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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I'm not a overly confident person on here but can hold my own in person (I know it's usually the other way around). Any ladies got some advice that could help? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Never really got why people only ask for ladies advice, on things that anyone can offer good input for. Seems to be as much about getting female attention as actual advice. Not saying that is you OP, but when you see it so much, this is how stereotyping happens. |
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"Never really got why people only ask for ladies advice, on things that anyone can offer good input for. Seems to be as much about getting female attention as actual advice. Not saying that is you OP, but when you see it so much, this is how stereotyping happens."
My apologies if it comes across like that, it's not the case for me. I appreciate all imput. |
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"Never really got why people only ask for ladies advice, on things that anyone can offer good input for. Seems to be as much about getting female attention as actual advice. Not saying that is you OP, but when you see it so much, this is how stereotyping happens.
My apologies if it comes across like that, it's not the case for me. I appreciate all imput. "
Why did to only ask ladies for advice then?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Never really got why people only ask for ladies advice, on things that anyone can offer good input for. Seems to be as much about getting female attention as actual advice. Not saying that is you OP, but when you see it so much, this is how stereotyping happens.
My apologies if it comes across like that, it's not the case for me. I appreciate all imput.
Why did to only ask ladies for advice then?
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Sometimes guys are just dicks (not all I know) and generally I've found women are most honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This site can be toxic to confidence.
So leave the site. Be more confident.
Return with an artfully lit dick pic avatar embracing the confidence of the anonymous man.
Or something like that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a lady - but from a guys perspective - just be you and in time you’ll find someone who is attracted to you…
How much time??
I'm not sure I have that much time left  "
Amen to that haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What areas are you lacking confidence on here that you have in person? Might help you work out what you need to focus on when online?"
I think generally it's making conversation in the first message, as you can't gauge mood, body language, attitude etc. |
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"What areas are you lacking confidence on here that you have in person? Might help you work out what you need to focus on when online?
I think generally it's making conversation in the first message, as you can't gauge mood, body language, attitude etc. "
Yeah, makes sense. You'll obviously never be able to gauge those things when sending an email/message, so just got to be yourself I reckon and let your "real world" personality come through. Some will like the look/sound of you and reply, and some won't, but that's just the way it goes.
Easier said than done, I know, but must try not to let those "thanks but no thanks" messages dent your confidence - you're the same guy on here than anywhere else! |
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