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Would you change what you are looking for, if the person.....
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Happens all the time and is why we don't rely on profiles and messages to meet.bwrve had some great times with people met at socials where, when you look at their profile afterwards, they really aren't what we're looking for and vice versa. |
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over a year ago
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On this site I’m open to whatever, it is a swinging site and I came here to find couples interested in swinging/cuckold/hotwife.
Just an old fashioned wife swap scenario
What I’m really after I find elsewhere as Fab has become to vanilla for my appetite. |
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No because what I'm looking for is fluid not with Just one person. However I don't care how much attraction and chemistry we have. If all he wants to do with me is something I really don't like then we are truly Incompatible and I would walk away. |
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I think sometimes you can have something in your mind what you're looking for but then something can happen or you meet someone that makes you think totally differently.
It always best to keep an open mind with everything in life or you could miss out on great opportunities. |
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If you fancy someone doesn't that automatically make them what you're looking for? Or do you mean what you're looking for in terms of sexual preference? I don't think I'd compromise I can't see the point. |
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I don't have a prescribed format and content for sex, so I'll decide and potentially enjoy more or different things from my initial expectations. That said, my interests have been developed based on my experience, so I'm biased by that |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
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"If you fancy someone doesn't that automatically make them what you're looking for? Or do you mean what you're looking for in terms of sexual preference? I don't think I'd compromise I can't see the point."
Yes, that is right as you fancy them, but maibe they dont look for what you are looking for.
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"If you fancy someone doesn't that automatically make them what you're looking for? Or do you mean what you're looking for in terms of sexual preference? I don't think I'd compromise I can't see the point.Yes, that is right as you fancy them, but maibe they dont look for what you are looking for."
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"If you fancy someone doesn't that automatically make them what you're looking for? Or do you mean what you're looking for in terms of sexual preference? I don't think I'd compromise I can't see the point.Yes, that is right as you fancy them, but maibe they dont look for what you are looking for."
Oh ok, I understand.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its late and that question has given me a headache!  I think I've read it right in my mind though and would comment that I would not change my preferences to suit somebody else but would not discourage them from pursueing what they want to experience either. I'd be disapponted to lose something special but would always be there for them should they need me  |
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"Isnt looking for exactly what you are looking for, but you both still fancy each other? I think that this is a tricky one. I reckon that ideally both have change abit "
I think it would fizzle out of its own accord over time as boxes aren't being ticked on both sides.
I didn't change what I was looking for as I knew I wouldn't have been happy.
Given the nature of the site would it bit be best to be honest about it and say it would be fun but not a serious thing?
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