I’m a nice guy (I think)
I’d say I was fairly good looking and keep myself in reasonable shape.
Soooooo……
Why is it so difficult to find someone on here to connect with?
Is it my profile? My pictures?
Someone please help me!
I’m not a clingy needy type. It just bugs me when people seem interested and then disappear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a tough gig on here for guys, so I’m told. Must admit, I am now put off by a guy who focuses on oral in his profile. It makes me think he’ll be a crap shag. Not true in your case, I’m sure.
Anyway, best of luck  |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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You need much better, more appealing photos.
I never says this, but this time it is true. In the nicest possible way, your profile is as generic as it can be. Thousands of similar ones on this site. What would make you stand out/make people want to message you, or even want to reply to a message from you? |
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"If I saw you couldn't accommodate I'd assume you weren't single and that would put me off. "
Ah right. I didn’t even think about that.
I put that as my kids live with me so it makes things awkward. I should perhaps write that on my profile! Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I saw you couldn't accommodate I'd assume you weren't single and that would put me off.
Ah right. I didn’t even think about that.
I put that as my kids live with me so it makes things awkward. I should perhaps write that on my profile! Thanks. "
It's totally your business but I'd understand that reason (I'm in the same position) but with a profile that doesn't really jump out at you that is something that does stand out if that makes sense. |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
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"I’m a nice guy (I think)
I’d say I was fairly good looking and keep myself in reasonable shape.
Soooooo……
Why is it so difficult to find someone on here to connect with?
Is it my profile? My pictures?
Someone please help me!
I’m not a clingy needy type. It just bugs me when people seem interested and then disappear. "
I think it is the illusion of the site.
So many members, but how many are looking to swing, or looking for sex? Are the majority here because they are a little curious, dabbling without intent?
What do you think the site can offer you, what does the site offer you?
It isn't always about your profile notes, is this site the right site for you? Is another site going to be more favourable to what you need?
Your expectations of the site may not be the expectations of the members.
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I put that as my kids live with me so it makes things awkward."
Same here, so I put I can accommodate because I can some of the time - if I get chatting with someone I explain it and they e all been understanding  |
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