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How do you know when your ready

By *enj08475 OP Man over a year ago

brighton

Myself and wife interested in lifestyle but not sure if we are ready, how do you know when your ready for first experience?

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By *ancer36Woman over a year ago

Stirling

Are we ever truly ready for anything…jump in at the deep end, worst that happens is you might get a little wet!

Just go for it, attend a club or social event you will find loads of newbies there as well as a wealth of knowledge from the more well versed, life’s for living just go out there and grab it by the balls!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just go for it, or you'll never will

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Take it slow.. If you aren't 100% ready then it could all go tits up. Communication is the key between couples x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say for anyone starting out a club would be the best option

Safe for everyone involved

Ie people think they want it

Mid way though get jellos and arguments or fights brake out

At least at a club the other party is safe if something like this happens

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

P.s OP does the wife know you are on here??

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By *uby StarCouple over a year ago

Durham

You could both go along to a club just for the social side and see how you both feel. You may find you love or nay find you hate it, but at least it'll give you both an insight.

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By *mily36CWoman over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

After your 18 other threads asking similar, if you're still unsure then I doubt the answer is here

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By *enj08475 OP Man over a year ago

brighton

Thanks for feedback, the forum has been very useful in getting us to this stage and is still helping, Ben and Sam

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t think you ever know. We just took baby steps and talked everything through before and after.

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