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Large polite guys don't get even looked at
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just me but as a larger guy (not in the penile department) most women on here or at clubs want to know or is it because I have respect for people and not just jump on top as soon as I see naked people or push my way in ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Is it just me but as a larger guy (not in the penile department) most women on here or at clubs want to know or is it because I have respect for people and not just jump on top as soon as I see naked people or push my way in ? "
You have 22 verifications so can't be doing too badly  |
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" Is it just me but as a larger guy (not in the penile department) most women on here or at clubs want to know or is it because I have respect for people and not just jump on top as soon as I see naked people or push my way in ? "
I've not been to a club (yet), but I am certain that it won't be your respect for people that is an issue - in a club or anywhere... |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
Is this a "nice guy" thing? For example:
"Why do women always sleep with dickheads that treat them badly? I'd treat her like a Queen, be her best friend and all she has to do is fuck me"
The nice guy that is nice because he expects to he compensated for it essentially
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't realise politeness was a key to a shag
If I start saying 'Good Morning' more often, will I get shagged more?
Will people look past the fact that I could be Danny De Vito's stunt double? |
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"There are some chubby chasers about you just need to look harder
Someone for everyone mate  "
I’d like to meet some of them as well, haha!
Seriously though, I’m a larger guy who goes to clubs and other than some initial shyness in actually approaching them I generally don’t have too many issues chatting to people. Do they all want to play? No, but I enjoy the social side too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are some chubby chasers about you just need to look harder
Someone for everyone mate
I’d like to meet some of them as well, haha!
Seriously though, I’m a larger guy who goes to clubs and other than some initial shyness in actually approaching them I generally don’t have too many issues chatting to people. Do they all want to play? No, but I enjoy the social side too. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Is it just me but as a larger guy (not in the penile department) most women on here or at clubs want to know or is it because I have respect for people and not just jump on top as soon as I see naked people or push my way in ? "
jeez large or thin your not supposed to jump in or push your way in anyway I find this is most mens mentally but you wait until your asked to join in ... in anything!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this a "nice guy" thing? For example:
"Why do women always sleep with dickheads that treat them badly? I'd treat her like a Queen, be her best friend and all she has to do is fuck me"
The nice guy that is nice because he expects to he compensated for it essentially
P"
Crap men are crap.
Nice men are also crap.
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"Is this a "nice guy" thing? For example:
"Why do women always sleep with dickheads that treat them badly? I'd treat her like a Queen, be her best friend and all she has to do is fuck me"
The nice guy that is nice because he expects to he compensated for it essentially
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Quite |
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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago
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Being larger means you won’t be for everyone.
I don’t personally find large men attractive and it doesn’t matter how polite you are either.
I wouldn’t advise pushing your way in either
You have lots of verifications though so don’t seem to be doing too bad. |
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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago
South West and North West |
" Is it just me but as a larger guy (not in the penile department) most women on here or at clubs want to know or is it because I have respect for people and not just jump on top as soon as I see naked people or push my way in ? "
You have enough veri's that prove otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Is it just me but as a larger guy (not in the penile department) most women on here or at clubs want to know or is it because I have respect for people and not just jump on top as soon as I see naked people or push my way in ?
I've not been to a club (yet), but I am certain that it won't be your respect for people that is an issue - in a club or anywhere..."
When we visited clubs ALL the men were very respectful, if one touched Vicky uninvited I’d bloody thump him. |
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"“Large polite guys don't get even looked at”
My friend, you are SO wrong.
This large polite guy gets on with many people here. "
Agree 100%. Granted large men aren’t for everyone but neither are small men. Each to their own.
Good luck in the future sir. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Completely disagree. I am on the larger size but I have fun (either playing or watching), nearly every time I go to a club.
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I wouldn't class you the "larger size"  |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"Completely disagree. I am on the larger size but I have fun (either playing or watching), nearly every time I go to a club.
I wouldn't class you the "larger size" "
I am over 110 kg for 6 2 so I am lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Completely disagree. I am on the larger size but I have fun (either playing or watching), nearly every time I go to a club.
I wouldn't class you the "larger size"
But thank you for compliment "
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All men struggle on here, short, tall, large, small, old young, there's always a guy complaining how tough the site it
The fact is men outnumber women 100-1 it's a numbers game, the odds aren't in your favour, chances are most won't haves great experience here or in clubs, but it's not really down to you guys as individuals it's just the supply way outnumbers the demand |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"All men struggle on here, short, tall, large, small, old young, there's always a guy complaining how tough the site it
The fact is men outnumber women 100-1 it's a numbers game, the odds aren't in your favour, chances are most won't haves great experience here or in clubs, but it's not really down to you guys as individuals it's just the supply way outnumbers the demand "
I have a decent enough time in clubs - yes I don’t have any tats. |
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I think it's far more likely that people are being put off by your profile saying that the majority of people don't have respect or manners. Why would people want to meet you if you think that of them? |
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"I'm a large polite guy and I get looked at often enough .. confidence is key . Size is irrelevant if you're not getting enough attention try something different . Play to your strengths ."
Rename your profile BBWkinky Al and invest in a wig. Problem solved . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All men struggle on here, short, tall, large, small, old young, there's always a guy complaining how tough the site it
The fact is men outnumber women 100-1 it's a numbers game, the odds aren't in your favour, chances are most won't haves great experience here or in clubs, but it's not really down to you guys as individuals it's just the supply way outnumbers the demand "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally find people who describe themselves as genuine, polite, nice, etc. are usually anything but.
If you’re actually any of those you don’t need to tell people, they’ll know by talking to you.
As for being large. I’m a larger man and I’ve never had any problems. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I personally find people who describe themselves as genuine, polite, nice, etc. are usually anything but.
If you’re actually any of those you don’t need to tell people, they’ll know by talking to you.
As for being large. I’m a larger man and I’ve never had any problems."
What about adorable? Am I allowed to call myself adorable?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally find people who describe themselves as genuine, polite, nice, etc. are usually anything but.
If you’re actually any of those you don’t need to tell people, they’ll know by talking to you.
As for being large. I’m a larger man and I’ve never had any problems.
What about adorable? Am I allowed to call myself adorable? "
That’s a fact. So we’ll allow it |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I personally find people who describe themselves as genuine, polite, nice, etc. are usually anything but.
If you’re actually any of those you don’t need to tell people, they’ll know by talking to you.
As for being large. I’m a larger man and I’ve never had any problems.
What about adorable? Am I allowed to call myself adorable?
That’s a fact. So we’ll allow it "
Woohoo. I'd do a back flip if I wasn't so fat.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dunno OP, I think it’s all just a matter of the number ratios. Us boys are ten a penny here, I don’t think any of us stand out more than the next.
Don’t be self critical about your size, regardless of your gym fit, dad bod or nutty professor size, it is really just a numbers game.
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"All men struggle on here, short, tall, large, small, old young, there's always a guy complaining how tough the site it
The fact is men outnumber women 100-1 it's a numbers game, the odds aren't in your favour, chances are most won't haves great experience here or in clubs, but it's not really down to you guys as individuals it's just the supply way outnumbers the demand "
I know what you mean but this guy has numerous verifications and is still moaning... He wants even more and isn't happy. Red flag for me.
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"All men struggle on here, short, tall, large, small, old young, there's always a guy complaining how tough the site it
The fact is men outnumber women 100-1 it's a numbers game, the odds aren't in your favour, chances are most won't haves great experience here or in clubs, but it's not really down to you guys as individuals it's just the supply way outnumbers the demand
I know what you mean but this guy has numerous verifications and is still moaning... He wants even more and isn't happy. Red flag for me.
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I think some verifications are about him being nice to chat to rather than about the sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blooming hell. Your doing well judging by your verifications.
Every has a different type.( good or bad boys). My best advice is to be yourself.
If someone really catches your eye take time to craft your first message. But if you find that's not working maybe pop to single guy events.
I'm crap at the whole thing but prefer chatting in forums. Lots of lovely people and a good laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love fucking girls how sluts need to be fucked their hubbys or bfs can fuck them like a princess
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I'm sure this isn't relevant to the OP thread. Referring to women as sluts is revolting and women also should be treated with respect. |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
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I love fucking girls how sluts need to be fucked their hubbys or bfs can fuck them like a princess
I'm sure this isn't relevant to the OP thread. Referring to women as sluts is revolting and women also should be treated with respect."
Only insofar as douchebags attract other douchebags?
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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With 22 notifications I don't think your doing badly really....better than i am.
Don't know what you are complaining about really as not every female/couple or male are going to jump into bed with just anyone on here. |
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