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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

What is the oldest age you would shag?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How old is Helen Mirren?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is Helen Mirren? "

Or Gillian Anderson?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is Helen Mirren? "

With you on that one!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is Helen Mirren?

Or Gillian Anderson?"

Must be a good 20 years between them?

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

As long as I fancy him and he has a good pulse there is no limit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

99, I’m not a monster

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Realistically about 60

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By *ickerMan  over a year ago

Preston

Probably late 50s. Jlo and liz hurley still look amazing as well as nigella lawson

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Realistically about 60 "

Oh whatever age Jo is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is Helen Mirren?

Or Gillian Anderson?

Must be a good 20 years between them? "

Really? I’ve never checked her age but I feel like Gillian Anderson has been around for ever.

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By *ouple2playCouple  over a year ago

Solihull

As it’s limited to 99…

Definitely in the upper range.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Realistically about 60

Oh whatever age Jo is "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's on my profile , it'll probably change with time but l may not be here to do that..who knows..who knows in life itself ..no one .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is Helen Mirren?

Or Gillian Anderson?

Must be a good 20 years between them?

Really? I’ve never checked her age but I feel like Gillian Anderson has been around for ever."

Just looked and Helen Mirren is 76, Gillian Anderson 53

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is Helen Mirren?

Or Gillian Anderson?

Must be a good 20 years between them?

Really? I’ve never checked her age but I feel like Gillian Anderson has been around for ever.

Just looked and Helen Mirren is 76, Gillian Anderson 53 "

Wow. That’s a lot younger than I thought she’d be. Not that she looks older but X-Files is almost 30 years old and I didn’t think she was early twenties in that.

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By *ememberTheNameMan  over a year ago

barnsley


"As long as I fancy him and he has a good pulse there is no limit"

I’ve got the best pulse

Feel just here

You’ll never feel a pulse like it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Am always amused and intruiged when someone has adjusted their upper age limit but only slightly, to seventy or eighty-something

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m fifty seven this year

So between 50-70

Lady’s tend to weather better than us blokes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Beggars can’t be choosers.

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By * and R cple4Couple  over a year ago

swansea

Our age limit is set at 30-70 we love talking to people and hearing about their experiences but sexually late fifties maybe .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Beggars can’t be choosers. "

I suspect you're not a beggar

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By * and R cple4Couple  over a year ago

swansea


"Our age limit is set at 30-70 we love talking to people and hearing about their experiences but sexually late fifties maybe ."
I would make exceptions tho for Cher and Jayne Fonda ..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Going to be realistic and tell a little story

My first meet here was a couple they profile was in they mid 50s

That was over 10 years ago

They still here they profile is still in the mid 50s

So my age limit is 20-60

But you never really know the real age off people

Or in less you ask for I.d before hand

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not yodas grandma

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just a number

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was 26 and the lady was 58

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By *ucyfur77Woman  over a year ago

Pleasuretown

How old is Bruce Campbell?

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple  over a year ago

chester

Ours is set to 49 I think. This is because I’m not particularly attracted to men older than me. As I get older, I’ll increase the age though. 2 years older than me is the limit I think

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Beggars can’t be choosers.

I suspect you're not a beggar "

You’ve not seen my face!!

Like a chewed up jelly baby.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Age is just a number. If there’s an attraction what does it matter???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

87.

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

Somewhere in the late 40s probably.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is Helen Mirren?

Or Gillian Anderson?

Must be a good 20 years between them?

Really? I’ve never checked her age but I feel like Gillian Anderson has been around for ever."

She's the same age as me. Sob.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is Helen Mirren?

Or Gillian Anderson?

Must be a good 20 years between them?

Really? I’ve never checked her age but I feel like Gillian Anderson has been around for ever.

She's the same age as me. Sob. "

Who Helen Mirren?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

I have had a guy in his seventies and his performance would put some young guys to shame.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is Helen Mirren?

Or Gillian Anderson?

Must be a good 20 years between them?

Really? I’ve never checked her age but I feel like Gillian Anderson has been around for ever.

She's the same age as me. Sob.

Who Helen Mirren? "

Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had sex with someone in their 70's when I was in my 30's

It was a bit accidental though, as it started in a dark room

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is Helen Mirren?

Or Gillian Anderson?

Must be a good 20 years between them?

Really? I’ve never checked her age but I feel like Gillian Anderson has been around for ever.

She's the same age as me. Sob.

Who Helen Mirren? "

Helen Mirren is 76. You are definitely a cheeky sod. Gillian Anderson is 53, one year older than me. And she looks it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

62 for me because my ex-lover is 62 and I'd do him again. I stick to about 56/57 usually.

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By *andy_tomMan  over a year ago

wolverhampton

Age limit set at 72 .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is Helen Mirren?

Or Gillian Anderson?

Must be a good 20 years between them?

Really? I’ve never checked her age but I feel like Gillian Anderson has been around for ever.

She's the same age as me. Sob.

Who Helen Mirren?

Helen Mirren is 76. You are definitely a cheeky sod. Gillian Anderson is 53, one year older than me. And she looks it. "

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By *immyinreadingMan  over a year ago

henley on thames


"What is the oldest age you would shag?"

Oldest I have shagged was mid-70’s … and I was in my 20’s at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As it’s limited to 99…

Definitely in the upper range."

This makes me wonder if the age range wasn't set at 99..

Would people have it set higher, like 18-110

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

If there’s still some water in the pool she’s getting it

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham

If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If a fancy someone that's all that matters. I don't ask to see their birth certificate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird "

OMG I think this must be my most HATED statement. It's not just a number. 18 is the age of my SON. 77 is the age of my DAD. I don't want to be with someone half my age. I've been approached and it makes me feel sordid. I don't want to be with a man who talks about retiring a lot. Or is retired. They could be very attractive. But it's not my preference. And lots of other people care about age too. I don't want to just fuck someone and walk away, I want to connect with them. So it matters.

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird

OMG I think this must be my most HATED statement. It's not just a number. 18 is the age of my SON. 77 is the age of my DAD. I don't want to be with someone half my age. I've been approached and it makes me feel sordid. I don't want to be with a man who talks about retiring a lot. Or is retired. They could be very attractive. But it's not my preference. And lots of other people care about age too. I don't want to just fuck someone and walk away, I want to connect with them. So it matters. "

I think you’ve applied a lot of things there that matter that aren’t age

If you met the love of your life and it turned out he was 25. Everything else is perfect. You vibe on every level. Literally, the perfect match

Would you walk away from that because of the a number?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird

OMG I think this must be my most HATED statement. It's not just a number. 18 is the age of my SON. 77 is the age of my DAD. I don't want to be with someone half my age. I've been approached and it makes me feel sordid. I don't want to be with a man who talks about retiring a lot. Or is retired. They could be very attractive. But it's not my preference. And lots of other people care about age too. I don't want to just fuck someone and walk away, I want to connect with them. So it matters.

I think you’ve applied a lot of things there that matter that aren’t age

If you met the love of your life and it turned out he was 25. Everything else is perfect. You vibe on every level. Literally, the perfect match

Would you walk away from that because of the a number? "

It wouldn't happen. That's a fairytale.

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird

OMG I think this must be my most HATED statement. It's not just a number. 18 is the age of my SON. 77 is the age of my DAD. I don't want to be with someone half my age. I've been approached and it makes me feel sordid. I don't want to be with a man who talks about retiring a lot. Or is retired. They could be very attractive. But it's not my preference. And lots of other people care about age too. I don't want to just fuck someone and walk away, I want to connect with them. So it matters.

I think you’ve applied a lot of things there that matter that aren’t age

If you met the love of your life and it turned out he was 25. Everything else is perfect. You vibe on every level. Literally, the perfect match

Would you walk away from that because of the a number?

It wouldn't happen. That's a fairytale. "

But if it did I’d imagine you wouldn’t, which is what we mean when we say age is just a number. It means a number shouldn’t get in the way of a potential soul mate

Everyone’s different though, so all the best to you on your search

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird "

Age doesn’t matter too much to to everyone but I understand why it does to some people. Don’t think it’s weird. I mean for some people they think about it a lot because of usually their kids or their parents. Valid reasons in my opinion even if it’s not that deep to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird

OMG I think this must be my most HATED statement. It's not just a number. 18 is the age of my SON. 77 is the age of my DAD. I don't want to be with someone half my age. I've been approached and it makes me feel sordid. I don't want to be with a man who talks about retiring a lot. Or is retired. They could be very attractive. But it's not my preference. And lots of other people care about age too. I don't want to just fuck someone and walk away, I want to connect with them. So it matters.

I think you’ve applied a lot of things there that matter that aren’t age

If you met the love of your life and it turned out he was 25. Everything else is perfect. You vibe on every level. Literally, the perfect match

Would you walk away from that because of the a number?

It wouldn't happen. That's a fairytale.

But if it did I’d imagine you wouldn’t, which is what we mean when we say age is just a number. It means a number shouldn’t get in the way of a potential soul mate

Everyone’s different though, so all the best to you on your search "

Numbers do get in the way. Lots of things get in the way. I'm not someone who believes in love over all the odds. Too pragmatic. Doubt I will ever find another soul mate.

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird

OMG I think this must be my most HATED statement. It's not just a number. 18 is the age of my SON. 77 is the age of my DAD. I don't want to be with someone half my age. I've been approached and it makes me feel sordid. I don't want to be with a man who talks about retiring a lot. Or is retired. They could be very attractive. But it's not my preference. And lots of other people care about age too. I don't want to just fuck someone and walk away, I want to connect with them. So it matters.

I think you’ve applied a lot of things there that matter that aren’t age

If you met the love of your life and it turned out he was 25. Everything else is perfect. You vibe on every level. Literally, the perfect match

Would you walk away from that because of the a number?

It wouldn't happen. That's a fairytale.

But if it did I’d imagine you wouldn’t, which is what we mean when we say age is just a number. It means a number shouldn’t get in the way of a potential soul mate

Everyone’s different though, so all the best to you on your search

Numbers do get in the way. Lots of things get in the way. I'm not someone who believes in love over all the odds. Too pragmatic. Doubt I will ever find another soul mate."

Well that’s sad to hear, hopefully you do. Makes me think of a quote I’ve heard a lot

“Never let perfect be the enemy of the good”

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird

OMG I think this must be my most HATED statement. It's not just a number. 18 is the age of my SON. 77 is the age of my DAD. I don't want to be with someone half my age. I've been approached and it makes me feel sordid. I don't want to be with a man who talks about retiring a lot. Or is retired. They could be very attractive. But it's not my preference. And lots of other people care about age too. I don't want to just fuck someone and walk away, I want to connect with them. So it matters.

I think you’ve applied a lot of things there that matter that aren’t age

If you met the love of your life and it turned out he was 25. Everything else is perfect. You vibe on every level. Literally, the perfect match

Would you walk away from that because of the a number?

It wouldn't happen. That's a fairytale.

I disagree. I respect your stance on this but I do disagree that this is simply a fairytale. Unless you mean in your specific case and not in general?"

A 25 yo is not going to have a lasting relationship with a 52 yo. I think that's a fairytale. Yes I'm aware this is cynical. This is what life has taught me. I don't believe in fairy tales.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird

OMG I think this must be my most HATED statement. It's not just a number. 18 is the age of my SON. 77 is the age of my DAD. I don't want to be with someone half my age. I've been approached and it makes me feel sordid. I don't want to be with a man who talks about retiring a lot. Or is retired. They could be very attractive. But it's not my preference. And lots of other people care about age too. I don't want to just fuck someone and walk away, I want to connect with them. So it matters.

I think you’ve applied a lot of things there that matter that aren’t age

If you met the love of your life and it turned out he was 25. Everything else is perfect. You vibe on every level. Literally, the perfect match

Would you walk away from that because of the a number?

It wouldn't happen. That's a fairytale.

But if it did I’d imagine you wouldn’t, which is what we mean when we say age is just a number. It means a number shouldn’t get in the way of a potential soul mate

Everyone’s different though, so all the best to you on your search

Numbers do get in the way. Lots of things get in the way. I'm not someone who believes in love over all the odds. Too pragmatic. Doubt I will ever find another soul mate.

Well that’s sad to hear, hopefully you do. Makes me think of a quote I’ve heard a lot

“Never let perfect be the enemy of the good” "

I don't seek perfect. Not at all. I just think that the odds aren't in my favour.

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird

OMG I think this must be my most HATED statement. It's not just a number. 18 is the age of my SON. 77 is the age of my DAD. I don't want to be with someone half my age. I've been approached and it makes me feel sordid. I don't want to be with a man who talks about retiring a lot. Or is retired. They could be very attractive. But it's not my preference. And lots of other people care about age too. I don't want to just fuck someone and walk away, I want to connect with them. So it matters.

I think you’ve applied a lot of things there that matter that aren’t age

If you met the love of your life and it turned out he was 25. Everything else is perfect. You vibe on every level. Literally, the perfect match

Would you walk away from that because of the a number?

It wouldn't happen. That's a fairytale.

But if it did I’d imagine you wouldn’t, which is what we mean when we say age is just a number. It means a number shouldn’t get in the way of a potential soul mate

Everyone’s different though, so all the best to you on your search

Numbers do get in the way. Lots of things get in the way. I'm not someone who believes in love over all the odds. Too pragmatic. Doubt I will ever find another soul mate.

Well that’s sad to hear, hopefully you do. Makes me think of a quote I’ve heard a lot

“Never let perfect be the enemy of the good”

I don't seek perfect. Not at all. I just think that the odds aren't in my favour. "

Maybe a very cynical attitude has sealed your own fate? Maybe your right? Know who’s, I’m 31 young and dumb.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" A 25 yo is not going to have a lasting relationship with a 52 yo. I think that's a fairytale. Yes I'm aware this is cynical. This is what life has taught me. I don't believe in fairy tales. "

You know what, I agree in the case of younger man and older woman. Though I think it’s because one or both parties would be way too hung up on their own feelings on the matter and what they feel others would feel on it.

I think your experience is valid and the most important thing here so nothing that I’ve said *really* matters anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird

OMG I think this must be my most HATED statement. It's not just a number. 18 is the age of my SON. 77 is the age of my DAD. I don't want to be with someone half my age. I've been approached and it makes me feel sordid. I don't want to be with a man who talks about retiring a lot. Or is retired. They could be very attractive. But it's not my preference. And lots of other people care about age too. I don't want to just fuck someone and walk away, I want to connect with them. So it matters.

I think you’ve applied a lot of things there that matter that aren’t age

If you met the love of your life and it turned out he was 25. Everything else is perfect. You vibe on every level. Literally, the perfect match

Would you walk away from that because of the a number?

It wouldn't happen. That's a fairytale.

But if it did I’d imagine you wouldn’t, which is what we mean when we say age is just a number. It means a number shouldn’t get in the way of a potential soul mate

Everyone’s different though, so all the best to you on your search

Numbers do get in the way. Lots of things get in the way. I'm not someone who believes in love over all the odds. Too pragmatic. Doubt I will ever find another soul mate.

Well that’s sad to hear, hopefully you do. Makes me think of a quote I’ve heard a lot

“Never let perfect be the enemy of the good”

I don't seek perfect. Not at all. I just think that the odds aren't in my favour.

Maybe a very cynical attitude has sealed your own fate? Maybe your right? Know who’s, I’m 31 young and dumb. "

We have interacted on this forum for some months, you're not dumb. I'd prefer not to be cynical. Most people are forced into it. Maybe I'm just a not very attractive single mum.

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By *ansexualPandaMan  over a year ago

Near You

I wouldn't put an upwards age limit on anything if they still tickled my fancy. I've met some stunning 60-year-olds.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would say you’re a stunning single mum!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" A 25 yo is not going to have a lasting relationship with a 52 yo. I think that's a fairytale. Yes I'm aware this is cynical. This is what life has taught me. I don't believe in fairy tales.

You know what, I agree in the case of younger man and older woman. Though I think it’s because one or both parties would be way too hung up on their own feelings on the matter and what they feel others would feel on it.

I think your experience is valid and the most important thing here so nothing that I’ve said *really* matters anyway. "

Everyone's experiences are valid. And I think it depends what you're looking for.

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham


" A 25 yo is not going to have a lasting relationship with a 52 yo. I think that's a fairytale. Yes I'm aware this is cynical. This is what life has taught me. I don't believe in fairy tales.

You know what, I agree in the case of younger man and older woman. Though I think it’s because one or both parties would be way too hung up on their own feelings on the matter and what they feel others would feel on it.

I think your experience is valid and the most important thing here so nothing that I’ve said *really* matters anyway. "

Maybe not a long lasting relationship. But my fwb is nearing 50 and we’ve been going for about 2 years. She’s perfect to me and age doesn’t factor in

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" A 25 yo is not going to have a lasting relationship with a 52 yo. I think that's a fairytale. Yes I'm aware this is cynical. This is what life has taught me. I don't believe in fairy tales.

You know what, I agree in the case of younger man and older woman. Though I think it’s because one or both parties would be way too hung up on their own feelings on the matter and what they feel others would feel on it.

I think your experience is valid and the most important thing here so nothing that I’ve said *really* matters anyway.

Everyone's experiences are valid. And I think it depends what you're looking for. "

I think this is probably the key thing. People are

Looking for different things with different people. For some it will work and for others it will not. Depends what you want…

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" A 25 yo is not going to have a lasting relationship with a 52 yo. I think that's a fairytale. Yes I'm aware this is cynical. This is what life has taught me. I don't believe in fairy tales.

You know what, I agree in the case of younger man and older woman. Though I think it’s because one or both parties would be way too hung up on their own feelings on the matter and what they feel others would feel on it.

I think your experience is valid and the most important thing here so nothing that I’ve said *really* matters anyway.

Maybe not a long lasting relationship. But my fwb is nearing 50 and we’ve been going for about 2 years. She’s perfect to me and age doesn’t factor in "

I actually had an FWB with the same age gap pre-covid. He was great and my self esteem got a huge boost. Just don't see it working now.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would say you’re a stunning single mum!!! "

If that's for me, thank you. I was just joking with Thicc. I don't think Im ugly.

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By *utler4UMan  over a year ago

have a little guess!

Joan Collins is getting on a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" A 25 yo is not going to have a lasting relationship with a 52 yo. I think that's a fairytale. Yes I'm aware this is cynical. This is what life has taught me. I don't believe in fairy tales.

You know what, I agree in the case of younger man and older woman. Though I think it’s because one or both parties would be way too hung up on their own feelings on the matter and what they feel others would feel on it.

I think your experience is valid and the most important thing here so nothing that I’ve said *really* matters anyway.

Everyone's experiences are valid. And I think it depends what you're looking for. "

One of my partner is older than you and it works absolutely wonderfully which is why I originally disagreed with you. But your experience is going to guide your feelings on the matter. And I don’t wish to change your feelings on it so I guess there was no point in what I was saying (why I deleted my original comment). If that makes sense.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple  over a year ago

Neath valley.


"What is the oldest age you would shag?"

I shagged a 80yr old when i was 44.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS  over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s on my Profile

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple  over a year ago

Neath valley.

I am 54 and joanne is 37.and for us both this is the most amazing relationship we have ever had.

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By *arkus1812Man  over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

As an 82 yr old things do not augur well for me on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would have to say 45 if it ever got to that stage as pretty much a hard cap.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ha ha, my filters are to 50

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" A 25 yo is not going to have a lasting relationship with a 52 yo. I think that's a fairytale. Yes I'm aware this is cynical. This is what life has taught me. I don't believe in fairy tales.

You know what, I agree in the case of younger man and older woman. Though I think it’s because one or both parties would be way too hung up on their own feelings on the matter and what they feel others would feel on it.

I think your experience is valid and the most important thing here so nothing that I’ve said *really* matters anyway.

Everyone's experiences are valid. And I think it depends what you're looking for.

One of my partner is older than you and it works absolutely wonderfully which is why I originally disagreed with you. But your experience is going to guide your feelings on the matter. And I don’t wish to change your feelings on it so I guess there was no point in what I was saying (why I deleted my original comment). If that makes sense. "

You feel differently - you needn't have deleted your comment. We all have opinions guided by our experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Whatever age the penis stops working.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whatever age the penis stops working."

Still working at 44…

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By *nemichaelMan  over a year ago

kings lynn

I had 2 women well into their 50s when I was a teenager. I learnt a lot about human nature from them. I wrote about it here. https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/739473

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan  over a year ago

Birmingham

Carol vorderman

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan  over a year ago

Birmingham

Pamela Anderson

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan  over a year ago

Birmingham

Sharon Stone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

48.

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By *ot - CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow

Mid 60's

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By *immyinreadingMan  over a year ago

henley on thames


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird

OMG I think this must be my most HATED statement. It's not just a number. 18 is the age of my SON. 77 is the age of my DAD. I don't want to be with someone half my age. I've been approached and it makes me feel sordid. I don't want to be with a man who talks about retiring a lot. Or is retired. They could be very attractive. But it's not my preference. And lots of other people care about age too. I don't want to just fuck someone and walk away, I want to connect with them. So it matters.

I think you’ve applied a lot of things there that matter that aren’t age

If you met the love of your life and it turned out he was 25. Everything else is perfect. You vibe on every level. Literally, the perfect match

Would you walk away from that because of the a number?

It wouldn't happen. That's a fairytale.

I disagree. I respect your stance on this but I do disagree that this is simply a fairytale. Unless you mean in your specific case and not in general?

A 25 yo is not going to have a lasting relationship with a 52 yo. I think that's a fairytale. Yes I'm aware this is cynical. This is what life has taught me. I don't believe in fairy tales. "

I thought this thread was about what age person you would shag, rather than ideal age range for lifelong love and happiness?

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Whatever age the penis stops working."

Oh....bollocks x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For us probs 40 but maybe to 45 lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tony Goldwyn is 61 so that would be it for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If someone that looked like Selena Gomez messaged me and said they were 87 years old, woukd I turn them down because of their age?

What about someone that looked 80 because they’ve smoked and drank their whole life but they are actually 35?

Age is just a number and if you reject someone based on that I think it’s a little weird

OMG I think this must be my most HATED statement. It's not just a number. 18 is the age of my SON. 77 is the age of my DAD. I don't want to be with someone half my age. I've been approached and it makes me feel sordid. I don't want to be with a man who talks about retiring a lot. Or is retired. They could be very attractive. But it's not my preference. And lots of other people care about age too. I don't want to just fuck someone and walk away, I want to connect with them. So it matters.

I think you’ve applied a lot of things there that matter that aren’t age

If you met the love of your life and it turned out he was 25. Everything else is perfect. You vibe on every level. Literally, the perfect match

Would you walk away from that because of the a number?

It wouldn't happen. That's a fairytale.

I disagree. I respect your stance on this but I do disagree that this is simply a fairytale. Unless you mean in your specific case and not in general?

A 25 yo is not going to have a lasting relationship with a 52 yo. I think that's a fairytale. Yes I'm aware this is cynical. This is what life has taught me. I don't believe in fairy tales.

I thought this thread was about what age person you would shag, rather than ideal age range for lifelong love and happiness? "

For some, those things don’t have to be separated

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is Helen Mirren? "

This 100%

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tony Goldwyn is 61 so that would be it for me

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By *merald Eyes XWoman  over a year ago

Can you find me….

Up to 57

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