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over a year ago
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I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience. |
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience."
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached. |
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached."
Seems everyone’s different. Bumble by far is the wurst for me because I can’t get over the fact an app handed control of the conversation over to women and all any of them say is “hi”
POF is bad. Plenty of single mums
Tinder is the best as it’s got the biggest user base
Badoo and Facebook dating are hit and miss  |
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience."
I’ve never tried bumble . Is it worth a gander ? |
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
I’ve never tried bumble . Is it worth a gander ?"
I like it. The guys on there tend to be a bit nicer in my experience. Sensible conversations and not straight to dirty talk. |
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Bumble is odd.
It gives the ladies the power to message first but 9 times out if 10 my matches never even message. Maybe it's just me
Tinder is by far the biggest user base so purely from a numbers game it will be your best bet.
This from a single, 40+ gent that lives in a low population density area. The odds are not in my favour at all. |
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"Good luck- dating over 40 is like looking for the least damaged item that doesn't smell in a charity shop  "
Do you think so? That hasn’t been my experience, I’ve dated some nicer guys in my 40’s than I did when I was younger. Maybe I just don’t put up with wankers now I’m older? |
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Used them all at different times over the past 12 yrs, probably for about 2wks maximum at a time. found them all the same, and the same males on them.
Tinder, swipe right, match and don't reply.
Bumble, I've sent a message and no reply.
Pof, gave up on that one.
Given up on dating now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good luck- dating over 40 is like looking for the least damaged item that doesn't smell in a charity shop
Agreed. It can be rather demoralising at times "
God help me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good luck- dating over 40 is like looking for the least damaged item that doesn't smell in a charity shop
Do you think so? That hasn’t been my experience, I’ve dated some nicer guys in my 40’s than I did when I was younger. Maybe I just don’t put up with wankers now I’m older? "
Same for me, dating in my 40s has been much more successful! |
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached.
Seems everyone’s different. Bumble by far is the wurst for me because I can’t get over the fact an app handed control of the conversation over to women and all any of them say is “hi”
POF is bad. Plenty of single mums
Tinder is the best as it’s got the biggest user base
Badoo and Facebook dating are hit and miss "
Tinder may have the biggest user base, but it's the only one I've not had a date from.
It seems full of people either wanting marriage or a one off. Not quite what I'm after, which is probably why it fails for me.
Bumble works pretty well. The women don't feel so hassled and I've had a few meets on there.
Fab has been far the best. Made some lifelong friends, had plenty of experiences and feels more of a community.
I guess the location and what you are after massively changes your experience, so it's worth giving them all a shot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached.
Seems everyone’s different. Bumble by far is the wurst for me because I can’t get over the fact an app handed control of the conversation over to women and all any of them say is “hi”
POF is bad. Plenty of single mums
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 And what's the issue with single mums? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached."
Lol not round where I live - Bumble is full of the same chancers on Tinder, but they pretend they want to find true love.  |
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached.
Seems everyone’s different. Bumble by far is the wurst for me because I can’t get over the fact an app handed control of the conversation over to women and all any of them say is “hi”
POF is bad. Plenty of single mums
And what's the issue with single mums? "
“Seems everyone’s different”
Nothing, they’re just not for me and the site seems to be full of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached.
Seems everyone’s different. Bumble by far is the wurst for me because I can’t get over the fact an app handed control of the conversation over to women and all any of them say is “hi”
POF is bad. Plenty of single mums
And what's the issue with single mums?
“Seems everyone’s different”
Nothing, they’re just not for me and the site seems to be full of them "
I know you don't want to meet women with children, it just read as though there's a problem with them. I am one, as you know. POF is bloody awful, don't think I've ever encountered so many guys with rough paper rounds in my life. |
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached.
Seems everyone’s different. Bumble by far is the wurst for me because I can’t get over the fact an app handed control of the conversation over to women and all any of them say is “hi”
POF is bad. Plenty of single mums
And what's the issue with single mums?
“Seems everyone’s different”
Nothing, they’re just not for me and the site seems to be full of them
I know you don't want to meet women with children, it just read as though there's a problem with them. I am one, as you know. POF is bloody awful, don't think I've ever encountered so many guys with rough paper rounds in my life. "
Don’t take it that way, it’s just a preference and I’m sure many single mums have zero interest in me either. It’s all preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached.
Seems everyone’s different. Bumble by far is the wurst for me because I can’t get over the fact an app handed control of the conversation over to women and all any of them say is “hi”
POF is bad. Plenty of single mums
And what's the issue with single mums?
“Seems everyone’s different”
Nothing, they’re just not for me and the site seems to be full of them
I know you don't want to meet women with children, it just read as though there's a problem with them. I am one, as you know. POF is bloody awful, don't think I've ever encountered so many guys with rough paper rounds in my life.
Don’t take it that way, it’s just a preference and I’m sure many single mums have zero interest in me either. It’s all preferences "
Oh I am not taking it any way. No worries. |
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By *l6789Man
over a year ago
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Badoo is where all the international women look to learn English
Tinder is where you go for Instagram likes
Pof is where you launch your web cam career
Hinge don’t know only been on it a month but it looks ok ish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dating websites are full of people that say they like you, want to date you etc etc but all they actually want is sex.
At least here they are generally honest about that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dating websites are full of people that say they like you, want to date you etc etc but all they actually want is sex.
At least here they are generally honest about that. "
Err and coffee too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Which is the best one to find a rich husband?
When I was younger I wanted to make my own money and be independent. Little did I realise how knackered I'd be.
So, rich husband? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is the best one to find a rich husband?
When I was younger I wanted to make my own money and be independent. Little did I realise how knackered I'd be.
So, rich husband? "
Yeah, me too!! PS if he's really old, do I have to have sex with him??  |
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By *l6789Man
over a year ago
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"Dating websites are full of people that say they like you, want to date you etc etc but all they actually want is sex.
At least here they are generally honest about that. "
True for the most part, Feeld is a good one too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is the best one to find a rich husband?
When I was younger I wanted to make my own money and be independent. Little did I realise how knackered I'd be.
So, rich husband?
Yeah, me too!! PS if he's really old, do I have to have sex with him?? "
I'll join in on this aswell please.
I'm good having sex with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is the best one to find a rich husband?
When I was younger I wanted to make my own money and be independent. Little did I realise how knackered I'd be.
So, rich husband?
Yeah, me too!! PS if he's really old, do I have to have sex with him??
I'll join in on this aswell please.
I'm good having sex with them."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached.
Seems everyone’s different. Bumble by far is the wurst for me because I can’t get over the fact an app handed control of the conversation over to women and all any of them say is “hi”
POF is bad. Plenty of single mums
And what's the issue with single mums? "
I thought that ! I’m one myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dating websites are full of people that say they like you, want to date you etc etc but all they actually want is sex.
At least here they are generally honest about that. "
Hmmm true . So what do ppl do if they want to meet someone for a relationship ?? |
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"Good luck- dating over 40 is like looking for the least damaged item that doesn't smell in a charity shop
Agreed. It can be rather demoralising at times
God help me "
I'm sure you will be fine. There's plenty of single guys out there, just find one that isn't d*unk/broke/damaged/lives with his parents |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good luck- dating over 40 is like looking for the least damaged item that doesn't smell in a charity shop
Agreed. It can be rather demoralising at times
God help me
I'm sure you will be fine. There's plenty of single guys out there, just find one that isn't d*unk/broke/damaged/lives with his parents"
Hmmmm harder than it sounds tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dating websites are full of people that say they like you, want to date you etc etc but all they actually want is sex.
At least here they are generally honest about that.
Hmmm true . So what do ppl do if they want to meet someone for a relationship ??"
Erm don't.
Stay single, it's much easier. |
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"Good luck- dating over 40 is like looking for the least damaged item that doesn't smell in a charity shop
Agreed. It can be rather demoralising at times
God help me
I'm sure you will be fine. There's plenty of single guys out there, just find one that isn't d*unk/broke/damaged/lives with his parents
Hmmmm harder than it sounds tbh "
Yep. 2+ years of online dating and it's a real eye opener! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dating websites are full of people that say they like you, want to date you etc etc but all they actually want is sex.
At least here they are generally honest about that.
Hmmm true . So what do ppl do if they want to meet someone for a relationship ??
Erm don't.
Stay single, it's much easier."
True |
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached."
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"Dating websites are full of people that say they like you, want to date you etc etc but all they actually want is sex.
At least here they are generally honest about that.
Hmmm true . So what do ppl do if they want to meet someone for a relationship ??
Erm don't.
Stay single, it's much easier."
Totally agree with this!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good luck- dating over 40 is like looking for the least damaged item that doesn't smell in a charity shop
Agreed. It can be rather demoralising at times
God help me
I'm sure you will be fine. There's plenty of single guys out there, just find one that isn't d*unk/broke/damaged/lives with his parents
Hmmmm harder than it sounds tbh
Yep. 2+ years of online dating and it's a real eye opener!"
It's utter crap. I give up. |
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"Good luck- dating over 40 is like looking for the least damaged item that doesn't smell in a charity shop
Agreed. It can be rather demoralising at times
God help me
I'm sure you will be fine. There's plenty of single guys out there, just find one that isn't d*unk/broke/damaged/lives with his parents
Hmmmm harder than it sounds tbh
Yep. 2+ years of online dating and it's a real eye opener!
It's utter crap. I give up. "
I'm not giving in, there's someone out there who's life I can make decidedly average |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached.
Seems everyone’s different. Bumble by far is the wurst for me because I can’t get over the fact an app handed control of the conversation over to women and all any of them say is “hi”
POF is bad. Plenty of single mums
And what's the issue with single mums?
I thought that ! I’m one myself "
Ditto! Although they no longer live at home. |
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When i was single i used one free one and have to say i wish i'd known about fab then... The only difference is the blokes i might have met off fab would have brought me a drink before wanting a shag. The dating site they mostly suggested coming round for coffee - nobody offered to wash the mugs after... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached.
Seems everyone’s different. Bumble by far is the wurst for me because I can’t get over the fact an app handed control of the conversation over to women and all any of them say is “hi”
POF is bad. Plenty of single mums
And what's the issue with single mums?
I thought that ! I’m one myself
Ditto! Although they no longer live at home. "
Thicc meant nothing by it, he explained above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good luck- dating over 40 is like looking for the least damaged item that doesn't smell in a charity shop
Agreed. It can be rather demoralising at times
God help me
I'm sure you will be fine. There's plenty of single guys out there, just find one that isn't d*unk/broke/damaged/lives with his parents
Hmmmm harder than it sounds tbh
Yep. 2+ years of online dating and it's a real eye opener!
It's utter crap. I give up.
I'm not giving in, there's someone out there who's life I can make decidedly average"
Promises, promises!  |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"Badoo is where all the international women look to learn English
Tinder is where you go for Instagram likes
Pof is where you launch your web cam career
Hinge don’t know only been on it a month but it looks ok ish"
*hastily looking up Hinge*  |
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By *went OP Man
over a year ago
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"When i was single i used one free one and have to say i wish i'd known about fab then... The only difference is the blokes i might have met off fab would have brought me a drink before wanting a shag. The dating site they mostly suggested coming round for coffee - nobody offered to wash the mugs after..."
Dating is dating and not just for sex.
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"I like bumble and have had some really lovely dates from there in the past. POF is full of bellends and tinder is just guys looking for a quick duck, in my experience.
PoF and Badoo are council estate.
Tinder is a new build with no parking or garage. Thrown up in a month and the plaster is already cracking.
Bumble is the suburbs, older houses, better built, more expensive. Detached."
lozz so true!! |
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"Which is the best one to find a rich husband?
When I was younger I wanted to make my own money and be independent. Little did I realise how knackered I'd be.
So, rich husband?
Yeah, me too!! PS if he's really old, do I have to have sex with him?? "
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"DollAR" is the site full of rich men (and women). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When i was single i used one free one and have to say i wish i'd known about fab then... The only difference is the blokes i might have met off fab would have brought me a drink before wanting a shag. The dating site they mostly suggested coming round for coffee - nobody offered to wash the mugs after... Dating is dating and not just for sex. "
Dating is dating. Is this a government campaign? |
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