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Do you annoy yourself….
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you get another with yourself?
For something you do or say? Something that you’ve reacted to/that’s triggered you?
Or do you just annoy yourself by the way you’re being in any one moment… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every day. I normally call myself a tosser when I reflect on something I've done and then thought better of it."
Oh yes I just have random flashbacks to events from my life,Like when I stood on a chair ten years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I annoy myself all the time. I annoy myself for not always finding the strength to not take things so personally. And for constantly feeling anxious about what others think about me - and that I may be annoying them- which annoys me more because I can’t stop being myself etc.
I’m mad but you know that about me by now, HC!
Thanks for your thread, felt good to get that out.  |
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"Do you get another with yourself?
For something you do or say? Something that you’ve reacted to/that’s triggered you?
Or do you just annoy yourself by the way you’re being in any one moment…"
Who doesn’t???? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I annoy myself all the time. I annoy myself for not always finding the strength to not take things so personally. And for constantly feeling anxious about what others think about me - and that I may be annoying them- which annoys me more because I can’t stop being myself etc.
I’m mad but you know that about me by now, HC!
Thanks for your thread, felt good to get that out. "
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"Every day. I normally call myself a tosser when I reflect on something I've done and then thought better of it.
I do that as well mate. I think of it as being a learning curve. "
It saves me going loco |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.
Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?
Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.
Does that make sense?  |
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"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.
Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?
Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.
Does that make sense? "
It stops us snapping like Michael Douglas in falling down, I suppose x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.
Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?
Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.
Does that make sense? "
Agree just wish I wasn’t so negative at times but self-reflection is always good probably made me a less spiteful person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.
Last night for example, listening to a friend, I found myself repeatedly saying the same phrase at different points in her story. I felt like an annoying cliché  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.
Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?
Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.
Does that make sense? "
Makes great sense. Being self aware does make for good people. I think as long as it remains self awareness and not self hatred it’s good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.
Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?
Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.
Does that make sense? "
I suppose it depends. Self awareness is vital (imo), but beating ourselves up for silly mistakes is not healthy… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the bloody time! I am too much of a reflector, and sometimes get so annoyed with myself for allowing myself to be spoken to a certain way or not calling other people out on their BS.  |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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"Every day. I normally call myself a tosser when I reflect on something I've done and then thought better of it.
I do that as well mate. I think of it as being a learning curve.
It saves me going loco"
I talk things over in my head all the time until I understand it and it makes sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At least daily I'll flashback to something I said or a joke I told that fell flat years ago and just think what was wrong with you"
Haha I also do this!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.
Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?
Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.
Does that make sense?
I suppose it depends. Self awareness is vital (imo), but beating ourselves up for silly mistakes is not healthy…"
True. Like so much in life, I suppose, it’s all about balance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At least daily I'll flashback to something I said or a joke I told that fell flat years ago and just think what was wrong with you"
My kids frequently remind me of these occasions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At least daily I'll flashback to something I said or a joke I told that fell flat years ago and just think what was wrong with you
Haha I also do this!! "
Me too I am the head of the club |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.
Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?
Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.
Does that make sense? "
You make a very good point there Dieu. I know a few people who think they are It and don't give a toss about their actions or words and think they are superior to everyone else. Everyone of them is ersehole. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I always look back on the past and think what if I would have chosen different
It bothers me that I will never know
Sometimes I just wished the choice would represent its self so I could to see
But I can’t be the one to take that first step |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A stupid thing that winds me up so much yet I still automatically do it…..
Someone bumps into me when they’re not looking where they’re going, they shoot me a dirty look and barge past whilst I stand there saying sorry!!!!
Getting mad even thinking about it!
Viv |
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