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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Profile Advice

Comment below and I will give you honest and frank advice on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok go on then I am in hit me with the best or worst I can take it I am a big person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m in. Be nice please

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By *otmyrealname99Man over a year ago

Manchester

Me too

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By *avie65Man over a year ago

In the west.

Go on. Now to cower behind the settee as if Dr Who is on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok haha

Fire away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I certainly wouldn't do this. It's not nice and people could take offence.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I certainly wouldn't do this. It's not nice and people could take offence. "

Sorry - was meant for flashing thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I already know it's crap

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go on then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok go on then I am in hit me with the best or worst I can take it I am a big person

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I'd take off Not Meeting Now, Don't Ask, as it can appear unwelcoming. Also, pictures: Many of the pictures are of the same angle and I find many of the guys I speak to like to see a close up of the face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In

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Needs more direction in terms of what you are looking for. A few more sentences in the profile body. Also, black and white pictures are very desensitizing and akin to Bebo days. Colour pictures work best.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok go on then I am in hit me with the best or worst I can take it I am a big person

I'd take off Not Meeting Now, Don't Ask, as it can appear unwelcoming. Also, pictures: Many of the pictures are of the same angle and I find many of the guys I speak to like to see a close up of the face."

Text need updates I agree was written during the first lockdown and yes pics are off the same angle as my pics are all about the clothes not me

Also I never post face pics not worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m in. Be nice please "
Too many mentions of things you don't like, lots of negatives but needs more positives in the profile text. Also, face pictures always make you stand out and look unique.

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By *anPsurreycoupleCouple over a year ago

Surrey

Go on then be interested to see

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mines already awesome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Me too

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On the whole not bad but be weary of taking pictures with the phone covering your face, as it looks like you are deliberately trying to hide something.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yay, validation from strangers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go on then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Go on. Now to cower behind the settee as if Dr Who is on. "
Profile text is ok apart from the "lurk in the shadows" part. Photographs need a lot of improvement, black and white and blurred out pictures don't add anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In

Needs more direction in terms of what you are looking for. A few more sentences in the profile body. Also, black and white pictures are very desensitizing and akin to Bebo days. Colour pictures work best."

I like black and white ones

. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m in. Be nice please Too many mentions of things you don't like, lots of negatives but needs more positives in the profile text. Also, face pictures always make you stand out and look unique."

Fair comments. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok haha

Fire away

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Trying too hard to be humerous in profile text. Make it more about you and what you are looking for/what makes you tick. Again, black and white pictures are a big no-no. Colour works best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Go on then

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Profile ok, needs more information on what your kinks and fetishes are in the profile text. Also the negative about abuse/blocks make it seem hostile. Pictures are ok, a good variety of different pictures which will save you time when things escalate to KIK as you won't get asked for lots of different angles.

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By *avie65Man over a year ago

In the west.

"Go on. Now to cower behind the settee as if Dr Who is on. Profile text is ok apart from the "lurk in the shadows" part. Photographs need a lot of improvement, black and white and blurred out pictures don't add anything. "

Text sorted.

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By *he love catsCouple over a year ago

South Wales

I would like you to give me advice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do me, do me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Go on then be interested to see

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Pictures are very blurred and also don't demonstrate you both as a couple. The legal disclaimer on pictures takes up profile space that you could use to describe your fantasies!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve had one lot of profile advice already but more couldn’t hurt. Fire away!

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By *nglishCharmMan over a year ago

Midlands

Please advise

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yay, validation from strangers."
Lose the text about Islamophobia, anti fax etc. It sounds very ranty. Sadly pictures in black and white, not appealing and don't stand out in a search result.

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Go on then...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yay, validation from strangers. Lose the text about Islamophobia, anti fax etc. It sounds very ranty. Sadly pictures in black and white, not appealing and don't stand out in a search result."

I appreciate this.

I will change everything immediately if not sooner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would like you to give me advice.

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The pictures need to show you both together better and also variations of settings, not just on the bed, what about other rooms in the house, mix it up.

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By *otmyrealname99Man over a year ago

Manchester

That went better than I was expecting

thank you

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By *he love catsCouple over a year ago

South Wales

"I would like you to give me advice.

The pictures need to show you both together better and also variations of settings, not just on the bed, what about other rooms in the house, mix it up."

Thank you for taking the time.

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By *ikebkentMan over a year ago

whitstable

Go on then…

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’ve had one lot of profile advice already but more couldn’t hurt. Fire away! "
I'd take off the part about vaccination. Pictures are good but you could also demonstrate action, toys or even real people would excite the mind. Also, Tgirls isn't spelt Tgurls

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yay, validation from strangers. Lose the text about Islamophobia, anti fax etc. It sounds very ranty. Sadly pictures in black and white, not appealing and don't stand out in a search result.

I appreciate this.

I will change everything immediately if not sooner."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Please advise

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Text content is not bad but photos as a plural does not have an apostrophe. You also need some public pictures. Looking at your profile all we can see is a shirt, mix it up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Go on then

Profile ok, needs more information on what your kinks and fetishes are in the profile text. Also the negative about abuse/blocks make it seem hostile. Pictures are ok, a good variety of different pictures which will save you time when things escalate to KIK as you won't get asked for lots of different angles."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go on then

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By *aggy dollsCouple over a year ago

Bradford

"Profile Advice

Comment below and I will give you honest and frank advice on your profile."

Could be interesting, ours is due a rewrite.

Mr Hayes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Go on then..."
Profile needs a nickname, not just initials. A good variety of pictures but colour stands out better in the galleries and will get you more fabs and messages. Also, now you have a partner, you can include him in some of your pictures, as guys often ask for pics with other people when things escalate to KIK.

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

"Profile Advice

Comment below and I will give you honest and frank advice on your profile."

I'm kind of frightened to ask, but it's best to grit my teeth and see if it could be better

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS over a year ago

Colchester

"Profile Advice

Comment below and I will give you honest and frank advice on your profile."

Give it to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell me how to get people interested in me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Go on then…"
profile gives a good idea of what you are looking for. Avoid text abbreviations and also self deprecation. You need more public pictures as the profile stubs at the bottom.

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By *ancer36Woman over a year ago

Stirling

Oh why not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm up for this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have I been missed? I’m confused which doesn’t take much on a Friday

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve had one lot of profile advice already but more couldn’t hurt. Fire away! I'd take off the part about vaccination. Pictures are good but you could also demonstrate action, toys or even real people would excite the mind. Also, Tgirls isn't spelt Tgurls"

Ta!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Go on then

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Profile text is good, no areas for improvement there. A good variety of pictures but avoid black and white, pictures in saunas with bright lights behind, as this distorts the picture. Avoid cartoons as well, as it doesn't say anything about you and looks like lazy profile filling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Profile Advice

Comment below and I will give you honest and frank advice on your profile.

Could be interesting, ours is due a rewrite.

Mr Hayes "
I'd take off the rant about people not reading the profile, as those that don't read won't read it anyway and it makes the text look overwhelming to read. Although a wide variety of pictures, many of them have edited borders/black and white/dimmed/blurred and most people won't bother to click or like them.

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By *l6789Man over a year ago

croydon

Intriguing…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Interesting to see so I’m in….hi all xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What’s the warranty on the advice? Is it guaranteed success

Not updated much since joining tbh. So probably needs a Rewrite. Which will likely never happen as nobody reads it anyway and only respond to the photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Profile Advice

Comment below and I will give you honest and frank advice on your profile.

I'm kind of frightened to ask, but it's best to grit my teeth and see if it could be better "
The profile text is far too long and starts off with a private "in" joke which excludes the reader. We don't need an explanation of what hetero flexible etc means as Fab has a glossary. In terms of pictures, my only criticism is the masked picture, it's not good, and could be associated with robbers/muggers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I definitely need advice

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By *hoirCouple over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Do me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh why not

You fail to mention your love of berets in your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Profile Advice

Comment below and I will give you honest and frank advice on your profile.

Give it to me

xx"
Avoid swearing in profile text. Pictures a good variety but some are too dark, and your profile picture is dark which doesn't stand out, pick a brighter one to use as your profile picture.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Tell me how to get people interested in me

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Lose the self deprecation in the text (the part about being ugly). The pictures are a good variety but one is just a cropped version of an existing picture. Round off the text of your profile with a verb prompt, e.g. "Send me a message and let's get the ball rolling".

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

Gutted, I was skipped. I guess that’s it then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The one's that get missed out are obviously perfect. Cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have I been missed? I’m confused which doesn’t take much on a Friday

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The pictures are far too dark and cartoon like, is this a video game or a hook up site? The text in the profile needs condensing, lose the philosophical parts and save them for the pillow talk.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tell me how to get people interested in me

Lose the self deprecation in the text (the part about being ugly). The pictures are a good variety but one is just a cropped version of an existing picture. Round off the text of your profile with a verb prompt, e.g. "Send me a message and let's get the ball rolling"."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh why not

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The swearing in the profile text can be off putting to some. A good amount of public pictures but black and white do not stand out, it's a swinger's site not a photography diploma. Otherwise good profile but round it off with a motivational sentence "Give me a message and let's get the party started".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No thanks it's perfect already

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm up for this "
Oh dear oh dear! Profile text not complete and has been left like that. This sends out a message of broken promises. The pictures are good but the gallery needs extending. I think you need to go back and take some time to complement your profile.

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By *ancer36Woman over a year ago

Stirling

"Oh why not

The swearing in the profile text can be off putting to some. A good amount of public pictures but black and white do not stand out, it's a swinger's site not a photography diploma. Otherwise good profile but round it off with a motivational sentence "Give me a message and let's get the party started"."

My most fabbed pic is black and white I like a little artistic flare - thanks for the comments xx

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By *nglishCharmMan over a year ago

Midlands

"Please advise

Text content is not bad but photos as a plural does not have an apostrophe. You also need some public pictures. Looking at your profile all we can see is a shirt, mix it up."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Gutted, I was skipped. I guess that’s it then

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Lose the self deprecation in the profile description, you can't hit the curtain rail but talk about what you CAN do. A good amount of pictures but be careful about taking pictures from the same angles over and over.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have I been missed? I’m confused which doesn’t take much on a Friday

The pictures are far too dark and cartoon like, is this a video game or a hook up site? The text in the profile needs condensing, lose the philosophical parts and save them for the pillow talk."

Can you explain cartoon like? Or what cartoons you’ve been watching?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m in for some friendly advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Intriguing…"
You can still discuss briefly your interests without spoiling the surprise. Let's hear a little about what you like about Same Room Swapping, for example. Again, black and white pictures are very dated and dull.

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By *l6789Man over a year ago

croydon

"Gutted, I was skipped. I guess that’s it then

Happy to help where op is slipping through the cracks

Ur pics cut the tip of ur cock off this might send the wrong message that ur tipless, make sure the bell is on the knocker.

Trim those finger nails back a tad, have a towel for the wet patches, and instead of licking their eyeballs offer to feed them cake seems to work here. So I’m lead to believe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got left behind

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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Saying you take this site as a joke could be perceived as you taking arrangements to meet as a joke. Do be careful about too much information about your personal life e.g marriage. A good amount of pictures but save the drawings for your hobby time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If I miss anyone out, it's not intentional, please make a note below and I will be sure to critique your profile.

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By *ou only live onceMan over a year ago

London

I could use a spruce up, and always happy to take advice, so let me know...(but be kind!)

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By *l6789Man over a year ago

croydon

"Intriguing… You can still discuss briefly your interests without spoiling the surprise. Let's hear a little about what you like about Same Room Swapping, for example. Again, black and white pictures are very dated and dull."

I like how when I swap Christmas presents in the same room I can watch their face when they open them. Like when I saw my brother in law open his Tom hardy calendar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Interesting to see so I’m in….hi all xx"
The profile text is generally ok but waffly in places. Especially the part about the pooch. The middle sentences can be combined to make a whole paragraph, as it all relates to what you are interested in. Pictures are generally good, except for the second one done (13th), magnifying glass needed to see you!

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Port talbot

"Oh why not

My most fabbed pic is black and white I like a little artistic flare - thanks for the comments xx"

That's because black and white photos rule and that's a fact

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interesting to see so I’m in….hi all xx The profile text is generally ok but waffly in places. Especially the part about the pooch. The middle sentences can be combined to make a whole paragraph, as it all relates to what you are interested in. Pictures are generally good, except for the second one done (13th), magnifying glass needed to see you!"

I’ll take that, always happy to accept constructive criticism x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What’s the warranty on the advice? Is it guaranteed success

Not updated much since joining tbh. So probably needs a Rewrite. Which will likely never happen as nobody reads it anyway and only respond to the photos

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The profile picture should be a picture of you both together, the individual pictures of the man and woman feel very disconnected from what your text describes. I'd remove the Please Note section as it doesn't really add much and just takes up space.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Saying you take this site as a joke could be perceived as you taking arrangements to meet as a joke. Do be careful about too much information about your personal life e.g marriage. A good amount of pictures but save the drawings for your hobby time."

Amendments made. Ta.

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By *l6789Man over a year ago

croydon

"Oh why not

My most fabbed pic is black and white I like a little artistic flare - thanks for the comments xx

That's because black and white photos rule and that's a fact

I’d agree can’t deny Robert Mappelthorpe was a a visionary

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I definitely need advice "
Avoid text speach such as "njoy". A good variety of pictures, no room for improvement there. Try and marry the pieces of information in your text in to paragraphs, pick out pieces of information that are related and join them together, it's a long way to the bottom of the text!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do me

C"
The profile text needs expanding. I can see a lingerie fetish, so talk about it in the text. There is a reason Ann Summers is so successful. Black and white profile pictures don't stand out on a search result form.

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By *batMan over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Go on then, let's hear what you think.

Cheers,

Gbat

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By *hoirCouple over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Do me

C The profile text needs expanding. I can see a lingerie fetish, so talk about it in the text. There is a reason Ann Summers is so successful. Black and white profile pictures don't stand out on a search result form."

Thank you

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

I’m in….I’m thick skinned

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m in for some friendly advice "
You need a nickname for people to remember you by, something that will stick in their head and make them want to message you, rather than simply 'g'. The profile text needs expanding, talk about your fetishes and fantasies. You need more pictures and ones that are closer to the camera.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Port talbot

"Oh why not

My most fabbed pic is black and white I like a little artistic flare - thanks for the comments xx

That's because black and white photos rule and that's a fact

I’d agree can’t deny Robert Mappelthorpe was a a visionary"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I could use a spruce up, and always happy to take advice, so let me know...(but be kind!)"
Most of the text is good but cut out the disclaimer of excuses at the bottom. Pictures wise, I'm guessing no privacy concerns so a face pic to go with the body would attract more interest. Black and white pics don't spark interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Go on then, let's hear what you think.

Cheers,

Gbat "
The text is generally ok but cut out the explanations of what your statistics mean at the bottom. I.e. location. In terms of pictures, if you are not willing to show your face, it is better to crop it out, rather than blur and smudge.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I might regret this.. I’m in xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m in….I’m thick skinned

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Let's lose the part about the senior moment and trim the page up to there and it should be fine in terms of text. In terms of pictures, all are black and white which makes them look ambiguous and also, as a couples profile, you both should appear in at least some pictures of the gallery. Try taking pictures in different settings as the feedback that many Fab users give is that they look for creativity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not, let's see your thoughts.

Mrs

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By *batMan over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"The text is generally ok but cut out the explanations of what your statistics mean at the bottom. I.e. location. In terms of pictures, if you are not willing to show your face, it is better to crop it out, rather than blur and smudge."

Thanks for taking the time,

cheers,

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I might regret this.. I’m in xxxx "
The profile text is too practically-orientated e.g. speak on WhatsApp. Readers want to hear about fetishes, interests, they want to know what happens when they message or meet you. To take the pictures to the next level, include more of you as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I might regret this.. I’m in xxxx The profile text is too practically-orientated e.g. speak on WhatsApp. Readers want to hear about fetishes, interests, they want to know what happens when they message or meet you. To take the pictures to the next level, include more of you as a couple."

Thank you, it’s supposed to be a single profile but admin changed it as I mentioned Hubby being present on occasion, only I play xx

I change the write up a lot thanks for the advice xx

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

"I’m in….I’m thick skinned

Let's lose the part about the senior moment and trim the page up to there and it should be fine in terms of text. In terms of pictures, all are black and white which makes them look ambiguous and also, as a couples profile, you both should appear in at least some pictures of the gallery. Try taking pictures in different settings as the feedback that many Fab users give is that they look for creativity."

usually, the straight blokes aren’t too fussed on seeing Mr x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why not, let's see your thoughts.

Mrs"
The information about friend requests and no single males can be skipped out , this can be read in your statistics and gives a negative vibe in your profile text. Your profile picture would be so much better if you used the original version, it's difficult to see the details on many pictures, as so dark. Also, make your friends list public and verifications public, these reassure people that you are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In for a penny…x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go on then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks to everyone who volunteered to be critiqued!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not, let's see your thoughts.

Mrs The information about friend requests and no single males can be skipped out , this can be read in your statistics and gives a negative vibe in your profile text. Your profile picture would be so much better if you used the original version, it's difficult to see the details on many pictures, as so dark. Also, make your friends list public and verifications public, these reassure people that you are genuine."

Thank you, but no public friends or veris, it's definitely not needed, I like to keep some privacy and 3 in meet we're definitely genuine.

Thank you

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ll be keen on your views

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By *oungalpha20Man over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

I'd like to know how mine comes across.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd like to know how mine comes across. "
I think you could elaborate more in your profile text on your dominant kinks. One or two more public pictures too. Give yourself a nick name rather than just M to stand out.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman over a year ago

Next Door

Curious

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In for a penny…x"
A good range of pictures but the profile text needs expanding. What are you looking for, what are you looking to do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We’ll be keen on your views

K"
The profile text is well written and just about the right amount. Pictures wise, there is a good range. Difficult to fault your profile really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Curious

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The text is ok, but needs more elaboration in terms of fetishes/swinging interests. The blank profile comment comes across as hostile. Pictures wise, I think a face picture would be a good addition, especially as it can almost be seen in one of the pics anyway.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan over a year ago

Aylesbury

How can I get less views?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd appreciate any feedback!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 25/03/22 20:02:58]

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

This like having your homework marked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Happy to be critiqued..I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go on please,

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By *uperjackMan over a year ago

Bristol

I’m definitely in!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How can I get less views?"

The profile needs more elaboration. You need to sell yourself. Talk about your strong sexual points. The pictures are ok but the close up of your forehead doesn't bring anything to your profile.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan over a year ago

Aylesbury

"How can I get less views?

The profile needs more elaboration. You need to sell yourself. Talk about your strong sexual points. The pictures are ok but the close up of your forehead doesn't bring anything to your profile."

I said less views

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd appreciate any feedback!"
Your profile doesn't tell me anything about you other than that you are poly and you don't bite. What is your experience, what are your ambitions from this site? Get them written on your profile. Pictures wise, I think you need to think about where you are aiming the camera, one picture is mainly of the floor behind you and the other one you aren't even looking at the camera.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 25/03/22 20:02:58]"
Starting the profile text by self deprecating is not good. You need to sell yourself. I don't see much in your profile text that relates to the act of swinging. This would be a good way to fill out your profile text. Pictures wise, it's a black and white picture which doesn't really show you as a whole. It needs more pictures and colour pictures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Happy to be critiqued..I think "
Can't view your profile, so can't give a critique.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fair point, thanks!

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By *dalisqueWoman over a year ago

land of make believe

"I certainly wouldn't do this. It's not nice and people could take offence.

Sorry - was meant for flashing thread."

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"Gutted, I was skipped. I guess that’s it then

Lose the self deprecation in the profile description, you can't hit the curtain rail but talk about what you CAN do. A good amount of pictures but be careful about taking pictures from the same angles over and over."

Thank you. I will take your comments onboard. Hopefully I’ll see more vagina now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This like having your homework marked

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I don't think the middle aged comment is necessary in your profile text. Also, the pictures are mainly of your clothes and...you can't swing with am outfit. The focus needs to be on you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m definitely in!"
Jack. I'm going to be blunt here, people don't want to hear about what a great time you had with a previous sexual partner, they want to hear about what a great time THEY could have with you. Picture wise, it's mainly focused on your torso and in some pictures, that is covered with clothing. You are modelling yourself, not the clothing, this isn't a clothing catalogue!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dare I ask?

be gentle please

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Dare I ask?

be gentle please

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Profile text wise, I think it is generally ok, there is a description of what you are looking for. I would cut out the bit about body age and being in fifties, sell yourself to the users. Pictures wise, there is a good variety in terms of TYPES of pictures but the black and white edit drowms them out on some of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dare I ask?

be gentle please

Profile text wise, I think it is generally ok, there is a description of what you are looking for. I would cut out the bit about body age and being in fifties, sell yourself to the users. Pictures wise, there is a good variety in terms of TYPES of pictures but the black and white edit drowms them out on some of them."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Happy to be critiqued..I think Can't view your profile, so can't give a critique."

That’s odd, feel free to try now

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS over a year ago

Perth

Can this go 2 ways? Since criticism is being handed out, and quite abruptly..

OP, lose the very 1st picture thats clearly face app'd/ heavily filtered, brush up on make up and brush your weave a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am I brave enough?

Yes.

No.

Aargh.

Go for it!

Glutton for punishment, me.

I have tried to be as positive as I can be in my profile, and I love the written word, but who knows what someone else can spot

Thanks OP!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ohhh.. Yes please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It doesnt matter what profiles say just do you have a few decent pics for the girls to get damp over help too

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Mayfair

"How can I get less views?"

....by hiding your profile DrFeelGood.

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By *uperjackMan over a year ago

Bristol

"I’m definitely in! Jack. I'm going to be blunt here, people don't want to hear about what a great time you had with a previous sexual partner, they want to hear about what a great time THEY could have with you. Picture wise, it's mainly focused on your torso and in some pictures, that is covered with clothing. You are modelling yourself, not the clothing, this isn't a clothing catalogue!"

Blunt is good Lisa! I’m in your debt, and now I’m also in the nude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a glutton for punishment!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m always open to other’s opinions

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By *illie99TV/TS over a year ago

Central Scotland

OK I really should update my profile anyway so would appreciate some professional tips

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Umm, it’s gone a bit quiet …

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Umm, it’s gone a bit quiet …"

I'll do you.....gorgeous. The end

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Umm, it’s gone a bit quiet …"

My profile must be top tier

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By *illie99TV/TS over a year ago

Central Scotland

"Umm, it’s gone a bit quiet …"

Might be a good thing

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By *oppet22TV/TS over a year ago

huddersfield

Am up for that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clearly we’re flawless, we ‘late to the party ones’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Umm, it’s gone a bit quiet …

I'll do you.....gorgeous. The end

Aww, you

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By *.L.0460.Woman over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I'm pretty happy with mine, but would be interested in a different opinion!

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Clearly we’re flawless, we ‘late to the party ones’

I survived virtually unscathed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m open to feedback

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I'm pretty happy with mine, but would be interested in a different opinion!"

See, you're all gorgeous so I can't find a fault with anyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wrote mine and probably wouldn't change it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am open to some brutal feedback if required

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By *assing Fancies xCouple over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We're always open to change if it's needed

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By *illie99TV/TS over a year ago

Central Scotland

"I'm pretty happy with mine, but would be interested in a different opinion!"

OK there's a lot to read, but the summary is yummy!

Does that suffice

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By *.L.0460.Woman over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I'm pretty happy with mine, but would be interested in a different opinion!

OK there's a lot to read, but the summary is yummy!

Does that suffice

Thanks lovely!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm open for feedback, I know mine's rubbish

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By *illie99TV/TS over a year ago

Central Scotland

"I'm pretty happy with mine, but would be interested in a different opinion!

OK there's a lot to read, but the summary is yummy!

Does that suffice

Thanks lovely!"

Your welcome

On another note after listening to SM don't you forget about me, on a you tube loop for the last hour ans a half..... I think we've been forgotten

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By *.L.0460.Woman over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I'm pretty happy with mine, but would be interested in a different opinion!

OK there's a lot to read, but the summary is yummy!

Does that suffice

Thanks lovely!

Your welcome

On another note after listening to SM don't you forget about me, on a you tube loop for the last hour ans a half..... I think we've been forgotten "

Yes, it looks that way!! Perhaps Lisa needed a stiff drink & a break from screen time

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By *hancer666Man over a year ago

Redbourn

Like the twist of asking to critique rather than the usual 'please help' that thread always becomes unfriendly and fab territoral . the difference in thread atmosphere, positive and word i never use on fab... 'happy'. Hope dont mind, I liked the pics, very clockwork orange. No need to critique mine thanks, it's flaws, lack of punctuation on profile and obvious school boy mistakes im cool with

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By *illie99TV/TS over a year ago

Central Scotland

"I'm pretty happy with mine, but would be interested in a different opinion!

OK there's a lot to read, but the summary is yummy!

Does that suffice

Thanks lovely!

Your welcome

On another note after listening to SM don't you forget about me, on a you tube loop for the last hour ans a half..... I think we've been forgotten

Yes, it looks that way!! Perhaps Lisa needed a stiff drink & a break from screen time

Yep can't be easy being a modern day just Joan, agony aunt

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By *illie99TV/TS over a year ago

Central Scotland

"Like the twist of asking to critique rather than the usual 'please help' that thread always becomes unfriendly and fab territoral . the difference in thread atmosphere, positive and word i never use on fab... 'happy'. Hope dont mind, I liked the pics, very clockwork orange. No need to critique mine thanks, it's flaws, lack of punctuation on profile and obvious school boy mistakes im cool with"

Tis cool to be cool

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In for a penny…x A good range of pictures but the profile text needs expanding. What are you looking for, what are you looking to do? "

Thanks - will duly consider.

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

"Profile Advice

Comment below and I will give you honest and frank advice on your profile.

I'm kind of frightened to ask, but it's best to grit my teeth and see if it could be better The profile text is far too long and starts off with a private "in" joke which excludes the reader. We don't need an explanation of what hetero flexible etc means as Fab has a glossary. In terms of pictures, my only criticism is the masked picture, it's not good, and could be associated with robbers/muggers."

Thanks, I'll bear this in mind and do a rewrite soon

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By *for2Man over a year ago

Bristol

I'm in please, any advice gratefully received

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By *r SproutMan over a year ago

the middle somewhere

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS over a year ago

Stockport

Tell me about my profile please. Yes, it is long and most readers lose the will to live before they get halfway through. And no, it doesn't seem to attract anybody that wants to have sex with me. Apart from that though?

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