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What' your biggest worry when going on a meet?
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Never worry about a meet I've always got a plan b for if they dont
Turn. Up. And am confident enough
To have a successful meet if they do .but i wouldn't meet anyone I'd not got a meeting of minds with first and the knowledge for both what will happen. Next .
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over a year ago
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"What's your biggest worry when going to a meet or social get together?
Good evening all."
Feeling awkward when you get there and there not being any chemistry |
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over a year ago
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Mmmm Id worry if they had no chat despite decent banter online or that they portrayed themselves completely different to how they appeared to be online Or they were simply an absolute nutcase and my safety compromised. |
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"They’re nothing like their pics…
I've had this before, he had quite obviously lied about his age on his profile as well  "
Eurghhhh I don’t understand why people do this knowing they’re going to be rumbled in person. It’s grim |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
I’m actually sat in my car, waiting for a social meet.
I worry about all-sorts before a meet. I do always tell myself that the nerves are exquisite in a weird way, and very much part of the fun.
It works most of the time  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That he won't like me
I imagine that that has not happened.
Why? No-one can be everyone's cup of tea. And yes it has happened!  "
I think rejection and safety are massive for me, you know what happens if he says sorry your not my type….. and safety is massive for me too |
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At a group social, that it'll be noisy and my tinnitus will make it difficult to hear people. I end up sat there smiling and nodding with no idea what I've just been asked.
At an individual social, if I don't know the person, I worry about just why the hell they are even interested in me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably stilted conversation and me having to ramble my way through the whole experience. I never worry about people not showing up as I would just use the time to do something else like shopping or the cinema. If it was in a bar, I’d have a pint and then get on with the rest of my day |
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"They’ll turn up.
This!
Or there address is real"
I’ve had that, drove an hour and knocked in the door and a little old lady answered 
I messaged them and they forgot they had just moved and gave me another address. Fuck this - Blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way. "
Same 
I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo
This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.
Same
I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo
This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it "
But is that likely to happen in Costa?
Yo-Sushi, maybe........
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"Only that they better look like their pictures or even better "
We've covered that in our profile
"Oh, and I should mention, if we meet you and you don't look like your pics you are buying the drinks until you do" |
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"What's your biggest worry when going to a meet or social get together?
Good evening all."
I don’t usually have any worries about a first time meet, social or otherwise. By that point, I’ve built a bit of a rapport through messages, and like to have had a phone chat (best way to find out if someone is genuine, and serious about meeting).
On the day though, they get 20 minutes to be late, then I’m out of there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.
Same
I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo
This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it
But is that likely to happen in Costa?
Yo-Sushi, maybe........
A"
It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.
Same
I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo
This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it
But is that likely to happen in Costa?
Yo-Sushi, maybe........
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It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die "
If others are staring why not ask if they want to join in. Gang bangs don’t happen by themselves |
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"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.
Same
I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo
This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it
But is that likely to happen in Costa?
Yo-Sushi, maybe........
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It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die "
If there’s anything I’ve learned in my time, it’s that lots of guys have an amazing ability to turn all that weird shit off in public and really save it for in private. The most normal guys can really change once the doors close.
It’s one thing I think guys take for granted. You meet a girl and even worse case scenario you just walk out the door. |
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"Never worry about a meet I've always got a plan b for if they dont
Turn. Up. And am confident enough
To have a successful meet if they do .but i wouldn't meet anyone I'd not got a meeting of minds with first and the knowledge for both what will happen. Next .
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I'm exactly the same i always have a plan B |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.
Same
I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo
This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it
But is that likely to happen in Costa?
Yo-Sushi, maybe........
A
It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die "
Yep.
But that's as likely to happen meeting someone IRL too.
The only solution is to stay at home and get a fuck ton of sex toys delivered monthly for the rest of your life.
Any human contact runs the risk of you encountering a psycho.
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"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.
Same
I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo
This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it
But is that likely to happen in Costa?
Yo-Sushi, maybe........
A
It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die
Yep.
But that's as likely to happen meeting someone IRL too.
The only solution is to stay at home and get a fuck ton of sex toys delivered monthly for the rest of your life.
Any human contact runs the risk of you encountering a psycho.
A"
As long as the delivery driver isn’t a serial killer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.
Same
I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo
This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it
But is that likely to happen in Costa?
Yo-Sushi, maybe........
A
It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die
Yep.
But that's as likely to happen meeting someone IRL too.
The only solution is to stay at home and get a fuck ton of sex toys delivered monthly for the rest of your life.
Any human contact runs the risk of you encountering a psycho.
A"
A’s got jokes and a hotwife.. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
That they won't understand that coffee or "a drink" or in exceptional circumstances "an ice cream" is actually not code for "all the sexy shenanigans" and get moody when they don't get their dick wet. |
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"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.
Same
I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo
This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it
But is that likely to happen in Costa?
Yo-Sushi, maybe........
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It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die
If there’s anything I’ve learned in my time, it’s that lots of guys have an amazing ability to turn all that weird shit off in public and really save it for in private. The most normal guys can really change once the doors close.
It’s one thing I think guys take for granted. You meet a girl and even worse case scenario you just walk out the door."
This is very true. |
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"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.
Same
I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo
This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it I agree you say this but mine is the same hoping that the couple don’t ruphe me and wake up with my arehole spread my fear for me lol
But is that likely to happen in Costa?
Yo-Sushi, maybe........
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It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die
If there’s anything I’ve learned in my time, it’s that lots of guys have an amazing ability to turn all that weird shit off in public and really save it for in private. The most normal guys can really change once the doors close.
It’s one thing I think guys take for granted. You meet a girl and even worse case scenario you just walk out the door.
This is very true. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.
Same
I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo
This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it
But is that likely to happen in Costa?
Yo-Sushi, maybe........
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It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die
If there’s anything I’ve learned in my time, it’s that lots of guys have an amazing ability to turn all that weird shit off in public and really save it for in private. The most normal guys can really change once the doors close.
It’s one thing I think guys take for granted. You meet a girl and even worse case scenario you just walk out the door."
This is what puts me off!
I’ve also had a few messages where I’ve thought it was going well, they’ve seemed nice and normal, I’ve had intentions to meet, they ask to meet, I say “I can’t that week, I’m away/working” etc. they’ve seen it as a blow off and absolutely lost their shit!
I was going to meet that guy!
And let me tell you, they had happened more than once! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's your biggest worry when going to a meet or social get together?"
Have i got the right address? will any of neighbours recognise me? will the people I’m meeting even open the door?
All that makes me really anxious |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Personal safety. "
People have a personal responsibility to ensure their own safety and well being.
While I may make it abundantly clear up front we like certain things, it doesn’t reduce the risks for them or us.
We do what we can to try and alleviate peoples concerns. |
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