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"Have you actually had a woman say she doesn't like you because you're athletic? "
A few times I've been told I'm too skinny but I'd say im pretty average. It might be I'm terrible at text chat but very social in person maybe |
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"Must be my terrible personality or inability to maintain a text only chat for too long I get bored of just writing back and forth is the truth "
Seriously these women wanting conversations before a shag! Outrageous! |
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"How many messages get you bored?
What would you rather do?"
I'm not really into the simple back and forwards chit chat feels like a waste of time as 99% of the time doesn't actually get anywhere but I understand women have to protect themselves from some right creeps on here |
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Seriously these women wanting conversations before a shag! Outrageous!
That made me laugh hard, I don't mean that it's more the don't say this that or a long old list and my jokes only offend so I'm kind of stuck here |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"Must be my terrible personality or inability to maintain a text only chat for too long I get bored of just writing back and forth is the truth "
You make it sound as if you can't be arsed to spend a bit of time chatting & making a lady feel comfortable & confident to meet you...any woman takes a bit of a risk meeting a man they don't know. I for one need to know a bit about who I'm meeting before agreeing.
It doesn't help that your profile is shite, plus the 420 reference in your profile name would be enough to put me off before I'd read your opening line  |
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"How many messages get you bored?
What would you rather do?
I'm not really into the simple back and forwards chit chat feels like a waste of time as 99% of the time doesn't actually get anywhere but I understand women have to protect themselves from some right creeps on here "
I’m not sure that general chit chat of getting to know someone before you may even consider meeting them is a waste of time.
I would never meet someone for a social let alone more until I was totally comfortable and that comes from chatting first |
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"Have you actually had a woman say she doesn't like you because you're athletic?
A few times I've been told I'm too skinny but I'd say im pretty average. It might be I'm terrible at text chat but very social in person maybe "
So it's not that the women you find attractive don't find your body type attractive? In my experience here women find all sorts of bodies attractive. |
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"Must be my terrible personality or inability to maintain a text only chat for too long I get bored of just writing back and forth is the truth
You make it sound as if you can't be arsed to spend a bit of time chatting & making a lady feel comfortable & confident to meet you...any woman takes a bit of a risk meeting a man they don't know. I for one need to know a bit about who I'm meeting before agreeing.
It doesn't help that your profile is shite, plus the 420 reference in your profile name would be enough to put me off before I'd read your opening line "
That's the honesty I needed I want to change user name as that was a long time ago but don't know how or even how to work this chat room properly. That's helpful information thank you |
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"Have you actually had a woman say she doesn't like you because you're athletic?
A few times I've been told I'm too skinny but I'd say im pretty average. It might be I'm terrible at text chat but very social in person maybe
So it's not that the women you find attractive don't find your body type attractive? In my experience here women find all sorts of bodies attractive. "
I think my profile and lack of conversation doesn't help the lady's here have heard it all what's new and exciting conversations to have? |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"Must be my terrible personality or inability to maintain a text only chat for too long I get bored of just writing back and forth is the truth
You make it sound as if you can't be arsed to spend a bit of time chatting & making a lady feel comfortable & confident to meet you...any woman takes a bit of a risk meeting a man they don't know. I for one need to know a bit about who I'm meeting before agreeing.
It doesn't help that your profile is shite, plus the 420 reference in your profile name would be enough to put me off before I'd read your opening line
That's the honesty I needed I want to change user name as that was a long time ago but don't know how or even how to work this chat room properly. That's helpful information thank you "
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You sound great, OP.
However I personally wouldn’t like to go with a skinny lad, or one who’s too athletic. I ain’t skinny, and I’d feel a bit mismatched with someone like that.
It’s not you, it’s me … are the words that come to mind  |
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"How many messages get you bored?
What would you rather do?
I'm not really into the simple back and forwards chit chat feels like a waste of time as 99% of the time doesn't actually get anywhere but I understand women have to protect themselves from some right creeps on here
I’m not sure that general chit chat of getting to know someone before you may even consider meeting them is a waste of time.
I would never meet someone for a social let alone more until I was totally comfortable and that comes from chatting first"
I get what you are saying completely just it all seems to fall flat in the chats I don't drink alcohol so the whole social never seems to go on, from what people are saying I need to work this site out better I feel like it's my first day here and inexperienced lol |
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why? "
I suspect that the "420" will put off more people than anything else |
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"You sound great, OP.
However I personally wouldn’t like to go with a skinny lad, or one who’s too athletic. I ain’t skinny, and I’d feel a bit mismatched with someone like that.
It’s not you, it’s me … are the words that come to mind "
Thanks for the honesty I'm naturally in shape I don't go to the gym or anything just seem to be a fairly slim man no matter what I do . This is where it gets hard work as the curvy or BBW women really get me going but they don't feel attractive it seems when they see a slim guy |
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why?
I suspect that the "420" will put off more people than anything else"
What does 420 mean? |
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why?
I suspect that the "420" will put off more people than anything else
What does 420 mean?"
Marijuana |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"How many messages get you bored?
What would you rather do?
I'm not really into the simple back and forwards chit chat feels like a waste of time as 99% of the time doesn't actually get anywhere but I understand women have to protect themselves from some right creeps on here
I’m not sure that general chit chat of getting to know someone before you may even consider meeting them is a waste of time.
I would never meet someone for a social let alone more until I was totally comfortable and that comes from chatting first
I get what you are saying completely just it all seems to fall flat in the chats I don't drink alcohol so the whole social never seems to go on, from what people are saying I need to work this site out better I feel like it's my first day here and inexperienced lol"
If you came across better on your profile, a decent convo might be easier because she'd already have an idea of who you are & what you're about.
Change the text. Explain a bit about yourself, what you like, what you're into & just as important, what you can offer- this is meant to be mutually pleasurable but unfortunately, alot of guys around your age forget that. You need to sound like a decent bloke! Oh, and add a profile pic!! It doesn't have to be a face or dick pic- a nice pic of you even if your face is blurred would be fine (providing you aren't snorting a fat line in it....  )
Give it a mix up & see if that helps |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why?
I suspect that the "420" will put off more people than anything else
What does 420 mean?"
Happy to be around drug use |
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why?
I suspect that the "420" will put off more people than anything else
What does 420 mean?"
I used to smoke couple years back and can't change it from my profile I think it is my biggest issue a lot of people are highlighting it |
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"Must be my terrible personality or inability to maintain a text only chat for too long I get bored of just writing back and forth is the truth
Seriously these women wanting conversations before a shag! Outrageous! "
How dare they  |
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"Have you actually had a woman say she doesn't like you because you're athletic?
A few times I've been told I'm too skinny but I'd say im pretty average. It might be I'm terrible at text chat but very social in person maybe "
The thing is a lot of women want to make sure that you are
A safe person, And see whether they think you would be compatible before even attempting the social and lots of us have to plan these things well in advance. For many the text chat adds to the buildup and anticipation. |
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"How many messages get you bored?
What would you rather do?
I'm not really into the simple back and forwards chit chat feels like a waste of time as 99% of the time doesn't actually get anywhere but I understand women have to protect themselves from some right creeps on here
I’m not sure that general chit chat of getting to know someone before you may even consider meeting them is a waste of time.
I would never meet someone for a social let alone more until I was totally comfortable and that comes from chatting first
I get what you are saying completely just it all seems to fall flat in the chats I don't drink alcohol so the whole social never seems to go on, from what people are saying I need to work this site out better I feel like it's my first day here and inexperienced lol
If you came across better on your profile, a decent convo might be easier because she'd already have an idea of who you are & what you're about.
Change the text. Explain a bit about yourself, what you like, what you're into & just as important, what you can offer- this is meant to be mutually pleasurable but unfortunately, alot of guys around your age forget that. You need to sound like a decent bloke! Oh, and add a profile pic!! It doesn't have to be a face or dick pic- a nice pic of you even if your face is blurred would be fine (providing you aren't snorting a fat line in it.... )
Give it a mix up & see if that helps"
I think I'll be in your messages asking for profile advice soon. I'm actually so glad I posted here tonight I'm learning so much. Side note you have all the good chat and jokes I need to become your apprentice |
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why?
I suspect that the "420" will put off more people than anything else
What does 420 mean?
I used to smoke couple years back and can't change it from my profile I think it is my biggest issue a lot of people are highlighting it"
Unless you've changed it a few times previously you absolutely can change your username. |
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I'm not what you're looking for OP but I'm going to take a wild stab in the dark here and say your picture-less profile and wanting no conversion really will be more of a hindrance to you than your physique.
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why?
I suspect that the "420" will put off more people than anything else
What does 420 mean?
I used to smoke couple years back and can't change it from my profile I think it is my biggest issue a lot of people are highlighting it
Unless you've changed it a few times previously you absolutely can change your username. "
Please tell me how and what's a nice catchy name any advice I seem to need badly, Think I need L plates for this site |
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why?
I suspect that the "420" will put off more people than anything else
What does 420 mean?
I used to smoke couple years back and can't change it from my profile I think it is my biggest issue a lot of people are highlighting it
Unless you've changed it a few times previously you absolutely can change your username.
Please tell me how and what's a nice catchy name any advice I seem to need badly, Think I need L plates for this site "
Go to account on the mobile site then change username. It's pretty simple. Can't help with a name I'm afraid |
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"I'm not what you're looking for OP but I'm going to take a wild stab in the dark here and say your picture-less profile and wanting no conversion really will be more of a hindrance to you than your physique.
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I like conversations and the messaging but I feel like I run out of things to say a lot of women on here give couple words reply and isn't much to work with if that makes any sense at all |
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"Have you actually had a woman say she doesn't like you because you're athletic?
A few times I've been told I'm too skinny but I'd say im pretty average. It might be I'm terrible at text chat but very social in person maybe
So it's not that the women you find attractive don't find your body type attractive? In my experience here women find all sorts of bodies attractive.
I think my profile and lack of conversation doesn't help the lady's here have heard it all what's new and exciting conversations to have? "
Know you're looking for a female perspective, OP, but there is no magic formula. My view: just be yourself, don't lay it on with a trowel, and let your personality come through, much like you would if chatting in an in person meet! |
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"And I'm not mentioning your bio as you've not asked for advice.
Take a look around at some of the male profiles on here, there's some really good ones. "
Awkward… |
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why? "
I like athletic men but not those who have been drawn on…. Though I will meet those who have the odd one. But full sleeves, torsos - nah not for me
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"Have you actually had a woman say she doesn't like you because you're athletic?
A few times I've been told I'm too skinny but I'd say im pretty average. It might be I'm terrible at text chat but very social in person maybe
So it's not that the women you find attractive don't find your body type attractive? In my experience here women find all sorts of bodies attractive.
I think my profile and lack of conversation doesn't help the lady's here have heard it all what's new and exciting conversations to have?
Know you're looking for a female perspective, OP, but there is no magic formula. My view: just be yourself, don't lay it on with a trowel, and let your personality come through, much like you would if chatting in an in person meet!"
This is absolutely true - if you don't know what to talk about, ask them about themselves. Use the forum threads as a way to feel more comfortable chatting to women. |
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"I'm not what you're looking for OP but I'm going to take a wild stab in the dark here and say your picture-less profile and wanting no conversion really will be more of a hindrance to you than your physique.
I like conversations and the messaging but I feel like I run out of things to say a lot of women on here give couple words reply and isn't much to work with if that makes any sense at all "
So surely you wouldn't want to meet those who have nothing to say to you?
And if not,no worries, say goodbye and move on. |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"How many messages get you bored?
What would you rather do?
I'm not really into the simple back and forwards chit chat feels like a waste of time as 99% of the time doesn't actually get anywhere but I understand women have to protect themselves from some right creeps on here
I’m not sure that general chit chat of getting to know someone before you may even consider meeting them is a waste of time.
I would never meet someone for a social let alone more until I was totally comfortable and that comes from chatting first
I get what you are saying completely just it all seems to fall flat in the chats I don't drink alcohol so the whole social never seems to go on, from what people are saying I need to work this site out better I feel like it's my first day here and inexperienced lol
If you came across better on your profile, a decent convo might be easier because she'd already have an idea of who you are & what you're about.
Change the text. Explain a bit about yourself, what you like, what you're into & just as important, what you can offer- this is meant to be mutually pleasurable but unfortunately, alot of guys around your age forget that. You need to sound like a decent bloke! Oh, and add a profile pic!! It doesn't have to be a face or dick pic- a nice pic of you even if your face is blurred would be fine (providing you aren't snorting a fat line in it.... )
Give it a mix up & see if that helps
I think I'll be in your messages asking for profile advice soon. I'm actually so glad I posted here tonight I'm learning so much. Side note you have all the good chat and jokes I need to become your apprentice "
No worries!! I do have a bit of a sharp sense of humour, so I wouldn't necessarily recommend asking me what to write, but you definitely need to let your personality show a bit! |
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why? "
can't speak for all BBWs but from my perspective I get a little bit weary of jock types
mainly as I feel that due to the male to female ratio that it's the any hole is a goal and they aren't attracted to you properly just want a easy meet.
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why?
can't speak for all BBWs but from my perspective I get a little bit weary of jock types
mainly as I feel that due to the male to female ratio that it's the any hole is a goal and they aren't attracted to you properly just want a easy meet.
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An easy fuck you mean? That would go for any body type surely? I don't get approached by many athletic guys tbh (who can blame them) but I find some attractive just as I find some guys with dad bods attractive. Ink is a plus on anyone.  |
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"And I'm not mentioning your bio as you've not asked for advice.
Take a look around at some of the male profiles on here, there's some really good ones.
Awkward…"
No it's all lessons learned I need the honesty |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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People just have different preferences and it can be hard finding a match .
As for changing your profile if you think it's a true reflection of how you are and what you are looking for then it is perfect they way it is .There is no point in changing to be reflect someone you are not on the hope of enticing people in . |
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"And I'm not mentioning your bio as you've not asked for advice.
Take a look around at some of the male profiles on here, there's some really good ones.
Awkward…
No it's all lessons learned I need the honesty "
No, I meant my profile |
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"You sound great, OP.
However I personally wouldn’t like to go with a skinny lad, or one who’s too athletic. I ain’t skinny, and I’d feel a bit mismatched with someone like that.
It’s not you, it’s me … are the words that come to mind "
I'm heartbroken, I'm tougher than I look |
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why? "
Hahaha. Ok. These things are what put them off.  |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why?
can't speak for all BBWs but from my perspective I get a little bit weary of jock types
mainly as I feel that due to the male to female ratio that it's the any hole is a goal and they aren't attracted to you properly just want a easy meet.
An easy fuck you mean? That would go for any body type surely? I don't get approached by many athletic guys tbh (who can blame them) but I find some attractive just as I find some guys with dad bods attractive. Ink is a plus on anyone. "
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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I'm sure you're a decent guy, but i prefer to chat first as will a lot of women. Myself it would have been to make sure they were actually into me not just after the V
Upload a few pictures so they can see what you look like, you'll be surprised how much better your response might be compared to a silhouette..... and as others have said the 420 doesn't always go down well with some  |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"You only have to look at me and Mr KC, to see that chubby and slim can indeed go together. I dislike the 'BBW' label though 
And me and Bob. And I also dislike the BBW label.
Posh "
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"You only have to look at me and Mr KC, to see that chubby and slim can indeed go together. I dislike the 'BBW' label though
And me and Bob. And I also dislike the BBW label.
Posh
I've seen a lot of women refer to themselves as BBW what is a better term I'm not here to offend
And me and bearded.... another vote for the non like of bbw"
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"You only have to look at me and Mr KC, to see that chubby and slim can indeed go together. I dislike the 'BBW' label though
And me and Bob. And I also dislike the BBW label.
Posh
I've seen a lot of women refer to themselves as BBW what is a better term I'm not here to offend
And me and bearded.... another vote for the non like of bbw"
Some like it some don't, read the profiles and you'll usually gauge it right |
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"You sound great, OP.
However I personally wouldn’t like to go with a skinny lad, or one who’s too athletic. I ain’t skinny, and I’d feel a bit mismatched with someone like that.
It’s not you, it’s me … are the words that come to mind
I'm heartbroken, I'm tougher than I look "
You are the absolute exception to the rule |
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"I'm sure you're a decent guy, but i prefer to chat first as will a lot of women. Myself it would have been to make sure they were actually into me not just after the V
Upload a few pictures so they can see what you look like, you'll be surprised how much better your response might be compared to a silhouette..... and as others have said the 420 doesn't always go down well with some "
Changed the name added a photo golden advice I'm getting tonight. no more 420 as haven't in years anyway hopefully profile isn't so shit now thanks for helping with advice |
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"You sound great, OP.
However I personally wouldn’t like to go with a skinny lad, or one who’s too athletic. I ain’t skinny, and I’d feel a bit mismatched with someone like that.
It’s not you, it’s me … are the words that come to mind
I'm heartbroken, I'm tougher than I look
You are the absolute exception to the rule "
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"Must be my terrible personality or inability to maintain a text only chat for too long I get bored of just writing back and forth is the truth "
This. Amongst other things |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm sure you're a decent guy, but i prefer to chat first as will a lot of women. Myself it would have been to make sure they were actually into me not just after the V
Upload a few pictures so they can see what you look like, you'll be surprised how much better your response might be compared to a silhouette..... and as others have said the 420 doesn't always go down well with some
Changed the name added a photo golden advice I'm getting tonight. no more 420 as haven't in years anyway hopefully profile isn't so shit now thanks for helping with advice "
It's an improvement |
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"You only have to look at me and Mr KC, to see that chubby and slim can indeed go together. I dislike the 'BBW' label though
I always thought it was meant as a compliment I'm learning tonight "
It implies fetishisation of bigger women, rather than an appreciation for the woman as a whole person. I'm more than a bunch of adipose tissue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Getting bored with messaging sounds like more of a reason than being athletic. Sounds like you are too pushy or clingy and neither is good. Only a guess from what you've written. |
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"I have a bit of a passion for BBW attractive women but I'm a slim 6ft4, inked, clean man . All my own teeth respectable and that seems to put a lot of women off. Why? "
For a start, out more pics on...and not cock ones. Then expand your text to say more about yourself.
Then get yourself down to a club on a Curvy Girls/BBW night and chat to people. If you're a nice guy I reckon you'll do alright mate. |
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"Why dont BBW women like athletic men?"
I think that's far from the truth and there are a lot of athletic guys who can back me up on that.
Being athletic in of itself is no guarantee of anything.
It pains me to point out the obvious but BBW are women (clue is in the acronym) too who individually have their own idiosyncrasies, not everyone will like athletic men but many do and I doubt that there's a bias against athletic men amongst BBW. |
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Might be better off trying a club
I get a lot of messages and for me I look for any that stand out, look like they can hold a conversation and have a sense of humour. There’s nothing worse than an awkward silence on a meet |
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"Getting bored with messaging sounds like more of a reason than being athletic. Sounds like you are too pushy or clingy and neither is good. Only a guess from what you've written."
I wouldn't say I'm clingy or an aggressive messenger just it feels like conversation never really starts up I've had far better talks on this thread than anything else |
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I'm not sure where your located but get yourself along to a night for curvy women appreciation.
Cupids in Manchester do a 'love thy curves' hosted by the fantastic Bunny!
And Hanky Panky.
It's a Brill night.
Your description of yourself wouldn't put me off.. A huddle profile does though. |
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"I'm not sure where your located but get yourself along to a night for curvy women appreciation.
Cupids in Manchester do a 'love thy curves' hosted by the fantastic Bunny!
And Hanky Panky.
It's a Brill night.
Your description of yourself wouldn't put me off.. A huddle profile does though. "
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There’s plenty of bigger/curvier ladies who are attracted to “athletic” men. But as it’s already been said most times it’s not even about how a man looks that keeps a woman interested but the personality qualities a man has. That’s regardless of her body shape.
There’s plenty of events catered to curvy girl/BBW admirers. Me personally they’re the events I go to the most because that’s the kind of woman that I’m interested in and always have a great time at them |
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