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Naked pics or no naked pics?
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I personally don't feel confident enough to put them on my profile, for friends to view or to swap.
Today someone asked 'to see the goods' I told him that while I wasn't shy if were to meet I didn't feel confident enough to ever send one and never would.
He told me that I was being a prude if I was on this site!
I wondered what others thought about this?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s entirely up to you what you put up. No one has the right to demand anything of you, or to judge what you choose to post. Whatever you’re comfortable with is best, and don’t compromise on that for anyone. |
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"The only things I display sometimes on my profile are my boobs. My downstairs has never and never will be shown on here or sent in a pm x"
Downstairs! That's sweet, love it. Thank you for not sharing, too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never done a "full nude"...my hobbit feet would just kill any hope of anything....not like there is anything anyway, but hey ho, it was my choice to live in Bum Fuck Nowhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It should entirely be about what you are comfortable about.
There is nothing prudish about not having naked pics… you are sexy as hell and no way should someone be giving you grief about what you do or do not choose to share |
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As others have said it's your profile and you decide what you want in it. I didn't have any full frontals for a long time and just had a fuckit moment because as I just said, my profile, my rules. |
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"I personally don't feel confident enough to put them on my profile, for friends to view or to swap.
Today someone asked 'to see the goods' I told him that while I wasn't shy if were to meet I didn't feel confident enough to ever send one and never would.
He told me that I was being a prude if I was on this site!
I wondered what others thought about this?
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Display what your happy with ,dont ever let yourself be pressured and just have all the fun you want ,and enjoy it to your limitations x |
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
There are no nudes of me on here either, I don’t feel the need, only show what your comfortable with and never let anyone tell you otherwise.
If your decision is not good enough then their not worth it |
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"There are no nudes of me on here either, I don’t feel the need, only show what your comfortable with and never let anyone tell you otherwise.
If your decision is not good enough then their not worth it"
No nudes, less is more, you look so sultry and sensual, the camera loves you, as do we.
Your photos are just wonderful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why does that make you a prude ? I think you should be true to yourself and if someone doesn’t like it then it’s their problem not yours. I only have my naughty pics on friends only pics for that very reason of confidence. Nobody should tell you that your wrong for how you feel |
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"There are no nudes of me on here either, I don’t feel the need, only show what your comfortable with and never let anyone tell you otherwise.
If your decision is not good enough then their not worth it
No nudes, less is more, you look so sultry and sensual, the camera loves you, as do we.
Your photos are just wonderful. "
12th November, such an erotic photo, who needs nudes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's entirely up to you what photos you have on your profile and anyone that tries to pressure you into sending something you have stated you don't feel comfortable with is not someone you are going to want to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope I never show the full package on here, that is saved for in person and I make that clear from the get go. Anyone who asks or pushes for it, well that tells you everything you need to know about them.
Just because I'm on a sex website, doesn't mean my bodies up for grabs. |
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"I personally don't feel confident enough to put them on my profile, for friends to view or to swap.
Today someone asked 'to see the goods' I told him that while I wasn't shy if were to meet I didn't feel confident enough to ever send one and never would.
He told me that I was being a prude if I was on this site!
I wondered what others thought about this?
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This man sounds awful. Move on and find someone more respectful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You post whatever you feel comfortable posting. Its got nothing to do with anyone else and they have no right to demand anything of you. Good god, what have we became if people think it's their right to tell you to pose in any form of nudity!! Hell wrong, just out of order really!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's up to you what you put on your own description and if you don't feel comfortable putting more than the one picture that you have done, and it's lovely and tempting, then that's entirely your choice. Don't be bullied into doing something you're not happy or comfortable about doing. Perhaps put some pictures of your choice that you're happy with in your Private folder and use them when you're in conversation with a person if and when you feel comfortable to do so. |
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Only put up pictures you're comfortable with. If others don't like them they can sod off.
We'll never show sex act photos or genitals, and face pictures are in private. Doesn't mean anything other than that is how we choose to run our profile. |
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My experiences so far are that women are absolute masters at altering how they look through flattering angles, filters, clothing and lighting
So I’m gonna need a few very basic pics to ensure you look how you’ve portrayed yourself
Fallen victim to being tricked a few too many times now sadly. So I’ll respect anyones choice to not send them, but it’s not gonna make me confident in meeting them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should only share what makes you comfortable, personally I prefer a little left to the imagination to discover for the first time if we meet. It all adds to the buzz of anticipation.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet there OP plenty of other decent folk for you instead. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I post what I want, it’s my body and I’ll show it as I choose…never will I send something simply because some entitled twat requests it, sounds like you dodged a bullet there
Also just because you personally (this goes for anyone) won’t show something doesn’t mean those that do are wrong- please be mindful that your dislikes are not paramount just move along when you don’t wish to view something, plenty of room here for everyone- judgement can do one!
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"My experiences so far are that women are absolute masters at altering how they look through flattering angles, filters, clothing and lighting
So I’m gonna need a few very basic pics to ensure you look how you’ve portrayed yourself
Fallen victim to being tricked a few too many times now sadly. So I’ll respect anyones choice to not send them, but it’s not gonna make me confident in meeting them "
I don't use filters or photoshop and I'll send clothed photos and face pics without make up, but I'm damned if I'm going to send naked, or even underwear photos to someone demanding them.
I'm fat, and it's obvious by my clothed photos what fat is.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally don't feel confident enough to put them on my profile, for friends to view or to swap.
Today someone asked 'to see the goods' I told him that while I wasn't shy if were to meet I didn't feel confident enough to ever send one and never would.
He told me that I was being a prude if I was on this site!
I wondered what others thought about this?
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He sounds awful, and best avoided.
You post what you want, anyone should be able to, whatever the pic may be of.
I rarely send pics privately, and never if I’m asked to. It’s my decision and no one else’s. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
That's his issue not yours.Post what ever pics you want. But never feel that you have to post what others want to see. And never feel pressured to send pics to someone because they ask for them. And anyone asking for naked pics then calling someone a prude because they won't is just a cockwomble anyhow and most likely just looking free wank material. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe just put up only what you feel like showing. Don’t push it and if things feel easier later on then be more daring.
I see enough there already to pique my interest and I’m sure many others do too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you should show whatever you feel comfortable with.
A few weeks ago we were in a hotel and looking for a meet. Spoke to a chap on the phone and swapped face photos. I think I even sent a full length one of me, clothed.
He was literally a mile away from us. I told him on the phone I wanted him to come over to us fuck me and fuck off.
All going well and then he asked for a naked photo. I said no and then went right off the idea! Told him to not bother.
I'm happy being naked in person but I just don't want to have naked photos on our profile.
Ginge
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From 15 March without the other persons consent...
cyberflashing is a whole other kind of indecent exposure.
It’s when an unsolicited photo of a person’s genitalia is sent without consent, either through social media apps such as Instagram, dating apps like Tinder..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Makes me laugh when they start demanding crap like that.
"You're a prude if you won't!!"
Ohhh nooo my feelings are hurt, I will immediately send you 20 naked pics and 3 internal pics. Please don't hate me. 
If they demand such crap and try to use emotional black mail, imagine how disrespectful and possibly dangerous they would be in person!
Hell no. |
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As has been mentioned everyone has the right to show what they feel comfortable with.
If you want to show more then good for you. It should be personal choice and I felt it wrong to be judged by mine.
Thank you for all the positive comments too x |
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I don't dislike anyone enough to send them a nude photo of me!
I have possibly the least explicit photos on here, even in my friends pics, and I'm no more explicit on other adult sites I frequent.
I don't send nudes even to people I've slept with, it's just not my style.
If someone is insistent on receiving nude photos I normally point them in the direction of one of the million sites out there that cater for that and then I move on as we're clearly not compatible. |
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By *l6789Man
over a year ago
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Probably just a bit of a knob OP, wouldn’t worry about it.
I’m very confident about my body but won’t be posting full nudes here. It’s fun to tease but some parts are more fun left until the unzipping… |
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I also hate my body naked, so dont have any naked pics. I like parts of me just not seeing it all at once 
I have no problem taking my clothes off once we're in the zone but makes me feel awkward otherwise. |
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Tell him to get stuffed. There's a lot of dickish people who want to manipulate people into showing them what they want. Any comment like that is an instant red flag to indicate you should chuck them. We are all different on here, there is no rules apart from be yourself, be comfortable and do things your way. I'm sure you'll find the right person and they'll get to see first hand just what a prude you are not. |
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