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Yes I'm on straight dating sites, and it never ceases to amaze me how many people have profiles on straight dating sites and on here, and take on a totally different persona, where butter wouldn't melt in their mouths, on those sites as opposed to here. I just love it when I pull someone off a straight dating site who doesn't even acknowledge me on here. If you are reading this, I'm sure that you all know who you are. |
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A bit of a waste of time if you are an inveterate swinger. If you do meet a person you fall for but who isn't involved and resistant to the idea of the lifestyle there is a great risk that it will lead to tensions.
In the end it's two people left miserable. |
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Used to be on POF...had tinder but just for the anthropological interest.
I met a few ladies and was enjoying it, but they didn't understand the phrase "Nothing Serious".
Thats how I ended up on here where I get that...minus the serious  |
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over a year ago
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"I have been (and no doubt will again).
This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?"
I'm really careful with this as it does tend to mean guys just think I'm just going to sleep with anyone. |
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Yeah they are pretty good for meets if you can put together a few nice pics and actually have good chat
I’ve had countless fwb type things from them and I’ve met more couples on tinder then I have on here
As a single guy they are probably your best bet for meets. Don’t let stuff like “no hook ups” on profiles deter you. Most mean “don’t treat me like a warm hole”. In my experience, most are open to some kind of fwb situation if you approach it properly |
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"I have been (and no doubt will again).
This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?
I'm really careful with this as it does tend to mean guys just think I'm just going to sleep with anyone. "
male privalage 
Although I suspect many will see this as meaning am an immature fuck boy having a midlife crisis.
But that just says they aren't for me. |
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over a year ago
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I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.
But when I am, normal dating sites it is!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been (and no doubt will again).
This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?
I'm really careful with this as it does tend to mean guys just think I'm just going to sleep with anyone. male privalage
Although I suspect many will see this as meaning am an immature fuck boy having a midlife crisis.
But that just says they aren't for me. "
You and your privilege!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.
But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!"
Last time, didn't even get to the fucking stage. FFS.  |
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"I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.
But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!
Last time, didn't even get to the fucking stage. FFS. "
Well that's just rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.
But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!
Last time, didn't even get to the fucking stage. FFS.
Well that's just rude."
I know! Honestly can't get the dick these days - I blame Brexit. |
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"I have been (and no doubt will again).
This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?"
I agree, it just saves everyone time. There's a lot of discussion about it in polyamory groups as guys often say they get hardly any matches if they put it on their profile but I think that getting those matches is pointless if they lose interest when you tell them and by then you'll both have invested at least some time and hope into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What precisely is a "non-lifestyle" dating site?
I'm thinking about joining a knitting club; would that count?"
Well obvs knitting is a lifestyle Nero! So it doesn't count. Yeesh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.
But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!
Last time, didn't even get to the fucking stage. FFS.
Well that's just rude.
I know! Honestly can't get the dick these days - I blame Brexit. "
Stuck with English dick.
Unreliable and work shy.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.
But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!
Last time, didn't even get to the fucking stage. FFS.
Well that's just rude.
I know! Honestly can't get the dick these days - I blame Brexit.
Stuck with English dick.
Unreliable and work shy.... "
It's a burden I have to bear  |
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"I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.
But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!
Last time, didn't even get to the fucking stage. FFS.
Well that's just rude.
I know! Honestly can't get the dick these days - I blame Brexit. "
I'd definitely be interested lol |
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"I have been (and no doubt will again).
This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?
I agree, it just saves everyone time. There's a lot of discussion about it in polyamory groups as guys often say they get hardly any matches if they put it on their profile but I think that getting those matches is pointless if they lose interest when you tell them and by then you'll both have invested at least some time and hope into it. "
Yep, pointless trying to connect with someone that isn't right for you or you them. Well unless you are just trying to decieve them for a quick fuck, then your just a dick.
For ENM dating there is Feeld |
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No, and I never have been. I think I'd be very dubious and cynical from the very start if I ever had to join a dating site. I have heard a couple of success stories but I've heard more nightmares.
I'm not sure I could ever date if something ever happened to my husband anyway. I'd be devastated beyond words. |
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"I have been (and no doubt will again).
This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?
I agree, it just saves everyone time. There's a lot of discussion about it in polyamory groups as guys often say they get hardly any matches if they put it on their profile but I think that getting those matches is pointless if they lose interest when you tell them and by then you'll both have invested at least some time and hope into it.
Yep, pointless trying to connect with someone that isn't right for you or you them. Well unless you are just trying to decieve them for a quick fuck, then your just a dick.
For ENM dating there is Feeld"
I've tried Feeld but I never really got on that well with it. I prefer OK Cupid as it has options for non-monogamy and to put that you're partnered and I've also found plenty of other ENM people on there. |
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I go on pof and bumble for about two weeks, get disheartened about how it makes me feel.
So I hide my profile agin for another few months. Not sure what I am trying to achieve but at some point it would be nice for Cupid to poke an arrow in my bottom! |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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Nope. I was but it’s bloody hard work. At least here I know what most peoples intentions are without all the childish games and rules.
Happy enough single thanks, just want a few more hugs and butt squeezes  |
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Its quite amusing how if you role back time 10 years that if you was on a dating site you was considered a saddo, these days it's common place and socially accepted as the normal. However, I am on POF with little to no activity other than the daily plethora of likes |
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"Nope. I was but it’s bloody hard work. At least here I know what most peoples intentions are without all the childish games and rules.
Happy enough single thanks, just want a few more hugs and butt squeezes "
Can I join the queue for bum squeezes? Seems like great job, with good rewards  x |
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"Random question,
How many of you are on non-lifestyle dating sites?
I’m wondering whether many are.
I am! I like corrupting newbies 
Such a bad role model! But I love you "
Anyways…. When are we next partying?!  |
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"Random question,
How many of you are on non-lifestyle dating sites?
I’m wondering whether many are.
I am! I like corrupting newbies
Such a bad role model! But I love you
Anyways…. When are we next partying?! "
With custard I hope x |
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"Random question,
How many of you are on non-lifestyle dating sites?
I’m wondering whether many are.
I am! I like corrupting newbies
Such a bad role model! But I love you
Anyways…. When are we next partying?!
With custard I hope x"
There he is, my little banana to my custard! Hahaha |
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"Random question,
How many of you are on non-lifestyle dating sites?
I’m wondering whether many are.
I am! I like corrupting newbies
Such a bad role model! But I love you
Anyways…. When are we next partying?!
With custard I hope x
There he is, my little banana to my custard! Hahaha"
Well, you know. I live in hope x |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Nope. I was but it’s bloody hard work. At least here I know what most peoples intentions are without all the childish games and rules.
Happy enough single thanks, just want a few more hugs and butt squeezes
Can I join the queue for bum squeezes? Seems like great job, with good rewards x"
Of course!  |
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"Nope. I was but it’s bloody hard work. At least here I know what most peoples intentions are without all the childish games and rules.
Happy enough single thanks, just want a few more hugs and butt squeezes
Can I join the queue for bum squeezes? Seems like great job, with good rewards x
Of course! "
Yay! I'll warm my hands and trim my nails x |
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