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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, looks are not everything, need to have a brain to engage in conversation. A lack of thought indicates you can’t make a conscious decision to me, so why bother trying? |
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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago
Market Harborough / Kettering |
There's loads of them on here! Stunning to look at, 50 photo's showing off their "stunningness" (if there is such a word) but after being on fab for 5 years no verifications! They are called attention seakers and their profile names should be "look at me please". Instant turn off for me  |
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Lack of attraction isn't necessarily down to a personality flaw. Sometimes it's just not there.
I remember a girl from my teenage years called Amanda. She was astonishingly beautiful and a really lovely person. We got on well. I just never had any desire for her in that way. That's not to say I wouldn't have taken an opportunity to lick whipped cream off her naked body. It's just I didn't fancy her and as far as I know she didn't fancy me. I was quite happy with that. It's just how it was and it's not because of anything negative about her. Luke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I generally find more quirky looks attractive. I don't lust after beautiful people often. It's usually something else about them that gets me going. "
Me too, im never attracted to what my mates would class as perfect, they always rib me and say my attraction radar is back to front.
Ive never been into the 'popular girl' everyone was lusting after the 'sarah harding' from girls aloud... i fancied the ginger one.
I was never into supermodels i prefered the 'triumph knickers' model from the grattons catalogue  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I generally find more quirky looks attractive. I don't lust after beautiful people often. It's usually something else about them that gets me going.
Me too, im never attracted to what my mates would class as perfect, they always rib me and say my attraction radar is back to front.
Ive never been into the 'popular girl' everyone was lusting after the 'sarah harding' from girls aloud... i fancied the ginger one.
I was never into supermodels i prefered the 'triumph knickers' model from the grattons catalogue "
To be fair the ginger one is very lovely!  |
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Yes I met someone once who's first words to me before saying hello were I bet you are very nervous about meeting me.
That was a red flag I unfortunately ignored at the time but I won't make that mistake again. |
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By *yron69 OP Man
over a year ago
Fareham |
"Yes, I'm guessing most people have. But have you ever shagged any of them just because they were so damn hot?"
Not really. If someone gets my back up then I don’t progress anything. Maybe less so when I was young. |
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I met a woman many years ago on holiday. She was totally stunning. I was chatting to her in a bar and she lit up a cigarette, now I don’t smoke but I thought “ ok, I can get past that one”
But then as she continued to talk to me she held the cigarette away from her face and kind of up over her shoulder, totally unaware that she was burning the hair of a woman behind her.
I pointed out what was happening and rather than apologise to the woman she just moved the cigarette and kept on talking !
I made my excuses and made a very hasty exit… totally drop dead gorgeous but totally self obsessed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I met someone once who's first words to me before saying hello were I bet you are very nervous about meeting me.
That was a red flag I unfortunately ignored at the time but I won't make that mistake again. "
Wow.
I've told someone I'm nervous but if they expected me to be, like I wasn't worthy.... my god!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's loads of them on here! Stunning to look at, 50 photo's showing off their "stunningness" (if there is such a word) but after being on fab for 5 years no verifications! They are called attention seakers and their profile names should be "look at me please". Instant turn off for me "
They don't want to ever meet , they're only here to take up time and waste yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I generally find more quirky looks attractive. I don't lust after beautiful people often. It's usually something else about them that gets me going.
Me too, im never attracted to what my mates would class as perfect, they always rib me and say my attraction radar is back to front.
Ive never been into the 'popular girl' everyone was lusting after the 'sarah harding' from girls aloud... i fancied the ginger one.
I was never into supermodels i prefered the 'triumph knickers' model from the grattons catalogue "
But I thought you fancied me and I'm perfect! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I won’t say which accent because I’ll end up getting loads of abuse but a certain accent can instantly kill all attraction for me.
Oh I feel I need to know now lol
xx"
The only hint I’ll give is it’s further South than us but not as far as you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I won’t say which accent because I’ll end up getting loads of abuse but a certain accent can instantly kill all attraction for me.
Oh I feel I need to know now lol
xx
The only hint I’ll give is it’s further South than us but not as far as you "
Shit, it’s me innit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I won’t say which accent because I’ll end up getting loads of abuse but a certain accent can instantly kill all attraction for me.
Oh I feel I need to know now lol
xx
The only hint I’ll give is it’s further South than us but not as far as you
Shit, it’s me innit? "
It’s not but I’ve had bad experiences with people from “Illinois” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met this stunning girl through another friend at a celebrity bash, on TV had seen her and fancied the knickers off her, in person she had the sex appeal of lumpy custard, so enjoyed a chat but declined the invite of a shared cab back to the hotel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I won’t say which accent because I’ll end up getting loads of abuse but a certain accent can instantly kill all attraction for me.
Oh I feel I need to know now lol
xx
The only hint I’ll give is it’s further South than us but not as far as you
Shit, it’s me innit?
It’s not but I’ve had bad experiences with people from “Illinois” "
How about Guatemala? |
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"Ever met a person so attractive but lacking in a certain aspect of personality you didn’t take to?"
Yes.
Once met a person at the club who's accent made it impossible to understand half of what was said. We just backed off rather than get into a misunderstanding situation.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I won’t say which accent because I’ll end up getting loads of abuse but a certain accent can instantly kill all attraction for me.
Oh I feel I need to know now lol
xx
The only hint I’ll give is it’s further South than us but not as far as you
Shit, it’s me innit?
It’s not but I’ve had bad experiences with people from “Illinois”
How about Guatemala?"
Provide the tostadas and we’ve got no beef with the Guatemalans |
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stunnings probably not the word but recently, someone I really liked. I just didn’t get him and vice versa I think. Shame. Never really experienced it before, even if they’re not my type I usually get them. Just too hard to work out and it became like hard work  |
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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago
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"Yes I met someone once who's first words to me before saying hello were I bet you are very nervous about meeting me.
That was a red flag I unfortunately ignored at the time but I won't make that mistake again. "
Wow, over inflated sense of self or what |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I met someone once who's first words to me before saying hello were I bet you are very nervous about meeting me.
That was a red flag I unfortunately ignored at the time but I won't make that mistake again. "
I say that to everyone.
Sorry again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I generally find more quirky looks attractive. I don't lust after beautiful people often. It's usually something else about them that gets me going.
Me too, im never attracted to what my mates would class as perfect, they always rib me and say my attraction radar is back to front.
Ive never been into the 'popular girl' everyone was lusting after the 'sarah harding' from girls aloud... i fancied the ginger one.
I was never into supermodels i prefered the 'triumph knickers' model from the grattons catalogue "
Hope for me yet then   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ever met a person so attractive but lacking in a certain aspect of personality you didn’t take to?"
Yes you could look like a super model but if I don't like your personality your ugly to me. |
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"Yes, just recently in fact! Lovely guy and very hot. Unfortunately we weren’t on the same wavelength sadly, so friendship came to an end.
But a handsome man all the same "
What !!! Another cut off at the knees? Your brutal Custard  |
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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago
Market Harborough / Kettering |
"There's loads of them on here! Stunning to look at, 50 photo's showing off their "stunningness" (if there is such a word) but after being on fab for 5 years no verifications! They are called attention seakers and their profile names should be "look at me please". Instant turn off for me
They don't want to ever meet , they're only here to take up time and waste yours."
And try and grab everyone's attention normally with their status being "please fab my pics". Quite sad really  |
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I used to work with a girl who looked stunning but nobody fancied her. Tall, dead straight platinum blonde hair, athletic, big tits, really smart … but Jesus she was dull … 2 years, never saw her smile once or sound interested in anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, plenty of attractive people in terms of personality aren’t conventionally beautiful, or vice versa. Or one person may have a very one dimensional view of what makes a person hot / attractive, but without chemistry or being fun / personable it’s just not attractive. And people can be very interesting without attraction etc too of course. |
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Yes, he was one of the most beautiful men I've ever seen, but my word was he arrogant It turned into a bit of a game for me because he couldn't believe anyone would turn him down, so I ended up doing it repeatedly because his disbelief was hilarious, even though I kept telling him it was because of his arrogance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loads, aesthetically they are gorgeous, but once I find they have a mean streak, or we have nothing in common, it totally puts me off. I know someone who is gorgeous, but they have said some really derogatory things about people and use the “I’m just honest” card to excuse themselves for being spiteful. Being cruel isn’t attractive x
Viv xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, met some really handsome guys but somehow our personalities didn’t match, or just found them not appealing apart from visually x
And others that were maybe not as hot, but somehow we had that dynamite chemistry x |
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Thinking shoot it though some of the nastiest rudes most horrible women I’ve met have been not very attractive single mums
You can’t judge a book by its cover, but you can definitely read the blurb and get a rough idea |
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Quite a few times.
With one girl in particular it wasn't even a lack of personality. She had everything going for her. Stunning looks, great body and an amazing, fun-loving personality. I don't know why, there was just no sexual chemistry between us. We kissed and that was great but when we moved to the bedroom neither of us felt it. We laughed about it and are still just friends today. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gorgeous man who didn't have the humour and a little too uptight. I like people who laugh easily, don't take themselves so seriously and are easy going"
Me too.  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"If they’re stunning I’ve found 9/10 they’re extremely hard work and very high maintenance
What's my excuse for being hard work then?
You’re the 1/10 that’s OK in my book  "
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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
Agree with the majority. Looks are great, but if the personality isn't there I've lost interest.
Someone can appear to be 10x more attractive by their personality with a bit cheekyness and being sexy. |
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"Yes I met someone once who's first words to me before saying hello were I bet you are very nervous about meeting me.
That was a red flag I unfortunately ignored at the time but I won't make that mistake again.
Wow, over inflated sense of self or what "
I was friend zoned immediately for not giving the expected response. The mistake was in thinking the word friend actually meant something to her but I live and learn. |
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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago
Shropshire |
I've met some really hot guys over the years.. But they were so boring.. No chat, no banter.. Thinking their looks will just get them through. There's needs to be something about them for me to be interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a lot of beautiful people who are extremely dull. I've found this with women in particular. Dunno if it's down to being treated a different way your entire life so you never really have to develop that side of yourself. |
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