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I need some advice. I just wondered what methods of contraception you all use. I hate condoms and can’t have a coil fitted as hubby has had snip and will notice it.
Please don’t judge I am just looking for advice |
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over a year ago
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Condoms would be your safest bet or female condoms
Any other from and your risking passing std and sti on to hubby
Or in less you find someone who you can trust that isn’t playing the feild but on here that’s far and few bween
Just assume everyone got two 3 or 4 people on the go |
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"Condoms would be your safest bet or female condoms
Any other from and your risking passing std and sti on to hubby
Or in less you find someone who you can trust that isn’t playing the feild but on here that’s far and few bween
Just assume everyone got two 3 or 4 people on the go "
I have a few regular meets who aren’t off here and we are all tested |
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"Condoms would be your safest bet or female condoms
Any other from and your risking passing std and sti on to hubby
Or in less you find someone who you can trust that isn’t playing the feild but on here that’s far and few bween
Just assume everyone got two 3 or 4 people on the go
I have a few regular meets who aren’t off here and we are all tested"
Best bet the is probably the pill if coil is a no go |
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"Condoms would be your safest bet or female condoms
Any other from and your risking passing std and sti on to hubby
Or in less you find someone who you can trust that isn’t playing the feild but on here that’s far and few bween
Just assume everyone got two 3 or 4 people on the go "
With the ratios and extreme standards here there’ll not be any bloke having 3/4 on the the go lol |
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"Condoms would be your safest bet or female condoms
Any other from and your risking passing std and sti on to hubby
Or in less you find someone who you can trust that isn’t playing the feild but on here that’s far and few bween
Just assume everyone got two 3 or 4 people on the go
With the ratios and extreme standards here there’ll not be any bloke having 3/4 on the the go lol "
Clubs is a single guys best friend |
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"Condoms would be your safest bet or female condoms
Any other from and your risking passing std and sti on to hubby
Or in less you find someone who you can trust that isn’t playing the feild but on here that’s far and few bween
Just assume everyone got two 3 or 4 people on the go
With the ratios and extreme standards here there’ll not be any bloke having 3/4 on the the go lol
Clubs is a single guys best friend "
I’ve tried one or two! Need to branch out a little maybe |
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"Condoms would be your safest bet or female condoms
Any other from and your risking passing std and sti on to hubby
Or in less you find someone who you can trust that isn’t playing the feild but on here that’s far and few bween
Just assume everyone got two 3 or 4 people on the go
With the ratios and extreme standards here there’ll not be any bloke having 3/4 on the the go lol
Clubs is a single guys best friend
I’ve tried one or two! Need to branch out a little maybe "
It’s the best way for single guys |
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The pill or implant but if your worried about your husband noticing the coil. Condoms would be best as he may notice a dose of something too.
Try latex free condoms like skyns elites... you barely know they are there |
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"The pill or implant but if your worried about your husband noticing the coil. Condoms would be best as he may notice a dose of something too.
Try latex free condoms like skyns elites... you barely know they are there "
What do they taste like? |
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"The pill or implant but if your worried about your husband noticing the coil. Condoms would be best as he may notice a dose of something too.
Try latex free condoms like skyns elites... you barely know they are there
What do they taste like?"
I don't use them for oral but you don't taste that they have been on the cock when you remove it to suck them |
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"The pill or implant but if your worried about your husband noticing the coil. Condoms would be best as he may notice a dose of something too.
Try latex free condoms like skyns elites... you barely know they are there
What do they taste like? I don't use them for oral but you don't taste that they have been on the cock when you remove it to suck them"
Oh may give them a go then as hate sucking after a condom |
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"He won’t feel the coil. I’ve had two mirena coils and played with some well endowed guys. Only condoms will protect against STIs.
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Won't be? I could always feel a coil when a partner had one fitted. |
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I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok. |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok. "
Also the risk of infecting her husband with an STI. |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Also the risk of infecting her husband with an STI. "
These things must only be concerns when a husband is at it.
I’ll make a note of this so I don’t make this mistake again in future.
Cheating husbands = no advice, berate, belittle, they’re scum.
Cheating wives = give them all the advice they need. |
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Never had anyone notice that I’ve got a coil, you can have the thread trimmed if need be but it’s only noticeable if you stick your finger in the cervix opening (which is hope that no one would!) |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Also the risk of infecting her husband with an STI.
These things must only be concerns when a husband is at it.
I’ll make a note of this so I don’t make this mistake again in future.
Cheating husbands = no advice, berate, belittle, they’re scum.
Cheating wives = give them all the advice they need."
The double standard is horrendous. Is feminism not supposed to be about equality? Imagine a bloke saying “how can I bareback everyone without getting them pregnant? Also how can I stop my wife finding out?” |
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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Also the risk of infecting her husband with an STI.
These things must only be concerns when a husband is at it.
I’ll make a note of this so I don’t make this mistake again in future.
Cheating husbands = no advice, berate, belittle, they’re scum.
Cheating wives = give them all the advice they need."
It’s called sexism. Buckle up baby, we’ve had centuries of it in the real world  |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Also the risk of infecting her husband with an STI.
These things must only be concerns when a husband is at it.
I’ll make a note of this so I don’t make this mistake again in future.
Cheating husbands = no advice, berate, belittle, they’re scum.
Cheating wives = give them all the advice they need.
It’s called sexism. Buckle up baby, we’ve had centuries of it in the real world "
Would you say the same about racism and homophobia? |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Also the risk of infecting her husband with an STI.
These things must only be concerns when a husband is at it.
I’ll make a note of this so I don’t make this mistake again in future.
Cheating husbands = no advice, berate, belittle, they’re scum.
Cheating wives = give them all the advice they need.
It’s called sexism. Buckle up baby, we’ve had centuries of it in the real world "
So sexism accounts for and justifies the lack of a moral compass.
Interesting.
I must apply this logic to everything there has been centuries of.
What could possibly go wrong.
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok. "
I said this only yesterday on another thread! X |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok. "
 something tells me people wouldn’t be offering helpful advice  |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Also the risk of infecting her husband with an STI.
These things must only be concerns when a husband is at it.
I’ll make a note of this so I don’t make this mistake again in future.
Cheating husbands = no advice, berate, belittle, they’re scum.
Cheating wives = give them all the advice they need.
It’s called sexism. Buckle up baby, we’ve had centuries of it in the real world
So sexism accounts for and justifies the lack of a moral compass.
Interesting.
I must apply this logic to everything there has been centuries of.
What could possibly go wrong.
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Couldn’t agree more. Shocking double standards. |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok. something tells me people wouldn’t be offering helpful advice "
Probably just marriage counselling.
“Sit down, talk it over, better that than hurting her”.
“Imagine how you’d feel if the roles were reversed”.
Wife posts the same and it’s all..
“YESS!!!! GO GET THE DICK BABY!!”.
“Woop, bitch stretch that vag”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I didn’t deduce any of that from the opening post! Not all of us go into the profile. I did wonder about the ‘don’t judge’ comment though.
Anyway, enough unwanted kids in the world and all that. |
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"I didn’t deduce any of that from the opening post! Not all of us go into the profile. I did wonder about the ‘don’t judge’ comment though.
Anyway, enough unwanted kids in the world and all that."
Same I didn’t look at the profile also I expect people to go to the step as Had the other week there |
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"I didn’t deduce any of that from the opening post! Not all of us go into the profile. I did wonder about the ‘don’t judge’ comment though.
Anyway, enough unwanted kids in the world and all that."
I assumed she was married and cheating from saying her hubby has had the snip so she can’t get the coil because he would notice it  |
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"I didn’t deduce any of that from the opening post! Not all of us go into the profile. I did wonder about the ‘don’t judge’ comment though.
Anyway, enough unwanted kids in the world and all that.
I assumed she was married and cheating from saying her hubby has had the snip so she can’t get the coil because he would notice it "
By notice, I thought she meant feel it during sex.
Clearly I’m naive. |
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"I didn’t deduce any of that from the opening post! Not all of us go into the profile. I did wonder about the ‘don’t judge’ comment though.
Anyway, enough unwanted kids in the world and all that.
I assumed she was married and cheating from saying her hubby has had the snip so she can’t get the coil because he would notice it
By notice, I thought she meant feel it during sex.
Clearly I’m naive."
Well they can be felt during sex, on occasion. |
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"I didn’t deduce any of that from the opening post! Not all of us go into the profile. I did wonder about the ‘don’t judge’ comment though.
Anyway, enough unwanted kids in the world and all that.
I assumed she was married and cheating from saying her hubby has had the snip so she can’t get the coil because he would notice it
By notice, I thought she meant feel it during sex.
Clearly I’m naive.
Well they can be felt during sex, on occasion."
I’ve never had anyone feel the threads but if you can, just means that they need to be trimmed a little. That’s all. |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok. "
I say this all the time!! The double standards are laughable.
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"Wow!! I so wish there was a thread like this from a man so I could compare comments!!!
Not a a personal pop at you op (each to their own) but the comments!! Unbelievable  "
I'm happy to say as a man, I've had the snip twice and would happily support what ever the lady wished to do. Not about my comfort as I'm simply a dick in a hole, and the lady may be in great discomfort and pain (I had my first snip, because my wife was being made ill on contraception). |
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"Wow!! I so wish there was a thread like this from a man so I could compare comments!!!
Not a a personal pop at you op (each to their own) but the comments!! Unbelievable
I'm happy to say as a man, I've had the snip twice and would happily support what ever the lady wished to do. Not about my comfort as I'm simply a dick in a hole, and the lady may be in great discomfort and pain (I had my first snip, because my wife was being made ill on contraception)."
Twice? |
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"Wow!! I so wish there was a thread like this from a man so I could compare comments!!!
Not a a personal pop at you op (each to their own) but the comments!! Unbelievable
I'm happy to say as a man, I've had the snip twice and would happily support what ever the lady wished to do. Not about my comfort as I'm simply a dick in a hole, and the lady may be in great discomfort and pain (I had my first snip, because my wife was being made ill on contraception).
Twice?"
Had it 'rebuilt' as my wife changed her mind, and wanted more children. We had another two beautiful babies, so I went under the knife again. |
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"Wow!! I so wish there was a thread like this from a man so I could compare comments!!!
Not a a personal pop at you op (each to their own) but the comments!! Unbelievable
I'm happy to say as a man, I've had the snip twice and would happily support what ever the lady wished to do. Not about my comfort as I'm simply a dick in a hole, and the lady may be in great discomfort and pain (I had my first snip, because my wife was being made ill on contraception).
Twice?
Had it 'rebuilt' as my wife changed her mind, and wanted more children. We had another two beautiful babies, so I went under the knife again."
Yeah realised that once I’d commented . Duh |
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"He won’t feel the coil. I’ve had two mirena coils and played with some well endowed guys. Only condoms will protect against STIs.
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You can definitely feel the coil in certain positions, I'm a long way from well endowed and I can feel scouses coil most of the time. |
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"Wow!! I so wish there was a thread like this from a man so I could compare comments!!!
Not a a personal pop at you op (each to their own) but the comments!! Unbelievable
I'm happy to say as a man, I've had the snip twice and would happily support what ever the lady wished to do. Not about my comfort as I'm simply a dick in a hole, and the lady may be in great discomfort and pain (I had my first snip, because my wife was being made ill on contraception).
Twice?
Had it 'rebuilt' as my wife changed her mind, and wanted more children. We had another two beautiful babies, so I went under the knife again.
Yeah realised that once I’d commented . Duh"
It's fine x |
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"I need some advice. I just wondered what methods of contraception you all use. I hate condoms and can’t have a coil fitted as hubby has had snip and will notice it.
Please don’t judge I am just looking for advice"
Pill, injection, implant or pray and spray - can’t think of many others |
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"He won’t feel the coil. I’ve had two mirena coils and played with some well endowed guys. Only condoms will protect against STIs.
You can definitely feel the coil in certain positions, I'm a long way from well endowed and I can feel scouses coil most of the time."
She needs to have the threads trimmed, then you won’t feel it |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Also the risk of infecting her husband with an STI.
These things must only be concerns when a husband is at it.
I’ll make a note of this so I don’t make this mistake again in future.
Cheating husbands = no advice, berate, belittle, they’re scum.
Cheating wives = give them all the advice they need."
Double standards at its finest! Usually the case on this site. |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok. "
Didn't click on the profile as we're not supposed to comment on them except when asked to, assumed the judging comment was about not liking condoms. *shrug* |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Didn't click on the profile as we're not supposed to comment on them except when asked to, assumed the judging comment was about not liking condoms. *shrug* "
Same. I wasn’t aware that this thread was about cheating at all. |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Didn't click on the profile as we're not supposed to comment on them except when asked to, assumed the judging comment was about not liking condoms. *shrug*
Same. I wasn’t aware that this thread was about cheating at all."
And given forum rules on commenting on profiles - it probably still shouldn't be. |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Also the risk of infecting her husband with an STI.
These things must only be concerns when a husband is at it.
I’ll make a note of this so I don’t make this mistake again in future.
Cheating husbands = no advice, berate, belittle, they’re scum.
Cheating wives = give them all the advice they need.
Double standards at its finest! Usually the case on this site. "
It's fab, women can get away with anything. |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Didn't click on the profile as we're not supposed to comment on them except when asked to, assumed the judging comment was about not liking condoms. *shrug* "
I didn’t have to click on the profile.
It was quite obvious to me.
We all read things differently though and that’s fair. |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Didn't click on the profile as we're not supposed to comment on them except when asked to, assumed the judging comment was about not liking condoms. *shrug*
Same. I wasn’t aware that this thread was about cheating at all.
And given forum rules on commenting on profiles - it probably still shouldn't be. "
Who commented on anybody's profile? |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Also the risk of infecting her husband with an STI.
These things must only be concerns when a husband is at it.
I’ll make a note of this so I don’t make this mistake again in future.
Cheating husbands = no advice, berate, belittle, they’re scum.
Cheating wives = give them all the advice they need.
Double standards at its finest! Usually the case on this site.
It's fab, women can get away with anything. "
Very well noted. |
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"I need some advice. I just wondered what methods of contraception you all use. I hate condoms and can’t have a coil fitted as hubby has had snip and will notice it.
Please don’t judge I am just looking for advice"
Something doesn’t ring true here… if you’re hubby has had the snip, why do you need contraception? Also how does having the snip make him notice the coil more?
As for contraception - if you use the pill, you’d still need to use condoms, as the pill isn’t 100% fail proof, also if you take antibiotics the pill won’t work, so either abstain from sex or use a condom. Condoms, there are many makes out there. I prefer Skyns as they are thinner than Durex, a bit more expensive but you always pay more for quality, + the guy will feel more with Skyns. |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Didn't click on the profile as we're not supposed to comment on them except when asked to, assumed the judging comment was about not liking condoms. *shrug* "
Lol, so you missed the post where the OP said she had a few regulars away from Fab and they get tested |
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"I can only imagine how different this thread would have gone had this been a guy looking for the best ways to not get somebody pregnant while cheating on his wife.
Crazy how having different genitals makes some things ok.
Didn't click on the profile as we're not supposed to comment on them except when asked to, assumed the judging comment was about not liking condoms. *shrug*
Lol, so you missed the post where the OP said she had a few regulars away from Fab and they get tested "
Apparently, yes. |
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