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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably because despite it being against the rules there are a decent amount of women advertising just that on here. Sex has been a commodity for a long as we've existed. Why would that trade exist everywhere else in the world and not in Fab?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's never entered my head"
Mine neither but turn again I want something more regular do question how many of these dudes actually pay up afterwards.Imagine then sprinting out the door after the deed is done.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s their go to isn’t it. You decline a meet so they offer to pay. It’s offensive. I could be very well off by now if I’d accepted  "
Their? Who's "they"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s their go to isn’t it. You decline a meet so they offer to pay. It’s offensive. I could be very well off by now if I’d accepted
Their? Who's "they"
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The people that have been mentioned who offer money, the ones that triggered this thread. Who else would I be talking about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is against sites rules
Is it policed though?
Effectively?
For that, admin need reports
Do they get enough reports?
If someone is offering money, they won't just be offering it to one person
They need everyone to report them yet I guess most just block and move on
Assuming they do get reports, only an effective ban system will deter this - and not just banning the user name
It won't wipe it out, but it could slow it down |
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"Probably because despite it being against the rules there are a decent amount of women advertising just that on here. Sex has been a commodity for a long as we've existed. Why would that trade exist everywhere else in the world and not in Fab?
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I can accept that but my confusion is mostly aimed at first messages that consist of
will you ...... for ......
Would they go to a bar and just expect the first lady they see to be a sex worker and ask the same questions..?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s their go to isn’t it. You decline a meet so they offer to pay. It’s offensive. I could be very well off by now if I’d accepted "
Doubt you would be they seem the kind to make excuses and run or drive of in their car with your handbag and all your stuff in it leaving you naked at the side of the road.
Happened to one of my enemies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s their go to isn’t it. You decline a meet so they offer to pay. It’s offensive. I could be very well off by now if I’d accepted
Doubt you would be they seem the kind to make excuses and run or drive of in their car with your handbag and all your stuff in it leaving you naked at the side of the road.
Happened to one of my enemies"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it the same if a man offers a packet of shortbread fingers? 
They give me a migraine, I’d prefer chocolate hobnobs if possible
Just making a note & whizzing to Waitrose"
Oooh very posh, Asda sell them for much less you know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it the same if a man offers a packet of shortbread fingers?
They give me a migraine, I’d prefer chocolate hobnobs if possible "
How dare you!!
Now we will never meet you will spend all night thinking about what could have been. 
Insulting my country like that(pattersons are garbage though)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only take payment in cake am afraid!
As for paying a lady there are many here that message offering their services that way, I guess some guys think that if one does it then fair game to try it with everyone.
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"Is it the same if a man offers a packet of shortbread fingers?
They give me a migraine, I’d prefer chocolate hobnobs if possible
Just making a note & whizzing to Waitrose
Oooh very posh, Asda sell them for much less you know "
Ooohh cheap date - heaven  |
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"I have a question.
Why do a decent amount of men think that payment will get them sex on here, would it not be easier to find a lady that is in that line of work and go from there...? "
Probably due to the amount of women asking for people to pay their supporter pass for them?
If it’s any consolation to you; I had a guy offer me cash to let him wank me off……  |
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Not something we’d offer/accept on here but it is a big part of this site.
Just check the updates on a Saturday and Sunday morning, plenty of females and couples offering sex for some sort of payment ie cash or drugs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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couple off reasons
And fair play to anyone who dose make a living that way not knocking it but it’s not the place
I understand that it’s work and not fun and if your on fab for off durty fun fare play
But the reason are
1 aw is the opposite to fab men to woman ratios so sum try to on here as they market in they area is saturated over there I don’t condone this behaviour
2 people may have a profile over there and here
They work here if cut loose fun people see the profile over there
Try for free here dosent work so offer money
3 people are just chanceing they luck thinking that money will make someone sleep with them |
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"It is against sites rules
Is it policed though?
Effectively?
For that, admin need reports
Do they get enough reports?
If someone is offering money, they won't just be offering it to one person
They need everyone to report them yet I guess most just block and move on
Assuming they do get reports, only an effective ban system will deter this - and not just banning the user name
It won't wipe it out, but it could slow it down"
I reported a woman local to me, who was offering sex for £50 solo, or £40 each if two guys together. Her profile was removed, but she reappeared a little time later, new name, same pics…… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I certainly wouldn't pay for it but if I did then I wouldn't be making offers like that on here. I just find it insulting to the other person. Go to a brothel if that's your thing. |
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I have to say I find this a little strange and to be honest it has not been a one off. I've had it several times where money has been offered to fuck my wife.
Just get a brass I think it comes across as desperate as fuck offering money on here.
I also think alot of men think because a female is on this site they will fuck everything and anything, then when told no thanks there egos are a little hurt.
Then comes the offer of money and still a no thanks then some abuse and a block from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a question.
Why do a decent amount of men think that payment will get them sex on here, would it not be easier to find a lady that is in that line of work and go from there...? "
If that's what they want ,let them be like that but not for me thanks. |
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
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I'd never pay for sex on here or in real life, having soad that op there is alot a women that mention it. You'd be surprised, so I guess that's why some men are offering it at the beginning |
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
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"I'd never pay for sex on here or in real life, having said that op there is alot a women that mention it. You'd be surprised, so I guess that's why some men are offering it at the beginning "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably because despite it being against the rules there are a decent amount of women advertising just that on here. Sex has been a commodity for a long as we've existed. Why would that trade exist everywhere else in the world and not in Fab?
Mr
I can accept that but my confusion is mostly aimed at first messages that consist of
will you ...... for ......
Would they go to a bar and just expect the first lady they see to be a sex worker and ask the same questions..?
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How many women go out expecting to get drinks bought for them by the first man they smile at?
Please don't get me wrong, I'm not defending the behaviour but there are a lot of people, male and female who view sex - or even sexual attention - as something that can be bartered for. Even the hot pics list regularly has photos with "fab if you'd like ...."
Your OP asked why some men are like this. I think the answer is that some women will sell what they want to buy so it can be a successful tactic - if you count getting a shag as a success.
Why do people ring you up asking if you've had an accident or send you emails about their uncle trying to get money out of Nigeria? None of these are behaviours you'd expect from a stranger in a pub but they all enjoy enough success to make the effort worth while.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get offered money and they get reported
I’ve been offered to be bred in a first message…at least buy me dinner first (I joke)
My rule of thumb is if you wouldn’t say it to a person in real life especially as a first message then it’s not okay to say it here.
I’ve always wondered if there a maximum number on a block list or if admin can see who has been blocked and if it raises any questions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s their go to isn’t it. You decline a meet so they offer to pay. It’s offensive. I could be very well off by now if I’d accepted
Their? Who's "they"
Mr
The people that have been mentioned who offer money, the ones that triggered this thread. Who else would I be talking about?"
Sorry, I think I misread your meaning. My mistake.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get offered money and they get reported
I’ve been offered to be bred in a first message…at least buy me dinner first (I joke)
My rule of thumb is if you wouldn’t say it to a person in real life especially as a first message then it’s not okay to say it here.
I’ve always wondered if there a maximum number on a block list or if admin can see who has been blocked and if it raises any questions "
Ok so a movie then??
I’m much worse in real life |
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"I get offered money and they get reported
I’ve been offered to be bred in a first message…at least buy me dinner first (I joke)
My rule of thumb is if you wouldn’t say it to a person in real life especially as a first message then it’s not okay to say it here.
I’ve always wondered if there a maximum number on a block list or if admin can see who has been blocked and if it raises any questions "
There can’t be a maximum number. I’d have definitely passed it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it the same if a man offers a packet of shortbread fingers?
They give me a migraine, I’d prefer chocolate hobnobs if possible "
absolute belter with a brew hob nobs though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t speak for all men but it doesn’t make sense. OP agree - surely makes more sense to go straight to someone in that line of work if you’re willing to pay—they’re bound to have more success than hoping that women on here will suddenly open their legs at the mere mention of cash |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see why they do it considering how many women come on here to advertise their, snaps and onlyfans.
Not to mention all the ones looking for sugar daddies, free supporter codes, selling underwear etc.
I don't think there's a day where you can go through the "All updates" section and not see at least one woman asking for money in one way or another.
So yeah, that's why you have so many men offering money |
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It could be linked to the number of women who have statuses asking someone to buy them a site supporter pass, take them shopping or be their sugar daddy.
It's all against site rules but not everyone follows rules. |
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"Will admit paid for it in the past, working away and overseas was often easier to use the hotel escorts than try meeting someone "
See, for me, apart from the whole “she’s only interested in my money” aspect, if she’s an attractive woman great, but there’s that ticking clock in the background going on, and then how many guys has she been with before me today…….if I was working away, staying in a hotel and without company, I would rather have a wank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will admit paid for it in the past, working away and overseas was often easier to use the hotel escorts than try meeting someone
See, for me, apart from the whole “she’s only interested in my money” aspect, if she’s an attractive woman great, but there’s that ticking clock in the background going on, and then how many guys has she been with before me today…….if I was working away, staying in a hotel and without company, I would rather have a wank "
No different to meeting here or a club, yours may not be the first they had that day or hour! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I have a question.
Why do a decent amount of men think that payment will get them sex on here, would it not be easier to find a lady that is in that line of work and go from there...? "
Because the hope is you will be cheaper. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can see why they do it considering how many women come on here to advertise their, snaps and onlyfans.
Not to mention all the ones looking for sugar daddies, free supporter codes, selling underwear etc.
I don't think there's a day where you can go through the "All updates" section and not see at least one woman asking for money in one way or another.
So yeah, that's why you have so many men offering money "
But then those men should offer money only to those women asking for it, not assume others will. Let’s be honest, if a woman says no money isn’t going to change her mind. But if she was really always wanting money she won’t say no, she’ll say yes and hit you with the money request after or just say that it will cost. So don’t think there is an excuse for offering money when you’ve had a no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a question.
Why do a decent amount of men think that payment will get them sex on here, would it not be easier to find a lady that is in that line of work and go from there...? "
Majority of single men on here think that it's actually acceptable to treat single women and women in couples as some kind of free prostitutes for their pleasure. When that doesn't fruit any results the next progression is to treat them as ones that you have to pay for possibly  |
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"I can see why they do it considering how many women come on here to advertise their, snaps and onlyfans.
Not to mention all the ones looking for sugar daddies, free supporter codes, selling underwear etc.
I don't think there's a day where you can go through the "All updates" section and not see at least one woman asking for money in one way or another.
So yeah, that's why you have so many men offering money
But then those men should offer money only to those women asking for it, not assume others will. Let’s be honest, if a woman says no money isn’t going to change her mind. But if she was really always wanting money she won’t say no, she’ll say yes and hit you with the money request after or just say that it will cost. So don’t think there is an excuse for offering money when you’ve had a no."
The question the op asked was why a decent amount of men think that payment will get them sex on here? The answer is because it will. Not necessarily with every woman but with a decent amount if statuses are anything to go by.
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"It is against sites rules
Is it policed though?
Effectively?
For that, admin need reports
Do they get enough reports?
If someone is offering money, they won't just be offering it to one person
They need everyone to report them yet I guess most just block and move on
Assuming they do get reports, only an effective ban system will deter this - and not just banning the user name
It won't wipe it out, but it could slow it down"
I've seen quite a few female profiles who offer sex for drugs on my local updates.. always report them. |
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"Will admit paid for it in the past, working away and overseas was often easier to use the hotel escorts than try meeting someone
See, for me, apart from the whole “she’s only interested in my money” aspect, if she’s an attractive woman great, but there’s that ticking clock in the background going on, and then how many guys has she been with before me today…….if I was working away, staying in a hotel and without company, I would rather have a wank
No different to meeting here or a club, yours may not be the first they had that day or hour!"
Paying someone for sex, is very different to meeting someone in here or a club |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will admit paid for it in the past, working away and overseas was often easier to use the hotel escorts than try meeting someone
See, for me, apart from the whole “she’s only interested in my money” aspect, if she’s an attractive woman great, but there’s that ticking clock in the background going on, and then how many guys has she been with before me today…….if I was working away, staying in a hotel and without company, I would rather have a wank
No different to meeting here or a club, yours may not be the first they had that day or hour!
Paying someone for sex, is very different to meeting someone in here or a club "
Exactly the same if worried how many others they have met before you, if you worried about that it doesn't matter where you meet someone unless you frequent convents |
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"Will admit paid for it in the past, working away and overseas was often easier to use the hotel escorts than try meeting someone
See, for me, apart from the whole “she’s only interested in my money” aspect, if she’s an attractive woman great, but there’s that ticking clock in the background going on, and then how many guys has she been with before me today…….if I was working away, staying in a hotel and without company, I would rather have a wank
No different to meeting here or a club, yours may not be the first they had that day or hour!
Paying someone for sex, is very different to meeting someone in here or a club
Exactly the same if worried how many others they have met before you, if you worried about that it doesn't matter where you meet someone unless you frequent convents"
Are her eyes closed in ecstasy, or is she just thinking of the money? |
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By *lairekTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I have never offered money on Fab, that is clearly offensive. I have however had women and couples occasionally ask for "gifts" of wine and/or sexy underwear.
Not all prostitution is cash based.  "
BittyCoin ? 
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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"Probably because despite it being against the rules there are a decent amount of women advertising just that on here. Sex has been a commodity for a long as we've existed. Why would that trade exist everywhere else in the world and not in Fab?
Mr"
Well said. |
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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"I have a question.
Why do a decent amount of men think that payment will get them sex on here, would it not be easier to find a lady that is in that line of work and go from there...? "
Have you been offered money by a guy for sex then? |
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"A girl I met up with brought me homemade cookies and mini cheesecakes and honestly it was the best thing
Please note if that classes as payment for sex I'm up for it lol"
Ha ha, I've taken baked goods to socials before! Still waiting for someone to bring me something  |
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"I have never offered money on Fab, that is clearly offensive. I have however had women and couples occasionally ask for "gifts" of wine and/or sexy underwear.
Not all prostitution is cash based.
BittyCoin ?
(I'll get mi coat)"
Cheeky! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably because despite it being against the rules there are a decent amount of women advertising just that on here. Sex has been a commodity for a long as we've existed. Why would that trade exist everywhere else in the world and not in Fab?
Mr"
That is no excuse to treat every woman like a prostitute just because there are some. |
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By *lappyMan
over a year ago
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"I have a question.
Why do a decent amount of men think that payment will get them sex on here, would it not be easier to find a lady that is in that line of work and go from there...? "
can’t get my head here and if anything it makes more and more women leave the site, just be polite and use manners when messaging and don’t hound girls if you don’t get a reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a question.
Why do a decent amount of men think that payment will get them sex on here, would it not be easier to find a lady that is in that line of work and go from there...?
can’t get my head here and if anything it makes more and more women leave the site, just be polite and use manners when messaging and don’t hound girls if you don’t get a reply "
It's never made me want to leave the site but it has made me much more cautious and of who I will reply to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think those men get a kick out of paying a non professional."
I think some do and I get that for some is a fantasy but I think others just think that's the only way they are going to get someone to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think men do it because some women like me do like to accept cash. I was offered a fiver once for anal and it was the best sex of my life and I was able to afford a cheeseburger and fries once we had finished. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men do it because some women like me do like to accept cash. I was offered a fiver once for anal and it was the best sex of my life and I was able to afford a cheeseburger and fries once we had finished. "
Did you get extra pickle? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men do it because some women like me do like to accept cash. I was offered a fiver once for anal and it was the best sex of my life and I was able to afford a cheeseburger and fries once we had finished.
Did you get extra pickle?"
No because my rectum was quite sore after anal and the pickle doesn't dissolve properly in my stomach and it comes out of my asshole in its pure raw form and it burns my anal walls so I skipped the pickle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think men do it because some women like me do like to accept cash. I was offered a fiver once for anal and it was the best sex of my life and I was able to afford a cheeseburger and fries once we had finished.
Did you get extra pickle?
No because my rectum was quite sore after anal and the pickle doesn't dissolve properly in my stomach and it comes out of my asshole in its pure raw form and it burns my anal walls so I skipped the pickle. "
Chapter 12: I Skipped The Pickle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well.
I've never used an escort or such like. The ideas never really appealed to me. The rapport you'd make during a meet would be fake. It's a professional courtesy.
However. One day I got curious and had a look on adult work. To be honest I can see why some guys might be tempted to make an offer. Have you seen the money these women charge? 15 mins for 80? Nah I'd rather have a wank for free.
Puzzles me how half of them end up broke the money they must be raking in. |
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