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Never personally had a meet come around from a forum chat however that's because today for myself(boo) is first time actually getting my head into these forums and seeing what they are about.
My meets a have had have all stemmed from the usual way.
Boo x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every meet so far has been through interaction via profiles and messaging and not through the forums, then again it dosn't really seem to be the format best suited to meeting though a bit of time helps to build a picture of any prospective sexual partners. x |
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By *histlerMan
over a year ago
Guildford |
Getting to the stage of meeting rarely happens through just messages anymore.
Met someone though the forums and hoping to meet them soon. Otherwise have met a couple of people through the chatrooms too in the past. |
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All our meets have been through messaging. Mostly from others messaging first. Though we did get messaged by a couple, and meet them, because they'd seen my posts in the forum. They never post themselves, but they were also fairly local to us.
There are a few from the forums we'd meet for sex but it's more difficult as they're generally not very local. I wouldn't rule it out though  |
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I don't use any other part of the site apart from the forums so in the last 3 years since creating this profile the majority of meets have been through the forums.
I use them as an additional filter because their forum engagement often tells a completely different tale to private messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve met from chatrooms once but most other meets have come from random messages (funnily enough women messaging me). Not met anyone from the forums for any reason but I never say never I guess? |
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Still to meet a regular forumite. I have met two people who post occasionally but I met them through an intro message rather than interacting with them here. I have also made friends with a couple of regulars but yet to meet them. |
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Plenty of offers from the forums but all from people too far away for me to be bothered to travel
I used to do the usual “read profile, good 1st message etc etc” until I realised that most messages go unopened and it was a waste of time.
I now make it clear I don’t message 1st and it’s been fairly good. Mainly because I don’t even bother looking so fabs takes up zero time. The only issue is the double standards from most women that message me. Extremely low effort 1st messages or demanding face pictures in their 1st message without providing theirs. Instant block
Guys, stop simping. Stop sending 100s of crafted 1st messages that go unopened. Make a nice profile, be active on the forum and don’t take any shit from low effort no bodies.
And go to socials |
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I very rarely meet these days but during my time on here, my most successful and therefore repeat meets have been with people I encountered on the forums. One turned out to live only a couple of miles away so that was nice that we chanced upon each other on the forums. |
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I delete any messages that come via the forums, it feels sleezy taking something from the forums into DMs
I advertise my meets in the meets section or message someone I like the look of locally & see what happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meets stem from on Fab?
Do they happen through forum interactions etc...
I've noticed that through all my years on Fab, I've only met 3 people who used them x"
no meets at all yet ,but had some good banter.
I think that is more important.
I like this forum |
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"Meets stem from on Fab?
Do they happen through forum interactions etc...
I've noticed that through all my years on Fab, I've only met 3 people who used them x"
Used to be through posting meets.
Only ever met one person via the forums.
These days though it's usually via socials and clubs. Either our area is a dead zone or people are still squirrly about meets post lockdown. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Neither, I play Curtis Stigers covers on my saxophone from my balcony and they just appear, like moths to a flame.
Nobody can resist a bit of the old Curtis Stigers rhymes with tigers."
I wonder why? |
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"Admin provided a stat many ydars ago that less than 1% of site users post in the forums, some folk read them and don't post,
Very few of my meets are from the forum."
It's amazing just how many don't use the forum. Those are my kind of people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The hot forumites are usually not local so I have to perv from a distance 
I can never take the guys who use the forums seriously for some reason x"
because there encouragable i hear |
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"I do use forums to find group socials, and I have met people from them.
Not exactly directly meeting from the forum but as close as I come!"
That's the only way I've met some that use the forums is through organised socials but generally on a 1-1 basis they tend to be non formites x |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
Some from browsing and my profile, sadly none from Forums, perhaps I don,t spend enough time on here added to which my age is not in my favour. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I do use forums to find group socials, and I have met people from them.
Not exactly directly meeting from the forum but as close as I come!"
Me too,plus a couple from show your face Friday threads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meets stem from on Fab?
Do they happen through forum interactions etc...
I've noticed that through all my years on Fab, I've only met 3 people who used them x"
From either me contacting them through the search or vice versa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the men I've met of late have just messaged me and are not forumites. And I am less likely to meet from here as time goes on because of the time wasting. |
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"I meet someone from the forums I wouldn't do it again. Get to much shit.
Don’t make it public and don’t leave/show veris. It’s the only way. "
Even by doing that some people still can't be discreet unfortunately. |
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"I meet someone from the forums I wouldn't do it again. Get to much shit.
Don’t make it public and don’t leave/show veris. It’s the only way.
Even by doing that some people still can't be discreet unfortunately."
Oh yeah. I meant both parties. |
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Most of our meets have come from socials which we found out about from the forums and a couple from private messages linked to forum posts, so yes most of our have been linked in some way to the forums.
There are definitely a couple of regular forum posters that I would love to meet.
MJ x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had a meet.. still early days I suppose. I've had 1 woman message me so far. But most of my interaction seems to be forum. The chat rooms are abit male heavy and just focused on one thing, even the general chat, it gets a bit off putting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never met anyone off the forum and that's not for the lack of trying.
Probably messaged 3/4 ladies off the forum with an intention to meet in the last few months but it goes nowhere.
I don't send random messages using the search option anymore. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
It probably swung a little more non forum overall if i think about it, but it was the forums that brought me to where i am now with him  Whenever I do meet again it'll be forum/friends list peeps  |
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