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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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...non swingers sign up to a swinging site?
I'm not judging at all as I know these sites can be used however anyone wishes, but if you aren't interested in swinging then why would you even think about joining a swingers site?
Just out of curiosity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It probably depends on each individual's definition of swinging.
It's easy to explain for couples meeting couples, but, say a single guy, or a single girl likes sex, and hooks up with a different partner each week for NSA sex in a nightclub or pub, does that make them a swinger?
There are plenty of guys, and girls on here, with loads of verifications, who don't do clubs, who don't want socials, just NSA fun, who meet up with different partners and have a good bloody time. The only difference is they've got a Fab membership, and use Fab to meet others.
It's a quandary 
Totally agree though, a lot of guys join here thinking it's instashag, and generally around 3 weeks after that they're on the forum wondering why they can't get a meet  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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I was sceptical about joining a swinging site, but my friend assured me I would find new fuck buddies on here; which I have.
I don't need to go to clubs to meet men for sex, and I prefer to get to know someone before getting naked with them; which I can't do in an hour or two in a club.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because people are a lot more open minded here?
And there is a better social aspect than the swipey sites. "
100% agree. But, does that make them, or you, swingers?
That's what I mean about it all being definition. To put that in context, we've had a few meets from here, and have attended and played in clubs, but we wouldn't say we were swingers as some would define. Other non fab friends if they knew would probably call us "those mad swingers"
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"...non swingers sign up to a swinging site?
I'm not judging at all as I know these sites can be used however anyone wishes, but if you aren't interested in swinging then why would you even think about joining a swingers site?
Just out of curiosity."
Because some people think this site is just for a quick and easy hookup ( they are normally the ones to ruin it too in my opinion) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Curiosity I suppose.
They’re not swingers now perhaps but they are interested and perhaps they may join in one day.
I’m in a Facebook group for wingsuit flyers.
I’ll never do it but I like to look at the videos. |
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"...non swingers sign up to a swinging site?
I'm not judging at all as I know these sites can be used however anyone wishes, but if you aren't interested in swinging then why would you even think about joining a swingers site?
Just out of curiosity."
They're probably yearning for big band music....
Cal |
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I don't class myself as a swinger and I signed up here just over 5 years ago out of curiosity.
Having gone through a 10 year period of zero sexual contact I was seeking to explore.
Contrary to some of the comments above I wasn't like a child in a sweet shop or even a bull in a china shop. I had no expectations and still don't.
Almost 60 verifications later and only 7 of those play related should be proof enough of that. That hasn't been down to lack of offers and was always by choice so even though I may not conform to what some class as a swinger I have found the people I click with most are the many many people in exactly the same situation I have been in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite simply I joined as a couple previously purely because we enjoyed people watching as exhibitionists it was a thrill. Im not a swinger at all, Ive stuck around for the people ive met over the past 8 years  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Curiosity.
We have met couples in clubs where one of them has been before as a single and the new partner wants to see what goes on but has no interest in getting involved.
We were also at a club once where they let a load of single guys in who had been out on the town all day and decided to "see what the swingers were doing" also apparently all the women would be "gagging for it". |
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I have Boris Johnson to thank for me stumbling across this site..it's been a great source of entertainment for the past two years..
I'm not brave enough to shag complete strangers so I lurk in the background, perving with my naughty thoughts but never act on them!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...non swingers sign up to a swinging site?
I'm not judging at all as I know these sites can be used however anyone wishes, but if you aren't interested in swinging then why would you even think about joining a swingers site?
Just out of curiosity."
There are tons of single people here who want to meet up, whether for socials or fun.
Fab can be a lot of things
And I’ve met some real hotties so , yay to fab x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it was a place to possibly find a few nice chatters, helps with evening boredom too. I've not gone as far as full sexual meet yet. I'm taking it very slow lol to make sure I'm making the right decision. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...non swingers sign up to a swinging site?
I'm not judging at all as I know these sites can be used however anyone wishes, but if you aren't interested in swinging then why would you even think about joining a swingers site?
Just out of curiosity."
Simply because not all people here are Swinger's , they are single , separated or divorced women here who enjoy great sex are are here looking for it . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...non swingers sign up to a swinging site?
I'm not judging at all as I know these sites can be used however anyone wishes, but if you aren't interested in swinging then why would you even think about joining a swingers site?
Just out of curiosity.
Simply because not all people here are Swinger's , they are single , separated or divorced women here who enjoy great sex are are here looking for it ."
And married men whose wife won't go near them and they assume the women on here are gagging for it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought when I first started exploring being poly that the swinging community would be a good non monogamous place to start. Not sure if that’s been true because I guess swingers aren’t necessarily all that aligned with poly people but there’s some real gems on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I thought when I first started exploring being poly that the swinging community would be a good non monogamous place to start. Not sure if that’s been true because I guess swingers aren’t necessarily all that aligned with poly people but there’s some real gems on here. "
There really are some absolute diamonds on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To meet guys and have the odd bit of fun. Pure and simple. Then when I’m ready to, I’ll join a dating site for a relationship.
Do I consider myself a swinger? No.
Am I person who enjoys socialising and has sexual needs? Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To meet guys and have the odd bit of fun. Pure and simple. Then when I’m ready to, I’ll join a dating site for a relationship.
Do I consider myself a swinger? No.
Am I person who enjoys socialising and has sexual needs? Yes."
Why join a dating site when I’m already here,You wound me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To meet guys and have the odd bit of fun. Pure and simple. Then when I’m ready to, I’ll join a dating site for a relationship.
Do I consider myself a swinger? No.
Am I person who enjoys socialising and has sexual needs? Yes.
Why join a dating site when I’m already here,You wound me "
Wound you? I have a vision of catching you with a rope, lasso style, and winding you in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To meet guys and have the odd bit of fun. Pure and simple. Then when I’m ready to, I’ll join a dating site for a relationship.
Do I consider myself a swinger? No.
Am I person who enjoys socialising and has sexual needs? Yes.
Why join a dating site when I’m already here,You wound me
Wound you? I have a vision of catching you with a rope, lasso style, and winding you in "
“Came here to socialise end up holding my future husband,love of my life captive” quite the review
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You've asked out of curiosity and some will join for the same reason.
There's all kinds of variations as to what people consider to be swinging, from getting off on people watching you with your own partner, having sex in groups, bla bla bla
Many boundaries, many definitions, and an absolute mammoth amount to learn about ourselves and others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To meet guys and have the odd bit of fun. Pure and simple. Then when I’m ready to, I’ll join a dating site for a relationship.
Do I consider myself a swinger? No.
Am I person who enjoys socialising and has sexual needs? Yes.
Why join a dating site when I’m already here,You wound me
Wound you? I have a vision of catching you with a rope, lasso style, and winding you in
“Came here to socialise end up holding my future husband,love of my life captive” quite the review
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was nosey.
Then I realised I quite like posting pics, I quite like the forum, and here we are. "
The Lounge forum is, in my view, the best thing about this site.
And I never knew I had a slight exhibitionist streak since joining here |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Because they think it's instashag and that swingers will fuck anyone and everyone with a pulse."
Yes that, because all the females on dating sites make it clear no NSA they are looking for an actual relationship….. but all the guys are already in one of those and don’t want another |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was on the Halifax website paying a direct debit and ended up here for some reason??? 
And it's a bit like a bank, you put it in and take it out
I’d put it in you  "
If you're talking about money make sure it's a £50 note |
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"I was on the Halifax website paying a direct debit and ended up here for some reason???
And it's a bit like a bank, you put it in and take it out
I’d put it in you
If you're talking about money make sure it's a £50 note "
I’ll just give you one. Pound that is  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was on the Halifax website paying a direct debit and ended up here for some reason???
And it's a bit like a bank, you put it in and take it out
I’d put it in you
If you're talking about money make sure it's a £50 note
I’ll just give you one. Pound that is "
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"I was nosey.
Then I realised I quite like posting pics, I quite like the forum, and here we are.
The Lounge forum is, in my view, the best thing about this site.
And I never knew I had a slight exhibitionist streak since joining here "
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