Are you comfortable being called beautiful or is it a trigger word for you?
Do you think everyone is beautiful in their own way or is it a beauty standard very few achieve?
Do you find the people you love become beautiful in your eyes?
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"Are you comfortable being called beautiful or is it a trigger word for you?
Do you think everyone is beautiful in their own way or is it a beauty standard very few achieve?
I compliment women and say that in my eyes they are beautiful
Can you explain what you
Mean it been a trigger word .
Do you find the people you love become beautiful in your eyes?
Thoughts?"
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"Are you comfortable being called beautiful or is it a trigger word for you?
Do you think everyone is beautiful in their own way or is it a beauty standard very few achieve?
Do you find the people you love become beautiful in your eyes?
Thoughts?"
I'm happy to say it and very happy to receive it but from people I know.
When the random blokes that look at my one headless picture and ignore my profile call me beautiful, I get a bit stabby. |
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over a year ago
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"Nope. I just laugh at men calling me beautiful. I have a mirror.
Awww come on you are wonderful and awesome
Ah thank you. But not beautiful. "
Your welcome and you are I just didn’t want you to laugh at me so reframed from says it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think only a few people are truly beautiful to look at but beauty is more about your soul and actions than looks.
I heartily eye roll when I get called beautiful in a message here from one bum pic and a few crap words. Dont waste the compliment until you know someone is worthy of it or it becomes meaningless. |
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"Nope. I just laugh at men calling me beautiful. I have a mirror.
Awww come on you are wonderful and awesome
Ah thank you. But not beautiful.
Your welcome and you are I just didn’t want you to laugh at me so reframed from says it "
Why would I laugh at you? |
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"Nope. I just laugh at men calling me beautiful. I have a mirror.
Awww come on you are wonderful and awesome
Ah thank you. But not beautiful.
Your welcome and you are I just didn’t want you to laugh at me so reframed from says it
Why would I laugh at you? "
I am not shour but ok here we go I think your awesome your posts put a smile on my face and your wonderfully beautiful x |
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"To answer the op.
If it’s sincere I like it.
No I don’t think everyone is beautiful in their own way.
And I forgot the last question  "
Last question. No I love people but I wouldn’t automatically think they’re beautiful. Never really thought about that really. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"I think beauty is more than just looks and everyone is beautiful in their own way. What one person finds beautiful another might not.
Yeah sure. Putin so beautiful. Ian Huntley beautiful. "
To you and I, and most people they may not be but I'm sure their mothers at least thought differently. |
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"Nope. I just laugh at men calling me beautiful. I have a mirror.
Awww come on you are wonderful and awesome
Ah thank you. But not beautiful.
Your welcome and you are I just didn’t want you to laugh at me so reframed from says it
Why would I laugh at you?
I am not shour but ok here we go I think your awesome your posts put a smile on my face and your wonderfully beautiful x"
I'd only laugh at you when there's  involved. You frequently put a smile on my face too - you have a wonderful perspective and I value it. X |
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On here I don’t really believe it, it’s a common chat up line or first message.
I’m not beautiful either as my male self or female image that I present. That’s not looking for compliments it’s a fact. I’m average at best and in some ways I’m content with it. Advantage of getting older the bullshit meter is a lot more accurate.
However a better compliment in real life is someone saying ‘I find you attractive’ this seems more honest, because attraction is relative to that person. So to me it’s more sincere as it may be my intelligence, manner or values that made me attractive to that person not something as vacuous as just my looks.
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"To answer the op.
If it’s sincere I like it.
No I don’t think everyone is beautiful in their own way.
And I forgot the last question "
I remember how another thread went on this topic. Some people do believe that everyone is beautiful in some way. I tend to use the word only for the classic example of beautiful - men and women. |
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In terms I’d like I don’t think I’m ever going to be beautiful as far as beauty standards go and I feel that way for multiple reasons some you can probably guess. So I’m not a fan of being called beautiful though I appreciate that people may think that of me if they fall for me.
I think we can all be and are beautiful in our own ways and to someone, especially those that love us. But I think there are rigid standards of beauty that make it difficult for us to appreciate this about others and ourselves. As I guess I show about myself in the first part of this post. 
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"To answer the op.
If it’s sincere I like it.
No I don’t think everyone is beautiful in their own way.
And I forgot the last question
I remember how another thread went on this topic. Some people do believe that everyone is beautiful in some way. I tend to use the word only for the classic example of beautiful - men and women. "
Yeah thinking about it, I think I do really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love it from someone who knows me and means it.
On a message here it means nothing, it's just words said to try and get a reply, they don't mean it. "
What a beaute ^ |
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I only ever call my wife and kids beautiful. I think for someone to be truly beautiful to me there has to be some kind of emotional connection.
I can’t remember the last time someone called me beautiful so I can’t tell you how I feel about it  |
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I don't think many people are truly beautiful, the vast majority of us are pretty average looking. But it's very subjective, and I appreciate that I'm beautiful to some people, and like it when they tell me. On here when random strangers that can't see my face tell me I'm beautiful? Jog on mate, that's a woefully dire attempt to get into my knickers!
The unexpected times when someone says it can be very flattering...not so long ago I helped an elderly lady reach something on a high supermarket shelf, and she looked at me and in a very serious voice said "you're very beautiful. I wish my daughter had been as pretty as you...but she was ugly!" It made me laugh, but I also finished doing my shopping with an extra little spring in my step. |
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"Nope. I just laugh at men calling me beautiful. I have a mirror.
Awww come on you are wonderful and awesome
Ah thank you. But not beautiful.
Your welcome and you are I just didn’t want you to laugh at me so reframed from says it
Why would I laugh at you?
I am not shour but ok here we go I think your awesome your posts put a smile on my face and your wonderfully beautiful x
I'd only laugh at you when there's involved. You frequently put a smile on my face too - you have a wonderful perspective and I value it. X"
Awww thank you so much x |
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"Nope. I just laugh at men calling me beautiful. I have a mirror.
Awww come on you are wonderful and awesome
Ah thank you. But not beautiful.
Your welcome and you are I just didn’t want you to laugh at me so reframed from says it
Why would I laugh at you?
I am not shour but ok here we go I think your awesome your posts put a smile on my face and your wonderfully beautiful x
I'd only laugh at you when there's involved. You frequently put a smile on my face too - you have a wonderful perspective and I value it. X
Awww thank you so much x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you comfortable being called beautiful or is it a trigger word for you?
Do you think everyone is beautiful in their own way or is it a beauty standard very few achieve?
Do you find the people you love become beautiful in your eyes?
There is a lot of truth in beauty being in the eye of the beholder. It's a state of mind... x
Thoughts?"
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I get called beautiful by people on here and I just take it as a nice compliment but it doesn't really mean anything more to me.
I do like it when people say who get to know me call me a beautiful person or beautiful lady because I feel they are describing my character rather than my looks, and this makes me feel happy.
NBVN x |
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I am always flattered if someone calls me beautiful and I often call people beautiful … and it isn’t necessarily anything to do with how they look.
I certainly would not say that everyone has something beautiful about them… some people are ugly in their mind and in their appearance.
Physical beauty is of no concern. But I have no time for people who have ugliness in their minds or their hearts z |
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"I love it from someone who knows me and means it.
On a message here it means nothing, it's just words said to try and get a reply, they don't mean it.
What a beaute ^ "
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Beauty is defined as pleasing to the mind and senses... So for me that isn't just how you look.
If someone says I'm beautiful though I tend to think of looks. It feels deeper and possibly more genuine than someone saying 'you're gorgeous' which is always the term that gets used!
I would rather be thought of as kind and a nice person and if anyone says I'm beautiful I shake my head! |
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Owl here: I look for beauty as I've been programmed by circumstance to look for ugly and am conscious of this. There are many who have little beauty and lots of ugly and I choose to not over exert myself with such people. I dislike being complimented on stuff which I cannot take responsibility for and for things which I am not happy with. Beautiful is sometimes a trigger for such thoughts. |
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It’s become a generic phrase.
Nobody puts their heart into it anymore.
All to get their dicks wet and pies filled.
Has a knock on effect of being just that, a generic phrase, now when you see somebody who you believe is truly beautiful how do you tell them?
Because in the back of their mind it’ll just be “another guy after his cock sucked”.
Cheers fellas.
Knobheads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love being called beautiful, gorgeous or whatever else
I know I have a sensual energy about me but I don’t always see myself as beautiful, so it’s nice to hear it from others as a confirmation
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"To know if I am beautiful you would have to see me in real life and know me as a person.I don’t think anyone has ever called me beautiful to my face, so I think that I am clearly not. "
Yes I agree that it has to be said in real life x but I don’t believe none ever called you beautiful to your face x |
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"I know I'm not and wouldn't like to be called it but that's because I think it's more of a feminine trait.
I know I know, toxic masculinity etc etc.
I do sometimes use it though.
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But what about handsome? I mean I say handsome when I see a beautiful man x
Do you like being called handsome? X |
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It depends on who is saying it really, if a friend was to say I’m a beautiful person I would be overjoyed to hear that.
I tend to think if it’s said from someone who hardly knows you, it’s a heap of shite.
Beauty comes from within |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Like any compliment if I feel it is genuine and it’s from someone who knows me well and has actually seen my face then I find it endearing, thoughtful and it gives me a warm and fuzzy feeling.
If it’s a random response to a new picture on here I would struggle to believe it and wonder what they would hope to gain by gain by giving the compliment xx |
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"I know I'm not and wouldn't like to be called it but that's because I think it's more of a feminine trait.
I know I know, toxic masculinity etc etc.
I do sometimes use it though.
But what about handsome? I mean I say handsome when I see a beautiful man x
Do you like being called handsome? X "
Yeah that's much better. |
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