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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don’t need a verification to get a ‘meet’.
There’s kinda two avenues open….
Either go down the messaging people, decent messages, don’t act like a dick, profile on point, good pics, etc.
Or, go to a club/social/event. |
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"I find that as I don't have a verification on my profile I don't get replies, but due to that, how am I meant to get a verification if I can't get a reply lol. Any ideas?"
How do you know *that* is the reason? Surely there are multiple reasons why somebody might not reply to a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Her ladyship agreed to meet me without a verification and she hadn't even seen a face pic.
Either I managed to convince her what a lovely person I am just by chatting through messages or (and this is a real possibility) she's a terrible judge of personality. 6 years on she still thinks I'm amazing and I'm still not sure which option is true.
Point being you don't need a veri. You honestly get much better results in life when you don't look for external reasons for not achieving what you want*
*Yes, I know sometimes external reasons can't be avoided.
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll help you.
1). Grow a beard.
2). That it.
D’ya know something, your right.
Nobody looked twice at me when I were clean shaven. "
People underestimate the power of the beard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll help you.
1). Grow a beard.
2). That it.
D’ya know something, your right.
Nobody looked twice at me when I were clean shaven.
People underestimate the power of the beard."
And tattoos actually.
OP…. Slight amendment,
1). Grow a beard.
2). Get tattoos (Not the shit ones).
3). That is all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Her ladyship agreed to meet me without a verification and she hadn't even seen a face pic.
Either I managed to convince her what a lovely person I am just by chatting through messages or (and this is a real possibility) she's a terrible judge of personality. 6 years on she still thinks I'm amazing and I'm still not sure which option is true.
Point being you don't need a veri. You honestly get much better results in life when you don't look for external reasons for not achieving what you want*
*Yes, I know sometimes external reasons can't be avoided.
Mr"
TG agreed to meet me and like you I didn’t have a veri and only found out later that she had never seen a face pic of mine either before agreeing to meet. 6 + months on now
We must be a right couple of smooth talkers  |
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"Her ladyship agreed to meet me without a verification and she hadn't even seen a face pic.
Either I managed to convince her what a lovely person I am just by chatting through messages or (and this is a real possibility) she's a terrible judge of personality. 6 years on she still thinks I'm amazing and I'm still not sure which option is true.
Point being you don't need a veri. You honestly get much better results in life when you don't look for external reasons for not achieving what you want*
*Yes, I know sometimes external reasons can't be avoided.
Mr
TG agreed to meet me and like you I didn’t have a veri and only found out later that she had never seen a face pic of mine either before agreeing to meet. 6 + months on now
We must be a right couple of smooth talkers "
Love hearing how people got together like this and it lasting. Heartwarming  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll help you.
1). Grow a beard.
2). That it.
D’ya know something, your right.
Nobody looked twice at me when I were clean shaven.
People underestimate the power of the beard.
And tattoos actually.
OP…. Slight amendment,
1). Grow a beard.
2). Get tattoos (Not the shit ones).
3). That is all."
You could just say look hard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll help you.
1). Grow a beard.
2). That it.
D’ya know something, your right.
Nobody looked twice at me when I were clean shaven.
People underestimate the power of the beard.
And tattoos actually.
OP…. Slight amendment,
1). Grow a beard.
2). Get tattoos (Not the shit ones).
3). That is all.
You could just say look hard."
True.
OP…. Another amendment,
1.) look like me.
2.) that’s all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Her ladyship agreed to meet me without a verification and she hadn't even seen a face pic.
Either I managed to convince her what a lovely person I am just by chatting through messages or (and this is a real possibility) she's a terrible judge of personality. 6 years on she still thinks I'm amazing and I'm still not sure which option is true.
Point being you don't need a veri. You honestly get much better results in life when you don't look for external reasons for not achieving what you want*
*Yes, I know sometimes external reasons can't be avoided.
Mr
TG agreed to meet me and like you I didn’t have a veri and only found out later that she had never seen a face pic of mine either before agreeing to meet. 6 + months on now
We must be a right couple of smooth talkers "
Mr |
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You look kinda moody in your photos buddy in all honesty, maybe freshen them up at bit so look more approachable.
Took me a bit of time to get my first meet but I have to fight them off now and I hold weekly mud fights to help me pick who I'm spending time with |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"You look kinda moody in your photos buddy in all honesty, maybe freshen them up at bit so look more approachable.
Took me a bit of time to get my first meet but I have to fight them off now and I hold weekly mud fights to help me pick who I'm spending time with "
I hope you offer a free shower down after!  |
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"You look kinda moody in your photos buddy in all honesty, maybe freshen them up at bit so look more approachable.
Took me a bit of time to get my first meet but I have to fight them off now and I hold weekly mud fights to help me pick who I'm spending time with
I hope you offer a free shower down after! "
Yes but only for the winner |
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By *aulj69Man
over a year ago
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Tough one this, I've had meets but some people like to be discreet when it comes to veri's so choose not to post? Start posting more in the forums and maybe answer them privately, get to know people and be yourself . Club meets are by far the best way however but single guys do find it hard to pluck up the courage to go, try and find someone, even a guy on a bi night would be an idea? Best of luck and do let us know how things work out. Paul xx |
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