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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So many people won’t entertain someone who is short. Is that really an important thing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To some people it is and to some it isn't.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan over a year ago

Willenhall

Tell them when you lie on your back you're 2" taller.

That should do the trick...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unfortunately to most yes. I'm 5 11 ISH and some females say I'm to short for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"To some people it is and to some it isn't."

So what about yourself?

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan over a year ago

Willenhall

"Unfortunately to most yes. I'm 5 11 ISH and some females say I'm to short for them "

I'm a similar height and have sometimes received the comment "oh, I thought you were going to be taller..."

What am I supposed to do? Bring a tape measure with me to prove it?

Nah, stuff that. If I did that I'd probably end up having to explain the difference between centimetres and inches...

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

Anyone below 5” is no good on here unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not at all

I had plenty off times people on here say it is

But in real life turn and say it’s not

Oppps sorry I am the same high I was when you sed no

Opps sorry I am below that high you posted saying you wouldn’t meet anyone below that

Sorry that’s your problem not mine happy swingeing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Anyone below 5” is no good on here unfortunately

I’m 5”6 and I have a hard time on here myself tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So many people won’t entertain someone who is short. Is that really an important thing? "
don’t bother me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m 6.8 with my platform heels

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan over a year ago

Willenhall

"Anyone below 5” is no good on here unfortunately

Probably not much good at getting noticed when crossing the road, either. I guess that's probably why you don't see many people that short on here.

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By *ficouldMan over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I very much like short ladies.

If they are under 5 foot even better.

As for me being to short , only a couple of times I've had the problem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes it is to alot of women im 5ft hubby is 6ft 4 i like big tall men ....thats not to say i wont meet shorter guys anyone qver 5'8 or 5'9 is where i would start

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes for me it’s important that the man is taller than me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes for me it’s important that the man is taller than me. "
by how much?

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

I don’t t mind. For me it’s nice eyes and a smile and personality.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t t mind. For me it’s nice eyes and a smile and personality."
cute

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By *jekimMan over a year ago

Wigan

Something about a woman taller than me is sexy but I'm only 5 10 so nit that big haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I usually go for profiles 5”10 and upwards.

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By *jekimMan over a year ago

Wigan

"I usually go for profiles 5”10 and upwards. "
wel that's me just squeezed in haha

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By *LiamMan over a year ago

Midlands

I'm 5 ft 11 and would not meet a woman around that height or above

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

It is a deal breaker for some and to others it's not.

We are not all the same height laying down either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To some yes, to some no

I prefer tall men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I usually go for profiles 5”10 and upwards. wel that's me just squeezed in haha

The big question is did you add a couple of inches to get to that height?

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

As long as they're not bothered about me being taller than them in heels.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm 5 ft 11 and would not meet a woman around that height or above

Ah dam it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wear platform shoes or don’t give a fuck, are my suggestions to you.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

I rarely even look at the height on the profile. Some of my best lovers have been 5 6. I am 5 7 so not short myself.

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By *inx.x3Woman over a year ago

Bath

I like men at least the same height as me and taller ..

This was after going on a date a couple of years ago and the bloke calling me a giant and asking me to switch sides of the path with him as he thought his side was slopes down a but

I’m 5’7 but had heels on so was probably about 5’9.. hardly giant material

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also, it does depend how short.

I'm 5'11, when I first joined here I'd only entertain guys taller than me. But in reality, every relationship I've had they've been 5'9 or 5'10.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 5'3 so everyone is taller than me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only me men Wat all of the me, but at 5ft that is not tricky

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

For women? When it comes to men? Regarding sex or dating? YES without a shadow of a doubt...the number of women telling me words like " if only you were taller, you'd be perfect/I would date you" is beyond demoralising.

The one thing about your appearance that you can't change...is also the one thing about your appearance that will be a deal breaker for a significant amount of women.

It is what it is, as they say...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone below 5” is no good on here unfortunately

I’m 5”6 and I have a hard time on here myself tbh "

You’ve been on here 4 months and you’ve had a meet. You’re really not having a hard time on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not embrace what you got. There’s no changing it. Steer your efforts to folk that include you, rather than lamenting over the ones that exclude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've always puzzled at women's attracrion for men over 6foot. Do they not know it only accounts for about a 3rd of guys. Such small percentages.

Watch what happens if you ask how much they weigh when they ask how tall you are.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've always puzzled at women's attracrion for men over 6foot. Do they not know it only accounts for about a 3rd of guys. Such small percentages.

Watch what happens if you ask how much they weigh when they ask how tall you are."

All the living men in my family are 6ft 3 and above. Maybe it's why I'm less bothered. It's not a novelty

Oh and I'm 66kg

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"So many people won’t entertain someone who is short. Is that really an important thing? "

To me yes

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By *onnynclaireCouple over a year ago

Reading

"Anyone below 5” is no good on here unfortunately

That’s us out of luck then. Best leave after membership is finished.

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By *xydadbodMan over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm naturally short anyway so can't really help that but I get I may not be everyone's cup of tea.. last thing you ladies need is to feel standing next to a hobbit lol but us short guys do have giant hearts as they say lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've always puzzled at women's attracrion for men over 6foot. Do they not know it only accounts for about a 3rd of guys. Such small percentages.

Watch what happens if you ask how much they weigh when they ask how tall you are.

All the living men in my family are 6ft 3 and above. Maybe it's why I'm less bothered. It's not a novelty

Oh and I'm 66kg

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Could be that indeed. I've a few friends of that kind of height. Ones 7ft2. Drives him mental when women coo over his height, "I've got a brain and a personality too" is the stock response most of them get haha.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm naturally short anyway so can't really help that but I get I may not be everyone's cup of tea.. last thing you ladies need is to feel standing next to a hobbit lol but us short guys do have giant hearts as they say lol "

We're all the same height laying down is what I say.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had partners at 5' and others over 6' the more petite ones just make my cock look bigger lol

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By *r WhispererMan over a year ago

brynmawr

I’m 6’2 and always been attracted to tall women but the tallest gf I ever had was 5’8.. last gf was 4’9

height not important to me at all

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By *urora1912Woman over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I like guys taller than me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its really important to me, I couldn’t have a man my height or just about my height.

Im about 5’5”-5’6” , ideally my absolute fave are the 6’2”-6’6” range

But so long as he’s taller by 4-5” we are good x

It makes me feel more feminine seeing the height difference and how bigger he is compared to me

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By *urora1912Woman over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"I'm 5 ft 11 and would not meet a woman around that height or above

Bonus I'm shorter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have always been conscious about my height (and size). I was the tallest of all my friends growing up so I do like a guy who's taller than me. Just makes me feel better. I try not to be and try to get to know someone.

Jenny x

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By *xydadbodMan over a year ago

Milton keynes

We're all the same height laying down is what I say."

Very true but unless I'm being wheeled into a pub on a bed on wheels, the height difference is gonna be pretty much obvious really lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm 5 ft 11 and would not meet a woman around that height or above

With heels on? Does it make a difference?

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By *ickshawedCouple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"For women? When it comes to men? Regarding sex or dating? YES without a shadow of a doubt...the number of women telling me words like " if only you were taller, you'd be perfect/I would date you" is beyond demoralising.

The one thing about your appearance that you can't change...is also the one thing about your appearance that will be a deal breaker for a significant amount of women.

It is what it is, as they say..."

You're 5ft7 which is one inch taller than my husband, the same height as my brother and one inch shorter than my dad. As far as I'm concerned it's the perfect height for a man. Easy to cuddle and kiss without stretching up.

At 5ft 4 1/2 I've been with men shorter than me and over 6ft. I prefer them around my height but don't rule out any guy over their height if I like them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're all the same height laying down is what I say."

I hate this saying

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'm 6'1" and height isn't important to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're all the same height laying down is what I say.

I hate this saying"

Never mind. You'll get over it.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

No, it's not important for me. I'd say for a fair women it is, it's just one of those pesky preferences sadly. And no, people aren't the same lying down. For whatever reason, feelings of femininity, ingrained societal views, general preference... it is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No when i one went to lilliput i once had 17 3 inch tall women tugging my todger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Without making anyone feel any worse for being short (I’m short myself). Have you ever considered you’re getting knocked back for other reasons but they’re using your height as an easy excuse?

We do this all the time with age. Say they’re out of our age range but if someone messaged who matched all our other preferences and was a couple of years outside it we might chat more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do like men around the 6ft mark.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had partners at 5' and others over 6' the more petite ones just make my cock look bigger lol"

Is that possible?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Had partners at 5' and others over 6' the more petite ones just make my cock look bigger lol

Is that possible?

Magnifying glass

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Seems to be to for a lot of women and a sticking point for a lot of women too.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"So many people won’t entertain someone who is short. Is that really an important thing? "

Hi op.

For some women it is - yes. Some women prefer the man to be taller/larger as it can make us feel daintier/feminine when we’re with them - and as the average woman gets taller/larger (I’m a heffalump compared to myself of a few years ago) then they want to meet ever taller men.

Last weekend I met a guy a little shorter than me. Helped that he happens to be drop dead gorgeous. There was a distinct advantage to the ‘lovemaking’. When he was on top - which was a lot of the time - I didn’t feel crushed as I have with many lovers - and I didn’t get short of breath due to that.

Would that make me prioritise shorter guys who are lighter than me? - almost certainly not.

I’m sure as hell seeing that particular chap again though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tall men are my physical preference. I’d compromise a bit though, as what’s the point in potentially missing out on someone really good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Iv found it to be rarely important to girls and an easy out if they dont fancy you the love of my life was taller than me and most of the women iv seen the insides of have been taller than me too iv found it creates better angles for more powerful orgasms if same height or taller dunno why just seems to work

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Height isn’t as important as looks.

I can prove this.

Let’s say,

Chris Hemsworth is 5ft 7”

John Merrick is 6ft 2”

Take your pick.

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By *alsaGuy77Man over a year ago

Macclesfield

I guess it's like anything - we all have things we want in a partner. Some women want a hung guy, some men want a lady that is slim,some want a partner big boobs or a guy with muscles. In this case it is height and for some people it is important. I guess from a primeval angle the lady wants a guy who can protect her therefore someone bigger than her is an attraction.

Personally I can't think of anyone I've been with who has been taller than me, and at 5' 9" I'm not the tallest, but that doesn't necessarily mean I wouldn't go there.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman over a year ago

Northerner

"Height isn’t as important as looks.

I can prove this.

Let’s say,

Chris Hemsworth is 5ft 7”

John Merrick is 6ft 2”

Take your pick."

Chris Hemsworth could be a borrower and I’d still take him away in my pocket

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

"Height isn’t as important as looks.

I can prove this.

Let’s say,

Chris Hemsworth is 5ft 7”

John Merrick is 6ft 2”

Take your pick."

With internet dating, little Chris wouldn't even get his messages read when they saw his height.

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By *hisisthewayCouple over a year ago

ipswich

Hubby is 5”3 and I’m 5”7 but 6 foot in heels when I met him. The first thing I did was say you’re a perfect height and stuck his head between my boobs. I love a short man

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Hubby is 5”3 and I’m 5”7 but 6 foot in heels when I met him. The first thing I did was say you’re a perfect height and stuck his head between my boobs. I love a short man

He was examining your fine tattoos

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m 5ft so everyone is taller than me.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman over a year ago

outside belfast x

Am 5ft 10 and need same height or taller anyone shorter is not gonna reach properly need to be taller and well built for certain positions just saying! Shorter will not do!

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I’m 5ft so everyone is taller than me.

Buy you wear a leather dress sooooo well

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By *ittlekinks38Woman over a year ago

outside belfast x

"Height isn’t as important as looks.

I can prove this.

Let’s say,

Chris Hemsworth is 5ft 7”

John Merrick is 6ft 2”

Take your pick."

Neither thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Height isn’t as important as looks.

I can prove this.

Let’s say,

Chris Hemsworth is 5ft 7”

John Merrick is 6ft 2”

Take your pick.

Neither thanks

Lies.

I’d fuck Chris Hemsworth and I’m not even gay.

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By *avie65Man over a year ago

In the west.

I may make a difference for women but I'm not sure it is much of a deal breaker for guys. Maybe because I'm 6"1' most people M&F are not as tall as me. And if it is a big thing for guys many women wear heels admittedly not 24/7.

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I may make a difference for women but I'm not sure it is much of a deal breaker for guys. Maybe because I'm 6"1' most people M&F are not as tall as me. And if it is a big thing for guys many women wear heels admittedly not 24/7.

I tower over people, but I'm a gentle giant of a man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me it's a basic ingredient of what attracts me visually, so yes, it is important to me. It's not a personal attack on a shorter man.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS over a year ago

chichester

"Height isn’t as important as looks.

I can prove this.

Let’s say,

Chris Hemsworth is 5ft 7”

John Merrick is 6ft 2”

Take your pick.

Neither thanks

Lies.

I’d fuck Chris Hemsworth and I’m not even gay."

You just want to touch Thor’s hammer to live out the dream

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS over a year ago

chichester

I am 5ft7 barefoot as a trans lady Being bisexual I do have height preference that varies between men and women .

With men I prefer them to be taller than me (especially if going out and about ) but it’s not set in stone. Women usually seem to be around 5ft-5ft4 I have generally met as an average though I do have an incredible female fuck buddy that is 6ft3 of muscle / fitness.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well this thread is coming up short

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've gone on dates with ppl who want 6ft plus. Yet have them found out their ex's are all shorter.

If I were to guess why ....

There's a belief that tall men will make them feel safe. But on reality lots of men can do that.

I also suspect that ppl who worry about it give off an energy that isn't helpful to getting dates. Soendong time worrying about shit you can't control is draining.

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

"Height isn’t as important as looks.

I can prove this.

Let’s say,

Chris Hemsworth is 5ft 7”

John Merrick is 6ft 2”

Take your pick."

Don't be ridiculous...Chris Hemsworth is around 6'3

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m 5’ 6” never been told it’s an issue (so far)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the important thing is don’t lie about it

You hear so many stories of guys fabbing up their height by two or three inches. The normal culprits are the 5ft 7 and 8ers who fab themselves up to 5ft 10ers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Height isn’t as important as looks.

I can prove this.

Let’s say,

Chris Hemsworth is 5ft 7”

John Merrick is 6ft 2”

Take your pick.

Don't be ridiculous...Chris Hemsworth is around 6'3

Agree Chris Hemsworth is a tall guy. Not sure where the 5ft 7 came from

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By *dalisqueWoman over a year ago

land of make believe

"I think the important thing is don’t lie about it

You hear so many stories of guys fabbing up their height by two or three inches. The normal culprits are the 5ft 7 and 8ers who fab themselves up to 5ft 10ers

This used to happen on dating sites to me all the time.

Height isn't that important ,although the lying is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the important thing is don’t lie about it

You hear so many stories of guys fabbing up their height by two or three inches. The normal culprits are the 5ft 7 and 8ers who fab themselves up to 5ft 10ers

This used to happen on dating sites to me all the time.

Height isn't that important ,although the lying is."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met a guy who online looked quite the statuesque type. Bodybuilder, very manly. Met him he was shorter than me. By a good few inches. There he was throwing me around the bed and I just couldn’t take him seriously.

Though it was probably cause I felt deceived more than his height

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

5ft 10 and over for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a guy who online looked quite the statuesque type. Bodybuilder, very manly. Met him he was shorter than me. By a good few inches. There he was throwing me around the bed and I just couldn’t take him seriously.

Though it was probably cause I felt deceived more than his height "

I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman over a year ago

Thurrock

"Anyone below 5” is no good on here unfortunately

I’m 5”6 and I have a hard time on here myself tbh "

Height will be part of the factor the main issue is your a single guy and for every guy on this site to get just one meet a year, every woman & couple would need to be doing at least 2 meets a week which lets face it isn't realistic

Try clubs where people can see you & your personality, attend a social, people are likely to be less concerned by your height in real life than they will via message

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

Though it was probably cause I felt deceived more than his height

I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Height isn’t as important as looks.

I can prove this.

Let’s say,

Chris Hemsworth is 5ft 7”

John Merrick is 6ft 2”

Take your pick.

Don't be ridiculous...Chris Hemsworth is around 6'3

Agree Chris Hemsworth is a tall guy. Not sure where the 5ft 7 came from "

It came from me saying “Let’s say” as in hypothetical.

Not factual.

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By *ou only live onceMan over a year ago

London

It's important to those it's important to, and not important to the rest.

But of course there are people who will make a decision based on it, like any other physical feature (see every thread on preference!). Would I like to be taller? Probably, yes (thanks 4'11" Mum!), but there is literally nothing I can do about it so not much point losing too much sleep over it! And I hated basketball anyway.

It also works in reverse - I probably wouldn't date a woman who was taller than me (Bernie Ecclestone: exhibit A), so I can see why a woman would say the same. But I'm firm believer that there's someone for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Though it was probably cause I felt deceived more than his height

I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular

Ouch

I’m not saying that’s your case xxx

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

I prefer same height or taller than me. I was surprised that Cillian Murphy is 5ft 7 I thought he was taller. I still would though …

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By *idnight_Express69Man over a year ago

Rochdale

"So many people won’t entertain someone who is short. Is that really an important thing? "

If you’re going under a low bridge

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

Though it was probably cause I felt deceived more than his height

I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular

Ouch

I’m not saying that’s your case xxx "

I don't care anymore

, it only stung for a few seconds...I'm good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I generally am attracted to shorter women although you can’t beat a tall slender dominant woman….. they’re amazing!

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By *tooveMan over a year ago

belfast

"So many people won’t entertain someone who is short. Is that really an important thing? "

Knew you'd be short.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 5'9" but with an erection I'm 6'7"

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By *eniandMikeCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes for us!! Mike is 7ft……I’m only 5’5” but prefer woman my height or smaller and any guys have to be 6ft plus!!

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By *ustamanMan over a year ago

weymouth

Not to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes If you’re a basketball player.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes If you’re a basketball player."

Or a jockey.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes If you’re a basketball player.

Or a jockey."

Or an ewok.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The same ladies that have an issue with height are generally the same ones that get offended if you have a weight preference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes If you’re a basketball player.

Or a jockey.

Or an ewok."

Or an Oompa Loompa.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

height doesn't bother us,

people are more than just how tall (or short) they are.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes If you’re a basketball player.

Or a jockey.

Or an ewok.

Or an Oompa Loompa."
dont forget smurfs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes If you’re a basketball player.

Or a jockey.

Or an ewok.

Or an Oompa Loompa.dont forget smurfs"

And borrowers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes If you’re a basketball player.

Or a jockey.

Or an ewok.

Or an Oompa Loompa.dont forget smurfs

And borrowers."

And butlers for the Addam’s Family.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We're all the same height laying down is what I say."

Erm, we aren't....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 4' 11" - most fellas I've dated (and including having been married to my ex husband for 21 years who was 6' 3") have been tall with the exception of my last LTR who is 5' 6".

I'd say I definitely prefer a fella 5' 10" and above

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By *verready5000Man over a year ago

mansfield

Suppose it depends on what the lady likes, doesn’t bother me at all how tall she is!!

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By *awpleasureMan over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

I'm 5'11 and was turned down for not being six feet.

But I wasn't bothered as too hab height preferences. Ladies need to be shorter than me with or without heels.

Works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes If you’re a basketball player.

Or a jockey.

Or an ewok.

Or an Oompa Loompa.dont forget smurfs

And borrowers.

And butlers for the Addam’s Family."

And willows stunt double.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Taller than me (I'm 5'4")

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By *.L.0460.Woman over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I generally prefer it if a man is my height or taller.

I think it's because I'm quite chunky & a man shorter than me can make me feel uncomfortably large!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 5'11, most guys are shorter than me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes If you’re a basketball player.

Or a jockey.

Or an ewok.

Or an Oompa Loompa.dont forget smurfs

And borrowers.

And butlers for the Addam’s Family.

And willows stunt double."

And willow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm 5'11, most guys are shorter than me."

That’s why I have platform shoes.

You’re welcome.

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

It's a strong preference for me, but hasn't been an absolute deal breaker in the past when I've liked everything else about them. But, from experience, some of my favourite sexual positions can be awkward or less enjoyable with shorter men. Plus, I'm not exactly a delicate, waif-like creature, so the worry of squashing them is real

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a strong preference for me, but hasn't been an absolute deal breaker in the past when I've liked everything else about them. But, from experience, some of my favourite sexual positions can be awkward or less enjoyable with shorter men. Plus, I'm not exactly a delicate, waif-like creature, so the worry of squashing them is real

Exactly this.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I don't need to worry, everyone is taller than me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck guys

They tend not to be as hung up on things if it means they get their tackle tickled

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"So many people won’t entertain someone who is short. Is that really an important thing? "

Wife is really short and she has no problem

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By *arkandlovelyWoman over a year ago

South Derbyshire

It is to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a sub I do like looking up at people which is ironic as I have hated it the majority of my life.

I find it a necessity now but at 5ft most people are taller than me.

I went out recently and even in my platform heels I was still the shortest in the venue

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"To some people it is and to some it isn't."

This

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"We're all the same height laying down is what I say.

Erm, we aren't.... "

So true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hope not I'll never get laid.

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

"To some people it is and to some it isn't.

This

To most people it is and to a small number of people it isn’t

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"To some people it is and to some it isn't.

This

To most people it is and to a small number of people it isn’t

Good point

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By *ose and her beastCouple over a year ago

Watford

I will never understand the height thing it must be a biological trait that some people just always go for taller people

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

I wouldn't say it is too everyone but distance is more so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well having a 1ft difference between mr and mrs, I’d go for a taller model next time.

(mr)

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"I hope not I'll never get laid."

Like a paving slabs or just some turf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haha fab heights. Can’t be the old ‘fab up’

I’m only 5ft 7

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By *.L.0460.Woman over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Haha fab heights. Can’t be the old ‘fab up’

I’m only 5ft 7"

But beautifully packaged

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple over a year ago

liverpool

I'm 5'7 on a good day and it's definitely too short for a lot of women. I don't care about the height of the woman though. Mr.

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By *opinovMan over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Don't know about men, but the shorter the better when it comes to women as far as I'm concerned... a little petite brunette and I'm helpless!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haha fab heights. Can’t be the old ‘fab up’

I’m only 5ft 7

But beautifully packaged

haha Thankyou

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By *ealthy_and_HungMan over a year ago

Princes Risborough, Luasanne, Alderney

tall women assemble here

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By *ryandseeMan over a year ago

Yorkshire

It's important if all the cake and chocolate is on the top shelf.

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By *onkeynutWoman over a year ago

somewhere

It is for me yes.

I like a tall man, it’s just another characteristic that I find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not at all for me , when you’re horizontal height doesn’t come into it

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

Yes, it’s important to me! My ex husband is pretty short so I always felt huge next to him. Which is daft as I’m 5’3”. I haven’t worn the current one down enough yet so he’s still plenty tall enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To most woman it is, i'm 5'8 which is pretty short but it's never bothered me it's more an issue here than it is in real life as i've been pretty successful in dating outside of fab.

It's just preferance I prefer slim woman so if i have a preferance then they can aswell, it's only an issue if you make it one.

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

"To most woman it is, i'm 5'8 which is pretty short but it's never bothered me it's more an issue here than it is in real life as i've been pretty successful in dating outside of fab.

It's just preferance I prefer slim woman so if i have a preferance then they can aswell, it's only an issue if you make it one."

Yes but you preferring slim women makes you shallow in our society...the women that prefer tall men... well aperantly they just have "high" (pun intended) standards.

It's not really the height that is the issue, but the double standards that emerge because of these so called preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To most woman it is, i'm 5'8 which is pretty short but it's never bothered me it's more an issue here than it is in real life as i've been pretty successful in dating outside of fab.

It's just preferance I prefer slim woman so if i have a preferance then they can aswell, it's only an issue if you make it one.

Yes but you preferring slim women makes you shallow in our society...the women that prefer tall men... well aperantly they just have "high" (pun intended) standards.

It's not really the height that is the issue, but the double standards that emerge because of these so called preferences. "

Weight can be changed height can’t so it’s not exactly a fair comparison

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Doggy style for me is much easier with a shorter guy because they slot right in and there isn’t an over abundance of leg to the rear.

Sometimes two tall people fucking is a bit like watching two daddy long legs dance around a lightbulb.

So there is that…..

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't."

I disagree with that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that"

You do? Howcome?

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Some men don't like a woman taller than them.

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that

You do? Howcome?"

Because I'm the 5'7 guy who is in shape and takes care of himself, however for a woman that wants a tall man I will never be good enough. You put me next to a tall guy who isn't in shape and doesn't "take care" of himself and let that woman choose ....she will either choose the tall guy or she will choose none of us. And to strengthen my argument I will copy and paste a comment from within this very thread that proves my point (hopefully she won't mind using her words) ...

"I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's the point in fixing on what you don't have and who you don't appeal to? I just don't see where it gets anyone. It doesn't change what other people prefer. It just makes you feel crap.

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Not really but then it isn't really difficult to be taller than me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that

You do? Howcome?

"I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular ""

Height doesn't automatically make you attractive man, you need other things to go with it , some men are lucky to have both but that's just the way it is. I'm 5'8 and im in shape and i'm a decent looking guy and i'd rather that than being tall and unattractive.

Regarding the comment, that's just shallow woman that you can do without man.

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By *aul1973HullMan over a year ago

East Hull

"Not really but then it isn't really difficult to be taller than me anyway"

we're all roughly the same height when laying down

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that

You do? Howcome?

"I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular "

Regarding the comment, that's just shallow woman that you can do without man."

Out of interest how are women that like tall men shallow but men who like slim women like yourself not shallow? I don't think either choice is shallow to be fair - people like what they like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that

You do? Howcome?

"I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular "

Regarding the comment, that's just shallow woman that you can do without man.

Out of interest how are women that like tall men shallow but men who like slim women like yourself not shallow? I don't think either choice is shallow to be fair - people like what they like. "

I said I prefer doesn't mean I exclude anything else, shallow is when they want that and only that.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that

You do? Howcome?

"I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular ""

I'm sorry but I'd disagree. I'd choose the one with the personality.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

I like tall men. They don't have to be 6' plus, just a few inches taller than me (I'm 5'3").

If a guy I'm attracted to doesn't like bigger girls, I don't stress over it, throw my toys out of the pram & accuse him of being shallow,I just move on.

Seems like some "shorter" guys just have a chip on their shoulder.

Accept that you can't change it & maybe you'll feel happier?

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that

You do? Howcome?

"I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular "

I'm sorry but I'd disagree. I'd choose the one with the personality."

I don't understand how your preference for personality relates to what I said. The point was that a woman that wants a tall man doesn't care about a man's personality or anything else about him until he ticks the height box.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that

You do? Howcome?

"I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular "

I'm sorry but I'd disagree. I'd choose the one with the personality.

That's not true man, I can guarantee every woman will choose zac efron over will ferrel even without their celebrity status.

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By *il sub princessWoman over a year ago

West Midlands

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that

You do? Howcome?

"I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular "

I'm sorry but I'd disagree. I'd choose the one with the personality.

That's not true man, I can guarantee every woman will choose zac efron over will ferrel even without their celebrity status."

100% would choose Will Ferrel!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that

You do? Howcome?

"I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular "

I'm sorry but I'd disagree. I'd choose the one with the personality.

That's not true man, I can guarantee every woman will choose zac efron over will ferrel even without their celebrity status.

100% would choose Will Ferrel!!!"

And would that be based exclusively on height?

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that

You do? Howcome?

"I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular "

I'm sorry but I'd disagree. I'd choose the one with the personality.

That's not true man, I can guarantee every woman will choose zac efron over will ferrel even without their celebrity status."

Again I disagree...a woman that wants a man to be over 6' will either choose will ferrel or she will not choose any of them. That's just my opinion...but also many of the comments on this thread from some of the ladies on fab support my argument

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By *il sub princessWoman over a year ago

West Midlands

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that

You do? Howcome?

"I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular "

I'm sorry but I'd disagree. I'd choose the one with the personality.

That's not true man, I can guarantee every woman will choose zac efron over will ferrel even without their celebrity status.

100% would choose Will Ferrel!!!

And would that be based exclusively on height?"

Not sure how tall he is to be honest, he's funny! That over looks any day!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's just one of the Physical attribute that help, if a 5'7 guy is in shape, groomed and takes care of himself then he'll be more attractive than a 6'3 guy who doesn't.

I disagree with that

You do? Howcome?

"I do sometimes see guys out and about and they are about same height as me (5’5” barefoot) , maybe an inch taller but muscly. I just can’t tho

Cos even the frame is pretty tiny even if muscular "

I'm sorry but I'd disagree. I'd choose the one with the personality.

That's not true man, I can guarantee every woman will choose zac efron over will ferrel even without their celebrity status.

I understand you man, I'm only 5'8 and I would like to be taller aswell but it doesn't bother me, I just go for shorter woman.

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