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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am an experienced professional and discrete photographer, happy to work with single females and couples in Hull or the surrounding area.
I box me to discuss
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I doubt (hope) nobody is foolish enough to take you up on this offer.
There's absolutely no guarantee that those photos will not get shared far and wide... it's so easy to keep a digital copy.
If you offer such things professionally, then use an appropriate photography site, or at least give details of your business in your profile so that you can be checked out. |
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"But I need some photo’s. Why am I excluded? "
Quite... another reason to doubt the veracity of his claim. I'm always suspicious of anyone offering something for nothing, especially when it's to a specific audience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But I need some photo’s. Why am I excluded?
I am also a discreet professional photographer, I'll help you out  "
Can you reshape my beer barrel into a 6 pack? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's a shame the majority of the comments are so negative. I have a professional website for my non-adult work (photography and art). Also to doubt my discretion is unfounded. By the way discretion works both ways. I also have a professional job that I need to keep separate to this.
Your lack of trust has only thrown doubt over my trustworthiness. Thank you!!
I have no issues photographing men and have done many times. I chose to photograph men as part of my artwork, this service and my choice to offer it to couples and ladies, is my choice. On a website that works on freedoms of choice and trust, it is shameful that you discredit someone for the very thing we are all here for.
To any future or potential people that may now read this. If you have not been put off, please feel free to contact me. I can provide verified authentication. For the rest of you, feel free to block me or continue with the discrediting.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Must admit I'm a bit confused. The photos get taken but nobody gets to see them  "
The couples I have taken photos of before now and the single men and ladies have them to do as they wish. Photography of the human form can have different meaning for different people, some use it on site such as this some have done it for a private collection, some as art, some a a momentum of a time in their life. Either way I am happy to support this. |
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"My comment wasn’t negative. I asked a serious question. "
You sir sit in the minority or the comments. The majority, are negative. Also the post refers to Hull and the surrounding area. Not sure how that escaped the majority either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I live in the area. If you haven't already, suggest you attend the regular social at Robbies. That way people can meet you in person, and assess if you're trustworthy.
As a single woman, I have posed for a photographer once. His photography was available for all to see, he had a website with his erotic photography, he had verifications on his profile and participated in the forums (not this site) sharing his expertise. That's the only situation in which I would ever agree to be photographed and trust that images of me would not be all over the web. You have to build up trust - putting a few lines on a forum isn't going to be enough. Some have put it more bluntly than that - but they're right. |
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"My comment wasn’t negative. I asked a serious question.
You sir sit in the minority or the comments. The majority, are negative. Also the post refers to Hull and the surrounding area. Not sure how that escaped the majority either. "
Do bear in mind that there are many people that claim to be photographers. I’m not saying that you aren’t. But see it from your audiences perspective. Nearly every one who offers this will be greeted with the same scepticism, it’s not personal. So many ‘photographers’ offer their services to women and couples only, but never the men. The scepticism is understandable no? |
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"I live in the area. If you haven't already, suggest you attend the regular social at Robbies. That way people can meet you in person, and assess if you're trustworthy.
As a single woman, I have posed for a photographer once. His photography was available for all to see, he had a website with his erotic photography, he had verifications on his profile and participated in the forums (not this site) sharing his expertise. That's the only situation in which I would ever agree to be photographed and trust that images of me would not be all over the web. You have to build up trust - putting a few lines on a forum isn't going to be enough. Some have put it more bluntly than that - but they're right. "
Thank you. We may have spoken before about Robbies. I have intended to attend on the last two occasions, but work and life commitments have taken priority. Is the next meet at the beginning of April?
I completely understand scepticism and I welcome any legitimate question from people who are legitimately interested, that said I feel I have a right to also defend unprovoked and unnecessary discrediting. People have the right to choose to engage or not, but to discredit me is unfair and I am not the kind of person that will tolerate unfairness in any aspect of mine or others lives.
I also have verifications on this site regarding my photography. I do not post the photographs I have taken on a website, as these are the property of the individual and they ask for discretion, as do I.
I am certainly regretting posting the offer now! |
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"My comment wasn’t negative. I asked a serious question.
You sir sit in the minority or the comments. The majority, are negative. Also the post refers to Hull and the surrounding area. Not sure how that escaped the majority either.
Do bear in mind that there are many people that claim to be photographers. I’m not saying that you aren’t. But see it from your audiences perspective. Nearly every one who offers this will be greeted with the same scepticism, it’s not personal. So many ‘photographers’ offer their services to women and couples only, but never the men. The scepticism is understandable no? "
Been sceptical is fine, ask the legitimate question to me via a message as I suggested. If you want pics (male or female) then that is fine, if you are prepared to travel to Hull for these, also fine. I will inbox you my website, you can then decide if I am a legitimate photographer, but I ask that you are discrete. |
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"I live in the area. If you haven't already, suggest you attend the regular social at Robbies. That way people can meet you in person, and assess if you're trustworthy.
As a single woman, I have posed for a photographer once. His photography was available for all to see, he had a website with his erotic photography, he had verifications on his profile and participated in the forums (not this site) sharing his expertise. That's the only situation in which I would ever agree to be photographed and trust that images of me would not be all over the web. You have to build up trust - putting a few lines on a forum isn't going to be enough. Some have put it more bluntly than that - but they're right.
Thank you. We may have spoken before about Robbies. I have intended to attend on the last two occasions, but work and life commitments have taken priority. Is the next meet at the beginning of April?
I completely understand scepticism and I welcome any legitimate question from people who are legitimately interested, that said I feel I have a right to also defend unprovoked and unnecessary discrediting. People have the right to choose to engage or not, but to discredit me is unfair and I am not the kind of person that will tolerate unfairness in any aspect of mine or others lives.
I also have verifications on this site regarding my photography. I do not post the photographs I have taken on a website, as these are the property of the individual and they ask for discretion, as do I.
I am certainly regretting posting the offer now! "
Men saying they're professional photographers post similar offers - it's just scepticism and isn't personal I don't think. There's no way to know from a Fab profile if people are telling the truth and many people aren't - let's face it.
We haven't spoken - but Robbies has their own profile. I don't attend so no idea when it's next on but there are other socials at HU9. |
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I’m not jumping on the bandwagon of people doubting you being a photographer as maybe you are.
However, if I was a photographer, I would post pics of myself which show off my photography skills. This is an ideal place to show off your talent if you were wanting to provide a boudoir type photography service.
And would get rid of peoples doubts about you being a photographer.
I’ve only seen one person who stated they were a photographer who actually backed it up with pics on their profile.
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"I’m not jumping on the bandwagon of people doubting you being a photographer as maybe you are.
However, if I was a photographer, I would post pics of myself which show off my photography skills. This is an ideal place to show off your talent if you were wanting to provide a boudoir type photography service.
And would get rid of peoples doubts about you being a photographer.
I’ve only seen one person who stated they were a photographer who actually backed it up with pics on their profile.
K"
That is a very good call. I have shared my website with someone in the post thread. The images on there demonstrate my ability, but none of them are adult content. They are with the individuals. But your point is very valid.
Great pics on your profile ?? |
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