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A Question For Heterosexual Men
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have just received a delightful message from an individual saying I can't be Heterosexual and that the men who sleep with me must be bisexual, Yadda Yadda. It's not bothered me, I think it's amusing how narrow minded people are.
Anyway, it got me wondering. Heterosexual men, would you sleep or be sucked by a trans man who has female biology e.g. naturally has a vagina but identifies as a man and dresses as a man? No agenda in my question, just bored curiosity. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m of the opinion that for every human you meet there is some level of attraction or repulsion, it might be so small it’s undetected, or massive and makes your stomach flip.
I don’t think anyone is consciously in control of that feeling, so until you’ve met them you don’t know if you would or wouldn’t be attracted to them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m of the opinion that for every human you meet there is some level of attraction or repulsion, it might be so small it’s undetected, or massive and makes your stomach flip.
I don’t think anyone is consciously in control of that feeling, so until you’ve met them you don’t know if you would or wouldn’t be attracted to them. "
Interesting and very honest theory |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Apologises realised this was aimed at men but I’ve been with men women CDs and trans people so I’m kinda open minded "
It's ok. I heard Joe Lycett is pansexual also.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m of the opinion that for every human you meet there is some level of attraction or repulsion, it might be so small it’s undetected, or massive and makes your stomach flip.
I don’t think anyone is consciously in control of that feeling, so until you’ve met them you don’t know if you would or wouldn’t be attracted to them.
Interesting and very honest theory"
Thanks, just wondering have I inadvertently just realised I’m Pan from that?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honestly I don’t know what I would think probably depends on the person.
Were they trying to insult you or something?,Was this after you turned then down?
Sexuality is a complicated thing that can’t be easily defined into boxes is my opinion.Have to know more about you to know what I would consider you but thats just my opinion. |
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I am, and have always been, attracted to androgyny. Tomboys and slim hipped, small breasted women. I have experimented in the distant past with bisexuality and, while I’m not at all attracted to “blokey” males or overly masculine men, I do have a lingering attraction to slim, petite convincing tv/ts/tgs. It’s the androgyny thing again.
In answer to the original question, yes, I’d very much be attracted to a female to male ts, provided that we “clicked”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am, and have always been, attracted to androgyny. Tomboys and slim hipped, small breasted women. I have experimented in the distant past with bisexuality and, while I’m not at all attracted to “blokey” males or overly masculine men, I do have a lingering attraction to slim, petite convincing tv/ts/tgs. It’s the androgyny thing again.
In answer to the original question, yes, I’d very much be attracted to a female to male ts, provided that we “clicked”. "
The only thing is that usually trans men tend to be very masculine and with beards. Because of the testosterone they take
Maybe in their first stages they might still be Tom boysh, but a few years on T, and they get really handsome.
I’ve seen some really hot trans guys
Check Francesco Cicconetti , like I think he’s very handsome  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It comes down to the individual in question, there has to be some sort of chemical attraction weather it be man, woman or undefined if the attraction is there then yes.
A connection doesn’t always come down to the way somebody looks, it’s about who that person is on the inside.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m a hot blooded male who like the rest, enjoy a good hard fuck, but to enjoy it fully you have to connect on a subconscious level…
Well that’s my way of thinking anyway..! |
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I’m not a man but I remember having a nose at your profile the other day and seeing you had straight on there and that you’re only interested in men. It did get me wondering if most TVs put that or not. Genuinely wondering as i have no idea and most I have peeked at have bi anyway x |
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"I’m not a man but I remember having a nose at your profile the other day and seeing you had straight on there and that you’re only interested in men. It did get me wondering if most TVs put that or not. Genuinely wondering as i have no idea and most I have peeked at have bi anyway x"
The way I see it is that if a TV/CD who has no intention of transitioning nor do they identify as a TS says that they're straight then they're into women.
If a TS woman says they're straight then they're into men.
As for how any guy who has sex with a TV/CD identifies, that's up to them but in my head I would consider them to be bi.
If however they were to only be into TS's then I would say they were straight as a TS regardless of the stage of their transition is a woman. |
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"I’m not a man but I remember having a nose at your profile the other day and seeing you had straight on there and that you’re only interested in men. It did get me wondering if most TVs put that or not. Genuinely wondering as i have no idea and most I have peeked at have bi anyway x
The way I see it is that if a TV/CD who has no intention of transitioning nor do they identify as a TS says that they're straight then they're into women.
If a TS woman says they're straight then they're into men.
As for how any guy who has sex with a TV/CD identifies, that's up to them but in my head I would consider them to be bi.
If however they were to only be into TS's then I would say they were straight as a TS regardless of the stage of their transition is a woman."
Yes, now all that is exactly how I see it. Not that it matters how I see it! But I was genuinely intrigued. x |
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I don't see my attraction in terms gender. My attraction is based on the person and them having female anatomy. I have known and been with a pre op trans man. Someone who I was attracted to enjoy their company. There's no reason if meet another pre op trans man and there was mutual chemistry and attraction I wouldnt again. Gender is not an issuse to me per se. But we all have features we're are not attracted to and turn us off. For me it's a penis. It's in a way tragic because any trans man I'm with will eventually become sexually un-viable to me. That is life, our sexuality is our sexuality.
Personally because a fixed feature of my sexuality is based the presence of female anatomy regardless of gender I would say the most accurate label would be straight. I would say in some ways I'm kind of Pan as gender isn't an issue, however I wouldn't be totally accurate because anatomical sexual features is an issue to me. Maybe I don't quite fit in a box. I don't think I do, so I just go for seems the most accurate.
Like you OP I don't understand for of the arguments from men because I don't feel that way. But sexuality is wide and varied and I'm in not place to judge or tell people their sexuality.
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"I have just received a delightful message from an individual saying I can't be Heterosexual and that the men who sleep with me must be bisexual, Yadda Yadda. It's not bothered me, I think it's amusing how narrow minded people are.
Anyway, it got me wondering. Heterosexual men, would you sleep or be sucked by a trans man who has female biology e.g. naturally has a vagina but identifies as a man and dresses as a man? No agenda in my question, just bored curiosity. X"
Hi Lisa. Sorry if the message you received was insulting. Whether people agree with your take on sexuality or not, messaging you purely to argue with it seems pointless and unpleasant.
I’d consider myself pretty broad minded. I’d like to think that many people, myself included, no longer think that attraction should ‘always’ be confined to a specific gender. The vast majority of people I’m attracted to are men - generally quite ‘manly’ men. Occasionally a woman or androgynous male comes along and blows my socks off. That hasn’t happened with a tv/ts yet but I’ve no reason to assume it never will.
I don’t think that constantly questioning our own or others sexual identity really serves a purpose. I remember an ex friend of mine being annoyed when I went into a playroom with a woman alone as she’d decided to identify me as straight.
If I’m very attracted to someone - and they to me - the last thing I’d worry about is how we should identify.
Sorry if that went off tangent - I often do. |
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"I am, and have always been, attracted to androgyny. Tomboys and slim hipped, small breasted women. I have experimented in the distant past with bisexuality and, while I’m not at all attracted to “blokey” males or overly masculine men, I do have a lingering attraction to slim, petite convincing tv/ts/tgs. It’s the androgyny thing again.
In answer to the original question, yes, I’d very much be attracted to a female to male ts, provided that we “clicked”.
The only thing is that usually trans men tend to be very masculine and with beards. Because of the testosterone they take
Maybe in their first stages they might still be Tom boysh, but a few years on T, and they get really handsome.
I’ve seen some really hot trans guys
Check Francesco Cicconetti , like I think he’s very handsome "
This is where “how we’re wired” takes over and enters “impossible to explain” territory.
I find women with body hair quite attractive. It certainly doesn’t put me off. Hairy men, however, I don’t like at all. I would find it hard to get past facial hair on a MTF ts, but not on a FTM. I suppose it’s the juxtaposition of normal gender attributes. Heaven knows, I spent long enough agonising about it as a young man, I’m well past worrying about it now.
I just wish that the internet had existed thirty years ago and I could have maybe made different choices to those that I did back then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am, and have always been, attracted to androgyny. Tomboys and slim hipped, small breasted women. I have experimented in the distant past with bisexuality and, while I’m not at all attracted to “blokey” males or overly masculine men, I do have a lingering attraction to slim, petite convincing tv/ts/tgs. It’s the androgyny thing again.
In answer to the original question, yes, I’d very much be attracted to a female to male ts, provided that we “clicked”.
The only thing is that usually trans men tend to be very masculine and with beards. Because of the testosterone they take
Maybe in their first stages they might still be Tom boysh, but a few years on T, and they get really handsome.
I’ve seen some really hot trans guys
Check Francesco Cicconetti , like I think he’s very handsome
This is where “how we’re wired” takes over and enters “impossible to explain” territory.
I find women with body hair quite attractive. It certainly doesn’t put me off. Hairy men, however, I don’t like at all. I would find it hard to get past facial hair on a MTF ts, but not on a FTM. I suppose it’s the juxtaposition of normal gender attributes. Heaven knows, I spent long enough agonising about it as a young man, I’m well past worrying about it now.
I just wish that the internet had existed thirty years ago and I could have maybe made different choices to those that I did back then. "
That’s all very strange .. is it because in your mind you know they were assigned female at birth and potentially still have a vagina?
I think genital preference is totally okay, everybody has them. I think with MTF maybe is a bit easier because of bottom surgery and they look and function like a normal vagina (minus periods and making babies) while I’m not too sure how a FTM penis looks like or works.
I could totally be attracted to a trans man but I think I’d miss the penis for it to work as the need of being penetrated (not by a dildo) is strong
Regarding body hair or hair in general, I have such a difficult relationship with it , especially on me (but also I find like excess body hair on a woman to trigger my own dysphoria lol a friend of mine has lots of hair on her arms and I started checking mine …it’s just weird)
To the point that I lasered every inch of my skin and now I have like none 
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"That’s all very strange .. is it because in your mind you know they were assigned female at birth and potentially still have a vagina? "
I don’t know. Maybe. Does it matter?
"I think genital preference is totally okay, everybody has them. I think with MTF maybe is a bit easier because of bottom surgery and they look and function like a normal vagina (minus periods and making babies) while I’m not too sure how a FTM penis looks like or works.
I could totally be attracted to a trans man but I think I’d miss the penis for it to work as the need of being penetrated (not by a dildo) is strong
Regarding body hair or hair in general, I have such a difficult relationship with it , especially on me (but also I find like excess body hair on a woman to trigger my own dysphoria lol a friend of mine has lots of hair on her arms and I started checking mine …it’s just weird)
To the point that I lasered every inch of my skin and now I have like none
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I’m naturally not very hairy at all. Something I am quite grateful for. |
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