Couple here with not much experience wanting to get more into 3sums wanting to know how to deal with what we view to be pushy males. Someones view on a person being pushy is subject to opinion, and getting a person to..... calm down in messages is what we are having to deal with. How do couples get a person to just calm down, if you see what we mean?
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"Couple here with not much experience wanting to get more into 3sums wanting to know how to deal with what we view to be pushy males. Someones view on a person being pushy is subject to opinion, and getting a person to..... calm down in messages is what we are having to deal with. How do couples get a person to just calm down, if you see what we mean?
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Don't, just move the hell on.
If you're needing someone to calm down to be compatible.....you ain't compatible. |
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"Couple here with not much experience wanting to get more into 3sums wanting to know how to deal with what we view to be pushy males. Someones view on a person being pushy is subject to opinion, and getting a person to..... calm down in messages is what we are having to deal with. How do couples get a person to just calm down, if you see what we mean?
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It's your profile , your page ..your rules , the guy may be single but that doesn't mean you have to meet him , if you see something that you don't like simply block him . |
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I’m admittedly reading between the lines of your original post but are you talking about people who get too forward too quickly ? Being too graphic and wanting to meet asap?
If so, I have found the same thing occasionally and it can be as simple as either explaining to the your concerns and seeing if they take the point that r accepting that you’re not compatible and moving on.
We’re not all compatible here and there’s nothing wrong in that , move on and keep looking for the one person who’s right for you guys |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"Couple here with not much experience wanting to get more into 3sums wanting to know how to deal with what we view to be pushy males. Someones view on a person being pushy is subject to opinion, and getting a person to..... calm down in messages is what we are having to deal with. How do couples get a person to just calm down, if you see what we mean?
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Just be open and honest about it, if you don't tell them they may not realise. |
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"I’m admittedly reading between the lines of your original post but are you talking about people who get too forward too quickly ? Being too graphic and wanting to meet asap? "
This happens with couples (perhaps the male half) and occasionally women (typically in the form of a first message question like, ‘do you fuck rough’). I used to have something about it on my profile but no one read it. It can be a shame though, if you like the look of the profile. However, perhaps if this is the case you can simply say something like, ‘let’s tone this down a notch, we like to get know people a little before letting them share one of the most intimate aspects of our life’. If they don’t listen block - you’re obviously not compatible.
Despite what people say here, whilst there are lots of folk, very few of us (statistically speaking) are actual matches.
Good luck!
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Couple here with not much experience wanting to get more into 3sums wanting to know how to deal with what we view to be pushy males. Someones view on a person being pushy is subject to opinion, and getting a person to..... calm down in messages is what we are having to deal with. How do couples get a person to just calm down, if you see what we mean?
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Pushy “people” in general
If someone doesn’t move at the same speed as you… move on!!
We are here for fun… not to feel awkward!!
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You don't give them any more of your time and effort, they are not compatible to you both and you simply block & move on.
I hope you enjoy your new adventures into swinging. Best of luck both
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