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"For me there will only be only one love i wont allow myself to do it with anyone else i gave my soul away "  | |||
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"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. " Hear hear  | |||
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"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. " Calm down Jane Austen. | |||
"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. " Really I disagree with that, there is always that special someone out there for each person and if you don't like falling in love then you could end up having a lonely life ? | |||
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"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. Really I disagree with that, there is always that special someone out there for each person and if you don't like falling in love then you could end up having a lonely life ? " I'm good, I'm getting ALL the dogs. | |||
"I can’t wait to be in love again. I’m happiest in a monogamous DDlg relationship. And I can’t wait to delete fab and leave "Without sounding cheesy lol, you are still waiting on falling in love ? You are stunning how haven't you already x | |||
"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. Really I disagree with that, there is always that special someone out there for each person and if you don't like falling in love then you could end up having a lonely life ? I'm good, I'm getting ALL the dogs. " Sounds like you have be hurt in the past ? | |||
"I can’t wait to be in love again. I’m happiest in a monogamous DDlg relationship. And I can’t wait to delete fab and leave
Without sounding cheesy lol, you are still waiting on falling in love ? You are stunning how haven't you already x"Point....proven. That's lust not love. I win, thank you very much. | |||
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"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. Really I disagree with that, there is always that special someone out there for each person and if you don't like falling in love then you could end up having a lonely life ? I'm good, I'm getting ALL the dogs. " Yes, yes you are. | |||
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"Love a cat instead of a human. You'll get used to being seen as a midly irritating food machine. " For a cat I think the correct terminology is sub to their every whim  | |||
"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. " I can prove you wrong. Taking my wife, lust and any infatuation out of the equation, I can say hand on heart that i fell in love with my old dog the second I clapped eyes on her in the rescue kennels and loved her with all my heart till the day she died (and I don't mind admitting it hurts she's gone all these years later). Not exactly the same type of love I may have for my wife but it was still love. I hope one day you find something or someone that changes your mind. | |||
"For me there will only be only one love i wont allow myself to do it with anyone else i gave my soul away "dont be sad destiny will reward me one day it is inevitable | |||
"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. I can prove you wrong. Taking my wife, lust and any infatuation out of the equation, I can say hand on heart that i fell in love with my old dog the second I clapped eyes on her in the rescue kennels and loved her with all my heart till the day she died (and I don't mind admitting it hurts she's gone all these years later). Not exactly the same type of love I may have for my wife but it was still love. I hope one day you find something or someone that changes your mind. " Love for animals is different. Completely different altogether. | |||
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"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. " Spot on. They just like them a lot, for some people that’s just not too smelly or whiney and alright at sex | |||
"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. Spot on. They just like them a lot, for some people that’s just not too smelly or whiney and alright at sex " That's what I look for | |||
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"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. " if it were that simple id have not last my sanity when it was gone my cock has never controlled me | |||
"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. I can prove you wrong. Taking my wife, lust and any infatuation out of the equation, I can say hand on heart that i fell in love with my old dog the second I clapped eyes on her in the rescue kennels and loved her with all my heart till the day she died (and I don't mind admitting it hurts she's gone all these years later). Not exactly the same type of love I may have for my wife but it was still love. I hope one day you find something or someone that changes your mind. Love for animals is different. Completely different altogether. " Which us what I said but love is love regardless. | |||
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"For me there will only be only one love i wont allow myself to do it with anyone else i gave my soul away dont be sad destiny will reward me one day it is inevitable"Ok  | |||
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"It creeps on you, even when you’re adamant you will guard your heart, and never let anyone in again…and then you realise that life wouldn’t be the same without them. It’s about knowing you could get hurt, but taking the chance anyway. It’s not just lust, it’s talking about things you have in common, appreciating each other for the little things. If all that keeps you going back is sex, then yes, it’s lust. It’s not even about someone “completing” you, the other half of you, etc, as you’re complete without them, you’re still your own person, it’s that you want them, not need them, and when you both accept each other for who you are as individuals, then you’re kind of on the right track… It’s not about ownership, it’s not about changing them, it’s about respecting each other’s viewpoint, and working through any challenges together…anything worth having doesn’t come easy (that old cliché) That’s how I see love anyway. Oh, and if they like a bacon sandwich, made like you do, then that helps too… (Btw, these are my views only, he has his own and I can’t speak for him, nor would I want to) Viv xx " Oh I love this!!! | |||
"It creeps on you, even when you’re adamant you will guard your heart, and never let anyone in again…and then you realise that life wouldn’t be the same without them. It’s about knowing you could get hurt, but taking the chance anyway. It’s not just lust, it’s talking about things you have in common, appreciating each other for the little things. If all that keeps you going back is sex, then yes, it’s lust. It’s not even about someone “completing” you, the other half of you, etc, as you’re complete without them, you’re still your own person, it’s that you want them, not need them, and when you both accept each other for who you are as individuals, then you’re kind of on the right track… It’s not about ownership, it’s not about changing them, it’s about respecting each other’s viewpoint, and working through any challenges together…anything worth having doesn’t come easy (that old cliché) That’s how I see love anyway. Oh, and if they like a bacon sandwich, made like you do, then that helps too… (Btw, these are my views only, he has his own and I can’t speak for him, nor would I want to) Viv xx " Beautifully put  | |||
"It creeps on you, even when you’re adamant you will guard your heart, and never let anyone in again…and then you realise that life wouldn’t be the same without them. It’s about knowing you could get hurt, but taking the chance anyway. It’s not just lust, it’s talking about things you have in common, appreciating each other for the little things. If all that keeps you going back is sex, then yes, it’s lust. It’s not even about someone “completing” you, the other half of you, etc, as you’re complete without them, you’re still your own person, it’s that you want them, not need them, and when you both accept each other for who you are as individuals, then you’re kind of on the right track… It’s not about ownership, it’s not about changing them, it’s about respecting each other’s viewpoint, and working through any challenges together…anything worth having doesn’t come easy (that old cliché) That’s how I see love anyway. Oh, and if they like a bacon sandwich, made like you do, then that helps too… (Btw, these are my views only, he has his own and I can’t speak for him, nor would I want to) Viv xx Oh I love this!!! " It’s how he makes me feel…but if anyone tells him I’ll deny it! Haha. I don’t own him, nor would I ever want my expressing my feelings about him, to be seen as a claim on him. He’s his own person, and we suit us xx | |||
"It creeps on you, even when you’re adamant you will guard your heart, and never let anyone in again…and then you realise that life wouldn’t be the same without them. It’s about knowing you could get hurt, but taking the chance anyway. It’s not just lust, it’s talking about things you have in common, appreciating each other for the little things. If all that keeps you going back is sex, then yes, it’s lust. It’s not even about someone “completing” you, the other half of you, etc, as you’re complete without them, you’re still your own person, it’s that you want them, not need them, and when you both accept each other for who you are as individuals, then you’re kind of on the right track… It’s not about ownership, it’s not about changing them, it’s about respecting each other’s viewpoint, and working through any challenges together…anything worth having doesn’t come easy (that old cliché) That’s how I see love anyway. Oh, and if they like a bacon sandwich, made like you do, then that helps too… (Btw, these are my views only, he has his own and I can’t speak for him, nor would I want to) Viv xx Beautifully put "Thank you…I’ll go back to watching some sort of violent film now, probably scratch my bum cheek a bit and be extremely rude about feelings… xx | |||
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"Heartbreak x" I can relate x | |||
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"Sleeping in the wet patch " Haha | |||
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"I'd still like to know what it feels like "Hope you find it x | |||
"I left my ex 10 years ago convinced that after I gave myself time to heal I would find love again. But here I am 10 years later and it hasn't happened, although I've promised myself I'd never just settle again,been there done that. I'd rather be single than with the wrong person. However I'd love to fall in love again as long as it was reciprocated. " This too - though I doubt it will happen in my case. I adore my kids and my dog - they love me back (especially the dog). I don’t think I’m the kind of person that men really fall in love with. I’m ‘too nice’ in relationships and I’m a ‘what you see is what you get’ kind of woman. In my experience men fall for women who are complicated and not terribly nice - ie the ‘make them work for it’ type. I’m the polar opposite of that. I’ll do pretty much anything for someone I really like. I’ve pretty much accepted that I’ll never have a real ‘Relationship’ again. X | |||
"Such a complicated thing. All my life I have deluded myself into thinking that there was just one person I would fall in love with and when that happened I would just be with them. Fairytale romance!! But now I've realised that you can fall in love with someone and still need other emotional/physical connections with other people and that's ok!! I have finally evolved and that's made me so much happier. Not much of a topic of discussion I guess but, this site is full of the only people I knew would understand xxx " Love is love but so is pure animalistic sex .. sometimes you get it in love other times not .. sometimes the person who you love and loves you does not give you the ' loving " you truly desire ... sometimes. | |||
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"Personally I think "falling in love" is a load of shit. It's lust, infatuation. " I don't think it's shit but I do agree that initially in relationships lust is the main feeling. Everything is new and exciting, love grows as the relationship does. I don't believe in love at first sight, that's a load of bubbly bollocks! | |||
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"I left my ex 10 years ago convinced that after I gave myself time to heal I would find love again. But here I am 10 years later and it hasn't happened, although I've promised myself I'd never just settle again,been there done that. I'd rather be single than with the wrong person. However I'd love to fall in love again as long as it was reciprocated. This too - though I doubt it will happen in my case. I adore my kids and my dog - they love me back (especially the dog). I don’t think I’m the kind of person that men really fall in love with. I’m ‘too nice’ in relationships and I’m a ‘what you see is what you get’ kind of woman. In my experience men fall for women who are complicated and not terribly nice - ie the ‘make them work for it’ type. I’m the polar opposite of that. I’ll do pretty much anything for someone I really like. I’ve pretty much accepted that I’ll never have a real ‘Relationship’ again. X" I totally relate to everything you've said, I've come to the conclusion that if someone doesn't want me warts an all then they are not good enough for me, and I'm better off saving myself the heartbreak and walking away.x | |||
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"Personally I think that love is overrated. It's just a biological and chemical response that ultimately makes you feel absolute shite, while the nice part is fleeting. Perhaps I'm just cynical. What am I saying, ice course im cynical "Agreed x | |||
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"Growth is learning that that bullshit about not being able to live more than one person is a monogamous myth that is only applied to romantic relationships (conveniently). But Love is beautiful. And It’s freeing. And we all have it in our lives. "Love * | |||
"I'd still like to know what it feels like
Hope you find it x "It'll have to find me | |||
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"It’s incredible, exhausting, overwhelming, awe consuming, honest, raw…it lays you bare to another to there passions, desires, scrutiny, ideals. Its vulnerability in the highest form and comfort at its finest like a childhood blanket you don’t want to let it go, sometimes you cling to it, you carry it with you everywhere you go and it gives you the warm and fuzzy feelings you adore other times you feel it slip from your fingers and it faids away. - love it’s like a grief and beauty in one, pain and elation, happiness and sadness, euphoria and deep heartache..it’s addiction..love is indeed a drug! " Yessss!!! Can’t even add anything to this. Nailed it xx | |||
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"Personally I think love and friendship and sex is a spectrum rather than fixed boxes that society wants to keep us in. What was so refreshing early on with Mrs Misfit is we could talk about it, about other people and how we felt about them. No having to pretend other people hadn't left their mark, no pretending we don't find others attractive and recognising that some people in our lives (past and present) fall/fell in the in-between areas, like meaningful loving friendships that are sexual. It was nice to be with someone who also recognised there is different types of love and different types of friendship and they are OK. But as well as recognising all there's areas of the spectrum she's help me to recognise the top of the spectrum and where I had in past relationships confused what I felt for the top not realising I could have something more. That there is a case of nearly there but not quite there with ex's. It's kind of a case of taste the difference. I needed to meet her to see how much more I could have and what an awesome relationship and woman was possible. She is my soul mate, simple my best everything. And because of that it helps me to recognise all the other shades of love and relationships I've had and that they are all OK, valid and different. Ironically seeing the many shade has made my outlook on relationships poly but seeing how awesome things can be and being lucky enough to meet my one makes me relationship wise monogamous. I totally accept love is complicated but luckily for me it's simple. She is mine, I am hers and we were ment to be. I honestly believe that. I think it's something that sadly not everyone gets to find in this life. But we shouldn't be scared as a society to recognise the many shades love or be scared of its messiness sometimes. Those sides are there to be enjoyed and can be better enjoyed when you can call them as they are rather than be confused or have fit them in a box that doesn't fit. Mr" This was lovely to read. | |||
Dancer36 as always eloquent | |||
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