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over a year ago
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"Have I convinced myself that monogamy is a myth?
No I haven't. I know it exists
This restores my faith! Sharing then?
Sharing what?"
This is a swingers site, yes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have I convinced myself that monogamy is a myth?
No I haven't. I know it exists
This restores my faith! Sharing then?
Sharing what?
This is a swingers site, yes?"
Doesn’t sharing imply belief in possession? |
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"Have I convinced myself that monogamy is a myth?
No I haven't. I know it exists
This restores my faith! Sharing then?
Sharing what?
This is a swingers site, yes?"
Yes it is. Perhaps you could explain your point to me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't believe monogamy is a myth, I just don't believe it's as common as its believed or claimed to be.
Interwebz innit?
Eh?
Short for - interwebz open opportunity
Code for internet
I know I just don't understand. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well it's more of a concept than a myth, a concept that I dont necessarily agree with."
Believes are a powerful thing, but they kinda seem a very individual thing imo |
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Monogamy works for some, not others
I am, however, of the opinion that, if in a relationship, then all those in that relationship should be aware of any attempts to alter any monogamous status quo that exists |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Monogamy works for some, not others
I am, however, of the opinion that, if in a relationship, then all those in that relationship should be aware of any attempts to alter any monogamous status quo that exists"
Yesss |
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"Monogamy works for some, not others
I am, however, of the opinion that, if in a relationship, then all those in that relationship should be aware of any attempts to alter any monogamous status quo that exists"
Couldn't have put it better myself |
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"Well it's more of a concept than a myth, a concept that I dont necessarily agree with.
Believes are a powerful thing, but they kinda seem a very individual thing imo"
Like I said, it's a concept. Beliefs dont really come into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many convince yourself here it's a myth or not - asking for a colleague  "
Im conflicted
I love the idea of monogamy and what it stands and represents but I think majority of people aren’t built for monogamy. (Some do tho)
I certainly aren’t, but I fantasise and romanticise romance and being completely as a whole, for one person only  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How many convince yourself here it's a myth or not - asking for a colleague
Im conflicted
I love the idea of monogamy and what it stands and represents but I think majority of people aren’t built for monogamy. (Some do tho)
I certainly aren’t, but I fantasise and romanticise romance and being completely as a whole, for one person only "
This is so beautiful - probably a very reason why asking such question |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Monogamy works for some, not others
I am, however, of the opinion that, if in a relationship, then all those in that relationship should be aware of any attempts to alter any monogamous status quo that exists"
*claps* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many convince yourself here it's a myth or not - asking for a colleague
Im conflicted
I love the idea of monogamy and what it stands and represents but I think majority of people aren’t built for monogamy. (Some do tho)
I certainly aren’t, but I fantasise and romanticise romance and being completely as a whole, for one person only
This is so beautiful - probably a very reason why asking such question "
HAha just being honest x  I think having that extra connection with someone is special and doesn’t come about that easy.
But I think we can feel attraction and wanting to be intimate with a lot of people x and some feel the need to be intimate with different people and that’s okay x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How many convince yourself here it's a myth or not - asking for a colleague
Im conflicted
I love the idea of monogamy and what it stands and represents but I think majority of people aren’t built for monogamy. (Some do tho)
I certainly aren’t, but I fantasise and romanticise romance and being completely as a whole, for one person only
This is so beautiful - probably a very reason why asking such question
HAha just being honest x I think having that extra connection with someone is special and doesn’t come about that easy.
But I think we can feel attraction and wanting to be intimate with a lot of people x and some feel the need to be intimate with different people and that’s okay x
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Ever seen - Love is Blind? Lol |
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Pure monogamy isn't for me as per the dictionary. I see the world as a whole spectrum of different kinds of relationships, friendships and encounters. And obviously pretty much all of us on here are not technically monogamous. I'm love variety and my interactions with other people. Yet despite all this I feel monogamous because I have cracked it, I have the woman who is truly my everything and I will always be hers. I've had to live a life and go through a lot to really know the difference in what we have to anything I've had before. The same is true of her. So yes we both enjoy variety and other people and but where it matters we are monogamous and it's always her. And that is a amazing feeling to have freedom to explore from a solid ship that is always securely anchored. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Pure monogamy isn't for me as per the dictionary. I see the world as a whole spectrum of different kinds of relationships, friendships and encounters. And obviously pretty much all of us on here are not technically monogamous. I'm love variety and my interactions with other people. Yet despite all this I feel monogamous because I have cracked it, I have the woman who is truly my everything and I will always be hers. I've had to live a life and go through a lot to really know the difference in what we have to anything I've had before. The same is true of her. So yes we both enjoy variety and other people and but where it matters we are monogamous and it's always her. And that is a amazing feeling to have freedom to explore from a solid ship that is always securely anchored."
I'm truly speechless and you are beautiful! I wish you nothing but all the best in your life together! I will still think about - what's your secret?? |
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"Pure monogamy isn't for me as per the dictionary. I see the world as a whole spectrum of different kinds of relationships, friendships and encounters. And obviously pretty much all of us on here are not technically monogamous. I'm love variety and my interactions with other people. Yet despite all this I feel monogamous because I have cracked it, I have the woman who is truly my everything and I will always be hers. I've had to live a life and go through a lot to really know the difference in what we have to anything I've had before. The same is true of her. So yes we both enjoy variety and other people and but where it matters we are monogamous and it's always her. And that is a amazing feeling to have freedom to explore from a solid ship that is always securely anchored."
That is a wonderful post  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This might be a forum of swingers where most of the answers might be skewed in one direction.
Personally? I believe it exists for those who want to partake in it (each to their own and all that) but it’s not for me.
My personal preference is for emotional monogamy with wild nights of fun and mutual satisfaction with others not from within the relationship.
It might just be me but I actually think it could make some relationships last longer. |
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This is a classic personal choice answer.
Yes there will be individuals who will always be monogamous.
Statistically this is a classic bell curve.
Hard core monogamy on one side, multiple partnered on the other (what could be described perhaps as polyamory). Then you have the others inbetween. The swingers, the cheaters. The one night stands etc.  |
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"And there was me thinking monogamy was a type of wood!
Every day is s school day.lol
7 hours too late. And nobody got it then. Its a tough crowd to amuse.
Oh bugger!!! Best get my coat "
Good luck, fella. Bring some teak back with you |
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