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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on they age for me
If it’s young or same age bad idear
They still in they bragging fase off life
Don’t want ever Tom dick and Harry down the pub knowing i suck like a dyson
I took it this way and that way
I screemed there name as they pounded me and took it like a pro all night
Older seem to be out that fase so no need to worry about it
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Most of our meets are with local people. Hasn't caused us any issues. We've bumped into a few when shopping, but it's been fine. Saying that we live in a fairly big city so it might be different in a small village where everyone knows everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have previously had a local fb and in fairness the short distance proved beneficial for those quick fix/short notice encounters. We did see each other on a couple of occasions whilst going about our daily lives and who just smile. We had a mutual respect for each others privacy and we were able to make it work for us both.
Other people I have met have lived within an hour of me and we never experienced any issues.
NBVN x
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"I have previously had a local fb and in fairness the short distance proved beneficial for those quick fix/short notice encounters. We did see each other on a couple of occasions whilst going about our daily lives and who just smile. We had a mutual respect for each others privacy and we were able to make it work for us both.
Other people I have met have lived within an hour of me and we never experienced any issues.
NBVN x
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This sounds like one of the good ones…no horror ones…yet!!! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
It depends on the person.
When we first started out we met a few local people. No drama, no turning up unannounced at 3am. It can make some things easier, but it depends what you are looking for. |
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"It depends on the person.
When we first started out we met a few local people. No drama, no turning up unannounced at 3am. It can make some things easier, but it depends what you are looking for."
Yep, the 3am turn up unannounced is definitely in the horror category! |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"Good or bad idea?
Seems great, but not so sure.
Any horror stories?! "
Great for me. I am single, don’t need to hide though respect privacy and can be discreet about us. Just much easier to plan  |
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Had a social once with a bloke who was like a 8 minute stroll from our house. As much as I'd have liked to go there I knew with him about 80yds from the local lidl we use that it wasn't a great idea so didn't pursue it.
However.... I see he has sold and moved on so.... |
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Met a guy quite a bit older than me once after chatting for a long while, we got on really really well, made me laugh & was very dirty.
Met for a social with a possibility of going further as he wanted me to have a remote vibrator in me that he controlled.
Things were going great, agreed to go back to his to have sex, as we were chatting he mentioned about his kids being around my age, turns out i went to school with his son 
You just never know lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dated somebody who pretty much lived round the corner. I vowed never again, after bumping into him looking a total state (me, not him).
Made me kinda paranoid after that |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
It's great when you find someone a short bus ride away.
I wouldn't see anyone within 10 minutes walking distance though, unless I felt I could really trust them not to knock on my door when they have been drinking. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
200 metres
She lived in a 2nd floor flat which overlooked the front of my house.
We met on Fab but had both been disingenuous with out locations. After a couple of meets she just disappeared. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done before. I found it was really good being local, it meant meeting up could be done faster and also it was great for last minute socials too."
This works if you’re spontaneous.
Unlike me |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Met a guy quite a bit older than me once after chatting for a long while, we got on really really well, made me laugh & was very dirty.
Met for a social with a possibility of going further as he wanted me to have a remote vibrator in me that he controlled.
Things were going great, agreed to go back to his to have sex, as we were chatting he mentioned about his kids being around my age, turns out i went to school with his son
You just never know lol"
What puts me off meeting local younger men is they might know my children, so I ask where they went to school  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At least a thirty minute drive away. Not bothered about long distance but no longer meet anyone local. Apart from on a social basis for friends. "
Which reminds me, need to meet up! |
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"I dated somebody who pretty much lived round the corner. I vowed never again, after bumping into him looking a total state (me, not him).
Made me kinda paranoid after that "
How about the same country? |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"At least a thirty minute drive away. Not bothered about long distance but no longer meet anyone local. Apart from on a social basis for friends.
Which reminds me, need to meet up! "
Absolutely. Hope your cough is better x |
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I prefer local, makes life much easier, and you can be more spontaneous.
But not actually a local person, usually someone who's not lived here all their life, so they're not knowing everyone you know! |
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One of my favourite ever FWBs lived two streets away from me.
As long as you have similar views on discretion I've never found it an issue.
Mind you another favourite lived in America, so distance has never been an issue for me for the right person. |
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