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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?

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By *yron69Man  over a year ago

Fareham

They just get uppity if you’ve got cold hands..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?"

Maybe it’s not that men want to have sex with them, maybe it’s the way they are spoken to or propositioned?

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

Are you saying women always get angry when you try and have sex ? Is this consensual sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't, I take it as a compliment

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

I can't say I've ever been angry when my partner wants to have sex with me.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

In previous relationships I've had this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Eh, what?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Angry? Can’t say I ever have J x

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry "
not on here. I don't approach women on here anymore its a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry

I agree"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry "

Agreed

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By *eavenscentitCouple  over a year ago

barnstaple


"In previous relationships I've had this"

Have you asked them ?

I got "uppity" with my ex husband because sex was the only thing he wanted to participate in. I was exhausted by small children, the dog, work and housekeeping.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What are you doing to them??

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

I think the closest I can think of was an ex who would mildly irritate me because his idea of initiating sex was to rub himself against my back in bed and he was also quite hairy so it was like getting scrubbed with a brillo pad .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?"

Maybe you ask at the wrong time.

There are certain times of the month where a man only needs to look at me and I want to rip his head off and shit down the hole....But then I cry and just want a cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are you saying women always get angry when you try and have sex ? Is this consensual sex ? "

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry "
lol how can you make that statement without having any context?

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By *nnasHammerCouple  over a year ago

The Upside Down


"I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry "

Male half here. Have to agree with this. If a women gets angry with you about asking for sex, then it probably says a lot more about you than them. As you stated that it’s happened in previous relationships (plural) then your approach isn’t working... unless you’re one of those guys that can’t take no for an answer and then get pushy. Do you get on the defensive when you get rejected?? In that instance, they have every right to get angry at you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry lol how can you make that statement without having any context?"

You said that in previous relationships your partners became angry when you tried to have sex with them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?

Maybe it’s not that men want to have sex with them, maybe it’s the way they are spoken to or propositioned? "

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry lol how can you make that statement without having any context?

You said that in previous relationships your partners became angry when you tried to have sex with them"

well what do you think I was doing walking up shouting "oi sex now"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Generally guys don't want sex with you, they just want sex.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In previous relationships I've had this

Have you asked them ?

I got "uppity" with my ex husband because sex was the only thing he wanted to participate in. I was exhausted by small children, the dog, work and housekeeping. "

If..if ...that was the case then you were with the wrong person there is a reason why he's your " ex " and maybe that is it , that's why it is so important to connect on a mental wavelength if it done then so much does not come into it .

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why? "

No

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why? "

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Generally guys don't want sex with you, they just want sex.

"

If you are with the right person you both want sex with each other , it's the ultimate way of expression.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

No"

can you explain further?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Generally guys don't want sex with you, they just want sex.

If you are with the right person you both want sex with each other , it's the ultimate way of expression."

It's the ultimate way of getting off.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

"

can you explain further?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

can you explain further?"

Sex everyday, as often as possible? We aren't living in a porn film.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If a woman feels sexy or is made to feel sexy on the whole she is receptive to sexual advances, this goes beyond the moment a guy fancies a bit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why? "

No

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

can you explain further?

Sex everyday, as often as possible? We aren't living in a porn film. "

This is awkward…..

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

can you explain further?

Sex everyday, as often as possible? We aren't living in a porn film. "

ahh see this is exactly what I'm saying. You're getting aggressive just talking about it. Personally I'd take it as a compliment if after so many years my partner still found me that attractive to want to have sex everyday

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

can you explain further?"

Sex begets sex .. the more you get the more you want, usually.

It shouldn't make you angry.

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By *orthern StarsCouple  over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

I'd say if that happens then the relationship isn't right.

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

Nocan you explain further?"

I don't really understand what there is to explain.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?

Maybe it’s not that men want to have sex with them, maybe it’s the way they are spoken to or propositioned? "

Nice tits.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

Nocan you explain further?

I don't really understand what there is to explain. "

explain why you said no

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

can you explain further?

Sex begets sex .. the more you get the more you want, usually.

It shouldn't make you angry. "

Ok sorry, yes please I want sex, every day..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?

Maybe it’s not that men want to have sex with them, maybe it’s the way they are spoken to or propositioned?

Nice tits."

Cheers Jim

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?

Maybe it’s not that men want to have sex with them, maybe it’s the way they are spoken to or propositioned? "

Completely this

It seems the art of conversing in a grown up and respectful manner is lost on many these days.

Also is the ability to take a polite no seems lost to many also

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"If a woman feels sexy or is made to feel sexy on the whole she is receptive to sexual advances, this goes beyond the moment a guy fancies a bit "

This is a good point actually but I think it goes further than this. Its both when they make you feel sexy and desirable but also when his desire is also focused around wanting to pleasure me rather than just them being horny and wanting to get off.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If a woman feels sexy or is made to feel sexy on the whole she is receptive to sexual advances, this goes beyond the moment a guy fancies a bit

This is a good point actually but I think it goes further than this. Its both when they make you feel sexy and desirable but also when his desire is also focused around wanting to pleasure me rather than just them being horny and wanting to get off. "

Totally

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

Nocan you explain further?

I don't really understand what there is to explain. explain why you said no"

Because my partner wanting to have sex every day as much as possible wouldn't make me angry and I can't imagine why it would.

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By *eavenscentitCouple  over a year ago

barnstaple


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

can you explain further?

Sex everyday, as often as possible? We aren't living in a porn film. ahh see this is exactly what I'm saying. You're getting aggressive just talking about it. Personally I'd take it as a compliment if after so many years my partner still found me that attractive to want to have sex everyday "

We have to accept our partners may not want the same at the same time.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Generally guys don't want sex with you, they just want sex.

If you are with the right person you both want sex with each other , it's the ultimate way of expression.

It's the ultimate way of getting off. "

But you both want it ..it's simple.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina "

*warning*

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By *ellinever70Woman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why? "

It would probably annoy me intensely

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

I hate when they treat me like a piece of meat.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd say if that happens then the relationship isn't right."

Now you're talking .. absolutely.. totally agree.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

*warning*

This thread contains product placement ads."

gotta sell yourself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

*warning*

This thread contains product placement ads.gotta sell yourself "

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

can you explain further?

Sex everyday, as often as possible? We aren't living in a porn film. ahh see this is exactly what I'm saying. You're getting aggressive just talking about it. Personally I'd take it as a compliment if after so many years my partner still found me that attractive to want to have sex everyday

We have to accept our partners may not want the same at the same time."

True but wanting it is different to hassling for it. Just because you want it doesn't mean it will be an issue for you if your partner doesn't. Sometimes we both want it but we're too tired .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think if a partner was asking every day, it might get a bit annoying but I wouldn’t be angry.

If they were asking multiple times a day, that would definitely be annoying.

If they were harassing me for it multiple times a day then that would definitely be very annoying and eventually I would get angry.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple  over a year ago

chester


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why? "

It wouldn’t make me angry, no. If you’re turned down in this hypothetical situation, do you get a bit mardy? This vexes your partner & a war breaks out?

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By *nnasHammerCouple  over a year ago

The Upside Down


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

*warning*

This thread contains product placement ads.gotta sell yourself "

Surely your veris should do that... oh wait!

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham

If I'm sitting there trying to watch the Lost Boys and eat snacks and a woman is rubbing her vagina on me, it probably would annoy me after a while.

You need someone with a compatible sex drive. I was with a nymph once and the fucking became like a job.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina "

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all!

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"I think if a partner was asking every day, it might get a bit annoying but I wouldn’t be angry.

If they were asking multiple times a day, that would definitely be annoying.

If they were harassing me for it multiple times a day then that would definitely be very annoying and eventually I would get angry."

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham


"If I'm sitting there trying to watch the Lost Boys and eat snacks and a woman is rubbing her vagina on me, it probably would annoy me after a while.

You need someone with a compatible sex drive. I was with a nymph once and the fucking became like a job. "

So I imagine that's how your previous women have felt if you're looking to do it every day as often as possible

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! "

lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I'm sitting there trying to watch the Lost Boys and eat snacks and a woman is rubbing her vagina on me, it probably would annoy me after a while.

You need someone with a compatible sex drive. I was with a nymph once and the fucking became like a job. "

Do women often rub their vaginas on your interrupting your Lost Boys viewing?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina "

This is off putting in itself. I’m not a task that needs to be achieved.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter"

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

*warning*

This thread contains product placement ads.gotta sell yourself

Surely your veris should do that... oh wait! "

I've only had one genuine meet request and I could make it. The rest are just people looking to see my friends pics probably men pretending tobe wonen

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham


"If I'm sitting there trying to watch the Lost Boys and eat snacks and a woman is rubbing her vagina on me, it probably would annoy me after a while.

You need someone with a compatible sex drive. I was with a nymph once and the fucking became like a job.

Do women often rub their vaginas on your interrupting your Lost Boys viewing? "

My snail trail dry cleaning bill is insane.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

This is off putting in itself. I’m not a task that needs to be achieved.

"

so you don't a man who wants to satisfy you?

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me."

that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

This is off putting in itself. I’m not a task that needs to be achieved.

so you don't a man who wants to satisfy you? "

Of course, but not if he’s on some kind of mission. It should be organic, flow, be natural.

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By *nnasHammerCouple  over a year ago

The Upside Down


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

*warning*

This thread contains product placement ads.gotta sell yourself

Surely your veris should do that... oh wait! I've only had one genuine meet request and I could make it. The rest are just people looking to see my friends pics probably men pretending tobe wonen"

Only one after 8 months on the site?? Do you not do cam chats with people?? It’s a good way to confirm they’re genuine. Maybe get yourself to some socials and meet people there. It’s better than hiding behind the site. You may find the nymph you’re looking for that way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because some expect you to be sitting around dolled up just waiting on a message like some sort off free escort

Some think it’s acceptable to not even say hello just lead out with dirty things

Some think it’s acceptable to expect you to hop in a taxi at 2am in the morning and go to theres

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By *orthern StarsCouple  over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel


"If I'm sitting there trying to watch the Lost Boys and eat snacks and a woman is rubbing her vagina on me, it probably would annoy me after a while.

You need someone with a compatible sex drive. I was with a nymph once and the fucking became like a job.

Do women often rub their vaginas on your interrupting your Lost Boys viewing?

My snail trail dry cleaning bill is insane. "

.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

*warning*

This thread contains product placement ads.gotta sell yourself

Surely your veris should do that... oh wait! I've only had one genuine meet request and I could make it. The rest are just people looking to see my friends pics probably men pretending tobe wonen

Only one after 8 months on the site?? Do you not do cam chats with people?? It’s a good way to confirm they’re genuine. Maybe get yourself to some socials and meet people there. It’s better than hiding behind the site. You may find the nymph you’re looking for that way. "

I'm certainly not "hiding" behind this site I have no trouble with the opposite sex just being inquisitive that's all

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By *orthern StarsCouple  over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

*warning*

This thread contains product placement ads.gotta sell yourself

Surely your veris should do that... oh wait! I've only had one genuine meet request and I could make it. The rest are just people looking to see my friends pics probably men pretending tobe wonen"

.

You don't need to rely on a meet from this site to get verifications though. There are other ways.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

*warning*

This thread contains product placement ads.gotta sell yourself

Surely your veris should do that... oh wait! I've only had one genuine meet request and I could make it. The rest are just people looking to see my friends pics probably men pretending tobe wonen

Only one after 8 months on the site?? Do you not do cam chats with people?? It’s a good way to confirm they’re genuine. Maybe get yourself to some socials and meet people there. It’s better than hiding behind the site. You may find the nymph you’re looking for that way. "

so you're saying I'm not genuine? Lol all my pics are from Google ya know

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

*warning*

This thread contains product placement ads.gotta sell yourself

Surely your veris should do that... oh wait! I've only had one genuine meet request and I could make it. The rest are just people looking to see my friends pics probably men pretending tobe wonen.

You don't need to rely on a meet from this site to get verifications though. There are other ways."

honestly I'm not expecting to meet anyone from here.

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By *reamblueMan  over a year ago

London

You're going off track. Your original point was around effective communication around sex with a partner. This is something I am particularly shit at so appreciate the insight

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By *nnasHammerCouple  over a year ago

The Upside Down


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

*warning*

This thread contains product placement ads.gotta sell yourself

Surely your veris should do that... oh wait! I've only had one genuine meet request and I could make it. The rest are just people looking to see my friends pics probably men pretending tobe wonen.

You don't need to rely on a meet from this site to get verifications though. There are other ways.honestly I'm not expecting to meet anyone from here. "

Not saying you’re not genuine. But don’t get why you would be on here if you have no intention of meeting people at some point. Your profile states you’re looking to meet women and couples, so a bit of a contradiction there. Seems like a waste of time and money especially as you’re a site supporter... just a little confusing is all so trying to piece it together.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I'm sitting there trying to watch the Lost Boys and eat snacks and a woman is rubbing her vagina on me, it probably would annoy me after a while.

You need someone with a compatible sex drive. I was with a nymph once and the fucking became like a job.

Do women often rub their vaginas on your interrupting your Lost Boys viewing?

My snail trail dry cleaning bill is insane. "

Feeling so sorry for ya

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?"

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple  over a year ago

chester


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

This is off putting in itself. I’m not a task that needs to be achieved.

so you don't a man who wants to satisfy you?

Of course, but not if he’s on some kind of mission. It should be organic, flow, be natural."

And mutual! Sounds a bit mechanical OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

This is off putting in itself. I’m not a task that needs to be achieved.

"

I am. You’ve completed me.

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Just looking at all the angry responses the OP has received I’d say he does have a point

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In previous relationships I've had this

Have you asked them ?

I got "uppity" with my ex husband because sex was the only thing he wanted to participate in. I was exhausted by small children, the dog, work and housekeeping. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would never meet the type of man who can't understand the concept that a woman wouldn't want to have sex with him.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would never meet the type of man who can't understand the concept that a woman wouldn't want to have sex with him. "

Are you cancelling our plans…????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe there are issues in the relationship not being worked on...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out "

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline

I always thought of sex as a pleasurable activity. Once it ceases to be, it's just transactional, and should be avoided

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this? "

I don’t sleep with women so it not for me to answer.

I enjoy a man cumming, it’s part of the experience for me and something that turns me on.

Much like some wouldn’t sleep with someone who doesn’t give oral as it’s something they enjoy

I would not enjoy sex with a man who can’t/won’t creampie, give facials, give me something to swallow.

I would find this unfulfilling and we would not be a good match sexually. I don’t see this as an issue.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

I don’t sleep with women so it not for me to answer.

I enjoy a man cumming, it’s part of the experience for me and something that turns me on.

Much like some wouldn’t sleep with someone who doesn’t give oral as it’s something they enjoy

I would not enjoy sex with a man who can’t/won’t creampie, give facials, give me something to swallow.

I would find this unfulfilling and we would not be a good match sexually. I don’t see this as an issue."

this kinda happend last time i had sex. About 3 mins in i was like shit I'm gonna come so I stopped myself. Then carried on for a while and couldn't come. Woke up in the morning went again and still didn't. The lady then messaged me after asking why and if it was something to do with her to which I explained. Not sure if she believes me though

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

*warning*

This thread contains product placement ads.gotta sell yourself

Surely your veris should do that... oh wait! I've only had one genuine meet request and I could make it. The rest are just people looking to see my friends pics probably men pretending tobe wonen.

You don't need to rely on a meet from this site to get verifications though. There are other ways.honestly I'm not expecting to meet anyone from here.

Not saying you’re not genuine. But don’t get why you would be on here if you have no intention of meeting people at some point. Your profile states you’re looking to meet women and couples, so a bit of a contradiction there. Seems like a waste of time and money especially as you’re a site supporter... just a little confusing is all so trying to piece it together.

"

I dint say I have no intention I said I don't expect to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah if the man didn't come, honestly I'd be a bit weirded out by it...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I haven’t come from sex in a really long time because of my anxiety meds. I communicate with partners pretty well though and remind them that me coming doesn’t need to happen for sex to be good.

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No I wouldn't get angry. On here faf messages from strangers make me roll my eyes. If I'm meeting someone or in a relationship it rarely annoyed me if they ask me for sex usually I'm quite happy about it. The only times I remember getting pissed off was because an ex would wake me up by trying to stick his fingers in me if he wanted sex.I had even told him on several occasions that waking me up like that did nothing for me and certainly did not make me want to have sex but he never listened.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

I don’t sleep with women so it not for me to answer.

I enjoy a man cumming, it’s part of the experience for me and something that turns me on.

Much like some wouldn’t sleep with someone who doesn’t give oral as it’s something they enjoy

I would not enjoy sex with a man who can’t/won’t creampie, give facials, give me something to swallow.

I would find this unfulfilling and we would not be a good match sexually. I don’t see this as an issue.this kinda happend last time i had sex. About 3 mins in i was like shit I'm gonna come so I stopped myself. Then carried on for a while and couldn't come. Woke up in the morning went again and still didn't. The lady then messaged me after asking why and if it was something to do with her to which I explained. Not sure if she believes me though"

This would be me too! I'd be worried that I wasn't enough or that I did something wrong

However you can't help how your body works or react so I wouldn't ever be derogatory about it.

Lots of women can't orgasm either yet enjoy sex....nobody would describe that as weird, or odd.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

I don’t sleep with women so it not for me to answer.

I enjoy a man cumming, it’s part of the experience for me and something that turns me on.

Much like some wouldn’t sleep with someone who doesn’t give oral as it’s something they enjoy

I would not enjoy sex with a man who can’t/won’t creampie, give facials, give me something to swallow.

I would find this unfulfilling and we would not be a good match sexually. I don’t see this as an issue.this kinda happend last time i had sex. About 3 mins in i was like shit I'm gonna come so I stopped myself. Then carried on for a while and couldn't come. Woke up in the morning went again and still didn't. The lady then messaged me after asking why and if it was something to do with her to which I explained. Not sure if she believes me though

This would be me too! I'd be worried that I wasn't enough or that I did something wrong

However you can't help how your body works or react so I wouldn't ever be derogatory about it.

Lots of women can't orgasm either yet enjoy sex....nobody would describe that as weird, or odd. "

Worded that badly, should of said find orgasm difficult' as well as

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think it's more that, men, generally, come all the time, everywhere...having it not happen could be a bit disconcerting (unless communicated beforehand)

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Well this is a new one for me...

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By *.L.0460.Woman  over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

can you explain further?

Sex everyday, as often as possible? We aren't living in a porn film. ahh see this is exactly what I'm saying. You're getting aggressive just talking about it. Personally I'd take it as a compliment if after so many years my partner still found me that attractive to want to have sex everyday "

Therein lies your problem...

You explained your stance on how often a woman would want sex, you got an answer & you've assumed she's become aggressive!!

If you're not tending to the emotional or psychological needs of your partner, or picking up on the 70-93% of human communication which is non verbal, you're way less likely to get her in the mood for sex. Women can be less likely to want sex if those needs aren't being met & generally don't want sex if our heads are mulling on other things...

I may be wrong, but in my head I'm imagining conversations with your partner like this;

I've had a bit of a shit day at work...

Oh, sorry to hear that- fancy a fuck??

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By *ucyfur77Woman  over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"If I'm sitting there trying to watch the Lost Boys and eat snacks and a woman is rubbing her vagina on me, it probably would annoy me after a while.

"

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple  over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry lol how can you make that statement without having any context?

You said that in previous relationships your partners became angry when you tried to have sex with themwell what do you think I was doing walking up shouting "oi sex now" "

I don't get angry when Winston says that....

Lady Astor

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

can you explain further?

Sex everyday, as often as possible? We aren't living in a porn film. ahh see this is exactly what I'm saying. You're getting aggressive just talking about it. Personally I'd take it as a compliment if after so many years my partner still found me that attractive to want to have sex everyday

Therein lies your problem...

You explained your stance on how often a woman would want sex, you got an answer & you've assumed she's become aggressive!!

If you're not tending to the emotional or psychological needs of your partner, or picking up on the 70-93% of human communication which is non verbal, you're way less likely to get her in the mood for sex. Women can be less likely to want sex if those needs aren't being met & generally don't want sex if our heads are mulling on other things...

I may be wrong, but in my head I'm imagining conversations with your partner like this;

I've had a bit of a shit day at work...

Oh, sorry to hear that- fancy a fuck??"

I have more than 2 braincells to rub together you know...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina "

Maybe you are a bit obsessed with sex and your previous partners found you couldn’t read their body language and verbal hints that they weren’t interested at that moment.

It’s one of the reasons I live alone - sex is something planned, looked forward to and special - not something on the agenda between checking emails and the bathroom.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

can you explain further?

Sex everyday, as often as possible? We aren't living in a porn film. ahh see this is exactly what I'm saying. You're getting aggressive just talking about it. Personally I'd take it as a compliment if after so many years my partner still found me that attractive to want to have sex everyday

Therein lies your problem...

You explained your stance on how often a woman would want sex, you got an answer & you've assumed she's become aggressive!!

If you're not tending to the emotional or psychological needs of your partner, or picking up on the 70-93% of human communication which is non verbal, you're way less likely to get her in the mood for sex. Women can be less likely to want sex if those needs aren't being met & generally don't want sex if our heads are mulling on other things...

I may be wrong, but in my head I'm imagining conversations with your partner like this;

I've had a bit of a shit day at work...

Oh, sorry to hear that- fancy a fuck??"

? You've no reason to assume that's how he asked?

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

In answer to your question OP, I can't speak for other women but I have never got angry....but then again, even when I've been in a relationship, I've never had sex every day for various reasons. Guess I've just been lucky and picked decent guys who are understanding when general life dampens the libido x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

I don’t sleep with women so it not for me to answer.

I enjoy a man cumming, it’s part of the experience for me and something that turns me on.

Much like some wouldn’t sleep with someone who doesn’t give oral as it’s something they enjoy

I would not enjoy sex with a man who can’t/won’t creampie, give facials, give me something to swallow.

I would find this unfulfilling and we would not be a good match sexually. I don’t see this as an issue.this kinda happend last time i had sex. About 3 mins in i was like shit I'm gonna come so I stopped myself. Then carried on for a while and couldn't come. Woke up in the morning went again and still didn't. The lady then messaged me after asking why and if it was something to do with her to which I explained. Not sure if she believes me though

This would be me too! I'd be worried that I wasn't enough or that I did something wrong

However you can't help how your body works or react so I wouldn't ever be derogatory about it.

Lots of women can't orgasm either yet enjoy sex....nobody would describe that as weird, or odd. "

Yeah I don't. I'd hate to be rejected or judged in such a way for something I have little control over. I don't see how it's different for men. Of course people have their lines in the sand, but if a man was having trouble orgasming I'd probably want to know why.

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

I don’t sleep with women so it not for me to answer.

I enjoy a man cumming, it’s part of the experience for me and something that turns me on.

Much like some wouldn’t sleep with someone who doesn’t give oral as it’s something they enjoy

I would not enjoy sex with a man who can’t/won’t creampie, give facials, give me something to swallow.

I would find this unfulfilling and we would not be a good match sexually. I don’t see this as an issue."

It's definitely not an issue and shouldn't be seen as one x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

I don’t sleep with women so it not for me to answer.

I enjoy a man cumming, it’s part of the experience for me and something that turns me on.

Much like some wouldn’t sleep with someone who doesn’t give oral as it’s something they enjoy

I would not enjoy sex with a man who can’t/won’t creampie, give facials, give me something to swallow.

I would find this unfulfilling and we would not be a good match sexually. I don’t see this as an issue.this kinda happend last time i had sex. About 3 mins in i was like shit I'm gonna come so I stopped myself. Then carried on for a while and couldn't come. Woke up in the morning went again and still didn't. The lady then messaged me after asking why and if it was something to do with her to which I explained. Not sure if she believes me though

This would be me too! I'd be worried that I wasn't enough or that I did something wrong

However you can't help how your body works or react so I wouldn't ever be derogatory about it.

Lots of women can't orgasm either yet enjoy sex....nobody would describe that as weird, or odd.

Yeah I don't. I'd hate to be rejected or judged in such a way for something I have little control over. I don't see how it's different for men. Of course people have their lines in the sand, but if a man was having trouble orgasming I'd probably want to know why. "

But if what gets me off is cum play, facials, cream pies etc and a guy can’t/won’t/doesn’t usually cum - we are not going to be sexually compatible, simple as that really. It’s not judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this? "

Is it that she can’t cum or is it that he can’t make her cum….

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

Is it that she can’t cum or is it that he can’t make her cum…."

If I'm not in the mood to cum...no matter what the man does....I won't x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

Is it that she can’t cum or is it that he can’t make her cum….

If I'm not in the mood to cum...no matter what the man does....I won't x"

Likewise, if I'm not in the mood no matter what's involved I'm not letting go of body fluids

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

I don’t sleep with women so it not for me to answer.

I enjoy a man cumming, it’s part of the experience for me and something that turns me on.

Much like some wouldn’t sleep with someone who doesn’t give oral as it’s something they enjoy

I would not enjoy sex with a man who can’t/won’t creampie, give facials, give me something to swallow.

I would find this unfulfilling and we would not be a good match sexually. I don’t see this as an issue.this kinda happend last time i had sex. About 3 mins in i was like shit I'm gonna come so I stopped myself. Then carried on for a while and couldn't come. Woke up in the morning went again and still didn't. The lady then messaged me after asking why and if it was something to do with her to which I explained. Not sure if she believes me though

This would be me too! I'd be worried that I wasn't enough or that I did something wrong

However you can't help how your body works or react so I wouldn't ever be derogatory about it.

Lots of women can't orgasm either yet enjoy sex....nobody would describe that as weird, or odd.

Yeah I don't. I'd hate to be rejected or judged in such a way for something I have little control over. I don't see how it's different for men. Of course people have their lines in the sand, but if a man was having trouble orgasming I'd probably want to know why. "

Yeah exactly, I have difficulty with orgasm and it can be frustrating, I hate that I might make someone feel rejected because it's not on them at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP, was the relationship working outside the bedroom?

And was it just the one person this has happened with ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

I don’t sleep with women so it not for me to answer.

I enjoy a man cumming, it’s part of the experience for me and something that turns me on.

Much like some wouldn’t sleep with someone who doesn’t give oral as it’s something they enjoy

I would not enjoy sex with a man who can’t/won’t creampie, give facials, give me something to swallow.

I would find this unfulfilling and we would not be a good match sexually. I don’t see this as an issue.this kinda happend last time i had sex. About 3 mins in i was like shit I'm gonna come so I stopped myself. Then carried on for a while and couldn't come. Woke up in the morning went again and still didn't. The lady then messaged me after asking why and if it was something to do with her to which I explained. Not sure if she believes me though

This would be me too! I'd be worried that I wasn't enough or that I did something wrong

However you can't help how your body works or react so I wouldn't ever be derogatory about it.

Lots of women can't orgasm either yet enjoy sex....nobody would describe that as weird, or odd.

Yeah I don't. I'd hate to be rejected or judged in such a way for something I have little control over. I don't see how it's different for men. Of course people have their lines in the sand, but if a man was having trouble orgasming I'd probably want to know why.

But if what gets me off is cum play, facials, cream pies etc and a guy can’t/won’t/doesn’t usually cum - we are not going to be sexually compatible, simple as that really. It’s not judgement."

Yes, I understand that. I didn't use the word judgment.

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"OP, was the relationship working outside the bedroom?

And was it just the one person this has happened with ?"

Think he said somewhere else on the thread that it had been more then 1 it's happened with x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

Is it that she can’t cum or is it that he can’t make her cum…."

Either seem common

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple  over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry lol how can you make that statement without having any context?

You said that in previous relationships your partners became angry when you tried to have sex with themwell what do you think I was doing walking up shouting "oi sex now"

I don't get angry when Winston says that....

Lady Astor "

Woman. Come pander to my clumsy and flatulent attempts at lovemaking.

*claps hands - let the coitus begin!!!!

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry lol how can you make that statement without having any context?

You said that in previous relationships your partners became angry when you tried to have sex with themwell what do you think I was doing walking up shouting "oi sex now"

I don't get angry when Winston says that....

Lady Astor

Woman. Come pander to my clumsy and flatulent attempts at lovemaking.

*claps hands - let the coitus begin!!!!

Winston"

Phwoarr!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It sounds like they get angry probably because someone is talking at them or to them like a t***er. Take a look at how you approach them and talk to them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP, was the relationship working outside the bedroom?

And was it just the one person this has happened with ?

Think he said somewhere else on the thread that it had been more then 1 it's happened with x"

I got lazy !

In which case my question is simply were the relationships working outside the bedroom? And if yes, are you sure you're right, or was it just working for you ?

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By *.L.0460.Woman  over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

can you explain further?

Sex everyday, as often as possible? We aren't living in a porn film. ahh see this is exactly what I'm saying. You're getting aggressive just talking about it. Personally I'd take it as a compliment if after so many years my partner still found me that attractive to want to have sex everyday

Therein lies your problem...

You explained your stance on how often a woman would want sex, you got an answer & you've assumed she's become aggressive!!

If you're not tending to the emotional or psychological needs of your partner, or picking up on the 70-93% of human communication which is non verbal, you're way less likely to get her in the mood for sex. Women can be less likely to want sex if those needs aren't being met & generally don't want sex if our heads are mulling on other things...

I may be wrong, but in my head I'm imagining conversations with your partner like this;

I've had a bit of a shit day at work...

Oh, sorry to hear that- fancy a fuck??I have more than 2 braincells to rub together you know..."

I'm sure you do- as I said, it's only a very simplified, tongue in cheek impression!!

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?"

I have just reread your original question. Are you asking women if they only get angry with guys who aren't really hot ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

I don’t sleep with women so it not for me to answer.

I enjoy a man cumming, it’s part of the experience for me and something that turns me on.

Much like some wouldn’t sleep with someone who doesn’t give oral as it’s something they enjoy

I would not enjoy sex with a man who can’t/won’t creampie, give facials, give me something to swallow.

I would find this unfulfilling and we would not be a good match sexually. I don’t see this as an issue.this kinda happend last time i had sex. About 3 mins in i was like shit I'm gonna come so I stopped myself. Then carried on for a while and couldn't come. Woke up in the morning went again and still didn't. The lady then messaged me after asking why and if it was something to do with her to which I explained. Not sure if she believes me though

This would be me too! I'd be worried that I wasn't enough or that I did something wrong

However you can't help how your body works or react so I wouldn't ever be derogatory about it.

Lots of women can't orgasm either yet enjoy sex....nobody would describe that as weird, or odd.

Yeah I don't. I'd hate to be rejected or judged in such a way for something I have little control over. I don't see how it's different for men. Of course people have their lines in the sand, but if a man was having trouble orgasming I'd probably want to know why.

But if what gets me off is cum play, facials, cream pies etc and a guy can’t/won’t/doesn’t usually cum - we are not going to be sexually compatible, simple as that really. It’s not judgement.

Yes, I understand that. I didn't use the word judgment. "

Maybe I mistook it when you said you’d hate to be judged or rejected for something that couldn’t be controlled.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And let me just point out something out here I am good lover when I have sex it's my mission to makesure the woman is totally satisfied. 9 times out 10 when I have sex I don't even cum so and I know how to use what I've got and I dont have a small cock and I have almost endless stamina

I would hate to sleep with a man who didn’t cum, wouldn’t like that at all! lol yea it can cause problems ie the girl thinks I don't find her attractive or whatever but then I have to explain if that was the case I wouldn't be having sex with them or have an erection for that matter

If I slept with a guy a couple of times and he didn’t cum, it wouldn’t be repeated for a third time. That would ruin it for me.that's also happened.why the third time though? Why not the second or fifth?

First time could be nerves so second time is for the benefit of the doubt. If he still doesn’t cum then that’s starting to make me doubt myself and impact my self confidence, plus it’s part of the enjoyment for me - a man cumming, so I’m out

What if a woman can't come? Would it be acceptable to reject her based on this?

I don’t sleep with women so it not for me to answer.

I enjoy a man cumming, it’s part of the experience for me and something that turns me on.

Much like some wouldn’t sleep with someone who doesn’t give oral as it’s something they enjoy

I would not enjoy sex with a man who can’t/won’t creampie, give facials, give me something to swallow.

I would find this unfulfilling and we would not be a good match sexually. I don’t see this as an issue.this kinda happend last time i had sex. About 3 mins in i was like shit I'm gonna come so I stopped myself. Then carried on for a while and couldn't come. Woke up in the morning went again and still didn't. The lady then messaged me after asking why and if it was something to do with her to which I explained. Not sure if she believes me though

This would be me too! I'd be worried that I wasn't enough or that I did something wrong

However you can't help how your body works or react so I wouldn't ever be derogatory about it.

Lots of women can't orgasm either yet enjoy sex....nobody would describe that as weird, or odd.

Yeah I don't. I'd hate to be rejected or judged in such a way for something I have little control over. I don't see how it's different for men. Of course people have their lines in the sand, but if a man was having trouble orgasming I'd probably want to know why.

But if what gets me off is cum play, facials, cream pies etc and a guy can’t/won’t/doesn’t usually cum - we are not going to be sexually compatible, simple as that really. It’s not judgement.

Yes, I understand that. I didn't use the word judgment.

Maybe I mistook it when you said you’d hate to be judged or rejected for something that couldn’t be controlled. "

Sorry LG, I didn't mean you were being judgmental. I struggle with it so I guess I was considering how I'd feel. Some men have told me they feel they're doing something wrong if I don't.

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By *ill1966Man  over a year ago

swindon

I just gave up, fed up trying, wonder why people look elsewhere?

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple  over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"I’d say it’s your approach to sex that’s making them angry lol how can you make that statement without having any context?

You said that in previous relationships your partners became angry when you tried to have sex with themwell what do you think I was doing walking up shouting "oi sex now"

I don't get angry when Winston says that....

Lady Astor

Woman. Come pander to my clumsy and flatulent attempts at lovemaking.

*claps hands - let the coitus begin!!!!

Winston

Phwoarr! "

I had a little flutter downstairs....

Lady Astor

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would never meet the type of man who can't understand the concept that a woman wouldn't want to have sex with him.

Are you cancelling our plans…????"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because we are ungrateful menstral beings who don't know what we are missing.

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's taken me a while and I've just read through most of the comments and all I can say is that I had major flashbacks to an old site member from years back, who used to ask similar questions and not seem to fathom why they were getting the responses they were seeing.

They couldn't comprehend that people didn't want the same things as them. They couldn't comprehend that people wouldn't jump at their offer of a bunk up. They couldn't comprehend that some people had different views, energy levels, libidos or attitudes to sex and most of all they couldn't comprehend how some people dared to say no to them, as if it was some kind of insult or major relationship issue, rather than perhaps just not being in the mood?

It's like that profile of old had a twin!

A

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's taken me a while and I've just read through most of the comments and all I can say is that I had major flashbacks to an old site member from years back, who used to ask similar questions and not seem to fathom why they were getting the responses they were seeing.

They couldn't comprehend that people didn't want the same things as them. They couldn't comprehend that people wouldn't jump at their offer of a bunk up. They couldn't comprehend that some people had different views, energy levels, libidos or attitudes to sex and most of all they couldn't comprehend how some people dared to say no to them, as if it was some kind of insult or major relationship issue, rather than perhaps just not being in the mood?

It's like that profile of old had a twin!

A"

Who was that?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because we are ungrateful menstral beings who don't know what we are missing."

Consciousness is the first step to progress

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?"

Why do you assume that women get angry when men want to have sex with them ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?

Why do you assume that women get angry when men want to have sex with them ?"

You got all Mardy last time I suggested it!

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It's taken me a while and I've just read through most of the comments and all I can say is that I had major flashbacks to an old site member from years back, who used to ask similar questions and not seem to fathom why they were getting the responses they were seeing.

They couldn't comprehend that people didn't want the same things as them. They couldn't comprehend that people wouldn't jump at their offer of a bunk up. They couldn't comprehend that some people had different views, energy levels, libidos or attitudes to sex and most of all they couldn't comprehend how some people dared to say no to them, as if it was some kind of insult or major relationship issue, rather than perhaps just not being in the mood?

It's like that profile of old had a twin!

A

Who was that? "

Oh come on.

I thought that would be obvious?

All those years of forum posts and the constant back and forth between me and someone who's profile initials may or may not have been SB.

I was almost gutted when he finally came out as bi-curious because despite me not being his biggest fan, he did have quite a nice looking cock.

And lets face it he did like to show it off frequently too.

A

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why? "

Yes. That would just be really annoying. I'm not a sex toy for a man's gratification.

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?"

I get short when they want to have sex with me and I would rather be doing other things, like sleep, playstation or beating them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?

Why do you assume that women get angry when men want to have sex with them ?

You got all Mardy last time I suggested it!"

I call slapping it in when I bend over for the fish fingers a bit more than suggestion !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?

I get short when they want to have sex with me and I would rather be doing other things, like sleep, playstation or beating them.

"

We do not condone violence.

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why do women get angry when men want to have sex with them? From my experience anyway or is it OK when it's a really hot guy?

Why do you assume that women get angry when men want to have sex with them ?

You got all Mardy last time I suggested it!

I call slapping it in when I bend over for the fish fingers a bit more than suggestion !"

Also likely to get you thrown out of Asda.

A

*other supermarkets are available......

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple  over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"It's taken me a while and I've just read through most of the comments and all I can say is that I had major flashbacks to an old site member from years back, who used to ask similar questions and not seem to fathom why they were getting the responses they were seeing.

They couldn't comprehend that people didn't want the same things as them. They couldn't comprehend that people wouldn't jump at their offer of a bunk up. They couldn't comprehend that some people had different views, energy levels, libidos or attitudes to sex and most of all they couldn't comprehend how some people dared to say no to them, as if it was some kind of insult or major relationship issue, rather than perhaps just not being in the mood?

It's like that profile of old had a twin!

A

Who was that? "

I wanna know too.

Winston

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Right this is getting out of context now what I'm saying is basically if your partner wanted to have sex with you everyday as often as possible would it make you angry and if so why?

It would annoy me yes.

Actually, it would annoy the fuck out of me.

can you explain further?

Sex everyday, as often as possible? We aren't living in a porn film. ahh see this is exactly what I'm saying. You're getting aggressive just talking about it. Personally I'd take it as a compliment if after so many years my partner still found me that attractive to want to have sex everyday "

YOU call it angry. They probably just didn't want sex.

You've called this poster 'aggressive' simply for contributing to the thread.

There are people who call others names because it saves them considering any other reason.

I've recently ended a relationship because I objected to being called 'stubborn' every time I didn't yield to demands.( not necessarily sexual ones )

How EASY It is to call someone names. How difficult to THINK about similarities, differences, causes, reasons or your own part in things.

This to me is akin to those that say vile things on here when they are turned down.

e.g. She doesn't want sex as often as me so there must be something wrong with her. e.g. She said no so she must be such a very angry person.

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It's taken me a while and I've just read through most of the comments and all I can say is that I had major flashbacks to an old site member from years back, who used to ask similar questions and not seem to fathom why they were getting the responses they were seeing.

They couldn't comprehend that people didn't want the same things as them. They couldn't comprehend that people wouldn't jump at their offer of a bunk up. They couldn't comprehend that some people had different views, energy levels, libidos or attitudes to sex and most of all they couldn't comprehend how some people dared to say no to them, as if it was some kind of insult or major relationship issue, rather than perhaps just not being in the mood?

It's like that profile of old had a twin!

A

Who was that?

I wanna know too.

Winston"

Couldn't possibly say. He was a serious character though, despite me disagreeing with pretty much every post he ever made. For those who've been around over a decade I'll leave a cryptic clue....

He was runner up in the Forum Awards 'Best Cock Pic' three years after I came third in 'Sexiest Male' for the second year running.

Do those things even happen anymore?

A

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple  over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"It's taken me a while and I've just read through most of the comments and all I can say is that I had major flashbacks to an old site member from years back, who used to ask similar questions and not seem to fathom why they were getting the responses they were seeing.

They couldn't comprehend that people didn't want the same things as them. They couldn't comprehend that people wouldn't jump at their offer of a bunk up. They couldn't comprehend that some people had different views, energy levels, libidos or attitudes to sex and most of all they couldn't comprehend how some people dared to say no to them, as if it was some kind of insult or major relationship issue, rather than perhaps just not being in the mood?

It's like that profile of old had a twin!

A

Who was that?

I wanna know too.

Winston

Couldn't possibly say. He was a serious character though, despite me disagreeing with pretty much every post he ever made. For those who've been around over a decade I'll leave a cryptic clue....

He was runner up in the Forum Awards 'Best Cock Pic' three years after I came third in 'Sexiest Male' for the second year running.

Do those things even happen anymore?

A"

I've been around a good few years now, can't place him, however, not a fishing expedition, my tongue was a bit in cheek.

Discretion, the thing we all dream of.

Nice to see you posting again by the way.

Winston

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