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Struggling to get meets!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve chatted to a few people on here in the past. We got on spoke for a week or so say they want to meet and then go cold! What am I doing wrong!? "
Did you do sex chat?
He had a wank, no need to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just keep trying don’t lose faith , stick around the forums and have fun 
Nobody knows what you are doing wrong as we don’t know what messages you send…
Remember your profile is your shop window put on your best display
It’s hard when you are new, I always recommend clubs and socials great way to meet others 
All the best |
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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve chatted to a few people on here in the past. We got on spoke for a week or so say they want to meet and then go cold! What am I doing wrong!? "
Nothing that's just how it is sometimes. |
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By *ofbefMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve chatted to a few people on here in the past. We got on spoke for a week or so say they want to meet and then go cold! What am I doing wrong!? "
Sometimes I am tempted to delete the account and leave fab but just sticking around to see. Sometimes you feel there is something wrong with yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve chatted to a few people on here in the past. We got on spoke for a week or so say they want to meet and then go cold! What am I doing wrong!? "
Perhaps it’s not you, perhaps their life gets in the way?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope no sex chat unless the others started it I didn’t want to scare them off!! "
Be careful. If a woman starts sex chat there's a high chance that it could be a man.
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"Nope no sex chat unless the others started it I didn’t want to scare them off!!
Be careful. If a woman starts sex chat there's a high chance that it could be a man.
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You know it  |
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"Have you offered cake? Vote winner here, but none of that odd carrot based stuff
It's carrot cake that wins the cake polls  "
Just good old cream cake.....or chocolate, with Elmlea. The poll winner was obviously undertaken by Mori  x |
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"Have you offered cake? Vote winner here, but none of that odd carrot based stuff
Erh hem! Carrot cake is THE winner!  "
Nae, nae and thrice nae. Why can't you use your carrots in something proper, like a pie? x |
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"Have you offered cake? Vote winner here, but none of that odd carrot based stuff
It's carrot cake that wins the cake polls
Seconded
It's true https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1197262"
I demand a recount  x |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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It just how fab rolls sometimes. You can have intimate conversations with someone for months then they just disappear as if they never existed. Either go with the flow or don’t but if you don’t you’ll only frustrate yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve chatted to a few people on here in the past. We got on spoke for a week or so say they want to meet and then go cold! What am I doing wrong!? "
What are you doing wrong?
You have 'not looking for single guys' on your profile
Take that off and you'll have more messages than you can answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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surely when you join you see that the site is full of men that tells you your in for a very tought time ? its abit like a 1000 guys turning up for football trials for 11 spots in the team thats 989 dissapointed men walking away ...its the same on here its no reflection on your a good guy or bad guy its just how it is ..
dont matter if the couple and ladies are swingers or simply looking for sex hook ups there will always be to many men and with large amonts of men joining daily too ..
people say clubs id agree normally but on our last few vists we notice quite a few couples are shunning men well more than normal let say ..heard it on here to that other have notice so not sure if clubs will give you the answer ....covid has changed alot of things thats for sure ..
also lots of couples wanting regular guys therefore once theyhave what they need they stop looking ....all adds up not looking good for single men is it ??
us nah we only meet single guys so we keep looking
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lose faith as quick as possible. Might as well get there sooner.
In my (limited) experience it’s either
Meet now.
Meet now and I’m an absolute bell end (ie want you available to fit their schedule)
Chat 3 messages demand a meeting
Chat 3 days agree to set up a meeting, then lose their temper cause you won’t drop everything to meet when and where it suits them (and can never accom)
Chat 3 days then pressurise you for kik or WhatsApp then message every 5 minutes. Lose temper if you don’t reply quickly enough. |
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