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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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..gonna go with an unpopular opinion here - we kinda like them  friends updates are at the top of our feed so it means we get a nice list of pictures/statuses from people we'd one day like to fuck  obviously we only accept them from people we're interested in..
..do you like an unsolicited friend request? Do you prefer a wink first? Or are you holding out for a message that gets you going  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find that unsolicited friend requests seem to be from people wantaccess to my private pics for wank fodder.
Or am I just a cynic? "
(Please excuse my typing  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only add people I've met as friends as I do occasionally add face pics on.
If its people I'm interested in meeting I take full advantage of the hotlist
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"..gonna go with an unpopular opinion here - we kinda like them friends updates are at the top of our feed so it means we get a nice list of pictures/statuses from people we'd one day like to fuck obviously we only accept them from people we're interested in..
..do you like an unsolicited friend request? Do you prefer a wink first? Or are you holding out for a message that gets you going "
Has to be a wink first for me to get my mind thinking and wondering lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"..gonna go with an unpopular opinion here - we kinda like them friends updates are at the top of our feed so it means we get a nice list of pictures/statuses from people we'd one day like to fuck obviously we only accept them from people we're interested in..
..do you like an unsolicited friend request? Do you prefer a wink first? Or are you holding out for a message that gets you going "
Love your latest pic btw |
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By *onksoozeCouple
over a year ago
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"I find that unsolicited friend requests seem to be from people wantaccess to my private pics for wank fodder.
Or am I just a cynic? "
Totally agree. Ive found you have to be cynical here, unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"..gonna go with an unpopular opinion here - we kinda like them friends updates are at the top of our feed so it means we get a nice list of pictures/statuses from people we'd one day like to fuck obviously we only accept them from people we're interested in..
..do you like an unsolicited friend request? Do you prefer a wink first? Or are you holding out for a message that gets you going
Love your latest pic btw"
Thank you  was lots of fun taking it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find that unsolicited friend requests seem to be from people wantaccess to my private pics for wank fodder.
Or am I just a cynic? "
Not a cynic, maybe a realist? We don't have anything in our friends pics that's "private", per se - anything we put on the internet we assume will surface on some image board eventually. Such is the internet! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Top tip.
Put a dozen or so fully clothed, neck down photos on your profile as friends only with no nude shots in there.
You'll soon establish who actually wants to chat and find out more about you and who was just looking for wank bank material.
Plus of course you can then browse their friends only pics too.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I only add people I've met as friends as I do occasionally add face pics on.
If its people I'm interested in meeting I take full advantage of the hotlist
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The hotlist is so far down the page though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only add people I've met as friends as I do occasionally add face pics on.
If its people I'm interested in meeting I take full advantage of the hotlist
The hotlist is so far down the page though "
Yeah but easier to keep 2 groups of people separate.  |
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"..gonna go with an unpopular opinion here - we kinda like them friends updates are at the top of our feed so it means we get a nice list of pictures/statuses from people we'd one day like to fuck obviously we only accept them from people we're interested in..
..do you like an unsolicited friend request? Do you prefer a wink first? Or are you holding out for a message that gets you going "
I'm intrigued, BTH,in your October 23rd photo how do you insert the toy on the very top right?
Suspect HornyVee might have a solution. . . . |
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"..gonna go with an unpopular opinion here - we kinda like them friends updates are at the top of our feed so it means we get a nice list of pictures/statuses from people we'd one day like to fuck obviously we only accept them from people we're interested in..
..do you like an unsolicited friend request? Do you prefer a wink first? Or are you holding out for a message that gets you going "
What is this friend request of which you speak?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the same opinion as you do. I’d accept it if it’s someone I’m interested in and wouldn’t be bothered if I had requests from anyone regardless to whether I am or not interested
I like to be friendly with anyone if they’re nice |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"I find that unsolicited friend requests seem to be from people wantaccess to my private pics for wank fodder.
Or am I just a cynic? "
I think the same- they just want to see your friends only pics.
I won't accept a friend invite unless we've been chatting, so I often wait till they're offline, accept, take a look at their pics & unfriend them straight away
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"..gonna go with an unpopular opinion here - we kinda like them friends updates are at the top of our feed so it means we get a nice list of pictures/statuses from people we'd one day like to fuck obviously we only accept them from people we're interested in..
..do you like an unsolicited friend request? Do you prefer a wink first? Or are you holding out for a message that gets you going "
.to answer those 3 questions,
No.
No.
Don't think it will ever happen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"..gonna go with an unpopular opinion here - we kinda like them friends updates are at the top of our feed so it means we get a nice list of pictures/statuses from people we'd one day like to fuck obviously we only accept them from people we're interested in..
..do you like an unsolicited friend request? Do you prefer a wink first? Or are you holding out for a message that gets you going
I'm intrigued, BTH,in your October 23rd photo how do you insert the toy on the very top right?
Suspect HornyVee might have a solution. . . ."
The lamp? Very carefully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some unsolicited requests are just because it's so easy to hit the wrong link on the site, when you're trying to wink or add to hotlist. But who knows where they could lead? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I delete mine. I’ve put it on my profile that I don’t accept them, so it clearly shows they’ve not even taken the time to read it let alone respect it lol  |
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If we’ve never interacted then receiving a friends request just seems like they want to view your private pics.
Unless we are meeting them/wanting to meet them or people we’ve chatted to for a while, we don’t accept them.
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"I find that unsolicited friend requests seem to be from people wantaccess to my private pics for wank fodder.
Or am I just a cynic?
(Please excuse my typing )"
Not a cynic. Very true...
But if your public pictures are also your friend pictures. What does it matter...
It all depends on how you set up your profile and however you manage private pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some unsolicited requests are just because it's so easy to hit the wrong link on the site, when you're trying to wink or add to hotlist. But who knows where they could lead?"
Hmm. In order to friend request you have to accidentally hit two links. I'm doubtful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not a cynic. Very true...
But if your public pictures are also your friend pictures. What does it matter...
It all depends on how you set up your profile and however you manage private pictures. "
For us, our private pics are just an extension of our public ones - maybe with some more risque and niche shots - and our friends list acts as a "people we want to be friends with". So yes, I'd agree with this.
Our actual friends list is on WhatsApp |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I never look at friends requests. I only add people I chat to or have met,mostly the latter tho.
If chatting I'll ask if I can send one.I have no interest in adding random people so I ignore that section on here. |
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