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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you ever get messages from random people and they suddenly expect you to take the lead when they started the conversation?
If you start a conversation, you need to have a reason why you started it. Am I right or wrong? |
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Most messages on here sre like this, hi, how are you, what you up to tonight, weekend plans?
If your to lazy to write a message your likely gonna be that lady in bed too
Because it's a free site people think it's easy sex & no effort is required |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a lady offering to send me her soiled pants. Funny, I didn't need that 
What was her username… for research purposes
No need. Your details were passed on  "
I’m using the to fertilise my petunias…. Honest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.
Bullet point messages. No friendly tone and when you're less than enthused in your response, you're not the chatty one.
I read all messages unless within 4 words there's an undertone of slutsville fodder.
I check profiles too.
Usually the lack of effort is often attached to
Been here before, back again
Or
Will fill later.
It's such a dreamy situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
Bullet point messages. No friendly tone and when you're less than enthused in your response, you're not the chatty one.
I read all messages unless within 4 words there's an undertone of slutsville fodder.
I check profiles too.
Usually the lack of effort is often attached to
Been here before, back again
Or
Will fill later.
It's such a dreamy situation "
"Slutsville fodder" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever get messages from random people and they suddenly expect you to take the lead when they started the conversation?
If you start a conversation, you need to have a reason why you started it. Am I right or wrong?"
No, never from Radom people , they have more important things to be doing tbh. l only start a conversation with someone that has an interest in same , talking for the sake of talking will play itself out , complete waste of eachothers time and energy. |
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"I had a lady offering to send me her soiled pants. Funny, I didn't need that
What was her username… for research purposes
No need. Your details were passed on
I’m using the to fertilise my petunias…. Honest "
Oh, these would have grown you some fantastic roses  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a lady offering to send me her soiled pants. Funny, I didn't need that
What was her username… for research purposes
No need. Your details were passed on
I’m using the to fertilise my petunias…. Honest
Oh, these would have grown you some fantastic roses "
Outkast did a song about those |
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"I had a lady offering to send me her soiled pants. Funny, I didn't need that
What was her username… for research purposes
No need. Your details were passed on
I’m using the to fertilise my petunias…. Honest
Oh, these would have grown you some fantastic roses
Outkast did a song about those "
I offered to send Persil. It's nice to see so many shades of brown  |
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It's why I always say I won't chase anyone on here. If they want to chat they have to make an effort.
I call it fabtag when they either send a one word introductory message or a smoke blowing one with the latter hoping for a similar response.
It's funny now when someone says they love my pics or profile and ask where I've been hiding because they had never seen me before.
Eh I haven't moved since you sent me exactly the same message 3 or 4 months ago and a few months before that again!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a lady offering to send me her soiled pants. Funny, I didn't need that
What was her username… for research purposes
No need. Your details were passed on
I’m using the to fertilise my petunias…. Honest
Oh, these would have grown you some fantastic roses
Outkast did a song about those
I offered to send Persil. It's nice to see so many shades of brown "
More skiddies than Lewis Hamilton |
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"I had a lady offering to send me her soiled pants. Funny, I didn't need that
What was her username… for research purposes
No need. Your details were passed on
I’m using the to fertilise my petunias…. Honest
Oh, these would have grown you some fantastic roses
Outkast did a song about those
I offered to send Persil. It's nice to see so many shades of brown
More skiddies than Lewis Hamilton "
That's right fella. Must have been a brutal curry the previous night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a lady offering to send me her soiled pants. Funny, I didn't need that
What was her username… for research purposes
No need. Your details were passed on
I’m using the to fertilise my petunias…. Honest
Oh, these would have grown you some fantastic roses
Outkast did a song about those
I offered to send Persil. It's nice to see so many shades of brown
More skiddies than Lewis Hamilton
That's right fella. Must have been a brutal curry the previous night "
Fat Les would be proud |
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"I had a lady offering to send me her soiled pants. Funny, I didn't need that
What was her username… for research purposes
No need. Your details were passed on
I’m using the to fertilise my petunias…. Honest
Oh, these would have grown you some fantastic roses
Outkast did a song about those
I offered to send Persil. It's nice to see so many shades of brown
More skiddies than Lewis Hamilton
That's right fella. Must have been a brutal curry the previous night
Fat Les would be proud "
 that's old school |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get messages, we'll reply then get a 1 word answer, that's the end of that conversation.
I never understand when people initiate conversation why the then don't bother after 1 reply.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ladies must get lots of messages & miss lots of messages. But if you are chatting to someone who lives local I would keep in contact even if it goes nowhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
Bullet point messages. No friendly tone and when you're less than enthused in your response, you're not the chatty one.
I read all messages unless within 4 words there's an undertone of slutsville fodder.
I check profiles too.
Usually the lack of effort is often attached to
Been here before, back again
Or
Will fill later.
It's such a dreamy situation
"Slutsville fodder" "
It has the potential to be a fab name...... For someone else. X |
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"Do you ever get messages from random people and they suddenly expect you to take the lead when they started the conversation?
If you start a conversation, you need to have a reason why you started it. Am I right or wrong?"
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Hence the last paragraph in my profile to keep those insolent pups at bay. |
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"Do you ever get messages from random people and they suddenly expect you to take the lead when they started the conversation?
If you start a conversation, you need to have a reason why you started it. Am I right or wrong?"
It takes two to have a conversation or so the voices in my head tell me. 
But surely effort should be put in from both sides if both sides are interested? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview "
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat. |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat."
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"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat."
You come here often? |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat."
^^^ exactly that ... if one party is asking all the questions the conversation is just one sided so it's going to fail... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat.
^^^ exactly that ... if one party is asking all the questions the conversation is just one sided so it's going to fail... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat.
You come here often? "
Yeah and I’ve brought my spade this time, ‘cos I’m digging you.
Honestly, can’t believe I’m single with such quality lines.
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"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat.
You come here often?
Yeah and I’ve brought my spade this time, ‘cos I’m digging you.
Honestly, can’t believe I’m single with such quality lines.
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Hmmmmm. |
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"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat.
You come here often?
Yeah and I’ve brought my spade this time, ‘cos I’m digging you.
Honestly, can’t believe I’m single with such quality lines.
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Smooooooth, real smooth.  |
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"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat.
You come here often?
Yeah and I’ve brought my spade this time, ‘cos I’m digging you.
Honestly, can’t believe I’m single with such quality lines.
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"Oh cool. Is your Mum here too? I'd like to thank her for making you!" You can have that one for free, Dieu! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat.
You come here often?
Yeah and I’ve brought my spade this time, ‘cos I’m digging you.
Honestly, can’t believe I’m single with such quality lines.
"Oh cool. Is your Mum here too? I'd like to thank her for making you!" You can have that one for free, Dieu! "
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As most people are not compatible with most other people, this will mean that most chats started will result in 1 or both sides realising that it's a poor match. In abilities to have a good chat will be part of that.
Make realistic expectations and take it in your stride. Focus on the people who match well. |
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"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat.
You come here often?
Yeah and I’ve brought my spade this time, ‘cos I’m digging you.
Honestly, can’t believe I’m single with such quality lines.
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Made me laugh that did and smile
Where do you see yourself in a years time?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing."
I agree. It’s the same with online dating, you need to have an interest in each other, and ask questions, otherwise it doesn’t flow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat.
You come here often?
Yeah and I’ve brought my spade this time, ‘cos I’m digging you.
Honestly, can’t believe I’m single with such quality lines.
Made me laugh that did and smile
Where do you see yourself in a years time? "
Got any holidays booked?
Oh sorry, that’s my hairdresser chat |
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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago
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I just talk to people because I enjoy talking to people.
95% of my chats die because I am just having a conversation and not trying to get anything more out of it.
I have no problem with that and I have no expectations when a new conversation starts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever get messages from random people and they suddenly expect you to take the lead when they started the conversation?
If you start a conversation, you need to have a reason why you started it. Am I right or wrong?"
Maybe your response didn't give them anything to chat about?
If they're not engaging in a conversation I'd assume they're not interested/ don't want to chat. |
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"I just talk to people because I enjoy talking to people.
95% of my chats die because I am just having a conversation and not trying to get anything more out of it.
I have no problem with that and I have no expectations when a new conversation starts. "
Exactly this! |
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"If a guy doesn’t ask you questions, it’s kinda hard to keep the chat flowing.
That sounds more like an interview
Not at all. It’s more about showing an interest in someone, and keeping the conversation going. Otherwise it can fall a bit flat.
You come here often?
Yeah and I’ve brought my spade this time, ‘cos I’m digging you.
Honestly, can’t believe I’m single with such quality lines.
Made me laugh that did and smile
Where do you see yourself in a years time?
Got any holidays booked?
Oh sorry, that’s my hairdresser chat "
I wish I did have holidays booked |
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