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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
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Depends on who they are. They could ask in the forum and get loads of feedback. Some people get all the feedback and don’t bother changing the profile, which I guess are a form of “look at me posts”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on who they are. They could ask in the forum and get loads of feedback. Some people get all the feedback and don’t bother changing the profile, which I guess are a form of “look at me posts”. "
To be fair, it's impossible to do all that's advised as it's usually contradictory depending on who posted their thoughts.
Cock pics... but no cock pics.
Pics of man hanging put of a woman... none of these pics.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends on the person
One or two profiles can trigger me a bit you’d never guess although.
Try to be fair and honest if its someone asking for help with their profile.
One thing I will say
No cock pics in public
No visual instruction manuals. |
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"Depends on who they are. They could ask in the forum and get loads of feedback. Some people get all the feedback and don’t bother changing the profile, which I guess are a form of “look at me posts”. "
Speaking personally I much prefer to see profiles before they ask for advice because they are usually a much better reflection of the person behind them than any generic boxticking creation.
There's no point taking advice on those threads if all they do is give a false perception and you aren't able to live up to any of it. |
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I just tell them the forums are the right place for that. It’s a bit presumptuous to ask a complete stranger to review your profile in the private messages. |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"Depends on who they are. They could ask in the forum and get loads of feedback. Some people get all the feedback and don’t bother changing the profile, which I guess are a form of “look at me posts”.
To be fair, it's impossible to do all that's advised as it's usually contradictory depending on who posted their thoughts.
Cock pics... but no cock pics.
Pics of man hanging put of a woman... none of these pics.
Etc "
Yes that’s very true. There is no perfect template! Close ups and messy action shots are certainly not for me but some people clearly love them on their profile. I guess the main thing is have some pictures and a bit about yourself. |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"Depends on who they are. They could ask in the forum and get loads of feedback. Some people get all the feedback and don’t bother changing the profile, which I guess are a form of “look at me posts”.
Speaking personally I much prefer to see profiles before they ask for advice because they are usually a much better reflection of the person behind them than any generic boxticking creation.
There's no point taking advice on those threads if all they do is give a false perception and you aren't able to live up to any of it. "
Good point, I definitely agree with you. |
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I'd probably offer it, especially if they've asked politely as you say, OP.
Can't say I've ever been asked though, LOL! It's almost as if guys might message women for "advice" as a way of manufacturing/prolonging a chat! Surely not? |
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