hers if need be! "
Funnily enough I thought about the inbetweeners when talking to someone about it before. For reasons that you mention.
I think I have the same perspective as you but will say the thread has made me think differently about it. Not good to be closed minded and all that |
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No I don’t. I don’t have any at home either as I don’t accommodate.
If meeting and he didn’t have any then that would be the end of the meet. I had someone try that once, said he ‘forgot’ to pick some up. So I went to get dressed and then amazingly he found them…by then the mood was killed. |
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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago
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"Nope because I shag BARE bitches.. living on the wild side. bare as in a lot or bare as in bareback. I read this as a lot. "
Maybe best to cover all bases and assume it’s ‘bare bare bare bitches’…..so lots of unprotected sex with naked nasty lesbians.
Although that negates the needs for condoms. Perhaps suspicious balloons add to the ambience…… 
Anyhoo, I used to carry them with my in my single days. Now I’d only for a confirmed meet or club night. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No I don’t. I don’t have any at home either as I don’t accommodate.
If meeting and he didn’t have any then that would be the end of the meet. I had someone try that once, said he ‘forgot’ to pick some up. So I went to get dressed and then amazingly he found them…by then the mood was killed."
A man not having them at his place is a major red flag for sure. |
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"No, I don't, unless a planned meet/meet. But in general, always feels a bit odd to me too (this will sound more offensive than I mean it to, so apologies on advance, but always feels a bit "Inbetweeners" to me - the youthful bravado that we all need them at a moment's notice).
I figure the chances of an unexpected hook-up are low and even if it did happen, we'll either be heading home (where they already are) or there will be shops en route to hers if need be!
Funnily enough I thought about the inbetweeners when talking to someone about it before. For reasons that you mention.
I think I have the same perspective as you but will say the thread has made me think differently about it. Not good to be closed minded and all that "
Of course, the mind is never closed! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nope because I shag BARE bitches.. living on the wild side. bare as in a lot or bare as in bareback. I read this as a lot.
Maybe best to cover all bases and assume it’s ‘bare bare bare bitches’…..so lots of unprotected sex with naked nasty lesbians.
Although that negates the needs for condoms. Perhaps suspicious balloons add to the ambience……
Anyhoo, I used to carry them with my in my single days. Now I’d only for a confirmed meet or club night."
. And yes I hear it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never. The chances of me having an unexpected shag are virtually non existent
Omg same. Friends.  "
Also I don’t care about sex enough to entertain unexpected shags. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always, never assume the other person will have them. "
lesson learned. And at the age of just 24. I’m going to be wise by the time I’m 30 thanks to this site.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t have sex regular enough for that. When my average time between shags gets below two years then I may carry one on me. Just in case! "
Nah 2 years is pretty regular I think. Sex doesn’t happen more regularly than that despite what the people will have you believe. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always have a box of them in the car, you just never know if you're going to bump into a few friends and if you ever got caught in flood water they are more useful than spanners."
Really? That’s interesting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always wear steel toe caps
Ok noted. But why again?
So when your dancing with a hot d*unk lady and she stands on your toes your protected
#Wise"
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"I don’t have sex regular enough for that. When my average time between shags gets below two years then I may carry one on me. Just in case!
Nah 2 years is pretty regular I think. Sex doesn’t happen more regularly than that despite what the people will have you believe. "
Every 2yrs is regular, just infrequent. We have regular meteor showers, that happen once a century or whatever. Regular, but infrequent |
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"also I genuinely don’t know a scenario in which I would need the condom when out? "
What if you're getting chased by something really scary and the only way to escape is by swimming scross a river? You'll need something to waterproof your expensive personal belongings, THAT'S where a condom comes in 
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"Just a thought triggered by a real life experience. Do you walk with condoms? Do you take condoms with you on dates?
I do not. I am not presumptuous enough to bring it with me to a date and also I genuinely don’t know a scenario in which I would need the condom when out? If we go back to either person’s home, I have condoms there and hope they would too (otherwise it’s a no brainier to leave anyway). WHAT IS THE THOUGHT PROCESS? HELP?! "
I always take condoms and lube on a date. It’s for my own safety. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh, I almost always have a condom or two with me... they randomly resurface in pockets of bags when I am looking for a hair band...
On a more serious note, condoms can be used as a make-shift face mask when performing CPR. That stops you getting vomit in your mouth when giving the kiss of life. So if your ever in a first aid situation and someones performing CPR, be a darling and offer them that out-of-date condom you've been carrying around!  |
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"Just a thought triggered by a real life experience. Do you walk with condoms? Do you take condoms with you on dates?
I do not. I am not presumptuous enough to bring it with me to a date and also I genuinely don’t know a scenario in which I would need the condom when out? If we go back to either person’s home, I have condoms there and hope they would too (otherwise it’s a no brainier to leave anyway). WHAT IS THE THOUGHT PROCESS? HELP?! "
We both have condoms on us all the time. If you don’t need them that’s fine. If you do need them then you’ll be grateful you’ve got them. You don’t want to be in a situation of needing them and not having them, then compromising your safety or missing out on fun. |
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When I was a teenager/early 20s I wouldn't go for a night out without one. Because part of a night out was chatting up women before everyone used the Internet for dating and/or promiscuous sex. Because simply you never knew where the night would end up or who bed you'd be in (most women don't have a machine in their bedroom).
Then in later years when I was dating and going on meets I would also carry one. Same philosophy to be prepared because you never know how things would pan out. By no means a statement of intent. I expect a social to be a social. However in my experience when the chemistry is right a date or a social can get a bit heated and your glad you came prepared. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In my bag, just in case. People flirt a lot"
I always wear a condom when I’m flirting. In case she accidentally ends up falling into my penis. It happens |
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I have condoms at home, but i would expect a guy to bring them with him as he knows what fits him best. It is a red flag for me if they dont bring any. I do also have a couple which just live discretely in my bag. Better to have them and not need them and all that x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have condoms at home, but i would expect a guy to bring them with him as he knows what fits him best. It is a red flag for me if they dont bring any. I do also have a couple which just live discretely in my bag. Better to have them and not need them and all that x"
I’ll bring some don’t worry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always carried a couple in my handbag - earlier years as a Fab member, the amount of fellas that said they didn't have any condoms whether at theirs (or other venue) was educational.
Since the first fella who said they didn't have any (and it was his home!), I was taking no chances nor assumed anything was going to happen, just protecting myself. We've all got a responsibility. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did until recently, because I looked at it and it was out of date. Though I tend to carry them for more than one reason; condoms can carry up to five litres of water, so if, in the unfortunate event something should happen, I'm in a survival situation while hiking, I have a vessel that can carry a large amount of water
The more you know * |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"I did until recently, because I looked at it and it was out of date. Though I tend to carry them for more than one reason; condoms can carry up to five litres of water, so if, in the unfortunate event something should happen, I'm in a survival situation while hiking, I have a vessel that can carry a large amount of water
The more you know *"
Very Bear Grylls  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like a knife no I don’t it’s illegal
Nor me. They search people like me for them all the time . "
dodgy geezer I bet you walk down the road with a staffie blazing a spliff too x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like a knife no I don’t it’s illegal
Nor me. They search people like me for them all the time . dodgy geezer I bet you walk down the road with a staffie blazing a spliff too x "
Obvs |
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"You should always have condoms for protection but just remember they are not 100% safe… my friend was wearing one and got ran over by a bus "
Ran over while wearing a condom? Golly. Was his old chap okay?!  |
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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago
Bath |
"I don’t keep condoms in my house at all.
I also don’t bring blokes back to my house though unless I’m in a relationship with them and if I’m in a relationship with them then the chances are pretty low on using Condoms anyway.
I’d presume the bloke had condoms and knew what fitted him better then what I could buy.
Yeah this is a perspective I hadn’t considered to be fair which a gent pointed out. About fit. In terms of the inviting back to yours I guess yeah if you ever did invite him back since reading other perspectives, it’s fair to assume he should have them. "
If it’s a ‘meet’ date from here that will end in sex then I will always but some but at least twice the guy has said they won’t fit and he had his own. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t keep condoms in my house at all.
I also don’t bring blokes back to my house though unless I’m in a relationship with them and if I’m in a relationship with them then the chances are pretty low on using Condoms anyway.
I’d presume the bloke had condoms and knew what fitted him better then what I could buy.
Yeah this is a perspective I hadn’t considered to be fair which a gent pointed out. About fit. In terms of the inviting back to yours I guess yeah if you ever did invite him back since reading other perspectives, it’s fair to assume he should have them.
If it’s a ‘meet’ date from here that will end in sex then I will always but some but at least twice the guy has said they won’t fit and he had his own. "
Tbf when I’ve worn uncomfortable ones I have just kind of tried to firm it but also tbf I usually have partners round to mine so have my own. On a first date date (not fab) which my experience was I didn’t really want to go out with condoms and tbh I probably wouldn’t have sex on a first date again after the experience anyway. |
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"I did until recently, because I looked at it and it was out of date. Though I tend to carry them for more than one reason; condoms can carry up to five litres of water, so if, in the unfortunate event something should happen, I'm in a survival situation while hiking, I have a vessel that can carry a large amount of water
The more you know *
Very Bear Grylls "
I prefer Ray Meara. My body is definitely closer to his anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i know I’m going out to meet someone then yeah I’ll have a condom in my pocket but not if I’m just going shopping
If i do meet someone randomly without any protection then its just a social or light fumble and save the main event for another time.. |
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
Midlands |
"Took the car to get some new tyres last week and told the guy the lock nut was in the glove box, forget there was about 40 condoms floating around in there. Oops. "
a whole lot of wasted money |
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"I always have a couple in my wallet.
Why not? They take up hardly any room and it saves me having to remember if I do go on a meet.
It'd be awful to go on one, then realise I've forgotten to bring any."
This. Always a good idea to have a couple! I've lost count of the guys who "forgot" to bring anything. |
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"Only if meeting (ha!), or going to a club
Club makes sense. But if you’re meeting at theirs, should they not have them??
No. How would they know which ones fit you best?
Take care of your own sexual health. "
True although (pre covid) when we had it play meets, we keep some here as well to show we’ve considered it (along with lube etc) 
Millie |
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"I always carry some in my jacket pocket "
Good to know haha
Always carried one in my bag until literally weekend emptying content for night out come across a very battered out of date one which I expect the draw I house them in are probably the same |
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That's my Weapon of Choice 
... 10 ..?! How long do you plan on being out (or in)? 
Jo thought I had something planned and got a little excited 